What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??
Q. Hi What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??...
A. 12 July 2011: "Bleeding Hearts" are very pretty. I wouldn't read anything into it.... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??
Q. Hi What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??...
A. 9 July 2011: Maybe he's gone soft?... (read in full...)
Can I make it through life without learning how to drive?
Q. every one i know including my family thinks i am unintelligent just because i can not drive a car. Ive tried and tried and just cant grasp it. i have not even made it past the permit part yet because the test to me is so confusing and the answers ...
A. 9 July 2011: I didn't get my license until I was 23 years old - and that was only because I was offered a job and I was "strongly advised" to have my own car and learn how to drive. I got my license and two days later, I moved to Houston, Texas, the ... (read in full...)
GF never lets what I do wrong go. What can I do?
Q. i need help with my gf its hard because she is constantly reminded of out bad past even after 2 years of beign together she still doesn't trust me she thinks i'll go behind her back and talk to some other girl when i wont at all!!!!!!! waht can i do ...
A. 9 July 2011: First of all, can you tell us what you did that your gf's finding hard to forget?
Secondly, the two of you need to see a relationship counselor where the two of you can be open and honest with each other, if your gf doesn't want to do that in ... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 6 July 2011: No, I don't think you're being harsh. You need some protection, cause who's to say she's going to do it again, especially after finding out you're pregnant. She needs some time to cool off, perhaps go to anger management like you said, and hopefully ... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 1 July 2011: I am currently engaged to a man 40 years my senior (I'm 27) and I agree with Hugh - just ignore the crowd and show them how much you love each other. There are always people who have to put in their two cents. Age is just a number.
I remember... (read in full...)
No pregnancy options?
Q. I haven't had sex, and I don't plan on it anytime soon, but I am curious. If I were to be on the pill, have the guy have a condom on, make him pull out properly, and take the morning after pill...what are the chances I would become pregnant? Is it ...
A. 30 June 2011: If you take the birth control pill every day at around the same time each day, your chances of getting pregnant are minimal.
NEVER do the pull-out method, whether you're on BC or not....it never works. There is always the chance of pre-cum ... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 20 June 2011: I'm probably in the minority, but I believe in spanking. There is nothing wrong with a little smack across the backside. It sets you straight and you know not to do it again. An example:
My mom was always the spanker for me and my brother.... (read in full...)
Advice on moving from the UK to America?
Q. I dont know if this is relevent but I want to move from the Uk to America, i'm just curious what I would need to do so? I would be living with a friend there please help!...
A. 17 June 2011: First of all, you need a valid passport. He would also need to get a visa, but I'm not sure which ones are available. Hopefully this website helps:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110127154246AAidgg8... (read in full...)
Kissed my ex as part of truth and dare and the feelings are still there, but I have a girlfriend! What should I do?
Q. okay well my ex-girl friend of like 1year and half came into town a couple days ago. and my friends wanted me to hang out but i didn't no she would be there. so when i got there i guess she didn't no cuz we just looked at each other and tried to ...
A. 16 June 2011: You said your ex came into town. Does that mean she doesn't live in the same city you do? If that's the case, then if you DO decide to try it again with your ex, that will be an LDR and those are pretty tough. You've broken up once already. Other ... (read in full...)
My wife is cheating on me in my own home, how do I stop this?
Q. i am indian. I marry my wife 3 years back. She is working in a multinational company for about 2 years. We have one child. One day she has gone out for a office trip for about 2 weeks. Later i come to know from her one of frieds that it was not an ...
A. 11 June 2011: You mean to tell me that you don't want your/her family to see her with another guy, but you feel ok with having your child see his/her mother with someone other than its father??
I totally agree with the last paragraph Jonas said, about seeing i... (read in full...)
My life has fallen apart since we moved together. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I feel so confused and I don't know where to go or what to do. I am 19, soon to be 20. We met when I was 14 and he was 16... been together ever since. We moved in together when I turned 18 and at first everything was great. Now-a-days I find...
A. 11 June 2011: The problem is that the two of you moved in together so young. The two of you had adolescent things to worry about when first moving in, like school and tuition, but now you're older and maybe out of school, so now you're thinking more like an ... (read in full...)
Paranoid about a "psychic's" prediction....
Q. To make a long story short, A psychic told me some things. It was just for fun I wasn't trying to find out real life answers... Then she tells me that my bf already has or will meet some girl. She described a petite blonde and said she is personab...
