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reader, kakaman  +, writes (5 March 2007):
kakaman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer. But I would like to point out that it was never my intention to embarrass her. I found it funny because she is funny and her profile reflected that. I think she is hilarious and some of her quizes and questions(on the profile) were gold. Also, I was not cyber snooping on her. I came upon that profile by accident while doing a search in my email. I had already decided on not bringing it up. I am just forgetting about it. I definitley do not want to be a DA or a DB or any combination of those letters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): Are you kidding? You think embarrassing her would be funny? You think she won't mind that you cyber snooped? DO NOT DO THIS. The chance that she will actually think its 'funny' is about 5% maybe. The chance that she will act like she also thinks its funny to save face (but really be mad and embarrassed) is about 60%. The other choice is she will go off on you. Don't be a DA
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reader, kakaman +, writes (16 February 2007):
kakaman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your responses. I think I will go with not telling her. It doesn't bother me at all and judging from how she has reacted to my inquiries in the past I would do best to forget about it.
Thanks again!
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reader, cd206  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 I would forget it. I believe you when you say you didn't intend to snoop but I doubt she'll see it like that. There's no reason to tell her and every reason not to so I would stick with the latter!
CD
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (15 February 2007):
 I think you'd probably be better served by just forgetting about it. Some things are better left alone. . . and I think this is one of them. She may not find the humor in your snooping.
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (15 February 2007):
 As long as you don't sound like you were bothered by it, she shouldn't have a problem with it. Just tell her that you ran across it looking for an old email. You have been dating long enough that you should be able to laugh about it together. I don't think that she will have a problem with it at all.
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