Would you consider me a slut?
Q. i've slept with 13 people, i'm 17, does this make me a slut?...
A. 26 April 2010: To me, that is quite a large number for all the older you are, but I say if you cared for the guys and the relationships just didn't work out rather than you just had sex JUST to have sex, then no I wouldn't call you a slut.
Cindy - "slutome... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be best friends with my teacher?
Q. My english teacher is my best friend, me and her dont see a problem with it, but some of my friends say im being stupid and i cant be best friends with a teacher. We will always be best friends, we decided on that a couple of weeks before the east...
A. 24 April 2010: Not at all! Teachers really do make a difference in our lives. I'm still friends with a lot of my teachers - even my first grade teacher remembers me and we chat occasionally! I loved high school and whenever I'm home and the school is still open ... (read in full...)
Are his looks lustful or appreciative?
Q. what kind of looks indicate that a man is looking at a women lustfully..? if he finds a girl pretty and looks back to her several times does it show he s lusting her or just attracted to her beauty..? please help.....
A. 23 April 2010: Everyone looks at another by just outside appearance first, so perhaps it's safe to say everyone looks at another lustfully at first? There are lots of times I'll pass by a guy at the mall and think "ooh, he has nice eyes" or "wow, look at that cute ... (read in full...)
Waking up from a dream crying?
Q. So, just a quick question. Have any of you ever had a really odd dream and woke up with a jolt and found yourself crying? I cannot remember many details in this dream. The only thing i do remember is a voice speaking to me very softly. And then...
A. 21 April 2010: I remember one time several years ago I woke up crying after I had dreamt my brother had died. Sometimes dreams seem so real and something you definitely do not want to happen do in your dreams, that you wake up and your emotions take control.... (read in full...)
How can I squirt without peeing?
Q. Everytime i masturbate with a sex toy i got to pee after iam done. I been trying to practice female ejaculation. I happened to do it today. But it smell like pee but it didn't look like pee. How can i squirt without peeing if it is pee? Or is it FE...
A. 7 April 2010: almasdp - If you're unsure if you're peeing or not, pee before you play to set your mind at ease. After you're fully aroused, you do get the sensation that you're about to pee, but believe me and others that you don't actually pee!... (read in full...)
We've been talking on the internet for 2 years, should I meet him?
Q. Should I meet up with a guy I met on the internet when I travel to his country later this year? I met this guy on a facebook application about 2 years ago and we've chatted very regulary on msn ever since. We have lots of common interests and I ...
A. 2 April 2010: Do you know a lot about this guy? Have you seen pictures of him or on webcam, so that you know he is how old he says he is? Go with your gut and if you want to meet him but don't feel completely comfortable, meet in a public place with lots of ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!
Q. Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was ...
A. 1 April 2010: I agree with Calico - maybe then your boyfriend will see how annoying it is and if he brings it up, tell him it's the same way when he's non stop about Lady Gaga.
ChristineAvril - Lady Gaga is this American singer who I honestly believe we'll ne... (read in full...)
I cum too fast!
Q. So my problem is that, I cum too fast. The second my boyfriend sticks it in, I just cum and idk what I can do to keep myself from cuming so fast. Any tips? Is anything wrong with me? ...
A. 30 March 2010: Lucky girl! Men normally complain about them cumming very fast because once they do, that's it for a while. But women can cum and cum and cum and it won't stop things. Enjoy it!... (read in full...)
Can you masturbate on your period or have sex without an erection?
Q. i was wondering how can women masterbate on their period? also does a man have to get hard before having sex to be able to have sex? ...
A. 27 March 2010: I agree with Vicky - I am usually quite horny after the initial cramps and nausea, but I wait until I'm done because it gets really, really messy!
Yes, men need to have an erection (get hard) in order to have sex.... (read in full...)
What should I do about all these boys?
Q. ok first of all I don't want anyones advice if you're gonna judge me..anyway..so there's this guy..that I like..but I only like him when he has a gf..when he breaks up with her for me I don't want him..so..he cheats on her alot with me..so I guess I ...
A. 21 March 2010: The first guy gives you a challenge....kind of like how boys like a chase, sometimes girls do, too. You only like this boy when he's with his gf - you like to try to get him away from her. But then when he's not with her, the challenge is gone and ... (read in full...)
Back and forth online argument and I don't think that I should apologize.
Q. Evening peeps! I would like some opinions on my current situation please. On facebook recently I put as my post " Im 99.9 per cent sure children are more messy than dogs,lol!" Now this post was regards to my mate who'd I'd just gone to visit. S...
