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writes:A couple days ago I betrayed my love in the worst possible way.She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 3 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her so-called friend after I drunk with sadiness.I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.She says she doesnt want our friendship nor love anymore, that she thinks she can never forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, permantly for her, with no contact for three days now. I think her text and emails or over and think about the situation and pray for the best. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend and potentioanl mate, even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible. I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!I didn't do it to hurt her I was hoping a friend would comfort her. I was stupid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): Kenj I know you're correct in what you have written. I just need to say this, I drink beer a few times a month and never any hard liquor so if I confuse you then I am sorry. I meant it as I was in a state like drunk if that make sense to you. I think I already lost her. The things she has written in her email I am not sure how I can counter it. I was stupid and I took it all for granted. I am not given up but I think with time I have my answer. Thanks buddy.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Of course she doesnt want you anymore, you broke her trust in you.
A woman has to trust you for a relationship to work, drunk or not its not an excuse to blab her secret.
She may take you back when she calms down. Give her some space and time then try contacting her, if she ignores you wait a little longer and try again, if she continues to ignore you then its over.
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