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writes:Hi there,I am 17 and have liked this girl for a while. A couple of months ago she guessed that I liked her, and well I couldn't really deny it. Things led to another and we chatted a lot and have had some interesting conversations but told me that she thought I was cute and good looking but had to focus on exams and didn't want a relationship. She recently told me that she is confused and needs some time to think as some days she really wants to kiss me then others she doesn't like me at all. I know I have to respect what she said and wait out her exams. But every day I see her or speak to her my feelings get so much stronger and I really want to be with her but I don't know what to do?
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 I think she is confused and mainly stressed due to her exams. They sound like they're taking a lot of her time and energy. Wait until several days after her exams are finished, ask her how she did and strike up another conversation. Then try to see if she is into starting a relationship with you. If she says no again, then it's not just the exams and you may have to look elsewhere. Or if you want to stay with her, you'll have to be very patient.
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reader, RedLips +, writes (28 May 2011):
 This sounds to me like she could be playing hard to get, she's drawing you in just the way she wants you to be. You're totally smitten with her and this is partially because she keeps pulling away probably, making you feel like you need to have her.
It's possible that she's not, but it sounds to me like she is. How about if you tried to kiss her after her exam period, if she pulls away tell her that you respect her decision and you wouldn't like this to affect anything - or if she kisses you, you know that she's been longing for you really :)
Good luck champ :)
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