A. 21 March 2010: Sounds like a harmless comment to me - I wouldn't reply back to your cousin.
Now not to say to completely eliminate your cousin out of your life. Just give her time to cool off and the next time the two of you are together, just have a nice cha... (read in full...)
Okay so the guy I'm seeing is a Christian but his preaching to me is driving me nuts!
Q. I am dating a guy who is a strong Christian believer. We know each other from work and have been hanging out for a few months now. Often we have quality time together but lately he has been preaching to me, on almost every meeting. I have hinted and ...
A. 21 March 2010: You can't hint at this type of stuff - it will just go over his head. You need to sit him down and tell him how it makes you feel. Just tell him to tone it down. There is nothing wrong with Christians and non-Christians dating, as long as BOTH ... (read in full...)
Should I go and meet a guy from the past when I'm married?
Q. Recently and old "friend" has contacted me through facebook. We have not seen each other in 21 years. And we had sexual relations at the time. I feel that everything happens for a reason. And I think that we are developing some feelings for one ...
A. 21 March 2010: At first, my reaction was "no, you're married and you guys had a sexual past and you may be developing feelings and things may get confusing." But later when reading about how you think your marriage is not well at all, perhaps just meeting the guy ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be branded "the guy with the ugly girlfriend!"
Q. My friend said the girl I'm dating is ugly. I've only been on three dates with her, but I am attracted to her even though most of the attraction isn't from her looks. I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend, but now I'm scared other people will ...
A. 19 March 2010: Don't listen to your friends! You're attracted to the girl, like the girl, and that's all that matters.
In grade school, I befriended this girl who was mentally slow and I was always teased by my class for doing so. But she never had any friends ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to let my LDR girlfriend go to the prom with another guy?
Q. My LDR gf just told me today that there were 3 guys who ask her to the prom. i ask her if she going and she said i dont know. Is it really okay to let my gf go to the prom with another guy. ...
A. 19 March 2010: You didn't say how far apart you guys are. I'm getting the impression it's far enough that you can't go with her? If that's the case, then I would find it's ok with her to go with another guy, cause the prom is usually pretty important to a girl - ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to keep my virginity but my 19 year old boyfriend really wants sex!
Q. Im a young teenager trying to keep my virginity, although my boyfriend respects my decision but it kills him, im 15 and his 19,what should i do becouse i really love him ...
A. 18 March 2010: This is simple - YOU want to keep your virginity, so it's primarily YOUR decision - sex is so important that one should be 100% sure it is what they want to do before they do it because there's no turning back afterwards. Just tell him that you love ... (read in full...)
Guys, ... why do you watch porn?
Q. A question for all you guys out there... Why do you watch porn even if your sex life is brilliant? why do you feel the need to watch some random girl when you have your girlfriend? Do you know how it makes normal, non-plastic women feel when the...
A. 18 March 2010: I'm not a guy, but men are visual creatures - they watch porn - like how women read romance novels. It's just the way we were created.... (read in full...)
Would you date a sociopath knowing how handsome many of them are?
Q. I ask, because a lot of women say they prefer bad boys to so-called nice guys. Is a bad boy someone who who has a harley, wears a leather jacket and sleeps around, or is it a sociopath? Would you date a sociopath knowing how confident and ho...
A. 18 March 2010: To me, I've always associated "bad boys" as like you mentioned - the leather jacket-wearing, motorcycle-riding man who is a ladies' man and doesn't respect his woman; lies, gets what he wants, sleeps around, etc. I assume a "nice guy" is a kind, ... (read in full...)
My gal is webcam crazy! Help!
Q. My girlfriend started chatting to her friends using a cam a while back, it was ok at first as it was only an hour here and there but now it's getting more serious. She found out about lifecasting and now has the cam on almost 24 hours a day. She...
A. 16 March 2010: It sounds like she's got an obsession or addiction to the web cam, especially as she's missing work because of it. Get rid of the cam (or hide it in a very good spot!) and have her see a doctor to try to help her get better as this sounds very ... (read in full...)
Is this true?
Q. My girlfriend's mum told me... a woman sleeps with a man, has an orgasm and thinks shes in love. The man just thinks he had a wonderful night. Is that true?? ...
A. 16 March 2010: Never heard that but not saying it's false. I guess if a woman achieves orgasm, then she thinks the man cared about her enough to have her orgasm, rather than just in two minutes, he cums and it's all over?... (read in full...)
Do you have to take birth control at the same time everyday for it to work?
Q. If you been on Birth control pills and you never skip a day but take it sometime on different times of the days. Does it still works? ...
