Why won't my boyfriend Fench Kiss me?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for eleven months, we have a great relationship, very much in love, great sex life. We love foreplay, sex, oral sex (both for me and him). We're so close but there's one thing he will not do and that is French Kiss. ...
A. 28 October 2010: Your right it does get better with practice, it may well just be him thinking he is no good at it or as he says he doesnt like it, not everyone does.
Maybe you should try and take the lead?... (read in full...)
How do I become a stronger person?
Q. I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do?...
A. 28 October 2010: Personality is what makes you unique, if he took it the wrong way then it sounds like communication is the break down.
Time is a wonderful healer, take a little break and try contacting him again.
If it cant be salvaged then pick yourself up... (read in full...)
She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...
Q. Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...
A. 26 October 2010: Well if she has done things you want to try before then give in and grant her wish. A relationship is about give and take, it may be a turn on to her its not as if you will hurt her by doing that - just try and avoid her eyes aparantly it hurts like ... (read in full...)
Retracting foreskin of penis?
Q. I'm 17; I can't retract the foreskin of my penis for my head to show up.. Well I sometimes can, but i'm afraid to pull the skin below the head because it is so tight i'm afraid it won't go back over the head :s And it's quite hard to get it pull dow...
A. 26 October 2010: The foreskin is stretchy, if you can pull it down over the penis then it will go back when the erection subsides.
If it is painful then you may need a small circumcision operation you should see your doctor in this case.
Try lubricating the ... (read in full...)
How do I become a stronger person?
Q. I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do?...
A. 26 October 2010: It depends on the kind of person you are. For me being honest with myself allows me to be honest with others, admit mistakes and know your only human and faith in taking risks helps me succeed.
Life is full of taking risks it really is not down... (read in full...)
All the girls just want to be my friend!
Q. Ive been searching for agirlfriend quiet sometime but no luck they keep saying they want me to be their friend but i had a girlfriend before just that she's sturbon and also she threaten everyone that i meet so what must i do...
A. 19 October 2010: You need to be more confident about meeting girls, dont always choose just because you think there is no one else.
Dont give up trying.... (read in full...)
I can't believe that my ex fell out of love with me so easily!
Q. I was in my last relationship for almost 8 years. I had a child with him within the 7th year we were together, of and on. When my child was 3 month, I moved out because I was stressed with all the problems we were having. I moved out with the ...
A. 13 October 2010: Maybe he fell out of love a long time before, maybe he found someone else well before the break up or maybe its just a rebound reaction and it wont last.
I am guessing rebound love, its the worst kind and people just end up getting hurt more.... (read in full...)
What is with her emails?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me one month ago. She did this all the time for one entire year, so is a usual behaviour she has eveytime I point her mistakes. She never says "I'm sorry". Instead she says "I don't want this relationship anymore". But be...
A. 13 October 2010: You need to move on from her and find someone who appreciates you.
She is trying to play mind games with you and control you - dont let her win that. Love and relationships should not be about games but sadly they are for a lot of people. ... (read in full...)
Is he interested anyway?
Q. A guy I met is in the band with my cousin at a university where the band is really popular and busy. Said guy and I were introduced by my very overprotective cousin at an event and guy asked my cousin for my number. Have seen guy a few times since ...
A. 12 October 2010: I suspect your cousin is controlling it somewhere. If a guy really likes a girl, no matter how busy he is he would make 5 minutes to call.... (read in full...)
How can I say "I love you" to my ex when I'm dating someone else?
Q. My ex said he likes being single and he wants to go back to that but we only broke up 3 days ago. I'm dating my best friend right now and it's great so far but I miss my ex. He said that he wants to get back together in a few years. Now he's like ...
A. 12 October 2010: Just try and forget about it, if you keep dwelling on it its going to ruin your current relationship and friendship.
You may feel different yourself with time. Your ex may have moved on and found someone else by then or you might be deeper i... (read in full...)
Is this a male thing or or does he some weird issue ....
Q. Ugh !! I am really confused. I have been with B for 3 years , we broke up ( over stupid issues that we are both correcting) but continued to date , we go out once or twice a week and talk daily . He tells me he loves me . The problem I have when I ...
