British women...
Q. Why are britsh women nearly always subtle... not like foreign women who dont beat around the bush (no pun intended) and get straight to the point.... would certainly make life a lot easier!!...
A. 11 August 2010: There not all subtle, it depends on the woman. Maybe the british are more reserved?
You need to start reading the signals and signs the woman is giving off.... (read in full...)
He's too young to have ED!!!
Q. Okay so, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a couple months. Things started off a little rocky, but we came through it and we're very much in love. We've had fights, but we were able to work through them. The only issue I'm really h...
A. 11 August 2010: If he has managed in the past but not now then it could just be anxiety or stress.
Viagra may help but it can be expensive.
Try more foreplay also rather than jumping into the main act.... (read in full...)
Testicular trauma
Q. I don't like sex as much as I want to because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality that even affects my physical appearance to the world. In what ways to you thin...
A. 11 August 2010: Its affecting your life because you are letting it. Theres a lot more to relationships than just sex.... (read in full...)
Too self conscious of my body to really enjoy sex!
Q. Heyy :).. i been with my boyfriend for a long time, and our sex life isnt bad, i just want to make it more exciting, but im too scared becos of my body. i know my boyfriend loves my body and doesnt care, where as i do, and i dont like trying n...
A. 11 August 2010: Its all about mind control, you need to focus on relaxing more. It takes practice but once you can relax more you should start enjoying it.
As for the pain, try more lubrication such as KY jelly.... (read in full...)
Scared of sex but wanting a child, can I become pregnant by injecting my husband's semen?
Q. I am scared of proper sex and in my house everyone want baby, So my husband fill his sperm in a dropper and put it in my vagina..........is it possible that in this way i can become pregnant?...
A. 11 August 2010: Short answer is yes its possible. Look at IVF websites for more information.... (read in full...)
Does this relationship sound right to you?
Q. I'm in a 6 month relationship with a girl who i'm crazy about... however the way our relationship runs i don't like a single bit. See she has school in the mornings on weekdays and for some reason don't want to work in seeing me after school, and ...
A. 11 August 2010: It sounds like she is going off you or getting bored with the relationship. For it to work there has to be communication from both sides and contact if not in person at least by phone or email.
Try breaking it off for a while, if she doesnt c... (read in full...)
Is my baby's father my husband or my boyfriend?
Q. I am married but I had sex with my boyfriend on march 27,2010 and on april 26,2010 i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant is my baby for my boyfriend? I didnt have sex with my husband until the april 30,2010. Can you please help me....
A. 11 August 2010: Depends if you had sex with your husband before your boyfriend then it still could be his. But its likley its your boyfriends.
The only true test is a DNA but soon you will need to answer questions to both men or live a lie for your life.
... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me?
Q. Ok so I think this guy likes me, let call him M, so M and I went out like 2 years ago. So we were walking home one day and this kid kept bugging me about why this other kid broke up with me, so M told him to shut the f**k up about it and he was ...
A. 11 August 2010: I think its pretty safe to say he likes you, but be careful he just doenst want to use you.... (read in full...)
My wife's femdom life!
Q. hi, i am househusband, ghar jamai to my wife. She is breadwinner in our family. Her parents have kept enough money for her. She doesn't allow me to do job. I am her male wife. Doing all her house work and leave as her slave. she has made me wear ...
A. 10 August 2010: What are you a man or a mouse? Your being used.... (read in full...)
Is there any hope for me? I feel like I'm never going to get over this heartbreak
Q. I just don't know what's wrong with me anymore. Almost 5 years ago, I had (still have) a unrequited crush on a girl. Now, not just any girl. She was different. After getting to know her, I thought about her all the time. Everytime I saw her, s...
A. 10 August 2010: In reality your obsessive over her, in my humble opinion you need to get out and find someone else. It will help you forget about her and move on to become a stronger person.... (read in full...)
Do u think that I should continue talking to my ex even though its obvious my boyfriend is my choice?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend have been talking and friends. He called me one time a couple weeks ago. Every time I try and talk like friends he always says he misses me. I really don’t believe he does miss me because he would try to win me back. He really ...
A. 10 August 2010: I think you should focus on your new boyfriend, he obviously loves you. Your ex will move on in time as will you.... (read in full...)
True love? Or just a phase?
