He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I don't think that you should call him. You shouldn't chase after a guy who hit you. I wouldn't go back to someone if I ever got hit. Even if it was only once, but I can't tell you what to do, it is your decision. It sounds like you are still ... (read in full...)
He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I don't think that you should call him. You shouldn't chase after a guy who hit you. I wouldn't go back to someone if I ever got hit. Even if it was only once, but I can't tell you what to do, it is your decision. It sounds like you are still ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should go for him or wait a while?
Q. well, i've liked this guy for a long time since we broke up. and my friend and him just broke up recently. im kinda excited but feel bad for them. but i really like him and im not sure if i should go for him or wait a while....
A. 20 February 2007: He just broke up with your friend, so you should be there for your friend & wait a while. Before you start to have a relationship with him you should make sure that your friend is okay with it and that she is over him because friendship is more ... (read in full...)
Is he being totally honest with me or should I be worried?
Q. I met this guy 1.5 years ago, he was on a dating site and we wrote to each other. He is very well off and has his own buisness. We ended up living together after only 4 months of getting to know each other. (which is very unsual for me to do this) I ...
A. 20 February 2007: Do you talk to him over the phone ever when he is gone? Being in a relationship & talking only through email for 4 months seems kind of odd. You would think that he would want to talk to you being gone that long. Do you know where he is staying ... (read in full...)
Is his moodiness a way of pushing me away?
Q. I am glad this site is around and I appreciate any answers to my questions. I am in the beginning stages of a friendship which I hope may lead to more. The problems seem to be happening with the email part of the relationship. The man involved ...
A. 20 February 2007: It is kind of hard to tell someones mood by an email because you are not able to hear the tone of their voice, facial expressions... also emails can sometimes be interpreted different ways. You are better off just talking to him about it. Ask him ... (read in full...)
When should I start taking this pill when my period is so irregular?
Q. I am supposed to be getting on the pill. I have them with me and everything. The doctor told me to start the pill the sunday after my period starts. well what if my period doesnt come? I have my period, but they cycle is soo off. It comes sometim...
A. 19 February 2007: He wants you to take it the Sunday after you get your period. If it doesn't come on time this month then call your doctor & ask him what to do. I am sure that if you have an idea of when you had your last period, he can tell you to start taking it ... (read in full...)
Can love come back again?
Q. I have been with my husband 8and half years been married 18months. I have fallen out of love with him. Hes absolutley devastated as he hasnt seen it coming ive hidden it very well. Can love come back?...
A. 19 February 2007: Yes, but you have to work on it. Marriage counceling helps alot to figure out where the problem is & how to work through it. You just have to decide how important that your marriage is to you. These days divorce is so common that the meaning of ... (read in full...)
Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?
Q. Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...
A. 19 February 2007: I think that you shouldn't worry about age as much as you are. If you just be yourself & someone who happens to be younger seems interested in you & you are interested in her then you shouldn't worry about what other people think. Just make sure ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hates me using condoms, I've never NOT used one! Where do I cum?
Q. Got quite weird question, im 23 y.o and have stable relationship at the moment, thing is that i never had sex without condom before.. and my GF hates them, and want's to have sex without condom ofc. Since i was always using condom due to only had ...
A. 19 February 2007: You can cum on her stomich, her back, or her boobs... that would be the most common places. It'll feel better in her mouth if she lets you. ;)... (read in full...)
Should I text him back or wait for him to text me?
Q. hi all i recently wrote asking what to do about how i want more from my friend with benifits , so anyway i told him how i want more , and he said how he dont see me just as a shag and wants more too , he even asked me if we should be more like boy...
A. 19 February 2007: Don't look into it too much. I don't think that he meant to not text you back. I'm sure he just got busy. Give him a call. If you text him, don't respond to the last one he sent asking why he never texted you back. Just start a new text. You ... (read in full...)
Is 5 days too early to tell whether I'm pregnant or not?
Q. its been five(5) days since me and my boyfriend had sex. it feels like im about to start my cycle. my breasts are sore around the nipples and my stomach is hurting a little but no bleeding. all of this took place the 2nd day after conceving. i took ...
A. 19 February 2007: Usually 6 days after conception is when the hCG hormone will be present, but for some woman it takes longer. Use either a "First Responce" or a "Early Result" Pregnancy test. They are more sensative then the other ones & you can test earlier. You ... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me what exactly IS "high maintenance?"
Q. Is it a good thing or bad thing that a bloke thinks your 'high matenance'? and what does it mean exactly?...
A. 19 February 2007: If they are joking around because you are taking forever to get ready, doing your nails, making sure your hair is perfect... then it might not be a bad thing, but most of the time when someone says that you are high maintenance it means that you ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 57 and married! Do you think he's using me or will he ever leave his wife?
Q. Am 17 and i have been going with a 57 year old married man for 6 months. We really love each other to bits, but i feel that he is never going to leave his wife for me! He says all the time that he wishes he doesnt have to leave me when hes going ...