A. 12 October 2010: He may not be fully in love with you yet or he may be insecure with some issues in your relationship.
Give it some time, dont mention relationship status for a while. You can make a decision later if you want to stay in the relationship or not.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this crazy girl who wont leave me alone?
Q. Ok have a problem I got a girl trying to re-add me on facebook she dosnt seem to get the hint after all the trouble she has caused by saying and doing nasty things she has pushed altogether 3 friends away and 2 mates against each other . I've given ...
A. 12 October 2010: First off, check your privacy settings on facebook, make your profile available to friends / networks only. Next look her profile up and block her, she wont be able to contact you again then.
If she contacts you via other means just ignore i... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is confused whether he loves me or his ex-girlfriend
Q. my boyfriend is confused whether he loves me or his ex-girlfriend - we are dating for a month now but he can't seem to get over his EX-girlfriend... they were in a relationship for 6 years n after that she has left him for another guy... i...
A. 12 October 2010: Its common what your going through, it really depends on if he is comitted to a relationship with you or elsewhere.
If he is not focused on your own relationship then it may be time to get out before it gets more serious and hard to break it off. ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to tell someone you love them?
Q. When is the right time to tell someone you love them? I've been with my new bf for 2 months, and I feel I've fallen in love with him. I wasn't expecting too, and wasn't looking for a relationship when I met him, but he is truly lovely. He tells ...
A. 12 October 2010: You tell someone you love them when you know you mean it, theres no right or wrong time.... (read in full...)
First Time Oral Sex And Worried About A Smell
Q. hi im Ellz im 17 Hey Agony aunts and Uncles i need some advice! Ok so my bf and i have had sex before and ive given him oral before but hes never done it too me, And im worried, i keep 100% shaven down there anyway but im worried about mayb...
A. 11 October 2010: Just have a shower before the event, you will be fine.... (read in full...)
The sex is great but I can't stand him!
Q. ive been with my b/f for 5yr. the sex is great,but the rest of the time where together i can not stand him he bothers me,what should i do...
A. 8 October 2010: Simply put Move On. Sex is not a meaningful relationship, there are other guys out there who will be able to fulfill your sexual desire as well as relationship.... (read in full...)
Is my body normal?
Q. Hi, im 15 years old.I love my body, short,small breasts,wide hips, that stuff. Theres just one thing that bugs me, my clit.i dont know how to explain, but it sticks out like its big.you know what i mean? Its always been like that since i started ...
A. 8 October 2010: You probably need diffent womans opinions, but what I can say is different women I have been with do vary in their cliterous size so I would say your perfectly normal.
If its not causing you discomfort then don’t worry about it.
... (read in full...)
I want to go out with a boy who's only 11?
Q. i like this boy who is younger than me by 2 years. i am 13 and he is 11. i really like him and we are now going out but all my friends think its wrong to go out with a boy that is younger than me. i dont know what to do. what should i do?...
A. 8 October 2010: At the end of the day, its your life dont let your friends choose for you. If you both like each other then its really no big deal.... (read in full...)
We argue alot after sex! Is it because I'm not satisfied?
Q. I have a problem in my relationship which is really starting to get to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. He is loving, kind and generous. The problem we have is in the bedroom (or so I think). When we meet up, we ar...
A. 8 October 2010: The arguments could just be out of frustration on your part, maybe its techniques – he’s not giving you enough foreplay etc... Try different positions etc…
It may help him if he masturbates an hour before sex then he may last longer.
It’s a ... (read in full...)
I lust after I every girl I meet!
Q. I fall in lust with any girl I meet!! I hate these feelings. It's wrong. I admit I'm desperate. How can I stop these feelings. A typical scenario would be that I say hello to a girl that I find attractive say, at uni, and I talk to her. The only ...
A. 7 October 2010: Your just at that age where sex is foremost on your mind, it should pass as you get older.
Meeting new women can be a fun experience and you should try exploring the other parts to relationships other than sex.
Try thinking of other things tha... (read in full...)
Is our relationship turning into a fading spark?
Q. My bf and I have been together for 15 months almost to the day. Our courtship was awesome and we have great chemistry--plus, he's my bestest friend. God, I used to look back at our time together and just be marveled... The first guy to twirl me ...
