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My virgin girlfriend wont have sex with me

Q.   Im a virgin and so in love with this girl who is also a virgin,recently i talked to her about having sex but she wont give in,she belives in no sex before marriage and it rilly bothers me coz she is only 16years.she lets me touch her private parts ...

A.   18 September 2010: What is the age of consent in your country? At your age (22-25 in the title), you should not be pressuring a 16-year-old, legal or not. Bart.... (read in full...)

How can I solve these issues and reduce my interest in sex?

Q.   How do I decrease my desire for sex? I have been in a relationship just over a year now and I very cautiously asked my girlfriend about having sex (I was cautious because I didn't want to put on any pressure and because of what has happened in ...

A.   18 September 2010: "She has her orgasm first, then I can so that we reduce the chance of pregnancy." What do you mean by that? Do you cum in her, because no matter how many orgasms she has had, she can still get pregnant from whatever sperm you have left! It does see... (read in full...)

Virgin and totally freaked out!

Q.   Hello. I really need some answers. 2 days ago me and my boyfriend were hanging out. I was topless, he wasnt, and i had my underwear and jeans on and he had his boxers and shorts on. He was on top of my and his penis was pretty much on my vagina, ...

A.   12 September 2010: No, you won't be pregnant - THIS time! But, for your future safety and peace of mind, use at least two forms of contraception, especially at your ages as you really can't afford to have any little accidents, nor do you want any diseases. Don't say ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and considering casual sex. What if I regret it?

Q.   I'm not so sure how to place my question. I've always wondered about casual sex partly because, even though I did have a few "boyfriends", I don't seem to be able to form strong bonds with them and therefore I think of myself as incapable of loving. ...

A.   9 September 2010: Do not rush into losing your virginity just because you feel pressured or that you think “it’s about time”. Your first time should be special. At my grand old age I’ve heard loads of young girls (and 42-year-olds, in my personal experien... (read in full...)

Husband says I must accept that he has a small penis but I never have an orgasm during sex!

Q.   hi every1.i have a problem with my husband when we make love he doesnt want to do foreplay unless i complain and if i do so he says i complain too much.for the past seven years of my marriage never had an orgasm the last time i had it it was with ...

A.   9 September 2010: What do you mean, "caught masturbating"? It is in no way sinful and you should be doing it togeter - great fun! If god never meant you to masturbate, he wouldn't have given you a clitoris; its ONLY function is to give pleasure, and is rarely s... (read in full...)

Pain during oral sex because he WON'T LISTEN to me

Q.   First, he's not a boyfriend so the question of whether this guy cares about me or not is moot. However, I am somewhat confused by him. Last night, he kept saying how he wants me to orgasm really hard (squirt) and kept saying that. So he did oral ...

A.   8 September 2010: May I recommend that he stimulates your g-spot for at least half an hour - gently! - with plenty of lube? He neeeds to be patient; get him to notice that your urethral sponge, behind your g-spot, is filling with fluid and starting to bulge. That ... (read in full...)

I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!

Q.   im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...

A.   8 September 2010: "she fort we was going out" - is that the sort of thing even a semi-literate 43 year old would write? Troll post?... (read in full...)

Did I pop my cherry or is something else wrong?

Q.   This is kind off embarassing, I was masturbating the other day using an electric toothbrush, then I hve a really great sensational feeling, but suddenly there was a sharp painful feeling and the tootbrush was bloody.... now my stomache feels like ...

A.   7 September 2010: Masturbating IS good, so don't stop! However, I would recommend that you don't use items not meant for the job: go and buy (or mail order, if shy) a proper vibrator - or even just a bullet type, which are cheap and give your clit a proper work... (read in full...)

Do guys really care about breast size?

Q.   I have very small breast... I wear a thick push-up bra and layers of clothing over my chest to cover up the small size. And this has worked out fine for me until my boyfriend became touchy with my breasts. I started to feel very self-concous about ...

A.   23 August 2010: Nope, it doesn't matter at all: all that matters is if you both get pleasure from them, and you will! Please remember the downside of large breasts.....later on, they turn into belly/knee warmers because of that old enemy, gravity!... (read in full...)

When I masturbate I have the urge to pee

Q.   Okay so I got a problem, every single time I masturbate, I have the urge to pee. It starts when I rub my clit and when I finally enter a finger in I have to stop to run to the toilet and pee. It's not just a feeling, I really do need to pee. So i ...

