Will adding him as a friend on facebook make me seem desperate?
Q. well i have a crush on dis guy and he is there on facebook so you think should i add him?i hope this wont make him feel that i am desperate to talk to him?...
A. 11 March 2010: Did you have your picture up on facebook?
If not, add it and try again.
If your photo was up then you could send him a message saying you saw him a few times arround and wonder if he would like to get to know you. He will either run a mil... (read in full...)
I love my best friend's sister. Is she interested in me?
Q. i love my closest and bestfriend's sister where she is 1.5year younger than him and 2.5younger than me i feel like she love's me as much as i do to her i was @ there house sitting in my friend's room -he left to do something where i stayed...
A. 11 March 2010: It sounds as if she likes and even fond of you, love is a strong word and you will only know if that it is mutual love for sure after some time.
You could reply because it will be easier for me to express my feelings for you if your alone.
... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this? He is a serial cheater.
Q. I have been in this relationship for far too long. However, it has turned into a game with me feeling jealous for valid reasons but never being able to prove it, so I am always told I am controlling, jealous etc. To make a long story short, I d...
A. 11 March 2010: You need to get away from this guy, hes a wide boy and is just using you.
Just tell him you think is best if we didnt see each other anymore. If he asks why tell him you cant keep up with his lifestyle.... (read in full...)
How do I prevent him from wanting to end it?
Q. im 13 me and my bf have been going out for almost 2 months now.i realized dat hes a little horny all the time but is a little shy about feelings. we kiss a lot but i dont think he likes doing it. i feel like he is starting to loose interestt of me. ...
A. 11 March 2010: I dont think he loves you. He was after using you which is not good.
Find yourself a boyfriend who appreciates you, dont rush things and enjoy the time you spend together.
If a boy really loves you, he will go out of his way to make you happy.... (read in full...)
Is my relationship worth saving?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Before we met he was married, but his marriage broke up when he was caught cheating with a girl in his work. He claims he was unhappy in his marriage however and this led to the affair.In the early ...
A. 11 March 2010: Sorry to say but if a man cheats on his wife he will cheat on anybody.
Yes your right to be upset!... (read in full...)
Will adding him as a friend on facebook make me seem desperate?
Q. well i have a crush on dis guy and he is there on facebook so you think should i add him?i hope this wont make him feel that i am desperate to talk to him?...
A. 11 March 2010: No it doesnt make you desprate.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my girlfriend hitting me?
Q. My girlfriend has started hitting me lately when we argue. Any feedback on what I should do is much appreciated. We have been dating for over a year. We rarely fought during the first year. However, recently we have started fighting more. W...
A. 11 March 2010: You need to leave, it is not going to improve no matter how hard you try. She has a problem and you cant fix it, its a sign of things to come in the future.
Sorry, it sucks. Find yourself a girlfriend who appreciates you.... (read in full...)
Can a girl's physical imperfections drive guys away?
Q. This is something that bothers me a lot and makes me self-conscious. The thing is, I have an uneven nose. It's different on both sides (one side being better than the other), and from the front you can see that it's asymmetrical; one side of the ...
A. 11 March 2010: Looks dont matter when it comes to true love, guys accept their woman for the person they are.
If any guy wants you to change your apperance for them then walk away and find someone who appreciates you for you.... (read in full...)
I exercise and do sports constantly but can't seem to lose weight!
Q. Hi, Aunties! I'm in a great relationship with one of the best guys in the world. I'm beyond lucky to have him, and I love him very much. At only 16, I know that I'm going to be told I know nothing of love... And that's probably true, but I'm very...
A. 11 March 2010: Your obsessed with self image, if your boyfriend is telling you these things its because he loves you.
When someone really loves you it doesnt matter what you look like, they accept you for the person you are no matter what.
If you want to loos... (read in full...)
Constant emotional turmoil... how do I control myself?