A. 6 October 2010: It is very normal for new relationships to fade after time, there are some words to describe it "the honeymoon", "crush" or "infactuation" where everything is wonderful and nothing can go wrong.
Once thats over your left with seeing faults, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a great kisser! Should I praise him for this?
Q. Hello all. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He's never had a relationship before, never dated a girl actually and he's a virgin. I've had 2 previous relationships, but never had sex. I'm 22 he's 26. We haven't had sex yet, I'm...
A. 6 October 2010: Its great your getting such excitement from kissing, I dont think its a born skill but some are better than others. Practice makes it better.
If he hasnt had a girlfriend before, he may have been reading how to kiss on the internet or somethin... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 4 October 2010: Its obvious she likes you a lot if she has not charged, it is possible she is developing feelings for you.
If your happy then give it time and see where it goes, dont jump in head first wait a little and see where this takes you both.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week - am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello. I'm just trying to get some advice here. My girlfriend unexpectedly broke up - by text - last week. Her reasons were that she needed to concentrate on studies (she started University last week) and family, and that she felt I wouldn't suppo...
A. 4 October 2010: Look at it this way.
If her reasons were genuine and she thought anything of you then she would have arranged a meeting and told you face to face.... (read in full...)
He kept all of the old photos, emails and letters I sent him when we were together, does this mean anything?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship with a guy, we broke up and lost touch for about 5 years. Now we have started talking again and he has told me that he kept every photo I sent him and every email, letter that I sent him. Does the fact he kept...
A. 4 October 2010: It means he didnt resent the break up and he probably still had feelings the whole time you were apart.
Its a good sign.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week - am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello. I'm just trying to get some advice here. My girlfriend unexpectedly broke up - by text - last week. Her reasons were that she needed to concentrate on studies (she started University last week) and family, and that she felt I wouldn't suppo...
A. 4 October 2010: Sorry to hear that. Personally the no-contact is the best option to take.
It can go one of 2 ways she will either miss you and contact you back or move on.
Make it look like you dont need her, go out, carry on with your on life. Even go da... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she needs to take a break...
Q. So, i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months. We hang out a couple days a week and really enjoy spending time with each other. However, a few days ago she invites me over to her house and tells me that she wants to take a break. She ...
A. 1 October 2010: Just let her go, dont contact her at all. Its going to be hard for you.
She is either telling you she is dumping you but too scared to say it or she does want her space or she has found someone else.
Just give it time, chances are she will sta... (read in full...)
How do I show my boyfriend I wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away?
Q. how do i show my boyfriend i wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away. someone mistakenly called my bf by a different name. thinkin it was one of my friends. (they kinda look alike). this friend had once visted me on campus and ...
A. 29 September 2010: You can only tell your side of events to him, if he doesnt believe you theres nothing you can do.
Its not up to you to prove your telling the truth to him part of what makes a strong relationship is trust and if he has none for you then its not ... (read in full...)
Would it be selfish of me to have another child without being in a relationship?
Q. i am a single mother and i have a gorgeous 3 year old son. For the past year i have been wanting another baby but i don't want to be in a relationship. I'm happy being on my own. Would it be selfish of me to have another child?...
A. 29 September 2010: A single parent can be just as loving as a couple.
Providing you can support another child and love it with all your heart then theres nothing to feel selfish for.
However you should be prepared for when the child gets older and starts askin... (read in full...)
I know I need treatment but I'm terrified of needles!
Q. Hey all, i have a problem, but im too scared to sort it out. I think i have IBS, actually im about 100% sure i have IBS. Ive read numerous amounts of articles on it and symptoms about it. I have almost like contractions or spasms of really intens...
A. 29 September 2010: IBS doesnt nessearily lead onto other problems later on so you may never develop chrones.
Its clear your fear of needles comes from when you were younger, what you have to know now is that technology has advanced more since then, staff have bet... (read in full...)
Is it time to leave?
Q. i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end ...
A. 29 September 2010: No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. It's not asking too much to be loved, appreciated and respected from a partner.
I know it's a hard choice to make but I think you have come to the right conclusion.