A.   22 August 2010: You could be squirting........ (read in full...)

Is this considered incest?

Q.   [Mod Note - OP's own title] I recently visited my cousin during my vacation in LA. She's my first cousin and she's a very attractive girl. We're both also 29 years old. While we were hanging out I asked her about the night clubs in LA. She said...

A.   11 August 2010: Stop complaining and fill your boots while you can!... (read in full...)

Is my penis too big? WIll it ever stop growing?

Q.   Why is my penis so big? so i am only 14 years old and my penis is already 7 inches when erect i wanted to know if it has stopped growing because it can be really embarrasing sometimes i dont think i could cope with anything bigger and because im ...

A.   11 August 2010: Have we had this troll post before.....? ... (read in full...)

My teacher made strange comments to me. What do they mean?

Q.   Does this teacher like me? Well i have a teacher and she's a girl it started of when my friend ask for her phone number and i did as well.(im a girl) on that day we started texting, then stopped. then three weeks later she texted me and greete...

A.   9 August 2010: Yes, you make fair points, "Quiet".......... (read in full...)

My teacher made strange comments to me. What do they mean?

Q.   Does this teacher like me? Well i have a teacher and she's a girl it started of when my friend ask for her phone number and i did as well.(im a girl) on that day we started texting, then stopped. then three weeks later she texted me and greete...

A.   8 August 2010: I agree that she may be interested in this OP as more than just a friend, "Quiet", but I'm guessing that the culture in the Phils is a bit different? The reason for the teacher's saying "if you were a boy" was so as not to frighten the student beca... (read in full...)

My wife won't let me touch her!

Q.   My wife won't let me even touch her anymore. Several months ago I became aware of resentment stemming for isolated episodes during our 14 years of marriage when she thought I was insensitive and uncaring. The worst one was my not being present ...

A.   6 August 2010: Your marriage is dead already. She has switched off from you, unfairly, and is now sitting back and coasting, making zero contribution to the marriage. How long do you put up with it for? Well, if she has declared that she no longer loves you and ... (read in full...)

Sex has waned in our relationship and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere. Help!

Q.   I have been with my guy for 5 years! I have a high sex drive and he knew this when we first started dating. This was one of the reasons we kept seeing each other as he thought he'd died and gone to heaven...sex on tap! But as the years have gone on ...

A.   31 July 2010: Hey, cuddles are good - don't knock them! but they need to be backed up by more intimate, shared activities. Do you try to initiate thing: stroking him, going down, etc? Sex isn't like over-eating; you can't make yourself sick from too much. I... (read in full...)

Tips for more attractive breasts?

Q.   i am 5.2 height and 34b breast....how can i make them tight....appealing and beautiful....need some exercises and massage advices ..my husbend is crazy for hight and big boobs.....how can i walk sexy...?plz reply soon...

A.   31 July 2010: Good idea, Vena. Also, girls from the more northern, hilly regions of England who actually walk instead of ride everywhere seem to be bigger and firmer. I understand that climbing stairs is effective, too, and will also help with the thighs..... (read in full...)

Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?

Q.   How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years ol...

A.   31 July 2010: Is the age of consent 18 in Canada? Whatever it is, you need to wait until then and have left camp and he is no longer at risk of losing his job or going to prison. But I'm also with "Dr.Ski" about its being a beautiful think - be discreet, wait... (read in full...)

Should I hook up with my cousin?

Q.   Hi, I have a cousin problem and it involves me a 17 year old having sex and messing around with my 14 year old cousin. We have spend a lot of time together and have fun together, when we start fighting for fun he accidentaly touches my boobs and ...

A.   31 July 2010: I was under the impression that the age of consent in the States was 18? Just don't do it; you could easily get a prison sentence, both of you. If you really can't control your urges, go and invest in a good vibrator and/or dildo.......... (read in full...)

Tips for more attractive breasts?

Q.   i am 5.2 height and 34b breast....how can i make them tight....appealing and beautiful....need some exercises and massage advices ..my husbend is crazy for hight and big boobs.....how can i walk sexy...?plz reply soon...

A.   31 July 2010: 34Bs are unlikely to be saggy or giving in to gravity! Your husband married you for the way you are, not for some unreal, plastic woman from a porno or magazine, so why do you want to change? Does he insist? Don't do it, if so - would he like it ... (read in full...)

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