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writes:I'm only 13 and a certain guy wants to screw me. I said okay but he'd have to wait. I said okay because I liked him and I just tried to impress him and it worked too much. I really wanted to screw him but he's changed. He is so fake around his friends. He doesn't act the same when they are around. I don't really like him that much anymore but I'm afraid if I don't do it then he'll hate me and I'm afraid if I do screw him then I'll either get pregnant, my parents will find out or he won't talk to me anymore and I don't want any of those to happen. So should I screw him at this age or not? Please helpthank you Reply to this Question
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reader, muffy +, writes (25 November 2007):
muffy is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you gys so much for helping me.i have chosen not to do it because you guys were right.i dont wanna lose my virginity to some guy that is fake and i dont even like him.so thank you i really appreciate it.
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muffy
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 DONT DO IT! Your virginity is precious take it from someone who had no choice on who i lost it to and i was 13 to (rapists dont care about age) i would give anything to have it back and be able to give it to someone i loved and would respect me and would wait for me, if you do this you will regret it your only a virgin once just wait for that special someone to lose it to, dont let him push you into anything, if he starts being a jerk to you then be thankful that he turned into a jerk before you let him sleep with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): Hi, okay hun, I'll tell you something I have never told anyone before, I lost my virginity when I was 13 and I have regretted it ever since, I'm 19 now.After it happened, I was shy and uncomfortable round guys, and I don't want that to happen to you, I was bright and bubbly and it took all my confidence away. The guy was 20 and he was just messing with me. I have a boyfriend that is two years older than me now and we've been going out ever since I was 16, and he understood when I told him abput my past and he's the only guy I've been with ever since I was 13, the first guy I screwed too. I love him and I'm bright nd bubbly again =D please, don't sleep with him.p.s. I'm not trying to scare you, just get a message through!! =P
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hi hon. Don't try to impress this guy. He has changed and you have had second thaughts. You shouldn't have sex because you think he wont like you, that's not how it works. Hon i think you should stay safe and watch out for nasty people like this. Im not at all saying sex at 13 is right, but i know what i say wont change it, but i do hope you will be ok, and safe.. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
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reader, lanaguy  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 ur only 13,u dont need to be having sex with a guy,ur only gonna regret it later..u should be studying at school and not worrying about sexual things..only have sex with a guy if U LOVE HIM NOT LIKE HIM..plz listen to me,it will only be so much better if its with sum1 u love..take care..
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