Baby names...
Q. My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...
A. 15 March 2009: I have personally always liked the name Geoffrey, so how about Geoffrey Owen??
For the ones you chose (of course it should be you and your bf's choice; not ours):
Flynn Owen
Makenna Joy (and I agree with a previous poster that I, too, am not ... (read in full...)
Will this relationship devastate my parents?
Q. I probably know the answer to this already but wanted to get various viewpoints (male, female, young, old) and see what you all had to say. I graduated from college three years ago. I was friends with one of my professors while I was still a stud...
A. 14 March 2009: Do you honestly think he likes me? A friend of mine said she thought part of the reason he was so quiet during that two-month stretch was he realized how much he ws flirting and now was weighing the pros and cons about "us." Do you think his ... (read in full...)
Got drunk..don't know if I had sex or not?
Q. I went to a party last night, and there was my crush- drunk. I had a few drinks and then I just woke up. I was at my friends house, she had a bit of a hangover too. I couldn't remember what happened. But I've been geting texts like- you had sex with ...
A. 13 March 2009: You are under-age! You HAVE to tell your mom! You need somebody to help you through this the right way and, no offense, but your friends aren't going to help out the best way possible; they're probably freaking out like you are. Just don't do ... (read in full...)
Got drunk..don't know if I had sex or not?
Q. I went to a party last night, and there was my crush- drunk. I had a few drinks and then I just woke up. I was at my friends house, she had a bit of a hangover too. I couldn't remember what happened. But I've been geting texts like- you had sex with ...
A. 12 March 2009: I agree with Old Guy - get yourself checked out at a hospital as soon as possible and tell your folks, too!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.
Q. Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help...
A. 8 March 2009: Boy, lately I have been feeling so...OLD. And I'm only 25!! I am astounded by how many teenagers are either thinking of or are having sex! It's unbelievable. And all this time I thought teens were into video games lol. Whatever happened to being ... (read in full...)
Would you say this guy really likes me?
Q. This guy and I have known each other for five years and have been good friends for about three, ever since I graduated from college, and have been flirting quite a bit since last summer. He was a prof in my college major so I saw him often. There...
A. 7 March 2009: I'm not trying to put pressure on him or make him uncomfortable, just thought it would be nice. Because when I was home for Christmas we had a heck of a time trying to get together, I'd get his answering machine, leave a message, I'd miss his call ... (read in full...)
Would you say this guy really likes me?
Q. This guy and I have known each other for five years and have been good friends for about three, ever since I graduated from college, and have been flirting quite a bit since last summer. He was a prof in my college major so I saw him often. There...
A. 7 March 2009: Hmm...somebody else (a female) said that since he's shy he may not like surprises. Why do you think he would not like me showing up like that? I guess I'm trying to get a male's perspective.... (read in full...)
He thinks my body BELONGS to him!!!!
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months says I'm his... therefore so is my body, supposedly we love each other. He says he does, his hands are always all over me, alone or not! Once we are in a private place and he wouldn't stop! I don't mind that but I do mind ...
A. 7 March 2009: I don't like where this is heading. If a guy truly loves a girl, he loves her unconditionally and not necessarily just to get into bed with her. News flash - it is YOUR body, not his. If I were you I would get away from this guy as he sounds bad ... (read in full...)
Would you say this guy really likes me?
Q. This guy and I have known each other for five years and have been good friends for about three, ever since I graduated from college, and have been flirting quite a bit since last summer. He was a prof in my college major so I saw him often. There...
A. 7 March 2009: Thanks ArmyMedic :)
So do you think I should just go into our meeting at Easter as just friends and see if he acts differently or what should I do?
Here's one idea I have: I'm coming home wednesday before Easter and he teaches a class thursday... (read in full...)
What's the best way to bring up "us"?
Q. There is a situation that, well, has been going on now for five years, but especially since last summer. The below link is the whole story to help you get a better understanding of what's going on to answer my question: http://www.dea...
A. 7 March 2009: Well, if we go to his house, he does have a dog LOL!
Thanks, Star. I guess I just have to suck it up and hope I have some courage as this is definitely out of my comfort zone. And this will also be the first time we've seen each other since th... (read in full...)
Your opinions needed here! Does he like me as a friend or more?
Q. This guy I’ve known for about five years (he’s actually a former college prof of mine; he is not married). We’ve really kept in touch since I’ve graduated, emailing and sometimes talking on the phone. He has been flirting with me since last summe...
