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writes:Hi, I'm 17 and I started college 3 months ago. I thought I would make friends on the 1st few days but I didn't. I still haven't really made friends. I just sit with a few people on my table but I don't really know them cos I can't talk in big groups.I have 5 people on my table and I find it hard to speak in front of them all so I haven't made friends with them and they are all chatting away but I don't know what to say! I'm just the quiet one and now I think to myself I can't suddenly start talking loads cos they will all be thinking oh my god she's actually talking!I made friends by getting to know a person just on their own without anyone else around, then I'm really chatty and you can't shut me up lol! I just can't talk to a big group of people :( and I'm so depressed at the moment cos I feel like everyone in my college class has made freinds except me! please tell me how I could make friends :( :(
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reader, muffy  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 its easy to make friends.its actually not that hard to talk in a big group.listen to what they are saying and go with it.dont talk a lot but just talk as much as they are.youll eventually catch on.ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): unfortunately the answer is simple, you gotta talk to people! Its gonna be hard no ones denying that but you've got to do something about it. Think about it if you cant talk around people how are you going to manage your interview for uni? or a job interview? Yep its going to be difficult but there a things a thousand times harder that you may have to face one day.
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