Why does my boyfriend only want sex?
Q. My bf and I hangout out more now, bt the problem iss thatt he will only take me to his house, to have sex, and thats all. I know he is busy with school and stuff, bt come on,, only sex. Am i right or no???...
A. 15 September 2010: He is using you, sorry to say that sex is not love and love is not sex.
In a relationship sex is only a small part, if he really loved you would know about it.
How long have you been together?... (read in full...)
Why was this man staring at me?
Q. When out to eat the other day with my daughter. We were at aa table in a sandwich shop. This guy sits there and stares at me the whole time never takes his eyes off me. Then he leaves before I do. Then when he gets ready to leave he walks by my ...
A. 15 September 2010: He may fancy you or hes just a weird guy. If you find him crossing your path again just look away from him if you dont want to get involved.... (read in full...)
Is he into me? I really want to know..
Q. I've always been terrible at being able to tell if a guy is into me or is just being a good friend, especially when most of my friends are guys I have a coworker that I have become good friends with outside of work. He's five years older than me and ...
A. 15 September 2010: I would say this guy likes you more than being just a friend. He is flirting on a big scale hoping you will get the hint.
Start talking to him about girlfriends ask if he has one if he says no ask him would he like one and look at him as you say ... (read in full...)
He was so stressed about it working that he used Viagra
Q. A little over a month ago, I had posted a question about my boyfriend's difficulty with getting and staying hard during sex. Here's a link to the question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-help-him-no-matter-what.html I don't even know ...
A. 13 September 2010: It could be hes used it again, or it could be he is feeling less under pressure to perform so its happening naturally.
If he is using viagra then you may notice his nose seems blocked one day and not the next. It doesnt affect every man like thi... (read in full...)
My wife just wants oral!
Q. My wife does not want intercourse or me to touch her, she only wants to do oral to me? she used to never want to do that at all? It has went on for months. I dont know what to think?...
A. 13 September 2010: You need to have a talk with her and find out what her reasons are. There could be all sorts of reasons but you will only find out by talking.... (read in full...)
Can I increase my semen?
Q. I'm 19 and I know I'm basically at the height of my sexual prowess right now. I was wondering if there was any ways I could increase the size of my loads, that is semen. It would make orgasms that much more enjoyable but more importantly I just love ...
A. 13 September 2010: The best way to increase volume is to either refrain from sex / masturbation for a few days or just as about your about to cum, stop yourself. Do it a few times before ejeculation.
Also at the point of cumming hold your PC muscel (the one that sto... (read in full...)
My girlfriend left me suddenly, claims she wants to be alone, how do I go about getting her back?
Q. Hey, I've found similar break up questions on the net, but i feel the need to get some specific advice. Apologies if i trail on, but i feel its necessary. Ive been dating my gf for just over 7 months, we've known each other for 2 years. Shes a un...
A. 10 September 2010: Sorry to hear that and what your feeling is all natural. Give her time to think about what she wants, dont contact her at all. Let her contact you if and when she is ready.
The more you contact her the more you will push her away. I know that sou... (read in full...)
Afraid of driving alone!
Q. I passed my driving test 2 weeks ago and my parents bought me a car but here's the problem... I'm scared of driving . I was keen to get my licence to have freedom and it took me several attempts to pass but now I have it I feel like I can't dri...
A. 10 September 2010: Everyone is different so yes it may be normal to feel like that. Personally I just drove and never give it a second thought, that was 21 years ago. I would not be without my car now.
I suggest you try and build up confidence on quieter roads fi... (read in full...)
I woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister and I had not even been drinking! Should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. i woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister.i got no memories on how this happened.all can remember is that i was invited to her birtday party.by her sister i had two soft drinks and thats it.should i tell my girlfriend about it or should i ...
A. 10 September 2010: Maybe your drinks were drugged?
It depends how guilty you feel about the whole thing, you risk loosing your girlfriend if you tell her but if you keep it quiet now and she finds out later then it will be a lot worse.... (read in full...)
How can I stop her making a HUGE mistake?
Q. Well i finally found myself with the perfect girl for me... i'm the happiest i have ever been in my life. But there is a problem i don't know how to deal with... You see we both just graduated high school and in high school my girlfriend had plans ...
A. 10 September 2010: The short answer is you cant stop her. Its a case of if you love her let her go. You can still maintain your relationship and just be there for her if it all goes wrong.... (read in full...)
