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How to feel more secure with these large breasts?

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Question - (22 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am a young girl with very large breasts and to be Frank I don't like them. I am slightly bigger than the other girls height and width wise but I still consider myself quite slim, it's just in my year the girls are all sticks. I am a 34E when my size came up in the changing rooms the other girls laughed at me all being c's and b's. I feel very insecure about them and they are also hard on my back. I do get guys in the year above asking me about the size of my breasts and staring but tbh I don't want them to. How do I feel more confident that someone will love all of me not just my breasts and how do I not feel insecure about them as well?

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (22 February 2011):

MonksDaBomb agony auntYou are at a tough age for this. If you are really 13-15 years old, chances are you are still growing height-wise. Which would help your breasts a bit. But if you are getting back problems now at this age, think about in the future. I would talk with your mom and discuss options. You don't want to have chronic back pain because of your breasts. Surgery is always risky but it may be the best option. Good luck!

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A male reader, ivanichiaynus United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2011):

 ivanichiaynus agony auntIt IS possible to get a breast reduction done on the NHS in the UK, but only if it seriously affects your health in everyday life, physically or psychologically.

All operations carry a risk, and breast reduction is considered to be far more risky than enhancement, so please think carefully before you take such a step.

Although you are having unwelcome attention now (mainly envy from the girls and lust from the small boys), very soon they could be your biggest (no pun intended) asset!

Ivan.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011):

You're at a difficult age for this, so first, just persevere and don't let rude boys get you down. As you're already feeling the pain that can be associated with large breasts, you need to talk to your parents about it and look into if you can have insurance pay for a breast reduction. I'm not up on UK medical coverage for stuff like this, but many years ago one of my HS classmates had her breasts reduced and it did wonders for her health, outlook on like and looks in general. FYI She was about 16 when she had the procedure, and looked and felt MUCH better!

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