Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?
Q. Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...
A. 27 July 2010: First of all, are you under age? In the US, legal adult is 18.
I agree with the other posters here. I say trust your gut and if you want to meet up with him, meet him in a PUBLIC place - with LOTS of people around. That way, if you feel uncomfor... (read in full...)
Why do I hate to have an orgasm?
Q. This is strange, can someone tell me why I don't like to have an orgasm? I enjoy sex enough, but hate to have an orgasm. It honestly does not feel good to me at all. My guy doesn't understand at all and thinks he is not satisfying me because he ...
A. 27 July 2010: Is it painful when you think you have an orgasm? A little clarification on what you feel would help.... (read in full...)
Is it that bad to be a virgin, & why is it such a big deal?
Q. I'm 17 and im gay, but i'm also a virgin, i've never really been in a real relationship, which seems weird because if you saw and knew me you would've never guessed. but everytime i try to pursue a relationship with another female, when i t...
A. 23 July 2010: It's not bad at all to be a virgin. I recently lost my virginity and I'm almost 27! Never be ashamed by being a virgin. When you want to lose it, it has to be with the person you can picture spending your life with.... (read in full...)
Can anyone suggest a proper gym routine?
Q. topic- weightloss i need to lose a stone minimum before my holidays... i have controlled my over eatting and excercise 4-5 times a week and i have lost 7 pounds i am down to the last 13 days before holidays and need major help to shift the...
A. 23 July 2010: I suggest if you run, to start out slow, start speed walking then proceed to jogging then run. And when you're finishing your run, do it backwards: run, then jog, then speed walk. Just to start running and to abruptly stop pulls muscles and makes ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with unintentional biting during orgasm?
Q. I hope someone would share his experience and give me an advice how to deal with my little problem. My girl is blessed with very strong orgasms, but when it happens, she often unintentionally scratches and bites me. We solved half of this problem....
A. 17 July 2010: I agree with dramatix - try different positions so she can't bite and scratch you.... (read in full...)
Taking the pill while pregnant?
Q. if i'm pregnant, and i dont know, and i keeep taking my birth control regularly, when it comes time for my period, will i get it? or spot? or not bleeed at all? please help mee....
A. 14 July 2010: You will not get a period. I'm no expert, but I think I've read where when you're pregnant and you're on the pill, you're advised to stop taking the pill throughout the remainder of the pregnancy. Take a pregnancy test and/or see your doctor!... (read in full...)
Should I come clean about cheating or not?
Q. hi i am teddy and i have made a big mistake .... i have cheated on my bf who i have been with for ages its love ... shall i come clean and tell him .... xxxxx help me ...
A. 14 July 2010: Depends on the scenario. If the person who you cheated with you love more than your bf or if it was a silly mistake and know that you'll never do it again. I'm all up for honesty, but it's hard to come clean with something like that. I'm sure it ... (read in full...)
Why have I got baby fever now I am with my boyfriend?
Q. Hey there me and my bf have been dating for almost 7 months... And since we went over 4 months, I started to getting the baby bug... I was very scared for babies before I met my bf... And now I really really like to know...why do I have baby fever ...
A. 12 July 2010: Perhaps you feel such a connection with your bf that you can picture having kids with him? But hold your horses - you've only been dating for seven months!! And if you keep the baby fever up, you're going to become bf-less as that will scare him off ... (read in full...)
He says I'm too rough? What do I do?
Q. He tells me that we can't see each other anymore because I like it too rough in the bedroom. What do i do? I tell him that it isnt about being rough, I like it sometimes like that. But he swears everytime that im to rough. ...
A. 5 July 2010: You don't really go into specifics, so I don't really know what is too rough for him. But if you're talking like you scratch his back with your nails or like push him onto the bed, I'd say tone it down a notch. Sex is like an experiment - you have ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if I put sperm from my mouth into my vagina?
Q. can I get pregnant if I put sperm that was in my mouth into my vagina, but I wasn't on my period and I was ovulating either?...
A. 1 July 2010: Any sperm in your vagina - regardless of where it first came from - can make you pregnant.... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of any good romance novels???
