How can I entice him in to a lasting relationship?
Q. Am madly in luv wit this guy,he drives me crazy when he is around me yet we are just having a cordial relationship.I realy want a lasting relationship with him pls somebody tel me what to do....
A. 24 March 2010: How long have you known him?
Treat him how you would want to be treated, you cant force anyone to truly love you it will either grow or not.
But if he is happy in the relationship then he is more likley to stay arround.... (read in full...)
I am concerned that I am choosing to marry someone out of guilt and poor self confidence
Q. I am concerned that I am choosing to marry someone out of guilt and poor self confidence. I recently got engaged after I dated her for three years long distance. She is almost 40 living on on the other side of the country with her parents in a ...
A. 24 March 2010: Hi, it sounds like your not truly in love with your girlfriend or you would not have any doubt if marriage was right for you both. You may be apprehensive but you wont have doubt. Its not a step that should be taken lightly and you need to be 1... (read in full...)
I think I might be gay.
Q. Im 15 and im kinda alone in the world. Im relly scared because.... when i was younger i was always the one who never cared about girls! ever! and when i was 12 i kinda figured out why! Its becaus im gay... I think? well, Am I? I never get sexuly ...
A. 24 March 2010: It is possible you may be, but dont beat yourself up over this. Everyone is different and has their own preferences, theres nothing wrong with you, its just the way you are. You feelings may change later in your life or they may not, either way ... (read in full...)
How can I start a convo about the times he flirted with me?
Q. I like this guy now , and a while ago he would always call ne so hott and try and hug me and sit on me , lol , and i was seeing someone at the time so i couldnt really flirt back , so i was wondering , how could i start up a convo now about those ...
A. 24 March 2010: Look for him on his own, walk up and say "hello, how are you?" it should flow from there.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I help my b/f babysit his kid?
Q. Hey I will go straight to the point me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years about a year and half ago things started to get stressful between us so we broke up. He started to see someone else and got her pregnant they broke up and me ...
A. 24 March 2010: If you truly love this guy then you need to accept his son and him come as a package.
It really depends how much you want to get involved with the guy, but if you want a fulfilled relationship then yes you need to bond with his son too.... (read in full...)
I moved with my boyfriend to another city but I can't find a job and he can no longer support me for free. Please help!
Q. ive asked for advice on here before but now i think it time i asked again... im feeling extremely stressed. everything feels like its falling around me. about five months ago i had a perfect plan. i have an amazing boyfriend who lives with...
A. 24 March 2010: Sorry to hear things are not going as you expected, but never give up it will work out in the end.
Regarding the job situation, I dont want to sound rude but are you setting your sights too high?
What I mean is take any job for now that doe... (read in full...)
How do men feel when other men look at their women appreciatively?
Q. Do most men get turned on when other guys look at their women appreciatively.What exactly do most guys feel in such situations.real life scenarios would be awesome to hear....
A. 24 March 2010: I guess it would depend on the guy and the other guy looking. For example some may feel jealousy others may see it as wow factor.
A lot of guys (me included) would be jealous if another guy takes interest in their girlfriend especially if the rela... (read in full...)
He is always busy. Should I cut him off?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a week now n we have been very affectionate, we laugh n get along great. We told each other we like one another and it seems were on the same page. I haven't seen him for a couple days n when he told me he would come ...
A. 23 March 2010: It may be a taste of things to come or he may have a project or crisis he needs to sort right now, have you asked him?
You will only know for sure after time, but a week is really not long enough. Providing he doesnt have an urgent project ... (read in full...)
Having problems communicating with boyfriend
Q. I am currently in a long distant relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years, he have been together all most every day and now he has joined the air force and he is 5 hours away from me in tech school .. We can text , video chat , phone call .... ...
A. 23 March 2010: Just ask him what hes thinking about, that should strike up some conversation. Be prepared he may ask you the same, be honest with him.
Theres loads of other subjects to talk about, even if they are silly ones. Talk about yourself, what youve be... (read in full...)
Although he's not diabetic, his breath constantly smells of sugar, how to rid him of this smell?
Q. I have a two and a half year old son who likes to drink a lot of juice, he has been tested for diabetes but everything has come back clear but why does his breath smell like strong sugar all the time? I brush his teeth regularly and have even cut ...
A. 19 March 2010: It could be ketoacidosis due to a bad diet. Also if there is a build up of bactaria on his tounge that could cause smells too.... (read in full...)
Is it OK to let my LDR girlfriend go to the prom with another guy?
Q. My LDR gf just told me today that there were 3 guys who ask her to the prom. i ask her if she going and she said i dont know. Is it really okay to let my gf go to the prom with another guy. ...