I dunno, but is he interested?
Q. There's a guy at work who I've recently developed feelings for and I'm wondering if he's starting to return them. He teases me a little bit more than the other girls at work, often in a more childish way, like knocking what I'm working on over or ...
A. 10 September 2010: Yes he is probably interested. Giving compliments like that dont happen unless he has motive.
Maybe suggest one night after work to go for a drink together. You should guage his reaction from that.... (read in full...)
She rejected me but now is texting and I don't know how to reply
Q. ok so over the summer i really liked this gurl and i thought she liked me back so i tried to kiss her and she said no because she had a boyfriend. well now she just sent me this message on facebook saying "what's up baby. i just wanted to tell y...
A. 10 September 2010: Personally I wound not reply at all. She has either broke off with her boyfriend or wants to cheat on him.... (read in full...)
The question has been bugging me
Q. Ok, we all know that when you have a F*** Buddy it's just about sex, there isn't much of a friendship there or whatever. So, my ex fbuddy still contacts me because he was adament he wanted to stay friends (he now has a girlfriend), to be honest i ...
A. 10 September 2010: It sounds like he just wants more sex. Anyway if he is with a girlfriend if he cheats on her then he will cheat on anyone.... (read in full...)
Should I shave my chest hair?
Q. Hey ladies, and gentlemen if you can provide good info, should I shave my body hair? Is that something that women like or not? I know I'm over generalizing here but I would like some insight onto this. I'm not insanely hairy, but I have the standard ...
A. 10 September 2010: Get waxed instead LOL. Seriously though it depends if you feel comfortable with it or not.
It actually turns my girlfriend on when she runs her fingers through my chest hair.... (read in full...)
Could a virgin train themselves for better sex?
Q. I may be a virgin but I don't want to be ill prepared for my first time. So I have been doing research onto sexual techniques and what could make sex better. Since I want to make my first time fun for her as well, I thought this site would be a good ...
A. 10 September 2010: Watching porn can give you some pointers. Yes holding the muscel can increase pleasure at the point of ejeculation.
Porn links something like tube8 dot com theres loads out there.
Google for sex tips I am sure there are loads.
Dont have an... (read in full...)
Can a man love 2 women at the same time?
Q. can a man fall in love with two women,cause there is a man who says that he's got two girlfriends,he love's them both,but he says he feels like he is in heaven when he is around the new girl.is it possible 2 love two women?...
A. 10 September 2010: No way. If he is not comitted to you then he is just lustful. Theres a big difference between lust and love.
He is probably in love with himself more.... (read in full...)
He says he not "100%" committed to me... should I move on?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for the past 3 months. We're both in our late twenties, he was very into me initially and then we agreed to be exclusive to each other after we started becoming intimate. We've had a lot of problems as I had caught him ...
A. 10 September 2010: I would think if hes not at least thinking about comitting to your relationship by 3 months then there is something wrong.
You could be waiting a long time here for something that will never happen.
If your getting on well with him in othe... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to his big belly!
Q. I've been with this man 20 years older than me for 3 years after my divorce. I love his look even though he's got a big belly. Our sex life is good. Recently I just feel his big belly is a turn off to me. I try my best to ignore it cuz I still ...
A. 9 September 2010: Try to get him involved in more physical exercise by participating youself. Go walking, go to the gym together etc...
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Dating a couple of months and want to marry soon. Rushing things?
Q. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a couple months. We are very much in love and we have great chemistry, both sexual and emotional. We have spent so much time together this summer, because we have lived together at his parents ...
A. 9 September 2010: Its great your both getting on so well however it may be too soon to be getting married. Your or his opinions or values may change later on down the line and if your married it makes it more complicated.
If I was in your situation enjoy what you... (read in full...)
Why did she break up with me and then say she still loves me?
Q. My gf broke up with me but said she still loves me. She broke up w/ me randomly. I don't know what happened or if I did something. But she's been avoiding me ever since. I thought she loved and she said she did, so breaking up with me and then ...
A. 8 September 2010: Just give her time and space alone. Dont contact her make it look like you dont care if she is there or not.
She will probably contact you when she has had time to think it over.
If you do get back together whatever caused the breakup will hav... (read in full...)
After sex I feel worried and confused!