Q. Hello again! I just had a quick question. I'm 19 as is my boyfriend. He is away at work during the weeks of the summer and is only home one day of each weekend for the entire summer. Before work started we used to spend every day together so ...
A. 11 June 2010: I love Nora Roberts' novels... (read in full...)
18 and in love with my boss
Q. Hi Please disregard my age and answer my question by the knowledge of a woman. I'm 18 and I have feelings for my boss. Not a crush, I've had crushes and I didn't want those to go anywhere. I literally mean I have deep feelings for him. When he talks...
A. 5 June 2010: Tread VERY carefully here! He is your boss. If it was a co-worker who was the same on the "food chain" then I'd say go with your heart, but he is higher than you. If he doesn't feel the same way with you, then life with him will be completely ... (read in full...)
Still under my mom's apron strings at 27...
Q. I am 27 years old and live at home with my parents. I recently split up with my girlfriend of three years. The relationship had been secret for two out of the three years. The first year my parents were aware of my GF but they did not know that she ...
A. 4 June 2010: Are you an only child or the youngest in the family? I am the youngest in my family and my mom often treated me like a child, going into my room without knocking, telling me I should do this and do that. I am almost 27 years old. You need to tell ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with b/f, father of my child and never see him again?
Q. hi i broke up with my boyfriend for 9 months and now were back togeter for 5 months now!!! we have a 2 and a half yr old son! his father doesnt take care of us both and i dont think i love him or anything like that but theres something keeping me ...
A. 2 June 2010: Break up with him - if he's always swearing and reacting out of control in front of you AND your child, then your child is definitely going to pick up on that. You need to find a nice, quiet place for your child to grow up, without all the chaos and ... (read in full...)
Seems he's far away enough from me to cheat on me...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 years now.. we have been in a long distance relationship.. he is in med school and i am back here in the US.. i feel now that he is far away he may cheat on me.. is it possible or am i just being paranoid..?...
A. 1 June 2010: You need to trust him and he needs to trust you, or else your relationship will never work.... (read in full...)
Do women not in a relationship stay on contraception just incase
Q. How do ladies who not presently in a relationship but who are in the market for one, handle the question of whether to be on contraception just in case? ...
A. 30 May 2010: I'm currently on birth control to help my periods, who had gotten really painful and uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
In Love, Or In Love With The Sex?..
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have sex about twice a week.. I love everything about my boyfriend and he loves every thing about me.. and were absolutely CRAZY for each other, I feel I am in love with him strongly and I ...
A. 30 May 2010: Not sure what you're asking - if you're in love or in love for the sex or he is in love with you or just for the sex. Either way, given your age, I say cool it with the sex. Think of it this way: there's a saying that most men think with their ... (read in full...)
Just wondering what an orgasm looks like and feels like?
Q. Ok so I'm a bisexual sixteen year old and I've started experimenting with my girlfriend... Who I just love so much, but recently she ate me out for the first time, and it was amazing. I was nervous at first but then relaxed and it was amazing.. I ...
A. 29 May 2010: I have obviously never seen myself in the middle of an orgasm, but just going by how I feel, when I cum, it seems every inch of my body just tenses and muscles up and I usually arch my back a bit. If it's a strong orgasm, I can feel the contractions ... (read in full...)
Did he say he was allergic to condoms just to trick me?
Q. Help... I Just had unprotected sex and i am so scared. He claims hes allergic to condoms. Can someome be allergic or did he trick me me? ...
A. 29 May 2010: He can be allergic to latex... (read in full...)
His 'other woman' is a playstation!
Q. Hello never thought id go to a website for help...... Well here it goes Ive been married for 5 years, my marriage was going great. Till my husband bought a play-station 3 he is in denial of his lack of interest in our relationship. I ...
A. 29 May 2010: This sounds exactly like a "True Life" episode I saw on MTV not too long ago called "I'm addicted to video games." One couple saw a counselor about the one's obsession with the games.
Try talking to him and tell him how you feel lonely and want... (read in full...)
I cannot find a potential girlfriend. I'm 31 and still haven't had my first kiss.