Q. what happens in a relationship when a man and a woman get upset with each other practically every week? that is happening in my relationship and sometimes it scares me. because i want our special love to be forever. he has been saying to me that he ...
A. 11 March 2010: You need to look at why your changing your mood swings, is there a trigger? Is it a medical reason?
It sounds like he is not starting the upsets, but more reacting to your mood canges.
It can be hard for a guy to hear his girlfriend telli... (read in full...)
She slept with her ex 4 months ago... need advice please!
Q. Hi, first time poster... in desperate need of some advice. This time yesterday i was the happiest and most content i'd ever been with anyone, i truly believed i'd found that special person, to me she was perfect in every way. Today i'm stru...
A. 11 March 2010: Be careful, the ex could be trying to split you up with her so he can have her to himself.
Not saying this is the truth, but it is possible.... (read in full...)
He's really into me and wants a threesome!!!
Q. I have a boyfriend, we've only been together a month, but we're really into each other or at least I think he's really into me. I mean, he asked if I would participate in having a threesome. Not a normal threesome. He just wants to have 2 girls give ...
A. 11 March 2010: Its a good thing you found out when you did. It's jerks like this who give us guys bad publicity.
You should have kicked him in the nuts before you left. ... (read in full...)
I really love him, should I wait for him?
Q. Me and this guy have been txting for about three to four years now and i have liked him for seven. Things have just started getting somewhere with us but he has a girlfriend now (he hasnt cheated though) he tels me he doesnt love her and that he ...
A. 10 March 2010: I dont think he is trying to keep you sweet, if he loved the woman he is with now he wouldnt even be talking to you and certainly not mentioning leaving her.
Give him time, just keep casual contact with him.... (read in full...)
How can you get someone to notice you, aside from just going up to them?
Q. What's one of the best ways to get someone you love to notice you, or even better, date you? Now i know you'll probably say oh by going up to them, but i mean other than that....
A. 10 March 2010: Keep looking over at them, not a continous look, just a glancing look. If you make eye contact give them a smile.... (read in full...)
I told her friend a huge secret she told me in confidence.
Q. A couple days ago I betrayed my love in the worst possible way. She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 3 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her so-called friend...
A. 10 March 2010: Of course she doesnt want you anymore, you broke her trust in you.
A woman has to trust you for a relationship to work, drunk or not its not an excuse to blab her secret.
She may take you back when she calms down. Give her some space and time t... (read in full...)
What in the world does his comment mean?
Q. Have been involved with a man now for a little over 5 yrs and care for this man very much. I recently asked him if he was happy with what we have and he said that he was. I then went on to say if you're happy, comfortable, and getting your ne...
A. 10 March 2010: I agree with "Aunty BimBim" he knows he wants more but doesnt want to go for it for whatever reason.... (read in full...)
Would guys like a 19 year old virgin. Or would the innocence drive them away?
Q. How many people like me still a virgin? I mean as far as age goes..I'm not ashamed of it but here where I live there's very few girls who remain virgins. Reason being I just haven't found the right guy yet. I also wonder do guys usually like ...
A. 10 March 2010: Some guys would yes, but these are probably the type to avoid.
If a man really loves you he would not just want to be with you for sex. Theres so much more to a relationship than that and that kind man would not be driven away by innocenc... (read in full...)
Do I believe the 4 people who told me, or my friend?
Q. ok so my question is a little complicated, as in double sided. on the one hand, i'm avoiding some friends of mine because they are either trying to get with me or trying to set me up with one of their friends....it's taken me a long time to even be ...
A. 10 March 2010: It sounds like the friend who is blackmailing you is a complete bitch and not a friend.
I am sorry to hear you were raped. That must have been an awful experience. You must know that this is nothing to be ashamed of and you cant blame yourself... (read in full...)
I have been single for so long but want to start a new relationship. How do I go about doing this?
Q. i've been a single mum now for 10 years and with the exception of a brief relationship that went sour ive been single. recently a married guy who i have a crush on admitted he likes me and he asked me if he could kiss me as much as i wanted to i ...