A. 11 June 2011: I have never believed in psychics and never will. They're just all in fun and games - like a fortune inside a fortune cookie. Don't believe what she told you and don't be paranoid. Just love your bf like always and all will be ok.... (read in full...)
Girl I like wants to wait on a relationship. But my feelings for her are growing stronger every day!!
Q. Hi there, I am 17 and have liked this girl for a while. A couple of months ago she guessed that I liked her, and well I couldn't really deny it. Things led to another and we chatted a lot and have had some interesting conversations but told me that ...
A. 28 May 2011: I think she is confused and mainly stressed due to her exams. They sound like they're taking a lot of her time and energy. Wait until several days after her exams are finished, ask her how she did and strike up another conversation. Then try to see ... (read in full...)
Why is masturbating so painful for me?
Q. So I'm a virgin but I masturbate with a vibrator. It's a 6 inch bullet so is rock hard. Every time i've used it to penetrate it's really hurt! I have to use lube every time before hand so i'm really worried that when i first have sex it will really ...
A. 27 May 2011: First of all, make sure you're aroused. Don't go straight for the vibrator. Instead, gently touch every part of your body - boobs, pull on your nipples, lightly touch around your pussy, then touch your lips and run your finger from your hole to your ... (read in full...)
How do I make him feel very bad??
Q. So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has ...
A. 22 May 2011: Trust me, honey, you do not want to sink to his level. Just leave him in the dust and don't do anything except dump him. You don't deserve to give trash like this any more attention than he deserves. Just walk away and put it behind you.... (read in full...)
Would I get more attention from boys if I let my grades slip down to C and Ds?
Q. Do some boys feel intimidated if a girl gets very high marks at school? It seems to me that the girls who get so much more attention from boys do not get as good grades? Or am I wrong here? Should I try to slacken off a bit at school? One of the ...
A. 22 May 2011: Think of it this way: if you dumb down your studies, you'll be "attracted" by the low-life boys who skip school, probably do drugs and I guarantee you they will hurt you if you get too close to them.
On the other hand: if you remain how you are ... (read in full...)
My gf is ignoring me ever since she did bad on her exam. What can I do??
Q. my girlfriend's examination went bad. ever since then, she's been avoiding me (2 days). someone tell me what to do? if it isn't my fault, why is she ignoring me? i tried to cheer her up, but to no use. what shall i do ?...
A. 21 May 2011: I agree with everything Gemini said and would like to add, maybe when she's sitting, when she's not expecting it, give her a little shoulder massage? I'm sure she's tense and stressed and upset that she didn't do well on her test and that would make ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to sleep alone and not be scared?
Q. Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman, and I cannot sleep alone. At night I get horrible images in my head and get scared, and so cannot sleep. Sometimes I am awake until 3am because I am so scared. Or I need to go to talk to a family member or even sleep in...
A. 20 May 2011: I agree with Hugh about the light. I remember watching "The Exorcist" on TV for the first time in my life and naturally it ended late at night. I had to put a light on in my room. I highly recommend not seeing "The Exorcist" at night!
What ... (read in full...)
Married, but fell in love with my first love.
Q. Im a 25 year old married women with 3 kids all from my husband. I have been with him for nearly 9 years now and been married for just over a year. A few months ago i got back in contact with my first proper love. We have been talkin ever since. An ...
A. 20 May 2011: You never get over your first true love. I often think about mine, but would never dream of being with him and not be with the man I truly love. Not to mention my first love is married, ha ha! Seriously, I wouldn't make contact with him, if it leads ... (read in full...)
What are women's views on foreplay?
Q. OK well. It is really a fun thing befor the real thing. And I know guys get pleasure out of foreplay. They like that kind of secret between him and his girlfriend no one else. It keeps him alot interested. What bothers me is how do women feel ...
A. 6 May 2011: "Hang on guys, you're saying that all women like it and that it's one of the best parts."
Not ALL women love foreplay, but I'd be willing to bet that most do. There are women out there who hate foreplay and just want sex.... (read in full...)
Which of these 2 scenarios is worse?
Q. I'm Doing a bit of introspection and have a very strange hypothetical question to ask: Which is worse; A) A guy who's a great provider, not very affectionate or caring, never helps out around the house, spends hardly any time with his kids bu...
A. 6 May 2011: I would say B would be worse because in A, the woman never feels loved. In B, he's affectionate and so the woman loves him and loves to be around him, but when she finds out he's been cheating on her, it would rip her heart out. I'd rather live in ... (read in full...)
What are women's views on foreplay?