Q. Hi, I am a 31 year old male and still have not had my first kiss. No matter what I do, however many social clubs I've joined, all the internet daing sites I've tried etc, I can't even find any potential girlfriends. Virtually no single girls se...
A. 27 May 2010: You know, that is very interesting, Cerberus - also very true!
As I said before, hadn't had a kiss since I was 13 - my last boyfriend. After spending years in school trying to find love, after I graduated college, I just gave up looking and deci... (read in full...)
I cannot find a potential girlfriend. I'm 31 and still haven't had my first kiss.
Q. Hi, I am a 31 year old male and still have not had my first kiss. No matter what I do, however many social clubs I've joined, all the internet daing sites I've tried etc, I can't even find any potential girlfriends. Virtually no single girls se...
A. 27 May 2010: You're trying too hard - I'm willing to bet you go to these clubs and social gatherings TRYING to get your first kiss or a potential gf. Just go there to have fun and don't think about love. Love comes when you least expect it. I am almost 27 years ... (read in full...)
What should an orgasm feel like?
Q. Hi, this question is for females. This is a very intimate question and i don't want any nasty comments etc so if you find it disgusting then just don't answer. I would just like to know what orgasm should feel like to a woman? I have been masturba...
A. 24 May 2010: Everyone has a g-spot, it's just that it really affects some women while some it doesn't do anything for them. If you ever get the sensation to pee, that is your urethral sponge (near your g-spot) filling up and it will give you a much better ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me because his new g/f tells him not to
Q. if you have lost some one you loved and they have now got a girlfriend and they dont wont nothing to do with you because there girlfriend has told him he carnt have nothing to do with you how do you win him back and tell him how much he really meens ...
A. 23 May 2010: You can't really win him back in that scenario. As long as he is with that woman that forbids him to talk to you, there's nothing that can be done. Believe me, I tried!
I knew this boy in high school - we were good friends but I had strong f... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: Here's a question for you all - sort of relevant to the poster's question:
Why is it a man sleeps around, he is considered a "player" and is highly touted by his male peers, but when a woman sleeps around, she is considered slut and is dirtier ... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: "penises on speed dial"
Ha ha, that's classic, q!!!!... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: CaringGuy has it right - someone isn't happy in the marriage and wants to go and find that missing piece to become happy. It doesn't necessarily have to be sex - although it usually is - just some companionship, where the person who is cheating ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and allowed to date older guys, but how do I explain to people like my family he's 28?!
Q. I really need some help!! I've fallen for a 28 year old guy and i'm 16. i've liked him since we were 14 and we joked we would get together. now im 16 I really want to date him and get to know him as a boyfriend. He's fine with it, its just I'm ...
A. 19 May 2010: I don't know why it is, but a 12-year age difference is much worse in your situation, then say a relationship between a 28-year old and a 40-year old. You're still in school and he has graduated from college about five or six years ago. Not saying ... (read in full...)
He wants pictures of my body!
Q. Okay so I know some people will think this is a bit of a stupid question, but basically a guy I've been getting quite flirty with online has asked for a few pics of my body. But the problem is he hasn't really specified much and I haven't done this ...
A. 16 May 2010: Only do it if you are really, really comfortable and you really, really trust the guy!
How about a compromise? Ask him for pictures of him first?... (read in full...)
Letting down a guy easily?
Q. Is it possible to let a guy down gently? I'm seeing a guy, it's unspoken but neither of us would go off with someone else, the thing is... I love being single. How can I tell him I'm not interested gently? Any help would be so apreciated, you...
A. 16 May 2010: First of all, do it in person! Never in an email, text, facebook, phone, etc. Much better in person.
Next, you can use the line I gave my boyfriend back in school when I wanted to break things off: "I'm just not ready for a relationship, but if I... (read in full...)
Clingy or having healthy emotional needs?
Q. How do you determine if a girlfriend is being "clingly" or is just having healthy emotional needs? Where do you draw the line?...
A. 8 May 2010: Being clingy means calling him every hour asking "whatcha doin'?... (read in full...)
I have almost never liked my mother, do you think she is in the wrong or should I get over it?
Q. I'm 15 going on 16 and I have almost never liked my mother, and today one of my close friends funeral was today and we had been talking about it all week and she told that I could go, but when I woke up this morning I asked her if I could still go ...