A. 19 March 2010: At the end of the day it’s not your decision, it’s hers. If she asks your advice just tell her you would rather she didn’t but she’s old enough to make up her own mind.
If she truly loves you she should not go with another guy, unless the guy is l... (read in full...)
She thinks she is pregnant but we always use condoms, I'm nervous, any help?
Q. hi i am 18 years old and just started having sex a couple of months ago with condoms but my girlfirend is saying that her period has been late three weeks and her boobs hurt and she is urinating a lot and she thinks she is pregnant but we always use ...
A. 19 March 2010: Ask her to take a test to know for sure. There are other reasons for her symptoms.
Condoms can break or slip off it's not impossible, read the instruction leflet with them they are not 100% safe.
The other possiblilty is she is pregnant is s... (read in full...)
I feel so empty without her
Q. Hey im 17 years old :D and im italian i really really need advice on me and my gf! we are going out about 2years and we broke up about 15times out off them! i cant help but to always go back to her! i love her so much i really do but sometime...
A. 19 March 2010: 15 breakups in 2 years is a lot. I guess when a relationship is first started guys and girls become infactuated with each other, this means the other person is perfect in your eyes, what ever we do and say does not matter.
We want to spend al... (read in full...)
Just being nice?
Q. whats the difference in "just being nice" and "being attracted to someone". How can you tell if someone is just being nice or if they are attracted to you? ...
A. 19 March 2010: If they are just being nice then its likley they will just see you once in a while, do the occasional thing to help.
If they are attracted they will go out of their way to see you, do lots of things for you, give compliments, touch you, talk a l... (read in full...)
Help! Psycho Single Father Is After Me!!!!
Q. I have an ex boyfriend who has 4 kids, he cheated on me and had 3 more. I left. I have a new boyfriend, and my ex refuses to move on. He uses his 2 oldest kids to tell lies on me, writes to my boyfriend and my family, he even calls the cops and ...
A. 18 March 2010: You need to get the police involved yourself. This is harrasment. File for a restraining order from him.
Speak to your boyfriend and your family and explain the situation that they are trying to ruin your life by using lies.... (read in full...)
He fell asleep on me during sex. Should I have said what I did?
Q. Me and this guy started out like 5 months ago... we are both very busy people, and just get to see each other after 12pm or on weekends, since he works at morning and I work on evenings. He sometimes picks me up from work and we go est something. ...
A. 18 March 2010: I dont think it was wrong of you to say something. Your not being inconsiderate.... (read in full...)
I've been having a small lump above my eyebrow for ages, what could it be?
Q. Heys. I've had this little lump about the size of a sand grain under the skin just above my eyebrow for years. It doesn't hurt or bother me at all but I'm just wondering what it is. It's been in the same place for ages and you cant see it but you ...
A. 18 March 2010: Probably just a cyst. Your doctor should be able to remove it if its bothering you. If it gets infected it will need to be removed and could leave scaring.... (read in full...)
Is it legal for cousins to have a baby together?
Q. Is it illeagal to have a babby with your first cousin in the united states?...
A. 17 March 2010: It really depends what state you’re in. In most states a sexual encounter with a first cousin is considered incest which is illegal.
If its a second or third cousin then its probably leagal.... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I want to slow things down a bit without making him feel like I don't like him anymore?
Q. okay here i go my problem is relationships and how guys take things to fast. my question is how to slow them down without hurting them and still letting them know you still like them i have tried i think we should slow things down a bit and don't ...
A. 17 March 2010: Simple you tell him direct, a guy would appreciate you being honest and to the point with him.
If he loves you he will wait, if not then your better off without him.... (read in full...)
Guys, ... why do you watch porn?
Q. A question for all you guys out there... Why do you watch porn even if your sex life is brilliant? why do you feel the need to watch some random girl when you have your girlfriend? Do you know how it makes normal, non-plastic women feel when the...
A. 17 March 2010: Personally I dont watch it, my girlfriend gives me enough to keep my attention focused on her.
I think some guys watch it to try and learn new things, others watch it just to satisfy their urges. Probably lots of reasons.... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to see this guy if he is acting like this?
Q. I met a guy just before Christmas.. we were seeing each other quite intensely for a few weeks, but then I went to Thailand for a month. I cam back from Thailand, we saw each other once and then after that I didnt hear from him again, which was...
A. 17 March 2010: He thinks your playing games with him, so is taking it badly. Thing is if he knows your lifestyle a bit then he should understand your busy and not keep calling you anyway. Hes infatuated with you right now but wanting reassurance that your st... (read in full...)
