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writes:my girlfriendd and I have had a relationship for the past 17 months. but she has become so obsessive , she never let's me see my friends..because she thinks they are a bad influence..when they're not. she gets jelous when I lay eyes on another women, and I never have time to breath because every single second she floods me with text messages and missed calls. then gets upset when I don't reply. :/ and she even isolates me from my family. :/she thinks all my time Is to be spent on her. help
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 The problem is on her, so I think that professional counseling might help her overcome the paranoia, insecurities and self-esteem issues.
Can't tell you more, because you already know that there's a problem, so the only reasonable way you could overcome it is to make her admit that she's got issues.
Or you could give her ultimatum - to cut you some slack or else you dump her.
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I agree with MonksDaBomb..
I have a friend like it. And no matter how many times i tell her to take it slow, she rushes into it. The longest relationship she had was 6months. Then he left 'coz she tried to keep him in the house (wouldn't let him leave)
So you NEED to tell her how you feel. That she is pushing you away. But if she doesn't change you need to get out of there 'coz she will ruin your life!
I hope this helps
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Your gf sounds very controlling and suffocating, to me. The two of you need a serious face-to-face conversation to talk about these things. Tell her how you feel and listen to what she says. If she's not going to change, then I don't see your relationship becoming long-term because the constant paranoia would drive you crazy.
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