A. 10 March 2010: Good on you, if this guy cheats on his wife he will cheat on anybody.
Try on-line dating, I found my girlfriend (well she found me) using this method. We have a great relationship together.... (read in full...)
What can I do for my 22nd birthday? My husband has to work.
Q. what can i do on my birthday?I'll be 22yrs my husband ask his boss for the day off but she said noooo....so what can i do for my birthday while my husband is at work plz plz dont say anything bad becuz i'm a good wife/mother and hate lim...
A. 10 March 2010: Cant your husband meet you for lunch?
Treat yourself to a spa day or makeover day, pamper yourself.
Hope you have a good birthday!... (read in full...)
I want to leave my marriage to pursue another as I am NOT happy...
Q. My husband was unfaithful to me when I was pregnant nearly 8 years ago and right up until I found out when my child was a toddler. We worked through things, have amazing sex now, he genuinely cannot get enough of me, I am early 40's but I have ...
A. 10 March 2010: I would take a long hard look at what you have before persuing somthing based on a crush.
Also its not good to assume you know a persons private life just because they come from the same place as you.
Not having a go at you, but just think a... (read in full...)
I know I'm not in love with him... should I leave him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have a 4 year old daughter together but I'm not in love with him anymore and I can't decide if I should stay or go. To everyone else we have the perfect relationship which we do but it's not what I ...
A. 10 March 2010: Have you tried talking to him, letting him know your not happy anymore, how your feeling?
Write a list of the good things you have with him vs the negitive things / problems. Look at each one in turn and give yourself clear reasons why.
Dont ju... (read in full...)
One ring and he hung up but from the caller ID it was HIM!
Q. Okay here it is I haven't heard from him for over a year and last time I told him I still loved him he kind of got really annoyed. Then I sent him various text messages till six months ago when I stopped coz he would either not reply or reply l...
A. 10 March 2010: It may be something as simple has he misdialled on his phone but I doubt that.
He probably wants you to phone him back. If he wants to contact you again then he will, just leave it a little longer and see what happens.... (read in full...)
Is he like all others, does he actually like me and that's why he was nervous?
Q. Whenever I ask questions on here, i only get 1 or 2 answers and sometimes they dont help. So im going to do my best to tell you everything. 2010, fresh start.. This year I decided to be a different and better person. And oh my god, its worked ...
A. 10 March 2010: Only time will show you if he really likes you and visa versa.
Did you talk back with him or let him do all the talking.
Communication in relationships has to work both ways, see if he sits by you again the next day, if he avoids you then ... (read in full...)
Why has he started being nice to me again? And what was all that about with the phone call???
Q. ok this may be be a strange thing to ask, i was kinda seing this guy, slept with him twice, second time i slept with him he got this text and he didnt reply he said dont worry its only natalie And i replyed to him by saying is natalie your gf, he s...
A. 10 March 2010: He’s has realised he’s been a jerk; I doubt it was another girlfriend on the text because he wouldn’t have told you about it if she was.
He was angry that you doubted him and has calmed down now.
If he just uses you for sex then get rid of ... (read in full...)
What gives? Why is she behaving this way???
Q. I am in a long distance relationship. I'm confused bout my gf. she acts weird sometimes. We both really love each other but nowadays she gets annoyed with me very easily... without letting me know the reason, and then she will tell me later... ...
A. 10 March 2010: What does she tell you she was annoyed about? I suspect that she thinks your cheating on her.... (read in full...)
She slept with her ex 4 months ago... need advice please!
Q. Hi, first time poster... in desperate need of some advice. This time yesterday i was the happiest and most content i'd ever been with anyone, i truly believed i'd found that special person, to me she was perfect in every way. Today i'm stru...
A. 10 March 2010: No woman is perfect, she done wrong and now its been playing on her mind for the last 4 months which is why she told you. Its about making herself feel better.