A. 7 March 2009: Thanks dearkelja :)
I am going home for Easter for about six days and when I emailed him telling that, he told me that was good news, to let him know once I was home and he even told me when he'd be off from school. I really want us to have an ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is ignoring me.... HELP!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had a fight a few days ago. He wouldn't say sorry to me or even talk to me at all! It's been 3 days without communication. I see him at school but he pretends to ignore me. He looks for me in the rooms school and when he finds ...
A. 6 March 2009: No, as hard as it is, just back off for a little while. If he truly loves me as you said you think he does (BTW - him looking at you then looking away when you look is a good example), he will come around eventually. Just give him some space so he ... (read in full...)
My friends think I'm sick for having a crush on my 56 year old teacher!
Q. So...I'm a sixteen year old girl who is MADLY in love with her 56 year old World History teacher (who just so happens to be married with kids who are older than me!). All of my friends are so disgusted and think I'm sick! I don't know what to do! ...
A. 4 March 2009: Ah yes, been there done that. I had a crush on one of my profs in college (still keep in touch with him now and we've been flirting a lot lately). We've known each other for five years and I graduated three years ago. Two rules of thumb about this... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin needs help!
Q. I'm a 26 year old male... and I'm a virgin. Not only have I not had sex, I've only kissed a girl once. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the guy that always got caught up with liking girls that just want to be "friends." But, I was a moron and just ...
A. 4 March 2009: No, you're fine. In fact, I'm kinda like you. I am a 25-year old virgin, have only had one boyfriend (7th grade!) and that was also the last time I kissed a guy.
While I am a bit ashamed at my lack of boyfriends or kissing I am by no stretch ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy asks you if you'd like to go get coffee?
Q. Here is my situation (sorry if it's kind of long.) I met this guy in a professional context (actually, in a job training class I assisted with teaching last year). They graduated. We got back in contact when he texted me wanting to know when the ...
A. 3 March 2009: Ack, nobody's answered this yet as I, too, am curious.
There's a guy I've known for years. We've gone out for lunch a few times. The last time we got together he invited me for coffee at Starbucks. We met each other there. I got there first an... (read in full...)
Why does being touched around the waist feel so good?
Q. Why is being touched around the waist by the opposite sex feels so good? Of course, there's more of a spark when its somebody I like, but I noticed whenever there's flirting, being touched on the waist just makes me feel attractive and alive. So why...
A. 2 March 2009: I cannot describe it but this guy in high school I really liked (we were good friends). We'd sit together at lunch every day and sometimes he'd touch me on the arm or hand and it honestly felt like a jolt went up my arm. I can't really describe it ... (read in full...)
How far does the penis have to be in, in order to get pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex a couple of hours ago, (the worst idea we've ever had) but when he comed he didn't fully pull out but he wasn't anywhere near totally in, it was as he pulled out he did. What are the chances of becoming ...
A. 1 March 2009: Geez, girl, sounds like you put the cart before the horse here....
Of course I've never really had a boyfriend so don't quote me on this but I don't think it matters. Regardless of how far in it's inside you or not, it still counts.
Not sur... (read in full...)
Your opinions needed here! Does he like me as a friend or more?
Q. This guy I’ve known for about five years (he’s actually a former college prof of mine; he is not married). We’ve really kept in touch since I’ve graduated, emailing and sometimes talking on the phone. He has been flirting with me since last summe...
A. 1 March 2009: The age difference is quite large: 34 years (he's 59; I'm 25). But honestly he looks 15-20 years younger; he does not look his age at all. I'm just very indecisive at the moment. When he was ignoring me, I'd cry at night praying that he'd talk to me ... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little...
A. 27 February 2009: I'm like you except I'm a woman, LOL. I eat all the time but do not put on weight. Of course I'm really short (4-11) so naturally with my petite figure people will just assume I'm in high school or even younger when in fact I'm in my mid-20s, LOL.
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Often seeing a male teacher after hours
Q. I'm a female student who has yet to reach the age of 18, and I think that something may be wrong with the relationship I currently have with my male science teacher. He's almost 30 and has been married for less than a year. Although I'm rel...
A. 26 February 2009: Hmm...first time I looked at your age. You're either 13, 14, or 15 - always a difficult age for a girl. I know at least for me it was. The hormones are running wild and you don't know what you're feeling. Oh yeah, every girl fantasizes about running ... (read in full...)
