Does my internet date like me or not I'm confused!!!
Q. hi hope to get some advice as im confused about a guy i met on an internet dating site. we exchanged a few emails on the site and for 3 months have been chatting on the phone once a week, we finally met up and it was fantastic! he held my hand all ...
A. 24 September 2010: Also forgot to say dont wait for this guy, if you find someone else then move on.... (read in full...)
Does my internet date like me or not I'm confused!!!
Q. hi hope to get some advice as im confused about a guy i met on an internet dating site. we exchanged a few emails on the site and for 3 months have been chatting on the phone once a week, we finally met up and it was fantastic! he held my hand all ...
A. 22 September 2010: Dont contact him again, wait for him to contact you. He may be trying other dates first.
Dont take that as a bad sign though thats what dating is about. Its not like you have gone exclusive with him yet.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with any man anymore, not short or long term, just never.
Q. I am reading all the posts here and get kind of jealous, that people go through all these strong emotions. I don't understand whats happening with me lately, but i don't want to be with any man anymore, not short or long term, just never. ...
A. 22 September 2010: I dont think its anything your doing wrong, just maybe attracting the wrong type of guys.
I want you to know that not all guys are like the ones you have been with.
Its not asking too much what you want and right now youve been dissapointed so ... (read in full...)
My ex took my kids out of my life
Q. i m very depressed my ex husband took my kids out of my life he still wont let me go on with my life he loves to fight with me i m remarried i been married for 12 years i l love my husband but he will not let me go on with life im really un ...
A. 22 September 2010: Have you talked with your husband about how you feel and about this?
Depending on how old your kids are you can fight for custody, he has no right to take them away from you.
He sounds like a control freak and is using the kids as a way to hurt... (read in full...)
My cousin is in love with me but I don't have any feelings for him!
Q. i am presently single. it so happen that one of my cousin has fall for me. he also proposed me but i refused him because i don't have any feelings for him. even though he continue running after me. he is always sending me text messages with ' i love ...
A. 22 September 2010: Your cousin is infactuated and lustful for you it is not a good place to be. He does not love you, love takes time and comittment to build up. He is being nice with you to get his own way.
He also sounds a bit unstable so you must try and avoid co... (read in full...)
How do I prove it to my boyfriend that I'm not having an affair?
Q. im 15 years and my boyfrend is 20 years. i broke up with him some months before and we again joined. during that time i had another Bf . i didnt know how end the relationship with him .. When i wanted to break up with him my first Boyfrien...
A. 22 September 2010: You dont need to prove anything to him. If he cant believe and trust you then he doesnt love you.
Relationships do have arguments but they are not every day thats not helthy.... (read in full...)
How can I make my cousin have sex with me?
Q. I am 16 years of age and my girl cousin is 15 and a want to have sex with her so badly but i dont know how to ask her, or what to do to make her have sex with me!! I have been trying so hard since 14-15 to have sex with her and i dont know if she ...
A. 22 September 2010: Your feeling is just lust. Do yourself a favour and try and forget about her. Find yourself a girlfriend (not your cousin) and develop a relationship.
A loving relationship is not just sex and remember sex is not love.
Your at that age where y... (read in full...)
Why did my best guy friend push me way, what did I do?
Q. well lets call him (A) well me and A have been friends since the beginning of 8th grade and the last day of 8th grade we were friends. actually we were in class together listening to music together and everything you know just the best of friends ...
A. 22 September 2010: You could try talking to him, ask him if you have upset him in any way? If he says no then ask whats wrong, you seem distant. If he says yes then ask him what have you dont to upset him and take it from there.
Hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)
Will my girlfriend get bored of having sex chats every day?
Q. will i bore my girl for sex chatting with her each day? she likes it but am afraid i might bore her...
A. 22 September 2010: You could just flirt with her in other ways rather than talking about sex. Let her initiate those conversations from time to time or she may think you just want sex and nothing else.
Talk about her, her job / school etc... above all listen t... (read in full...)
How do I start talking to him to get this started? I'm not used to making the first move!
Q. A couple weeks ago my best guy friend went out to a bar with one of his friends from highschool who is pretty hot I suppose (we'll call him drew). At the bar drew had asked my friend if he had a chance with me. The news got back to me and I was ...
A. 22 September 2010: Its simple, use your voice. Just ask him out for a drink but make sure early on you make it clear your not after a relationship as he may have other ideas.... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend for this guy?