Q. Ok well i want some advice on this please and i hve a question as well. My girlfriend and i have been together for over 13 months. We love each other to an extreme that makes my heart feel like it's going to explode. She feels the same i know she ...
A. 10 August 2010: Its great your feeling love, but if your feeling like you describe then your still in the infactuation phase.
I hope it lasts for you just go with the flow and dont make any rush decisions.
If you two are really meant to be with each other ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to find a girl in a male dominated industry?
Q. I know they say don't look for a girlfriend but how am I suppose to find a girlfriend when I'm in a male dominated industry like engineering. I'm 22 and have one year left at uni so I'm still young and I recognise the problem (and also I'm not ...
A. 10 August 2010: Does your future girlfriend have to be an engineer? They do exist but maybe not as many as men.
Maybe try on-line dating instead? If you do meet a woman dont talk about technical stuff you will bore her silly. Listen to her, treat her right bu... (read in full...)
I am against pre-marital sex but I am super horny! How can I control my urges?
Q. im fourteen and a virgin and i dont belive in pre marital sex. i have a boyfriend who i have actually been with since were were 11 and now im a freshman. . the issue with my no pre martial sex thing is that im like super super horny and im worried ...
A. 10 August 2010: At your age your body is changing, new feelings and urges are part of life. There are other ways to relieve pressure without resorting to having underage sex.
Just dont do anything you will regret later in life.... (read in full...)
She gets mad at me if she thinks there is anything going on with another girl, yet she is the one that is engaged!
Q. I am madly in love with a girl. She is perfect in every way. We're really good friends and spend a lot of time together. The only problem is that shes engaged and she says she doesnt wanna break it off with him until shes sure we'll work out. She ...
A. 10 August 2010: She sounds a bit possessive. I would question yourself do you really want to be with someone like that?
Also if she cheats on her own fiance then she will pretty much cheat on anyone else too.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend didn't introduce me to her friends, should I be upset?
Q. hi guys i just wanna know your opinion about this see my girlfriend and i went to a wedding of her friend. it was all good and steady but when we were about to leave, and as we approached the couple, she chit chatted with her and of course ...
A. 10 August 2010: Common courtesy should have kicked in with your girlfriend to at least introduce you.
It may be she was caught up in conversation so it slipped her mind but its not nice to be ignored.
How does she refer to you with other people.
One o... (read in full...)
What should I tell my brother?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up awhile ago. We were together for a few years. I am in my mid twenties. My parents know because i was really upset. For some reason, rather than tell my brother who lives close by i have just pretended everything is the ...
A. 10 August 2010: Honesty is always best. Dont be afraid of telling your brother anything.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has turned all distant...
Q. hey, ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years, hes been distancing himself a lot lately, but hes always been quite a distant person. I texed him to ask him what was going on and bluntly asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he replied 'im ...
A. 10 August 2010: Simply he has either met some else or hes going off you.
Or he may have had a one night stand and now doesnt know how to tell you.
You should try a break up and give him and you time to think.
Communication is key to a lasting relationshi... (read in full...)
Girl I met while travelling... or my girlfriend. Who to choose?
Q. I have just come back from travelling for 10 days. Before setting off i had a girlfriend of two months, Whilst travelling i spent an awful lot of time with another girl on the same trip. I feel very strong about her and now im not with her i miss ...
A. 10 August 2010: You need to try and seperate infactuation from love here.
Also think about the reality of if you carry on the relationship with the girl you met on the trip, could you travel to see her if you started a relationship?
Do you see any future f... (read in full...)
Is this just the end of infatuation or really true love?
Q. Is this true love? Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, but just recently we broke up. I felt sick and she said that she cried a lot. I know I want her back, but I have the feeling that I should let her go and live her life and let ...
A. 10 August 2010: If you both want to be with each other and make each other happy then stay, if you let her go then you may end up regreting it later.
You could also break up and stay friends.
Time apart can often bring a relationship closer because of the t... (read in full...)
Does she just want attention and nothing else?
Q. How do u know if a girl likes you how long should u wait to ask her out? How do u handle guys flirting with her when ur not dating yet? I met this 13 year old girl about 2 weeks ago through her friend wich I dated for a day then we both realized we ...
A. 10 August 2010: Just think up fun places to go and ask her if she would like to come with you. If she always makes excuses not to go then she is not interested.