I have this feeling that change is in the air...has anyone else had this before?
Q. Hi All, I have a rather strange Dear Cupid!! I have had a feeling for the last few months that a huge change is in the air in my life and is heading in my direction. I'm not sure what it is, and even my Mum said she can feel it, and she is one of ...
A. 17 March 2010: Going from your age range, if your coming up to age 42 or 49 then it is possible things are going to change for you, but bear in mind its the future and it has not happened yet. Try not to dwell on these feelings your having too much as it will ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he make a move?
Q. Hey all. So I'm not sure if this guy in my class likes me or if he does this with every girl... But he's 25 and he's a little quiet/shy. Around his friends he isn't (I know this because I'm really good friends with his good friend). So ever since I ...
A. 17 March 2010: I think the mutual friend is trying to set you two up together. The bar incident, you dont really know if this guy asked the friend to email you or if the friend has just done it to keep things smooth. The other guy could have feelings fo... (read in full...)
I want to convince her that I've changed
Q. I want to know if there is anything I can do now to repair or recover my relationship. My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me 2 months ago and I am completely devastated. She had tried to tell me several times that I wasn't giving her what she ...
A. 17 March 2010: Its a tough situation. You could try writing a letter and get it delivered to her with flowers. It does sound like her mind is made up though so she will take a lot of convincing. Only time will show here if you have changed and she has to have that ... (read in full...)
How can I help them both if they keep shutting me out?
Q. My 18 year old daughter has been dating her boyfriend Ryan for 3 years. He is a family friend and we have known him since he was just a child. Last year he got mixed in with the wrong crowd and got involved with drugs. He started skipping school and ...
A. 16 March 2010: You have to sit this one out and let your daughter realise her own conclusion.
I think she is hoping he will change, but that is not going to happen anytime soon.
Just be there to pick up the pieces and support your daughter when she needs t... (read in full...)
Could someone from the past make him change his mind about me?
Q. Hey there im almost 15 and my boyfriend already is. Everything is great i love him very much and i think he does me to and everything is just wonderful. The only thing that bugs me is that his ex sent him a flair on facebook. It said i miss you and ...
A. 16 March 2010: Yes she still has feelings. It depends why they split up but yes an ex can seduce them back or visa versa.
It really depends on your situation with him and how faithful he is to you. If you have a fulfiled relaitonship then it is more unlikley... (read in full...)
How long do anti sickness pills stay in the system?
Q. Hi, not sure if anyone can help. I have some buccastem anti sickness pills, 3mg. I need to find out how long they stay in the system for. I briefly remember Reading the leaflet saying it was 12 hours but can't remember and have lost it. I went ...
A. 16 March 2010: 8 - 12 hours depending on your body size. Dont exceed more than 2 in 24 hours.... (read in full...)
3 years have gone past since our break up and I still can't move on...
Q. my girlfriend and i split up about 3 and half years ago. we were engaged and living together. i havent moved on yet but she has had a few casual boyfriends and one serious one she lives with and is expecting his baby, i think they been together 2 ...
A. 16 March 2010: Every one is different, it takes time to get over the hurt of a break up.
You probably are not succeding in your new dates because you have your ex on your mind.
Try to focus on other things in your life, take up a new hobby or sport.
As ... (read in full...)
Could I have diabetes???
Q. This has got nothing to do with sex or relationships or anything I just want some opinions on my problem. For the past 3 months or so I have been suffering with chest pains and my skin is so dry and really itchy. I've gained quite a bit of weight a...
A. 16 March 2010: Some symptoms match diabetes, however I dont think that this is. Have you had your thyroid levels checked?
Go to your doctor and get checked out. He/she will probably send you for a blood test.... (read in full...)
Please comment about what I have done, is it really bad? Do I not deserve her?
Q. Me and my girlfred are very close, we are like best friends and I love her, i would do antyhing for her and do not want to see her get hurt. I have made three mistakes with my girlfreind. The first time before we got together I told my girlfreind I ...
A. 16 March 2010: Look at it this way your given a second and third chance, she must love you a lot.
Dont lie to her or go talking behind her back about what she has shared with you in confidence. If you cant deal with what she has told you, talk it through ... (read in full...)
I really need some help with my insecurities and depression, what steps can I take?
Q. I'm 26 and am in a relationship with a lovely guy, aged 27, and have been for almost 18 months. I suffer with severe depression and anxiety. I'm on anti depressants, (Sertraline), and I'm receiving counselling. I've been quite open over my feelings ...