Q. well i have this boyfriend and we just started going out.. and he is a good looking guy.. but at my job i have this fine ass dude that works there and he wanna take me out to lunch but i know how i am i would do something that might hurt my ...
A. 22 September 2010: I would suggest you end it with your current boyfriend and go after the "fine ass dude" if he will have you.
I dont mean this nasty but it sounds like your current boyfriend deserves better than you can give him right now.
You may find your pe... (read in full...)
Not seeing each other enough...busy schedules
Q. my bf and i met in college, did the long distance thing for almost 2 yrs, broke up, got back together, broke up agian and are now back together for a yr and going strong. talking moving in together, marriage and all the long term things. however, ...
A. 22 September 2010: I would suggest your arguing is more brought on by stress and with you both being stubborn neither is willing to compromise to resolve a solution.
There is obviously something good between you to have stayed in each others lives this long. It... (read in full...)
I'm scared to put myself out there because of my height!
Q. Well anyways im 6 foot 11 and 19 years old around 180-190 pounds to be honest quite skinny. ive only had around 4 girlfriends and im scared to put myself out there mainly because of my height. any suggestions or comments would be appreciated on what ...
A. 22 September 2010: Your right you should walk with more confidence. Girls love confident guys.
Dont be ashamed of who you are, when two people really love each other then it doenst really matter how they look.
Dont give up looking there will be someone out ther... (read in full...)
I had a bad experience with a sex-worker. What should I do now?
Q. It is very important that I remain anonymous for this question. I had a bad experience with a sex-worker once (some might say I got what I deserved) and I doubt that I want to have sex ever again because of this. I was feeling vulnerable and I...
A. 22 September 2010: If you were drunk then you were not thinking strait. Its no big deal having a finger up your arse it doesnt make you any less of a man.
You know your own sexuality it doesnt make you gay or bi.
I would define degrading sex is something your f... (read in full...)
My online guy now wants to meet, I agreed but now having doubts
Q. So after breaking up with my ex, i created an online profile on plenty of fish because I was lonely and it a stupid thing to do thinking back. I mean, if I was in my right mind, i never would have. But yeah, a lot of the messages I got were from ...
A. 22 September 2010: Try not to be nervous, you can bet he will be nervous too. As long as your meeting in a public place that’s fine.
Maybe let one of your friends or family know your meeting him or leave a note.
Once you meet and start talking it will be just lik... (read in full...)
I think my nipples are too big
Q. Hi, so I have a pretty embarrassing question. I have fairly small breasts, barely a B cup but my nipples are pretty large and dark. They haven't been too much of a concern to me in the past but I now have a boyfriend that I would like to start ...
A. 22 September 2010: Absolutely not, your fine. You should embrace your own body not be ashamed. I don’t think your boyfriend will be complaining at all.... (read in full...)
A question for the guys!
Q. I read about this "guy psychology" thing a bit ago, and I was wondering if it's true or just a load of crap.. So guys, please tell me this.... Lets say you have a girlfriend. She's amazing, sweet, kind, affectionate, funny, cute etc. B...
A. 21 September 2010: Personally if a girl had mood swings for no reason I would want to find out why and try and help.
If it became impossible i.e. she could not communicate or didnt want to then I would leave her alone and not contact her again even if I did love... (read in full...)
Why can't I climax from sex?
Q. I know this is a common problem and still I cannot seem to find the answer I am looking for. Are there any special techniques to help make me come during sex? I enjoy sex so much with my partner and feel fully satisfied after, yet I never climax. ...
A. 21 September 2010: You’re not getting enough stimulation to your clitoris through intercourse. You could ask your partner for more foreplay, stimulate yourself to a point of orgasm but don’t go over.
Try changing positions during sex and find the one that’s right fo... (read in full...)
Why are his parents so over protective towards us?
Q. I am 16 and almost 17. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. I want a baby and so does he... but his parents say and tell use that we cant do anything till were out of college and a lot older. WE are not allowed to do anything, we ...
A. 21 September 2010: Only when you have your own child and that grows up to your age will you fully understand the answer to your question.
They are protecting him because they dont want him to tie his life down before he has had a chance to fulful it.
Stoppin... (read in full...)
Any aunts specializing in domestic abuse questions?
Q. Are there any Aunts who specialize in answering domestic abuse questions? I ask because I'd like to write in private rather than post on a public board. ...
A. 21 September 2010: Feel free to send a message. This situation is not easy to control but there is a way out.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend takes ages to cum!