Q. im really confused because me and my boyfriend have just started having sex and just before we do it i feel like i really want it but after i feel confused and worried and feel like he doesnt love me what should i do?...
A. 8 September 2010: Well sex is not love, does he show you in other ways he loves you?
Your reaction is normal if you suspect your being used then you dont have to put up with it unless you want to.... (read in full...)
Is this question too personal? did I screw up and say something wrong?
Q. My personality is that I'm pretty open. I have no problems sharing information about myself because I have nothing to hide. Ask and I will answer. But not everyone is like this and I get that, but it's hard to remember what is and is not OK around ...
A. 8 September 2010: No its not personal. Maybe he just has problems opening up or there is something hes not told you yet. Dont apologize just carry on as if it didnt happen.
He may think your trying to tie him down in some stupid way.... (read in full...)
Should I just walk away and find someone who is willing to love me the same way?
Q. Hi All, My question is should you stay in a relationship if the guy you have been with (we have been together 4yrs) has feelings for you but there not as strong as yours ,he just tells me he likes me very much.but i am in love with him.he knows th...
A. 8 September 2010: I would think after 4 years he would know if he loved you or not. I would say he is more like a friend than a partner in other words he loves you but is not in love with you. How does he react if you tell him you love him?... (read in full...)
Help me translate what he meant by his comment!
Q. Hey, so I need some help to translate a comment this guy made. I know him through work, he asked me out at the weekend, had a great time, went to a movie. Then asked me out again last night. Again, had a great time. He sent me a text saying ...
A. 7 September 2010: It can be either 1 of 2 things.
Either he is saying
1) you make him feel young again and bring out the fun
or he is saying
2) you are acting childish.
Personally I would think its #1.... (read in full...)
Boundaries in a relationship...
Q. Question: When in a loving and committed relationship, are there boundaries when it comes to sleeping over somebody of the opposite sex's house alone, even if you are just mates? If your partner is not happy about it but you think it is fine, should ...
A. 7 September 2010: Guys can get very jeleous.
Personally I would not like it if my girlfriend told me she was sleeping over at another guys house even if they are just friends.
I have no problem with her having guy friends I have female friends too and she is c... (read in full...)
Magic Number - 5 too many?
Q. I told a close (male) friend of mine my magic number the other day (5). He seemed to think it was pretty high. I can account for these: 1. first time 2. 3 yr relationship 3. short relationship 4. 1 night stand 5. current relationship. I hav...
A. 7 September 2010: No thats not too high.
It may be worth getting STD & HIV tested if you havent been already and ask your current partner to get tested too.... (read in full...)
Help!!! What can I say to ask her out?
Q. I met a girl at a house party 2 weeks ago, we got on really well but I never got her number. However I managed to be added by her on facebook (she even sent me a message before I could). I want to ask her out but I don't kow how to when the only way...
A. 7 September 2010: This one is simple. Just say to her on facebook chat or send her a message saying "Can I take you out for a drink sometime?" if shes interested you will soon find out.
If she isnt keen shes either not into you or she has a someone else already.... (read in full...)
How to get a guy to notice you
Q. what are some really great things to do to get a guy to notice you?...
A. 7 September 2010: It depends on the type of guy your trying to attract. Use eye contact and smiles. Dress nice but noting too reavealing and dont over do the perfume.
or you can just walk up to him and talk.... (read in full...)
Work place is gettting rid of staff!! Please help
Q. Please help me i dont know what to do, My work place are starting to let poeple go, like working them out slowley but for sure, like finding a problem with something keep going on about it, and then fire them. So now the thing is its almost the end ...
A. 7 September 2010: That's always a tough one. Normally I would suggest to look for another job now, however with you being 4 months pregnant no one will hire knowing you will be going off work in another 5 months. Sorry to make this a personal question but how... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship and have been together for 5 years. We care about eachother alot but he doesn't do special things for me, i.e. send me flowers, gifts or even ...
A. 25 August 2010: I would say hes being a bit selfish, he doesnt have to go mad with gifts and flowers but the odd one every now and again keeps a relationship a happy one as it shows he would be thinking of you.
I often supprise my girlfriend by having flowers ... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling his love!
Q. I have been dating this guy for a while now, he was my best mate before. Still sort of is. He is great, he's a gentleman, we have so much in common it's strange and my parents think he is wonderful. But I don't think I can stay with him much longer. ...