You really need to get to know her as a friend first before rushing in and holding hands, kissing ... (read in full...)
Do I scare my boyfriends away or do I just pick the wrong type of man?
Q. ive recently just split up with my boyfriend and ever since ive been really upset not just because he left me but also because i get the feeling i scare my boyfriends away. My parents are very strict so im limited to certain things, a few of my ex's ...
A. 5 August 2010: Its probably your just not compatible. Dont rush in to any relationship unless you are 100% sure its always better to take time and get to know the other person better.
If they left you then they could not have truly loved you for who you are.
... (read in full...)
Best friend's crush isn't interested in her. Should I let her know?
Q. My best friend has a crush and she is crazy about him. He is a very good friend and I asked him if he liked her and he said 'omfg no!' And my friend knows I asked him. Should I tell her?...
A. 5 August 2010: No dont tell her, you have to let her find out herself. If you tell her she may end up resenting you. Just be there for her if and when it all goes wrong.
You cant 100% rely on friends of friends giving you the correct information, some guys say... (read in full...)
Never had sex, now have the opportunity with a hot girl who I don't love. Should I go for it or save myself?
Q. I'm very uncertain about this one particular circumstance coming up for me. Let me explain... I'm 17. I've lived abroad my entire life. I've never had sex, I've never kissed a girl. The supposed reason is this; where I live, the women have a par...
A. 5 August 2010: Its a bit of a moral dilemma, if you do then your just using her but if she is a stereotypical girl then she would be expecting that.
I think if your having these sorts of questions then your not ready for this, but if you do go ahead make sur... (read in full...)
Curiosity about men's sexual organs
Q. Hello! I have a few questions about men [physically]. I know men have erections when they see a pretty woman. But I have a few questions that I want clarified and confirmed. 1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented? 2.] Men usually talk...
A. 5 August 2010: 1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented?
The official rank of the largest penis belongs to a man measured and documented by Dr. Robert Dickinson in the earlier part of the twentieth century. This record-holding penis was 13.5 inches i... (read in full...)
I went to school with him, I'm interested, and want to see him, How can I approach him?
Q. Hello, Iam interested in man we actually went to the same school but we havent met for a long time . I have met his brother recently. So my question is i found out he opened a office for education services near my house. So i was wondering should g...
A. 5 August 2010: Well if you went to school together youve allready got a way in for a talking point. You should try and find out about him, he may be in a relationship already.
You could go along with the pretense of finding out about the education then suddly u... (read in full...)
I was a player in the past, I've cheated on my girl twice and just don't know if we should be together
Q. Hi please refer to me as N3m0. I need help in a couple of areas in my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I need help figuring out wether i love her as much as when i first started going out with her. I had a girlfriend ...
A. 5 August 2010: hi N3m0, the thing is 2 years really isnt that long in terms of a relationship. Your probably feeling crap on cheating on her because you really do love this one.
Try a role reversal here, really think how you would feel if your girlfrie... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 5 August 2010: You could just trying too hard.
You should both try refraining from sex for a week and dont focus on your goal of becoming pregnant as it will add to stress and expectation. Don’t get disillusioned either and never give up hope.
If you still ... (read in full...)
My jealousy makes me furious at my BF, I need help!
Q. Hello, I get extremely sad, angry, and jealous when my boyfriend looks at other women. Its not that he stares, an attractive woman can walk by on the street and i would feel the same way. Even if we are watching a movie and a sex sence comes up w...
A. 5 August 2010: You have to realise there is a big difference between looking and physical actions. I dont know of any guys who wouldnt look at another woman but it doesnt mean to say they dont love their partners.
Unless your boyfriend is trying to go over and... (read in full...)
Is this website my fiance is using just a porn site or is it a chat site?
Q. Hi, I'm marrying my man on August 30th this year.... I've noticed in his internet history (recent) that he uses 'Stream Mate' which is live porn, and wondered if anyone can tell me if this is a chat place, or can it be used solely to watch? I'm n...
A. 4 August 2010: As far as I know its a watching thing, but messages can be sent but not like a real time chat, more like email.
A lot of guys in and out of relationships watch porn and it doesnt mean to say he is unfaithful to you.
If your worried ask him ... (read in full...)
3 times I've asked him to go out but he always cancels!