A. 8 May 2010: I agree with parts of both previous posts: you are the oldest sibling, so you do have certain responsibilities, like becoming almost a babysitter if your mom needs to rush somewhere important. But at a good time (after you've cooled off), I would ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to "pop the question" on the night of our friends' wedding?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years now. We've known each other for about 3.75 years. One of my best friends is getting married to one of my gf's best friends in August and yes, we're both in the wedding party. I know my ...
A. 6 May 2010: Make sure you feel confident enough that she will say yes and it isn't just the wedding mood. Daletom is right where weddings will put people into romantic moods. If you are sure she will say yes, wait a few days after the wedding. How would YOU ... (read in full...)
We used to have sex 6 times a day and now its 4 times a week. I need more!
Q. im so obbsessed with sex lately. im in a very good relationship over a year now, and my boyfriend cant keep up, all i have wanted to do lately is have sex and i dont understand why? at the beginging we used to have sex up to 6 times a day, now...
A. 6 May 2010: Wow, 6 times a day is a lot! I agree with oldersister - too much of one thing gets to be boring after a while. Just give him a breather and I'm sure he'll be wanting it just as badly as you. If you really need to cum, just masturbate, but allow him ... (read in full...)
I discovered something worrying on his computer
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three and a half years and we love each other very much. I have a problem of snooping his computer from time to time - I am too curious for my own good - but I have managed to all but stop myself ...
A. 4 May 2010: I agree with male anon - I've googled lots of all-over-the-place stuff in no particular order and I would hate to have someone try to decipher that!... (read in full...)
I found out my son and his on-again-off-again girlfriend are trying for a baby! Should I say something?
Q. I want to start off by saying I am not trying to interfer with my son's life and I jsut being cncerned. My youngest son Steven has been dating his girlfriend Lora on and off for 2 yrs. They met through friends about 4 yrs ago but they both where in...
A. 4 May 2010: I would say something. If they're on-again, off-again, a baby is only going to make things worse. And if Steven gets angry with you (which he will!), then tell him you're concerned for the baby who is going to be handed off to so many different ... (read in full...)
I've become attracted to a cartoon character, and can't imagine a relationship with a real person.
Q. Hey I am 16, closer to 17 and I have never had a relationship of any sort or wanted to. I read and write erotic literature regularly and get turned on, often by things involving girls more so than guys, but the idea of anything doing anything with a ...
A. 4 May 2010: You need to get out into the world and meet real people. Believe me, men won't bite and it's great to get to know them. Don't be scared, just get to know them - trust me, real men are much better to be around than watching a male cartoon.... (read in full...)
How can I build confidence to ask a guy out?
Q. I have never had a boy friend and i really like this guy. we were really good friends, then his ex came back to him but they are now split up. i don't have the confidence to ask him out. what can i do to build my confidence??? Help ! ...
A. 4 May 2010: Just ask him if he wants to hang out, but make it like a group thing. The two of you and a handful of your friends can go out for pizza or to the movies. Something where the two of you can be together and see if you get along well and where the ... (read in full...)
What does "I'm physically attracted to you" mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says he is physically attracted to you?...
A. 2 May 2010: It means he likes what he sees!... (read in full...)
Why is he only showing interest after I gave up and settled for friendship?
Q. 6 months ago I gave up all hope of nabbing Mr.Married to his job/too busy for a relationship but recently it seems he has taken up more of a personal interest in my life. Who am I seeing? Any one catching my interest? Stating that I shouldn't date ...
A. 30 April 2010: You don't say how you reacted towards him before you settled for friendship. Did you flirt a lot towards him? Show him lots of attention? If so, perhaps since he is married (at least what you called him!), he felt uneasy, but now that you have given ... (read in full...)
Would you consider me a slut?
Q. i've slept with 13 people, i'm 17, does this make me a slut?...
A. 26 April 2010: To me, that is quite a large number for all the older you are, but I say if you cared for the guys and the relationships just didn't work out rather than you just had sex JUST to have sex, then no I wouldn't call you a slut.
Cindy - "slutome... (read in full...)
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