A. 20 August 2010: It does sound like he is shy. Maybe you should take the lead here and show him what you want.... (read in full...)
I have feelings for two, don't know what to do!
Q. so i've been with my bofriend, john, for four months now, and i really really do love him. i have had a few relationships but nothing that has been great, the only thing is, this is his first relationship and its beginning to be a fairly serious one ...
A. 20 August 2010: I would totally agree with alexia_marie. It sounds like dale wants one thing.
If he is more forward about sex then its likley hes been arround more.
John will give you what you want when he is ready but its important not to pressure him int... (read in full...)
Is there anything to make a cold go away faster?
Q. Hey there quick question, I have a busy week coming up and woke up this morning with a such a sore throat and a cold is the last thing that I need right now. So I'm just wondering if anyone has any remedies for getting a cold to go away faster...
A. 20 August 2010: No magic remedies. If you have a throat infection it can be treated with an anti-biotic such as amoxicillin which you would need to either see your GP or go to a NHS walk in centre to get. But if it’s just a virus then just try over the counter cold ... (read in full...)
I got into a big argument with my boss at work .. how do I act around him now???
Q. I had a huge argument with my boss at work today and now i dont know how to behave around him tommorrow. We work in an office and we work on the same desk. He has been my boss for a few months and we had become good friends. Always laughing,...
A. 20 August 2010: At the end of the day your boss is right because the new process was not given a chance. Hes probably been pressured and stressed but should have handled it different.
Just turn up for work, make sure your early!
Do your job as normal and dont ... (read in full...)
What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another?
Q. What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another. I ask because my partner got into a lot of debt for his ex but he doesn't really spend much on me. What gives? Also, I'm not being biased but I'm a better gf because I'm more ...
A. 19 August 2010: I used to do this. It's a case of learning the hard way I couldnt buy love. The more women I dated the less I would spend.
Sure still take them for dinner and small gifts but nothing big.... (read in full...)
Music to turn him on?
Q. What music would you advice to turn a man on? or maybe for strip tease,,, ??? Something so erotic......
A. 19 August 2010: Nothing to do with the music, its the way you strip that would do it :-)... (read in full...)
Will my parents know I'm on the pill?
Q. I'm 17,and yes sexually active. Not too long ago I entered a program at a hospital that my friend mentioned to me that would help. It's basically for teens and you get regualar check ups for those who are sexually active. Since then I've been using ...
A. 19 August 2010: Medical records are confidential. Your mom wont find out unless she has reason to suspect i.e. she catches you sleeping together with someone or she finds your pills.... (read in full...)
Does this make us a couple?
Q. Anyway I met this guy, we have great chemistry and I like him a lot. Honestly I'm not sure if we're dating but I think we are. Tuesday morning we we're talking and I'm not sure how this came about, but I had asked him if we were offical, he said do ...
A. 19 August 2010: I would say yes that makes you a couple, just use common sense when it comes to sex.
If your having unprotected sex then it might be worth both of you getting tested first?... (read in full...)
Any I normal?
Q. Hi guys! My penis is a little bit curved to the right hand side. Is that normal? It doesnt look straight! Do u guys get what i mean? For instant, a straight penis is 90 degree angle, right? Mine is about 75 to 80 degree (from the right to left). I...
A. 18 August 2010: If its not broke dont fix it. Every one is different.
Mine does not curve but points up slightly when erect.... (read in full...)
I'm completely in love with my BF... but I can't stop hooking up with other men!!
Q. Sorry for the long comment- I've been dating my boyfriend for two years now and i'm completely inlove with him- i think. when i think about him it's wonderful, and i love kissing him and he has the sweetest eyes. The problem is that i often ...
A. 18 August 2010: Theres nothing wrong with fantasizing but thats where it should end. You cant fully love your boyfriend if your cheating on him!
How would you feel if it was the other way round?
Sorry if this is harsh, its just the way I see it.... (read in full...)
Should I give up or not??
Q. Is there any way to have a girl like you again. me and this girl liked each other a couple years ago but the day i decided i was going to ask her out, i got into a fight and she saw. she's ignored me since but i cant stop liking her. should i give ...
A. 18 August 2010: Try talking to her, tell her you miss her company, that your sorry and have changed (if its the truth).
Was the fight over her?
If she is going out with someone else then its probably better to move on.... (read in full...)
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