Q. OK well. It is really a fun thing befor the real thing. And I know guys get pleasure out of foreplay. They like that kind of secret between him and his girlfriend no one else. It keeps him alot interested. What bothers me is how do women feel ...
A. 6 May 2011: I totally agree with So Totally Confused - foreplay and afterplay are the best!!
Foreplay is a very important step for women: not only is it nice to cuddle and kiss, but it allows our natural lubricant to "get busy" so that when it's time for pene... (read in full...)
Why am I so upset by this guy?
Q. A guy I used to be sort of "friends with benefits" with, and who I still like a lot, wants to sleep with me even though he now has a girlfriend. He's been with her for nearly 2 years but he's been coming on to me for about a year and a half. We he ...
A. 6 May 2011: Some men treat women like cars: at first they're all excited about a new beauty and love riding it, but then the excitement fades and they want to go out and get a new car. His current girlfriend was that new car that has now turned old and he is ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and haven't ever masturbated. Does this make me weird?
Q. Just a short question, I am a 16 year old female and haven't ever masturbated in my life because I don't know how to :/ Does this mean I'm weird? Or am i normal? Thanks so much to anyone who has any advice for me, i really appreciate it :)...
A. 2 May 2011: You are not at all weird. I didn't start masturbating until i was in my mid-20s. I'm 27.... (read in full...)
I now feel disgusted by sex after a rough night of it with my bf.
Q. Hey, I need some guidance. Me and my boyfriend, well sex between us tends to be tough. A few weeks ago, we were going at it, and my parents were in the next room, and this made me uncomfortable, and he started hitting at a bad angle, and I wa...
A. 23 April 2011: I'm rather alarmed he covered your mouth when you told him to stop and that he also called you a slut. That's not nice at all. But then again, when you started crying he stopped, which is good.
You need to talk with your bf, and not during s... (read in full...)
How do I make sure my bf orgasms through oral sex?
Q. Ive never had sex before but my boyfriend has. He has said that none of his exs have been able to make him cum by just mouth he just gets soft after so long. I want to be his first. Dose anyone have any tips or sites I may visit? Thank You! :)...
A. 23 April 2011: While I'm no expert, I'd advise rolling his foreskin all the way back then rolling it all the way back towards the bell end, using firm pressure and increasing in speed. Combine this with using your mouth and tongue around the bell end (only if ... (read in full...)
My BF’s friend has an open relationship and is trying to influence my BF to do the same. It’s a mess. Please help.
Q. I have two friends who are married. My long-term (over 4 years) boyfriend and I met them about 2 years ago and we quickly became good friends with them. We would vacation with them, hang out in our spare time at our house or theirs, and so on. ...
A. 14 April 2011: It sounds as though your bf isn't buying into what K is saying, so at least you can breathe a sigh of relief there. Open relationships, in my opinion, ruin a relationship because it just becomes a mess about trust issue and suddenly he or she finds ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 7 April 2011: I like my man to cum on me but never, ever on my face.... (read in full...)
My gf thinks I'm 22 but I'm really 16! Should I tell her??
Q. Im a 16 year old boy , but i've been living a life of a 22 year old. I smoke cigarettes and booze. And i dont look my age. I look like a guy in 20's. I got a girl's phone number from my friend and fell in love with her through the phone. After ...
A. 3 April 2011: I agree with Vintage - the longer this lie goes on, the worse it will be. Tell her the truth!... (read in full...)
How do I pleasure myself without intercourse or sex toys?
Q. How do I pleasure myself without intercourse or sex toys?...
A. 31 March 2011: Fingers - both rubbing on your clit and also putting them inside you. You can also use unconventional sex toys, like an electric toothbrush on your clit (what I use; boy that feels great!!) and a peeled banana as a dildo - be sure to wrap it in ... (read in full...)
Can a man give up porn after 10 years of regular use?
Q. I have huge issues about porn which date back many years ago which turn my stomach and I don't feel I can discuss here. I have explained all this to my boyfriend of two years and told him I cannot have porn in my life and if he wants to watc...
A. 31 March 2011: Just like any other addiction or "drug" like alcohol, cigarettes, etc., your boyfriend can give up porn. It just takes some time and patience and especially willing on his part. He wants to WANT to give it up - if you're forcing him to do something ... (read in full...)
She is obsessive & I don't know how to handle it!
Q. my girlfriendd and I have had a relationship for the past 17 months. but she has become so obsessive , she never let's me see my friends..because she thinks they are a bad influence..when they're not. she gets jelous when I lay eyes on another ...