A. 11 March 2010: Yes, try to take it at the same time every day. If you're going to not take it right on the nose, it's better to take it early rather than later. For example, I take mine at 11 am, but on Sundays, that's when church starts, so I take it 15 minutes ... (read in full...)
Long-term damage from anal?
Q. Hi I was just reading some questions about anal sex and it said that anal sex can damage you in later life. Well I have had anal sex and have been doing so for a few years. I don't do it very often - about once a month. I was wondering if I could ...
A. 9 March 2010: i don't know about the time period - what is considered too much - but from what I've heard, too much anal sex can lead to you loosening your sphincter (I think that's what it's called) that's supposed to keep things in. With that not tight, that ... (read in full...)
Any ways to get rid of stretch marks?
Q. hey everyone do anyone kno how to get rid of stretch marks plz let me know thanks........b...
A. 9 March 2010: Not sure if it works or not, but I have heard that a moisturizing cream like cocoa butter works. I don't know if it eliminates them completely, but it should help.... (read in full...)
Her boyfriend keeps beating her up! How can I make her see sense?
Q. hey guyz. i hav a friend whose boyfriend is always beating her up. he always turns aggressive when asked about his suspicious behaviour and ends up beating her. it breaks my heart to see her like that, probably coz i have been developing feelings ...
A. 6 March 2010: I will never understand why women stay in an abusive relationship. I tell you....one hit and I am GONE!
But anyway, if taking her aside and talking to her one-on-one doesn't work, crazy idea, but maybe take pictures of her face (or where her abus... (read in full...)
He always wants to brush his teeth and use a mouthwash after oral sex!!!!!
Q. My boyf of 18 months has always wanted to brush his teeth or use mouthwash after performing oral sex on me. I have never been with a man who does this and I always come away feeling very offended and undesirable. Why does he do this..... help!!!! ...
A. 6 March 2010: Maybe he's slightly OCD? I wouldn't worry too much about it.... (read in full...)
Husband gets bothered when asked how long his work day was!
Q. My husband has the ability to be flexible in his job schedule, so he doesn't really have a time he HAS to be to work, but he does normally work for 8 hours. If he comes home later than usual, I sometimes will ask him when he started work that day, ...
A. 4 March 2010: I was just about to say what CaringGuy said - most men, if asked why he's coming home so late, will just say "aww, man, it was just a hectic day" or "I had a lot of stuff to get done." They rarely if ever get defensive like your husband gets. I'd be ... (read in full...)
Why does it feel like I need to pee after I orgasm?
Q. After I have a orgasm from masturbating I feel like I have to pee, but I dont. Its this really intense sensation that I need to get something out of me, like pee, but I dont have to really pee. What could this be? PS And this happens after I have a...
A. 3 March 2010: This happens to me to, no worries. I usually get the "have to pee" sensation after I've already cum once. Faraday's right that it's your sponge filling up. If you stick your fingers in there, you will feel it nice and plump. Just don't think about ... (read in full...)
For my English project: Is it Affect or Effect?
Q. I know this isn't to do with relationships but i'm unsure of where else to ask. Basically, i'm doing a speech in english which I have chosen to do on the topic of judgment. My question is : would I entitle it 'the Affect of judgment' or 'the Effect ...
A. 1 March 2010: Sarcy:
I know a lot of people have trouble with "to" and "too" but here's a way to remember:
"Too" is only used as a synonym for "also", like "I want to go to the party, too."
I'm sure it's not all it's used for, but "to" is used as a destin... (read in full...)
For my English project: Is it Affect or Effect?
Q. I know this isn't to do with relationships but i'm unsure of where else to ask. Basically, i'm doing a speech in english which I have chosen to do on the topic of judgment. My question is : would I entitle it 'the Affect of judgment' or 'the Effect ...
A. 1 March 2010: It will be the "Effect of Judgment."
"Affect" is when something happens to cause something else, like the earthquake affected Chile.
I honestly don't know how to explain "effect" - I just write the sentence both ways and that helps me figure ... (read in full...)
The "pull out" method!
Q. My b/f and me were doing it doggie style and he always pulls out and relieves himself on the outside. Last night he pulled out but then he shot his stuff all over the outside of my privates. I asked him why he did that and he said he gets turned ...
A. 25 February 2010: The pull-out method is the absolute worst precaution you can do. CaringGuy is absolutely right - men have a pre-cum before they ejaculate and most of the time (I think) they don't even notice the pre-cum. Also, shooting it on the outside of your ... (read in full...)
Will wishing an ex happy birthday seem clingy?