A. 16 March 2010: It's very obvious your boyfriend loves you a lot, he sounds like a good guy who cares about you and supports you.
Your fearing rejection right now, but look at it this way your boyfriend has stuck by you through 18 months and already knows ab... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend lying?
Q. Is my boyfriend lying? i told my bf from day 1 if you look at porn its ok, just tell me? ad he said the whole time NO he kept this up for 2 years, then he was on his iphone, history came up of a pornstar and he said "no way it wasnt me, it was...
A. 16 March 2010: Yes he is lying about not looking at porn. Its normal for some guys to look at porn even while in relationships.
Thing is if hes lying about trivial things like this then your trust in him is knocked down.... (read in full...)
True love or just an infatuation?
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with a person you've never met? I've met this man online a year ago, we corresponded through email for 3 months, with 2 - 3 emails a day. Then we starting calling each other once a day or each other day and it always ...
A. 16 March 2010: It is possible to have feelings for someone you have never met yes, but these will just be infactuation.
Only once that has wore off will you know if your in love with that person.
Yes your feelings are normal because you miss him chatting to ... (read in full...)
I am unable to acheive an orgasm through intercouse, any suggestions?
Q. I'm 23 years old and i lost my viginity when i was 19. Since then i havent been able to have an orgasm through intercourse. i can organsm through oral sex and masturbation but it seems no matter what i do i just can achieve an orgasm through sex. i...
A. 16 March 2010: Try more foreplay and some sex toys. I think a lot of women have the same issue, even some guys have this problem too.... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative, but do these symptoms suggest I am actually pregnant?
Q. Hi im 22yrs married housewife, im confused please help me, i missed period and it was to be on 1st march last it was on 1st feb and sometimes im having pain near my utreus, and i feel like sometime unconciousness and stomach become hard and on 8...
A. 16 March 2010: Not necessarily, but to be sure wait another week and do another test again.
There can be other reasons for missing a period.
Stress, illness, changes in schedules, medication, over or under weight.
The pain could be something like a blad... (read in full...)
I want a male opinion; what would you do if you were in his position?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for 1 year. We started off as best friends before we became official, so we are like soul mates as they all say. we were very much in love, we had a unique bond and very different to other couples. when we fell ...
A. 16 March 2010: Although I can understand his reasons for wanting to move there and better his own life, he cant truly love you.
If he truly loved you, he would have come home and at least discussed this with you first which would have at least give you the oppe... (read in full...)
Am I being cruel by refusing to have anything to do with my brother until he sorts himself out?
Q. Me and my brother have gone through a lot. Over the course of 4-5 years i've had to defend my mother from him hitting her, myself from him stabbing me etc. He was on drugs (Meth/Ecstasy etc.) for over 3 years and it basically sucked all my parents ...
A. 16 March 2010: No one has the right to hit another person, however this is difference in a self defense situation.
You have tried your best in this and now its gone too far.
He needs professional help you cant fix this. Here is the tough part; has to fir... (read in full...)
Dear non - Borderline Personality Disorder.
Q. Hi everyone. I guess this article sort of follows on from my last one about Borderline Personality Disorder. I found something on the internet I would like to share. It is a letter written by someone with BPD, addressing those who don't have it bu...
A. 16 March 2010: I read this article and your last article with great interest. I have already mentioned to you about my girlfriend having anorexia nervosa, she was also diagnosed with BPD some time ago. I totally agree that it’s given bad press but having BPD ... (read in full...)
Does she love me or not?
Q. I'm divorced she had a bad relation! I have a lot of experience and she only had one and it ended badly! Why won't she admit that she love me or I should say she just really afraid to say it she came close to say it once but she stop and just say no ...
A. 15 March 2010: No, or she would say it. Some people open slower than others, give it some time.... (read in full...)
Two men, one good and one bad
Q. I met back up with this guy that I dated about ten yrs ago. We told and thought that since we are older now we know what we want in a relationship. It started off great he would call and txt all day long. The one night to spent the night nothing ...
A. 15 March 2010: It sounds like your mind is already made up. You want to go off with the other guy but your not sure if he wants you. As for if this other guy will work out, only time will tell on that. Sometimes we need to take chances in life to better ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? None of my relationships last
Q. i am completely useless in relationships and really need your help. I did go out with a guy for 4 years and he ended up cheating on me and i stayed single for a few years until i got over him. BUt lately i met this guy 3 months ago and we hit it off ...
A. 15 March 2010: Look for any problems leading up to the break ups, was there arguments? did the guys distance themselves from you? When a new relationship starts, people are sometimes infactuated meaning they can see no wrong in the other person, they think there... (read in full...)
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