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We aren't actually together but he lied to me! Should I confront him?

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Question - (18 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

Well im "seeing" this boy from school. Well, I'm not actually seeing him but i meet up with him sometimes and we have a cuddle and that but he has a gf!

I feel really bad and a total fool. I met him today and he told me he had 2 go home early so i caught the bus just b4 he was supposed to be goin home but later on on msn a girl who we had been with, told me he stayed til 6! I was really upest that he'd lied 2 me and i dont know wat 2 do ! Shoud I confront him or just leave it?? plz help and do u think im going a bit over the top?? seeing as im not with him?? help me!!

*lyla*

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A female reader, luvme247 United States +, writes (19 February 2007):

luvme247 agony auntHe has a girlfriend. Your best bet would be to stop cuddling with this guy until he is single or you are going to get hurt. I don't think that you should ask him why he said he was going home & didn't. I think that you should just leave it alone & back off from him until he is available. Also, if you were his girlfriend, would you want him cuddling with someone else on the side? Think about that before hooking up with him.

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

maxsteel86 agony auntWell you said he has a girlfriend and you're not it. So unfortunately, he doesn't have to tell you who he's seeing even if he does cuddle with you

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A female reader, dollparts Canada +, writes (18 February 2007):

dollparts agony auntNo!hun your not over the top confront him! what he did was wrong! if you want to talk more about this just message me

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntI think he would probably see you interrogating him as slightly obsessive. Maybe he had something to do in that time, maybe he just needed to be by himself but even if you were his girlfriend you couldn't really call him on it. Try to relax and put your feelings for this guy to the back of your mind. He has a girlfriend so there's no way that you two can be together right now.

CD

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