Q. (Mod note: Titled by poster) Ok, so I was wanting to know if I should wish an ex a happy birthday if he broke up with me because I was too "clingy?" His birthday is 3 weeks away...will it seem like I want him back if I do? Also, he said that ...
A. 25 February 2010: From personal experience, I wouldn't send him anything. Senior year, I had asked a good friend from high school if we wanted to take our relationship to the next level and he rejected me. Throughout high school, I'd send him a birthday card and I ... (read in full...)
Could my breasts still increase in size?
Q. im nearly 18 and, basically, my bra size is uk 32A. but really, i have tiny breasts and though my boyfriend loves me the way i know he's a 'boob man' and would prefer if they were slightly bigger. my mum is just a 34B but is there any chance of me ...
A. 25 February 2010: Boobs come in all shapes and sizes and yes, just cause you may stop growing height-wise, your boobs never stop growing. Not to say when you're in your 30s, your bra size will be tripe-D!
I don't know what your sizes are in the US, but I wear a 3... (read in full...)
Old wives cure for acne
Q. Is urine good for acne and for the facial skin? My friend told me this and I don't know if to believe her....
A. 21 February 2010: I would doubt it as urine is dirty. I've heard toothpaste works well on pimples - once it dries, wipe it off. Sort of works like calamine lotion if you don't have that.... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: Yes, semen is very good for the skin, acts like a moisturizer.... (read in full...)
My sister is feeling down, I need names of celebrities to boost her morale
Q. Anyone know any Celebrities who dont have their drivers licence or cant drive?? Odd question i know but my sister failed her driving test today again....she is very down ast the moment.She is 32 and because of her age she feels more of a failiu...
A. 21 February 2010: Oops, wrong Elvis - I meant Elvis Costello
LOL!... (read in full...)
My sister is feeling down, I need names of celebrities to boost her morale
Q. Anyone know any Celebrities who dont have their drivers licence or cant drive?? Odd question i know but my sister failed her driving test today again....she is very down ast the moment.She is 32 and because of her age she feels more of a failiu...
A. 21 February 2010: I just looked online and I found that John Lennon got his license at 29 and Elvis Presley didn't get his til he was 32. And director Spike Lee doesn't have his license.
http:... (read in full...)
He has hit me and his ex told me he was abusive...how do I approach it with him?
Q. I just found out that my current boyfriend who has been suffering from depression and unemployment hit an exgirlfriend (a few years ago) of his multiple times, 'for no reason'. I've asked him if he's ever raised his hand to another woman an...
A. 21 February 2010: Listen to CaringGuy - do not stay in this relationship, he will only continue to hit and abuse you...trust me, you'll be much better in the long run!... (read in full...)
First time sex... I don't know whether I should do it or not.
Q. Hi, my question is on first time sex and its not going to be easy to answer, but basically I was wondering whether I should do it or not. I know this must sound a little odd, but I was watching a Family Guy episode last night (don't knock it, it a...
A. 20 February 2010: If you're not sure, then you're not ready - simple as that. If your boyfriend loves you, he will understand.... (read in full...)
Does it matter if a guy is shorter than a girl?
Q. Just a quick question for the ladies especially. Would you be put off a guy if he was smaller than you, height-wise? There is a girl in my class at school, who i get on with really well, talk a lot, and sometimes have a bit of a flirt, but inam ...
A. 20 February 2010: No, I would hope that not all girls are that shallow. You are also very young and I know for a fact that you will continue to grow. Don't worry about your height - the two of you get on very well as you say, so go for it! By the way, I'm 4'11'',... (read in full...)
I have to kiss my sister-in-law in a play! Should I do it?
Q. hello aunty,I am stage actor..my last few plays have done well and I am on a rise..2 days back I was offered a play with the best director in the business..this is a romantic play where my sister-in-law(cousins wife) plays my love interest..she also ...
A. 19 February 2010: I don't really see the problem here. Actors and actresses have intimate and "really intimate!" scenes with people they know and people they don't know all the time. The latter involves a trust issue with that actor's significant other. Her husband ... (read in full...)
She is away in a foreign country and I'm scared she is cheating.
Q. Firstly, a bit of background about my SO and how we met: I visited China about 1 year ago and met a nice tour guide. At the time she told me she was living with her cousin (later I found out she was still living with her ex but they weren't getting ...
A. 19 February 2010: Well, after reading the title, my first thought was "for long distance relationships to work, there MUST be trust" but then after reading your backstory, now I'm not so sure about your girl. The moodiness can be lots of things - stress, PMS, PMDD ... (read in full...)
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