A. 19 February 2007: He is using you & he has no plans of leaving his wife. He just tells you that so that you think that he actually cares about you & so that he can keep using you. He is way too old for you & should be in jail for what he is doing to you. I know ... (read in full...)
He was sleeping with people behind my back now he logs onto dating websites! What should I do!?
Q. hi cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years, and last year he told me he had been sleeping with people behind my back. After a period of time of not being together he told me he had been stupid and wanted me back. So i got back tog...
A. 19 February 2007: I think that if he cheated in the past he is bound to cheat again. If you bring up the dating website he will probably lie about it & say he never met anyone & make up a lame excuse, so you have to be strong & not fall for it. He is not good for ... (read in full...)
We aren't actually together but he lied to me! Should I confront him?
Q. Hi, Well im "seeing" this boy from school. Well, I'm not actually seeing him but i meet up with him sometimes and we have a cuddle and that but he has a gf! I feel really bad and a total fool. I met him today and he told me he had 2 go home earl...
A. 19 February 2007: He has a girlfriend. Your best bet would be to stop cuddling with this guy until he is single or you are going to get hurt. I don't think that you should ask him why he said he was going home & didn't. I think that you should just leave it alone ... (read in full...)
Am I falling for this guy??
Q. dear cupid, I am a 28 yr old female,married and have a 5 yr old son. One of my coworkers who is an extremly good looking guy started emailing me and i started emailing him back as a joke but didn't realize when things got serious and we actually ...
A. 19 February 2007: The relationship is not going to work out with this guy from work. He has a girlfriend and you are married. He is not going to fall in love with you knowing that you have a husband. He is going to see you as someone to sleep with and that is all. ... (read in full...)
Why does my fiance discuss things with her family without consulting me?
Q. Why does my fiance discuss things with her family and make decisions with them without even asking what i think or feel,i feel as if i dont exist,should i walk away as i know no matter what i say she will side with them and ignore me for days....
A. 18 February 2007: If this is bothering you then you need to sit down & talk to her about it. Let her know that it is important to you to be a part of the decision making & that things need to change. Tell her that you like the fact that she is close to her family & ... (read in full...)
She hasn't answered my messages on MSN? Why do you think this is?
Q. hi! there is this girl at my school and we have become good friends this year. we speak to each other in our classes and i will often walk her to her classes. in thie last week we haven't been at school for exam leave. i have left messages on her ...
A. 18 February 2007: It is easier for girls to talk to their girlfriends then it is for them to talk to a guy that they are interested in. Don't take offence if she hasn't responded to you yet. She could be trying to think of what to say. I think that you should stop ... (read in full...)
I believe I still love him, I'm just not IN love with him any more.
Q. Do I still love him? My husband was in a severe depression for the last 5 years. Then last May I told him I wanted to separate and he promised he would change back to the man I married. He has been trying severely and doing everything I asked, ...
A. 18 February 2007: If he has been depressed for 5 years after time, I am sure it gets old & it is obviously going to be easy for you to want to not be around him. People that are depressed are not fun to be around, so having those feelings are completely normal. I ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my cousin, should I tell her?
Q. hello agony aunts i have had a crush for my cousin for more than 2 years now and they are not going away, my problem now is that i have been dreaming about her and she is also going around my head 24/7, is this normal, as i have asked once but g...
A. 18 February 2007: I think that you have done your part by telling her in the past how you feel about her. She already knows that you are into her & if she changes her mind & decides that she likes you back, she will make the next move. If you ask her again you may ... (read in full...)
I think he's using me and cheating on me! What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing one have my friends i have no for a while and i think he is cheating on me or just using me what should i do? plez help me out i mean he dont tell me he loves me and he only kiss me 2 times and we have been seeing each other for a ...
A. 18 February 2007: All you can do is sit down & talk to him about it. Ask him how he feels about you. If you don't feel comfortable doing that then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with him. To be in a healthy relationship you should be able to trust ... (read in full...)
I have a perfect bf but out of no where I've started to think about my ex. Will this pass?
Q. I'll try to make this quick. I've been totally in love for the last year, moved in with my bf, started talking about marrige, everything was perfect. His BFF died 2 months ago. Since then I havent felt the same. I don't think he's really changed ...
A. 18 February 2007: It may be hard to not think about your ex since you did have a long relationship with him & he meant alot to you, but the fact of the matter is that he did cheat on you & you were smart & left him for it. You don't want to get hurt again, so ... (read in full...)
I get angry when my bf drops everything for his adult children and doesn't do the same for me! What can I do?
Q. i am dating an older man in his 60's. we have been dating 2years, 2 months. he is wonderful to me but he will not get engaged to me. however, if his two older children want him to do something or have a need, it only takes 1 minute for him to ...