Its about time you broke f... (read in full...)
I cheated on b/f with his brother but now I want him back
Q. Dear cupid,i realy need your help becouse iam lost,i had a boyfriend of one year and we where so happy until i cheated on him with his brother ,he found me in bed with him,he broke up with me and i continued dating his brother,after a couple of ...
A. 29 September 2010: Dont waste your time anymore, this one is over.
You have already broke his heart and probably messed up his relationship with his brother nice work.... (read in full...)
Conflicting advice on how to deal with my addict children
Q. Im in a great confusion about my part as a parent in my 2 addicted sons life. It is becoming a turmoil to me.The story started 10 years ago, when they both were teenagers. And the confusions too.So long story short, they were good kids, but some ...
A. 28 September 2010: Your bond as a mother makes your love for your sons unconditional, no matter how much they hurt you your there for them.
Your sons need professional help and that is beyond what you can give them. You can still be there for them, arrange the help... (read in full...)
If a guy does not ejaculate inside you does that mean you are free from any chance of getting pregnant?
Q. Can I ask, if a guy penetrates in a girl but did not ejaculate inside the vagina. Does that means that the girl will be free from chances of getting herself pregnant?...
A. 28 September 2010: No, the odds may be reduced but sperm can be present in pre-cum too, this can come out at any point during arousal.
It is still possible to become pregnant from that.... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?
Q. my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...
A. 28 September 2010: It really should not be a problem if you trust him.
If you suspect him of cheating then you need more proof before accusing him.
If he does these 3 hour drives too often or spends more time in his spare time with her than you then you may hav... (read in full...)
The man I love has HIV, how can I help him?
Q. Hi there, There is guy I work with. He is such a great guy and I've really started to get on really well with him. But he said to me we could never go out because we work with each other. I kind of accepted this and moved on. He then got a boyfr...
A. 28 September 2010: Theres nothing you can do to help him other than what your already doing. Being there if he needs to talk.
He should really be telling this to his boyfriend who has a right to know.... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me or is this just a game?
Q. So theres this guy who comes to the same gym i attend. Everytime hes there ,i catch him looking at me a lot and he makes sure i see him looking so i can return his gaze. I think i have a crush on him although i have never even spoken to him,im too ...
A. 28 September 2010: He may just be being polite with the waves and smiles, however there is a chance he likes you also.
If you have seen him looking at you then the chances are he has seen you looking at him.
Guys can be shy when it comes to approaching girl... (read in full...)
Would it be bad to date someone younger than you??
Q. im a freshman(bday:5/30/96) hes a seventh grader(bday:9/3/97) would it be bad to date him? i told him it might be smart to wait until hes a sophomore and im a senior or when hes an eighth grader and im a sophomore or when hes a freshman and im a ...
A. 28 September 2010: Theres not much difference in your ages which is fine in any relationship.
Theres nothing to stop you two hanging out together after school as friends. If you feel its right to wait then do that, there really is no correct answer to this.
... (read in full...)
Am I being taken for granted?
Q. Am i being taken for granted. I feel that my partner of 3 years are taking me for granted. His has two kids living with us, twin 15 (boy and girl) and they are great children but very lazy. Never help with cooking, giving a chore results in moodi...
A. 28 September 2010: I hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)
Does he like me?
Q. ok, i like this really shy guy and i've never talked to him. we had a pep assembly that had a kiss and tell game. the football boys would line up and were supposed to guess which volleyball girl kissed them, when actually it was their moms. the guy ...
A. 28 September 2010: How do you know he went home and told his mom all of that - or are you just assuming it?
If he was in to you then he would have made his move then when you told him you liked him. Carry on dreaming and find another guy in reality :-)... (read in full...)
Am I being taken for granted?
Q. Am i being taken for granted. I feel that my partner of 3 years are taking me for granted. His has two kids living with us, twin 15 (boy and girl) and they are great children but very lazy. Never help with cooking, giving a chore results in moodi...
A. 28 September 2010: I dont think your overreacting to this. Being in a relationship should involve quality time together as well as making time for the kids.
Do you ever get alone time together, how does he react then?
He is not taking an interest in your life, an... (read in full...)
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