Often seeing a male teacher after hours
Q. I'm a female student who has yet to reach the age of 18, and I think that something may be wrong with the relationship I currently have with my male science teacher. He's almost 30 and has been married for less than a year. Although I'm rel...
A. 26 February 2009: First of all, I have to tell you I was once (and sort of still am) in your shoes. But it was an art teacher at my college (my major so I saw him often). I loved going to classes - he would flirt (IMO) with me even in class: teasing and calling me ... (read in full...)
Your opinions needed here! Does he like me as a friend or more?
Q. This guy I’ve known for about five years (he’s actually a former college prof of mine; he is not married). We’ve really kept in touch since I’ve graduated, emailing and sometimes talking on the phone. He has been flirting with me since last summe...
A. 26 February 2009: You know, to be honest, I don't know what I want. My heart knows the age difference is too much and I'm afraid if we tried a relationship it wouldn't work and would ruin the friendship which I value. But the rest of my body doesn't seem to want to ... (read in full...)
Falling for male friend--future?
Q. ok so im 31, and have formed a very very close friendship with a sensitive, shy guy. I've known him a year, fell for him 6 months ago, and have spent the last 6 months looking for signs he feels the same way. I feel I have to say something or Im ...
A. 25 February 2009: I know exactly how you're feeling. I was friends with a guy in high school - met freshman year; really hit it off. We'd sit very close to each other at lunch, he'd always walk me home after school, we would hang out every now and then over the ... (read in full...)
Pregnant from fingering......?
Q. Okay so me and my gf, who i love very much, were over my house one day. We were in the basement watching a movie cuddling and making out a little when she teased me down into her pants. well long story short i fingered her and thats it, she di...
A. 25 February 2009: I agree with didda and probably gonna sound like a broken record since my answer is after hers, but -
Unless if you touched yourself first and then touched her and accidentally had semen on your fingers when you touched her, you have absolute... (read in full...)
First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?
Q. I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt ...
A. 23 February 2009: Since it was your first time I would guess you were quite nervous (which is common and understandable). You said you guys did it twice. But did you guys do a lot of foreplay? Foreplay is key, especially your first time - it allows your body to ... (read in full...)
Why am I so unlucky in love?
Q. I am 30 years old and never had a boyfriend and I don't know how to get one. At this stage giving is my only option. It's very unfair why I have no luck at all. The guys have it easier. I am shy and quiet with a weight problem....
A. 22 February 2009: I agree with Emily - attitude is everything. Of course I shouldn't be talking as I have had one boyfriend and that was back in 7th grade - I'm now 25 (LOL). And your weight has nothing to do with it. You just have to feel sexy and confident about ... (read in full...)
Is there a way I can get confirmation that he opened my email (at hotmail) without him knowing?
Q. This guy and I have known each other for years and have become good friends. We're former prof-student (I've since graduated) but we get along very well. We've lately been flirting and ever since I was home for Christmas (where we both were ...
A. 22 February 2009: Thank you, Leemo. I of course want to be open and honest with him and can only hope that he would return the same. I just get this feeling that he doesn't even read my emails, but who knows - I could be wrong. Maybe he does read them...
I def... (read in full...)
How did you get over your teacher, if you have been in my shoes?
Q. Hey You may remember me from this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-for-my-math-teacher.html if not then read that and your will get up-to-speed. Anyway.. this post is just an additional cry for help really.. I really cannot...
A. 22 February 2009: Hun, I am in her shoes, except it was my college professor (I've since graduated).
I always thought he was cute even when he was my teacher but never remotely thought about acting on it cause things would've just become weird and I didn't want him... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?
Q. i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!...
A. 21 February 2009: No, no, NO! You are just 13. Life has barely begun for you. Don't do if you think you're in love and you think that if you do it you'll "fit in" at school. Your virginity is a very sacred thing and it should be taken when 1) you and your guy are ... (read in full...)
Should I stop having sex with my teacher?
Q. I´m in college and I have sort of fallen in love with one of my teachers. I did have sex with him once. I didn´t feel bad about it, but he kept saying how sorry he was. He says it´s not the right thing to do, but he doesn´t really do any action t...
A. 17 February 2009: Yes, definitely!! Especially if you're still in school and if you still have him as your teacher. I'm not sure what the reprecutions are for you as a student if caught, but he could lose his job and his credibility is tarnished.... (read in full...)
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