Take a short break from the relationship to get your thoughts together, tell her your... (read in full...)
I've lost the love of my life, how do I get him back?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now and a week ago he left me. He was living with me in my place, and when he left in the morning he kissed me and said have a great day what time do you work today...When I came home there was a "dear ...
A. 10 March 2010: You do sound genuinely sorry.
You have already admitted you have a problem with the drink and you know you need help, that’s the first biggest step.
A Psychologist is a good start; there are also free support groups, just browse the inter... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by joining the marines?
Q. I'm going through some issues I'm going to join the marine corp in a year after I complete highschool and I'm not sure if I should go into a relationship would it be worth it I'm 5'3" and joining so im short never get the girls and recently I'm...
A. 10 March 2010: You sound like a decent guy, if joining the marines is what you truly want then go for it.
It will open your eyes and take you to places you never dreamt of.
The only thing with starting a relationship before you leave is you wont have a soli... (read in full...)
I've lost the love of my life, how do I get him back?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now and a week ago he left me. He was living with me in my place, and when he left in the morning he kissed me and said have a great day what time do you work today...When I came home there was a "dear ...
A. 10 March 2010: The only way to get this man back is change your own life.
You forced him to go, he didnt leave you.
This guy loves you and he has tried his best to put up with you and finally cant take anymore.
Let him know your sorry and are going to d... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still doesn't have a job after 7 months....
Q. Hello all, I have been going out with a guy for over 2 years now. We both went to the same college, in fact we met here. I have less than 1 one year left but he graduated this past August. It has been 7 months and he hasn't gotten a job yet. At ...
A. 10 March 2010: No your not being selfish, he has to want help to get help, you cant fix this for him. Just support and encourage him without nagging.
Do some research yourself into his illness and see what you can find out, it may give you a better understa... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he wants this break, its so out of the blue!
Q. My bf of a year and a half get along great, we never fight and are always really happy together. Our families get along and his family loves me and my family loves him. When I say we never fight... we never, ever, fight. People thing we have a model ...
A. 10 March 2010: It sounds like he wants to have some serious thinking time about the direction of where your relationship is going, maybe he wants to propose to you but needs time to think it over.
I think he does love you very much and I suspect he will com... (read in full...)
I'm getting paranoid that I could be pregnant!
Q. I am on birth control, i just had my period, i get it on tuesdays and it lasts till sunday at the most. well now its wednesday, my period went away on sunday but now i am bleeding a little again? this has never happened to me, am i paranoid? my f...
A. 10 March 2010: Theres other reasons why you could miss your period, if your unsure get a test done.... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or have I really fallen in love with a married man?
Q. i like a man who is 10 years my senior. he told me that he always quarrel with his wife . both of us are married with children. when he look at me i try to escape his eyes for fear that i might give myself away. he doesnt know that i like him. so ...
A. 10 March 2010: Sorry to say it’s a crush.
Even if you want to destroy your own marriage why destroy this guy’s marriage and life?
Quarrels and disagreements are inevitable in a relationship; if it’s strong it will survive them. Looks dont even come into i... (read in full...)
Is it ok for us to be together when I am nearly 16 and she is only 13?
Q. Im 15, 16 in may, Iv got a very close friend who is only 13 turning 14. I like her she she likes me back is it ok for use to be an "item'/together? what are your thoughts?...
A. 10 March 2010: There is nothing wrong with and age diffrence in a relationship, however her parents may disagree.
Use common sense, avoid sex etc... until your both old enough and are both ready, even then take care.... (read in full...)
He's giving me mixed signals! Is he just being friendly or does he like me?
Q. There's this guy and he's giving me mixed signals! I catch him staring at me sometimes, and he's always friendly and saying hello, and he always gives me his fave foods when he has them. And he's ALWAYS teasing me. It sounds like he like me, but I ...
A. 10 March 2010: Yes he likes you a lot.
He is flirting with you right now, trying to find out if your intereste in him. Dont worry about the twitter thing, it's in the past.