A. 18 February 2007: I don't think that the relationship that he has with his kids has anything to do with the relationship that he has with you & I don't think that the two should be compared. I think that as a father he should be there for them & their needs & you ... (read in full...)
Is she being emotionally abusive? I'm beginning to think I'm the problem, what do I do here?
Q. I'm 26 and have been dating my gf (20) for 4/5 months now, known her (off and on) for 2 years, first 2 months were great, but things nosedived and have been progressively getting worse the last 3 months. First off she tries to make all my plans an...
A. 17 February 2007: You sound really unhappy & I think that it is time for you to move on. You shouldn't feel guilty for everything that you do. She is extreamly controlling & noone should have to put up with that. The longer that you put up with her, the more you ... (read in full...)
I lose it when I put on a condom...
Q. how can i keep an erection when wearing a condom because any other time it is fine?...
A. 17 February 2007: Believe it or not it is really common & is actually due to anxiety. Sometimes if you have your partner put the condom on you, stimulating you by hand as she does will fix the problem. Some people have to seek counceling to try & diminish their ... (read in full...)
I panic and freeze whenever my husband wants sex! What can I do?
Q. my husband and i split up last year for four months, i found the sexual part of the relationship difficult. we got back together, i thought it might be ok, i bleed each time we have intercourse and get pains, now my body goes into a panic at the ...
A. 17 February 2007: It sounds to me like you need to go and get checked out by a medical professional. Sometimes if you use lubrication it may help with the pain, but if you are bleeding & in alot of pain you may need to get treated.... (read in full...)
What do I do here? Do I stick with him or let him go for now?
Q. I am desperate for help. I am depressed and feel lost. I will try my best to make it short. I met a man 1 year ago, who was still living with his wife, and they had a very young baby. He fell out of love with her and was contemplating le...
A. 17 February 2007: I agree that if he is seperated from his wife then there should not be any reason to keep you a secret. Unless he isn't completely seperated from her. It sounds kind of fishy. I'd hate to see you being used. I am not saying that is the case ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm with wants to date other women, too! I'm uncomfortable with that. What should I do?
Q. Im new to the dating scene I guess, always been in a relationship. Right now, I'm dating one guy but to him it's okay for him to date other women. I'm not really comfortable with that. I'm sort of selfish when it comes to men I dont like to share ...
A. 16 February 2007: If he was open enough to tell you that he likes to date multiple people, no matter what you tell him... that is who he is. If you tell him that you are interested but you will only date him when he decides that he will only date you, the chances ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him after dating 2 weeks! I told him to ask me again in 5 months. Is this acceptable?
Q. last night my bf of 2 weeks asked me to marry him i said if he texts me every day and see me at least twice (long distance relationship) until july and gets me a nice ring he can ask me again and ill give him a answer that will make it 5 months of ...
A. 15 February 2007: You shouldn't be making a decision after dating someone long distence for 5 months & only seeing them a couple times to spend the rest of your life with them. I don't think that text messaging someone will allow you to get to know them the way that ... (read in full...)
My on/off again bf says he "appreciates" me and "needs" me - what does he mean?! He constantly cheated on me w/ his ex!
Q. Ive been with my bf for 2 yrs now. On and off. We break up alot, then get back together. We fight all the time about nothing. I found out he's been cheating on me with his ex. Don't know if i really believe her though, since we have never liked each ...
A. 15 February 2007: You have to figure out if you are okay dating someone who has a girl on the side or not. Most guys who cheat continue to cheat, and no matter what you say or do, it won't change who they are. You can just chose to ignore it and be fine with it, or ... (read in full...)
I found an old dating site profile of my gf - Is it inappropriate to bring up? I found it funny!
Q. Going through my old email messages I was searching for email my girlfriend once sent me with a phrase she uses for herself. I accidently hit the search web tab in Gmail and it came up with an old profile she had on a matchmaking site. At first I ...
A. 15 February 2007: As long as you don't sound like you were bothered by it, she shouldn't have a problem with it. Just tell her that you ran across it looking for an old email. You have been dating long enough that you should be able to laugh about it together. I ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to like my cousin's cousin? She's 12 and I'm 14.
Q. im 14 and thers this girl that i like. shes only 12. im writing to ask if this is ok. and also she is my cousins cousin. is this ok to....
A. 15 February 2007: There is nothing wrong with liking someone that is two years younger than you. As far as the cousin's cousin goes... If there is no blood relation to you, I don't see a problem. However, since you are only 14, there is a good chance that she is ... (read in full...)
How can I help my guy to get a higher sex drive?
Q. HI I am in a six month relationship with a 26yo professional male. Our relationship is ideal on a number of levels. We have great respect for one another and our interests and hobbies align perfectly. Socially our friends and family all get a...
A. 15 February 2007: The more open that you are with him the better that your sex life will become. Tell him what feels good. The more that you communicate your desires with him the more he will learn how to satisfy you. Also remember to ask him what feels good so ... (read in full...)
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