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writes:Okay here it is I haven't heard from him for over a year and last time I told him I still loved him he kind of got really annoyed.Then I sent him various text messages till six months ago when I stopped coz he would either not reply or reply like he was real bothered. Yesterday I got one ring on my cell phone and he hung up...but his number appeared...I chose to ignore the call and not text him or anything....but I am just wondering does this mean he is trying to connect again and doesn't know how since he has been ignoring me, that he is scared of my reaction or what. But I mean shouldn't I wait till he gathers up the courage to make a full call, meaning ring till I reply. Why on earth would he ring once and hang up. I know it was not by mistake due to the time it occurred...just before he goes to work.Thanks for any suggestions
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 I think Angzw is right. This is probably just one ego booster for him. Remember, he ignored you for months..and now just a single ring will make you call him back? He is expecting you to maybe panic and call him back. DON'T!
Come to think of it, he didn't have the mercy or the heart to even reply properly to you before or even just to tell you to get lost. If he has lingering feelings, it might be the feelings the he misses the attention you give him.
If you call him, he will say to himself "i knew this girl hasn't gotten over me yet, cool!"
As Kenj said, if he really wants to contact you, he will contact you no matter what. Not just a missed call to make you excited. Just sit back and relax and continue enjoying your life now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys you are all so nice.
I cannot text him coz last time something happened to the fact that my price will not allow me to text him any more unless he makes an actual, factual move.
So I shall follow Kenj advice...wait a little longer and see what happens. I have been waiting a year anyway.
It is a difficult situation...which I cannot get into here.
So I can understand his hesitation. But I have lowered myself enough by texting for months and do not want to lower my price any more. As Kenj says if it was not a mistake and I do not get in touch with him and he really is interested he will try and make an effort again...either a text or a real phone call.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (10 March 2010):
Just send this message: "I missed a call from this number?" Dont call him. Just the text. If he replies and says it was by mistake then say "ok, cool". Then leave it there. Don't lower yourself vackbto the calling and stuff. He probably misses having his ego stroked.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Sorry but I don't see why you figure it couldn't have been a mistake. I'd chalk it up to just that. He'll be in touch if he wants to be.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 March 2010):
 It may be something as simple has he misdialled on his phone but I doubt that.
He probably wants you to phone him back. If he wants to contact you again then he will, just leave it a little longer and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): Please ignore him you have moved on now don't go back to where you were 6 months back. He is your past he didn't want to know you then so why now!
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