If you like him too then have a talk with him ask him would he like to go out for a ... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance with him? I get the feeling this could be too good to be true
Q. We've been dating three weeks he says that he knows I'm the one he will marry, he's been divorced 9 years. We share Worldview and our basic values are similar. His invited me to meet his family and friends. I feel like I'm being seduced is it too ...
A. 10 March 2010: He may well be genuine, but 3 weeks is a little soon to start meeting family and friends.
On saying that everyone is different, relationships move at different paces. It may give you a better insight into his life by meeting his family and frie... (read in full...)
Why does my husband still want sex from me if we have been separated for 3 years?
Q. why does my husband want sex from me if we have been separated 3 years now and says he wants a divorce? we have 4 beautiful children together and he says he wants a divorce because i cheated on him. i take full responsability for what i've done. we ...
A. 10 March 2010: Hes using you and wants to control you.... (read in full...)
There have been a few small signs of agression towards me, do I walk away or give him one final chance?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been getting on exceptionally well and he is positive about our future together. He has made me so happy and is a loving caring person, i couldnt have asked for more. I cant stress how good this relationship was. HOWEVER, ...
A. 10 March 2010: There should be no excuse for agression at all.
Does he remember these things the next day? He needs professional help, you cant help him. He has to admit he has a problem first.
Its not your place to be a punchbag for him. You should be ve... (read in full...)
I cant sleep! Does anyone have any advice?
Q. Basically i cant sleep at all. The doctor reckons its aniexty and ive been put on calming pills, which dont work. I could take louds of sleeping pills and still lie awake. Some nights i do sleep. its totally random. But i feel tired but my mind will ...
A. 10 March 2010: Go back to your doctor and explain the pills are not working.
Insomnia can be cause by lots of reasons stress, pain, trauma, illness, emotions, PTSD, or recurring thoughts.
Do you feel anxious while awake during the day? It may be better to... (read in full...)
How do I break up with someone that was never my boyfriend in the first place?
Q. I have been seeing the same guy for the past 6 months. We go on dates, hook up, etc. and he contacts me every single day. We are not officially dating though and honestly, i'm tired of wasting the energy into something that doesn't seem to be going ...
A. 10 March 2010: Dont ignore him, he obviously likes you. Tell him its nothing personal but you need some space of your own.
If you want to stay just friends with him, tell him that you would like to stay freinds otherwise tell him you need a clean break. ... (read in full...)
He is a liar but I cant prove anything
Q. theres a guy at work who ive become very good friends with and am fond of. however very recently ive noticed hes been lying to me a lot which hurts because we get on well together and i though he trusted me but lately my intuition has been bugging ...
A. 10 March 2010: He is probably fantasising. Trust your instinct it will be right 99.9% of the time.
Stop buying the coffee, make an excuse you have left your purse at home, see what his reaction is.
If he can’t afford a few quid for the coffee then fina... (read in full...)
He's really into me and wants a threesome!!!
Q. I have a boyfriend, we've only been together a month, but we're really into each other or at least I think he's really into me. I mean, he asked if I would participate in having a threesome. Not a normal threesome. He just wants to have 2 girls give ...
A. 9 March 2010: Hes in fantasy land. Dont do this unless its really what you want to do.
He says to you he doesnt want to see anyone else having sex with you, just tell him thats how you feel about it, you dont want to see anyone else having sex with him (oral in... (read in full...)
I really love him, should I wait for him?
Q. Me and this guy have been txting for about three to four years now and i have liked him for seven. Things have just started getting somewhere with us but he has a girlfriend now (he hasnt cheated though) he tels me he doesnt love her and that he ...
A. 7 March 2010: There should be a whole lot more to a relationship than just sex so I suspect its more than just the bedroom.
Its good he hasnt cheated on her which shows he is loyal, so yes he may be worth waiting for but if hes not free within 6 months then mov... (read in full...)
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