Q. My boyfriend takes ages to cum. We are 16 and lost our virginities to each other. I've heard guys first times last like.. 30 seconds, he was more like 30 minutes! And now he lasts up to 2 hours inside me! I enjoy the sex, but Im just VERY ...
A. 21 September 2010: The time it takes can vary from less than a minute to hours. It depends on how aroused he is etc...
Guys can control it but usually by stopping stimulation before ejeculation.
Ask him what feels best as your doing things this will give you be... (read in full...)
I love him but he lives 500 miles away...
Q. Well basically I'm 13 and I dont know what to do.... I met this guy online and he's really sweet and I really love him and he loves me but he lives 500 miles away in Essex and I want to be with him so badly but I can't because he lives that far away ...
A. 21 September 2010: It is still possible to have a long distance relationship and they can work too. It depends how much effort you both take in keeping in touch. If its all true love and not just infatuation right now then waiting until your old enough to leave ... (read in full...)
After cancelling a date due to illness, should I be the one to make the next move? Or should I wait for him to ask me out again?
Q. Can anyone help me please with a quick dating etiquette question? I cancelled a date as I was unwell and now I'm wondering if I should be the one to make the next move and invite him out or if I should I wait to see if he asks me again? I don't want ...
A. 21 September 2010: If you cancelled the ball is now in your court. If you leave it he will think your not interested and may or may not contact you again.
Just give him a call and arrange another date, you can explain your reason for cancelling over a drink or... (read in full...)
Why does he type my name in his texts?
Q. Ok this is going to be a little short but I'm very curious of this. When ever me and my boyfriend text eachother, he'll say my name in every text (10 times out of the 34 he sent). Sometimes it'll be a little more often than that and I was just ...
A. 21 September 2010: I use my girlfriends name when I text her sometimes. Just be thankful he is putting your name and not someone elses!
... (read in full...)
My ex contacted me again - should I get back in touch with him or not?
Q. My ex just contacted me after having broken up with me for 2 months. We were together for just two months as well, but at the beginning the feeling were incredibly strong. He said he lost feelings for me. That he liked me and still cared about me ...
A. 21 September 2010: If you dont want him to go then take him back but take things very slowly and dont rush or be pressured into anything you are not ready for.
... (read in full...)
My friend wants to have a threesome!
Q. I have these friend that wants me to have threesome with him, but he is married, the party is his friend a male, and I'm confused since I have nt tried it before, so what should I do??...
A. 21 September 2010: It really depends on how you feel about it. If the guy is married it meanbs he will cheat on his wife, then he will cheat on anybody.
There will be more risk of STDs / HIV etc... as you dont know either of their sexual history.
Take time to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to miss your ex?
Q. Iv been in a relationship for 5 months now and never been happier. But recently i have found myself thinking and somwtimes dreaming about my ex alot. Not thoughts of wanting to be back with him, but kind of happy memories and times we spent t...
A. 21 September 2010: I think your feelings are perfectly normal. I still think of my ex's even though moved on several years. I still love them in a way just not in love with them as I thought I was at the time. Its a different kind of love if that makes any sense?
... (read in full...)
I'm worried we might be getting married too soon, but he has told me he will break up with me if I don't marry him!
Q. hi, i really need help with this. time is runing out. i am so in love with my guy.i never had such a deep feeling of love from anyone. we are like magic together. we got engaged on july 4th . i was very happy. we started dating in nov. [8 months] ...
A. 20 September 2010: It is clear he is blackmailing you. I know you say your so in love with him but if he is threating to break it off if you dont marry him then he is clearly not so in love with you.
If he was then he would wait until your ready for marriage... (read in full...)
She wont talk about what happened! How do I deal with this?
Q. we have been friends for 13 years and i fell for her 1 year ago its been awkward,but we manage to stay friends.well she started staying at my place off and on, she would sleep on my bed, and out of respect i would only sleep next to her with no ...
A. 20 September 2010: You have to give her time to open up and maybe trust you more. Dont push the subject she is not ready to have a sexual relationship yet or something may have happened in her past preventing her from having one.
What ever you do now dont touch he... (read in full...)
How do you show a guy you really love him?
Q. How can you show a guy that you really love him?...
A. 20 September 2010: It will show in your actions and thoughts the same as a guy would express true love for a woman.... (read in full...)
I've never had sex because I'm not comfortable about my penis size
Q. Ok so I'm a 19 year old male, and I've had sex before I just never felt comfortable due to my penis size. Nobody has ever said that it's small or anything but a lot of people try it on with me and I'm always afaid that my penis isn't big enough. My ...