A. 8 March 2011: Your gf sounds very controlling and suffocating, to me. The two of you need a serious face-to-face conversation to talk about these things. Tell her how you feel and listen to what she says. If she's not going to change, then I don't see your ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant - what will happen to my child, and the father?
Q. I'm 14 and pregnant and i'm not getting rid of it, but if I don't what will happen to the father of my child?, and would social services take it off me? ...
A. 25 February 2011: You are FOURTEEN years old?? Ok, just making sure I read that correctly.....
Is the father of your child supportive of you or is he long gone? If he is still with you and is supportive, and since you have been kicked out of your home, might I ... (read in full...)
How to feel more secure with these large breasts?
Q. I am a young girl with very large breasts and to be Frank I don't like them. I am slightly bigger than the other girls height and width wise but I still consider myself quite slim, it's just in my year the girls are all sticks. I am a 34E when my ...
A. 22 February 2011: You are at a tough age for this. If you are really 13-15 years old, chances are you are still growing height-wise. Which would help your breasts a bit. But if you are getting back problems now at this age, think about in the future. I would talk ... (read in full...)
Need to tighten my pelvic muscles, any tips?
Q. I need to tighten up my pelvic floor muscles I'm not really loose down there but I want to be tighter, however I've tried to do my PVM exercises but I don't feel as though I'm doing them right and find them difficult to do and I can't afford to buy ...
A. 8 February 2011: There is a small exercise device that is primarily for strengthening pelvic muscles, unfortunately it costs about $40!
I've been told that when you are peeing, to stop in mid-flow and that are your pelvic muscles. So when you're sitting in a cha... (read in full...)
Pubic hair question for guys.....
Q. Well, I need advice on how I should shave my pubic area. I know the majority of guys like it all the way shaved, but I can never manage to get it completely smooth on the top part without getting bumps and redness. So, my question is, do you think ...
A. 3 February 2011: OP: I have a question - I'm the opposite where I can keep the "mound" smooth but can't figure out how to shave around the lips. I don't want to go to a waxer (way too much money!), so what's your secret? How do you keep that part smooth? I'm afraid ... (read in full...)
Help!!!! Never kissed properly, does it come naturally?
Q. Ok, the question is simple enough and i'm really nervous about it. Does kissing like (getting off) come naturally? i get put off going out with boys because of this. i'm really self-conscious my first kiss will go wrong or something. But l...
A. 29 January 2011: As someone who is 27 years old and basically had her first kiss in about 13 years, I can tell you it just comes naturally. I was like you, wondering what I should do, if there is something I SHOULD do, but when that moment comes, instinct just takes ... (read in full...)
Flat tire, 6mo preggo, and bf is more worried about his xbox game?
Q. So I got a flat tire on my way to work. I'm 6 months pregnant and have no cell phone and live in MN where it was a balmy 20*f out today. I was able to stop someone driving by to use their phone and call my dad. My dad came and helped me, the only ...
A. 27 January 2011: I would be really peeved if I had a flat tire, was in the second trimester of my pregnancy and my bf only asked where his xbox game was. I'd be pretty steamed but would eventually forgive him if this was a one-time thing. If he is more interested in ... (read in full...)
The sweetness of first love....
Q. Stories of first loves? Did it last? How old were you? What went wrong? Do you still think of them? Are you still together? Stories, please. I'm interested :)...
A. 22 January 2011: Let's see, the first crush I had was in kindergarten (around age 5 for non-Americans on this site) and his name was Scott. Obviously I had no idea what love was at that age, but I thought he was very, very cute and I still remember he sat behind me ... (read in full...)
Should I Start My Family?? Or Wait??
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 18 (bday in May). My boyfriend of a year and a half is 24. Iam a dental assistant and he is a personal banker at Wells Fargo. Since my boyfriend is older he already wants a child of his own and start his family. I know I want kid...
A. 13 January 2011: Wait until you're married... (read in full...)
Is my friend avoiding me or is she really sick?
Q. Is my friend avoiding me or is she really sick? OK. I keep asking my friend to hang out with me and she keep saying she is so sick. Then when I text her she tells me she went shopping, to church, to choir practice, to get her hair done, to her sis...
A. 13 January 2011: I don't like the sound of this. Perhaps she needs money and wants you to pay and that's the only reason why she invited her? If she asks you to foot the bill, then you'll know where you stand. She definitely does not sound sick and I'm curious why ... (read in full...)
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