Q. I met this guy on my birthday at the resort we were staying at (he works there) well that night we kinda hit it off and we talked for hours well then he went home but we stayed up til 3 a.m. texting. The next day we hung out and had a lot of fun! ...
A. 2 August 2010: He may just like you as a person but is not really in to you or he has other commitments (wife? girlfriend? family?).... (read in full...)
How do I not get too caught up in love?
Q. I am currently in my first serious relationship in a while and have had to acknowledge to myself that I am completely addicted to it. Time spent away due to holidays etc. is completely torture and I find myself sobbing at the thought of my boyfriend ...
A. 2 August 2010: Your going through the infactuation stage it will get better but you have to give it time. If he is really the one for you then you will have a lifetime to spend together so 2 weeks really is not a big deal.
He will come to his own conclusi... (read in full...)
I feel unloved and useless ever since we have moved in together
Q. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years, we have always argued due to my insecurites, his ex, work mates and the amount of time he spends with his family rather than with me but since we have moved in i feel that i have become more ...
A. 2 August 2010: Good relationships should give each other independance as well as time together. Maybe it was too soon to move in?
You could try taking a break away from each other and see if that helps? But talk it through first and give your reasons for taki... (read in full...)
Is the age difference between me and my future wife too big?
Q. i am 28 years an i will marry a girl younger than me by 7 years she is 21 ,is the age difference large or it is a normal age difference? ...
A. 2 August 2010: No the age gap really has nothing to do with it as long as your both happy in the relationship.
Just dont rush into anything until you are both 100% sure and by you asking this question it shows your not sure.
Give the relationship tim... (read in full...)
My best friend is moving on short notice. How do I deal with it?
Q. [Mod Note: Partially OP's own title] My best friend is moving really soon and I just found out. I don't know what to do without her? I didn't cry when she told me but it just hit me that I won't get to see her everyday anymore. We have been friends ...
A. 2 August 2010: Keep in touch with her by email and phone if possible, theres no reason why you cant stay friends. When your older you can go and meet up again for short visits.
Your young and will have other friends as you get older.
I have friends the othe... (read in full...)
Please try to explain her text message to me??
Q. What did my girlfriend mean by this? let me explain, so I was kind of clingy before, I have done really well since we had a discussion about it, I said I would not text no where near enough as I used to!, its been 3 days (we dont live together) ...
A. 2 August 2010: Sounds like she is getting bored with your relationship. Try not texting for 3 weeks and see what she says. Sometimes taking a longer break can help.... (read in full...)
Is love at first sight possible??
Q. Do you beleve in love at first sight?...
A. 2 August 2010: Yes its possible, but infactuation is also possible. Time will give you the answer you need.... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of this guy??
Q. I think this guy might be obsessed with me. He told me he wanted to marry me and take me away on holidays when he first met me, and recently, i pretended that this other guy was my boyfriend, just to get this guy off my back , and the guy who i ...
A. 2 August 2010: Hes infactuated with you, it will die off eventually. It depends on if you have any feelings for him at all. Dont be pressured you have your own mind.
Its possible hes never had a real girlfriend before too so doesnt know how to react.
He prob... (read in full...)
Any suggestions as to how we rekindle our love??
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I are at a point in our 3 year relationship where it is make or break. Things have been going slowly down hill for a while and the situation has come to a head. She is not sure of the extent of her feelings for me an...
A. 2 August 2010: It may help you both to take a break from each other, it could be the little things you didn’t do while living together, but it’s about sharing and compromising.
Give her time alone to think what she wants to do and you think too you will either b... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these feelings of jealousy?
Q. Hi, I am with my boyfriend for the last year and a half and am madly in love with him, he feels the same way. The problem is he is still friends with one of his ex girlfriends, she doesnt get in touch very often but I always feel a bit freaked ...
A. 2 August 2010: I can see your reasons for feeling insecure I probably would be if the role was reveresd and an ex boyfriend contacted my girlfriend.
Its down to trust, how much you trust him. Only when you fully trust him will the feelings go away.... (read in full...)
Help! I am befriending my lover's wife, should I stop??
Q. I am befriending my lovers WIFE....opinions? comments? ...
A. 2 August 2010: It depends what you mean by befrending, if you mean you like the person she is as a friend then theres nothing wrong with that. If your thinking of wreaking her marriage then you should think again.
Just suppose she does cheat on her husband ... (read in full...)
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