A. 20 September 2010: You fall into to the average category with a 5 inch penis it is not small.
The vagina is typically no deeper than that anyway, if your penis was longer it could cause pain for the woman during sex.
Providing you can hold an erection you wou... (read in full...)
Is this age difference wrong?
Q. I'm a 23 year old guy in love with a 32 year old woman who loves me back, is that considered wrong or bad? ...
A. 20 September 2010: Age difference is no problem. If you both love each other and have a strong relationship then it should not be an issue.
A 9 year difference really is not that bad at all.... (read in full...)
It feels nice but I can't get any release from her stimulation
Q. I need a little advice from those more experienced than I. Me and this girl have been dating for around two months or so. Recently she started wanting to pleasure me, so I agreed and let her giving me a hand job. It felt GREAT, I mean, there was ...
A. 20 September 2010: I have the same thing in new relationships. Assuming there are no medical problems that you cant ejeculate then just give it time, try to relax more and enjoy it.
Its more likley down to anxiety and stress that causes it. Technique also plays a ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend broke off with me and took off with another guy!
Q. Im having a big problem with my girl (always guys take her off and i dnt complain but yesterday i was at {her}the house and a guy came and took her off falsely,i then re-acted to that and i said to the guy he stay away frm my pride{girl} ...
A. 17 September 2010: Dump her and find another girl. She is not worth your time or effort.... (read in full...)
27, a virgin and a social recluse. How can I meet women/date?
Q. Hello, I am a 27 year old virgin, and to make things worse I am a social recluse and unable to ask out women or even flirt with them. I have recently decided to go back to university for a second masters degree to help me change my career direct...
A. 17 September 2010: You could try internet dating sites. I have been on a few dates from them and finally am now settled with a nice woman who appreciates me.
Other than that go to as many parties etc as you can find the more you put yourself out there the better c... (read in full...)
Should I be mad at him for his behavior?
Q. I live with my bf and his parents. Recently I was sick for two days and my bf had those two days off. His friends came over on those days and he spent the entire time with them in the living room playing games and pool. He only came to our room to ...
A. 17 September 2010: Personally if that was me, I would have cancelled on the friends or at least offered to.
Not saying he should be running up to you every 5 minutes but he should be there for you.
Also changing the subject after you telling you loved him should... (read in full...)
He seems to be coming back -- how can I speed things up?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been broken up for a month now and we were going out for 2 years. We broke up on good terms and it was because we were bickering too much; not even real fighting. We hung out Tuesday night and had a really good conversation. ...
A. 17 September 2010: I dont think its a good idea to rush things. He obviously still has feelings for you.
From past experience a break can be a good thing, so can no contact as it makes both people miss each other that bit more.
Give him another 4 weeks and try co... (read in full...)
I'm too old to get pregnant at 39, right?
Q. I thought i already post last 2 days ago and i cant find my post so here i am again writing again. Hello to all, i just wanna ask something. I am 39 years old. 4 days after my days i took a pills. But then i realize i am already old so i stop my...
A. 17 September 2010: No its not to old but the risk of problems will be higher than say 35 or less.... (read in full...)
Why does it feel different every time?
Q. My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and abd the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his stuff. I'm not cheating on him. Can ...
A. 16 September 2010: Maybe hes getting smaller LOL.... (read in full...)
Can anybody tell my why your vagina feels different from one day to the next?
Q. My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his "stuff". I'm NOT cheating on him. Can an...
A. 16 September 2010: Your husband has a lot to learn about the vulva then. He is delusional and paranoid.
A man cant tell if their partner has been cheating by the feel of the vagina alone thats rubbish.
The vagina is controlled by muscles it can vary from second... (read in full...)
How accurate is the first response home pregnancy test?
Q. My girlfriend and I were afraid that she could be pregnant so she took a first response pregnancy test. She took it 4 days after she was supposed to have her period and it turned out negative. She is now 6 days late and recently moved to another ...
A. 15 September 2010: They are usually accurate. Encourage her to go and see her doctor if its worrying for her.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend only want sex?
Q. My bf and I hangout out more now, bt the problem iss thatt he will only take me to his house, to have sex, and thats all. I know he is busy with school and stuff, bt come on,, only sex. Am i right or no???...
A. 15 September 2010: He is using you, sorry to say that sex is not love and love is not sex.
In a relationship sex is only a small part, if he really loved you would know about it.
How long have you been together?... (read in full...)
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