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words are my world, they are more than 26 letters to me .
they are the desert of beauty
where the sun hangs like a golden nickles in my emptiness ....
where the clouds are shadows traveilling on a sand carpet
only my soul and 2 palm trees
i hang between them the 26 letters
when the sun goes down..................
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Why do people mis-use each other ?
Q. Hello I am after all only a human I dont quite understand why people miss-use each other ?? Why do people treat each other like things ? I really need to know if that is normal?...
A. 27 March 2007: thank you .
but you know i really dont under stand that some thing or god give us life and we do shaire the earth with animals trees and i can relly see that they are so much better in shairing , and if i have a cookie and your are siting with me i... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am a mental person in a normal world?
Q. hello I really cant sleep any more my life is really so hard I am 36 years old 20 years working, I live with my memories and I do remember every thing or almost every thing that's happened in my life and I really dont know what to do any more, I a...
A. 27 March 2007: i really dont want to make it hard for you i really do open books and read 2 or 3 pages and thats all from that i really can tell you the rest .i do go to a caffe i town i do talk to people the whole day they do realy ask me for help an d i do that ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am a mental person in a normal world?
Q. hello I really cant sleep any more my life is really so hard I am 36 years old 20 years working, I live with my memories and I do remember every thing or almost every thing that's happened in my life and I really dont know what to do any more, I a...
A. 27 March 2007: well thank you very much for answering me i was born in the 10th of january i was burned with hot water when i was 6 months old i do remeber that i see it now in front of me i can see my mom runing like mad pulling my skin with what i had on i do ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am a mental person in a normal world?
Q. hello I really cant sleep any more my life is really so hard I am 36 years old 20 years working, I live with my memories and I do remember every thing or almost every thing that's happened in my life and I really dont know what to do any more, I a...
A. 27 March 2007: i am going through a therapy but now my therapist talks to me about her problems just really we talk and you know i have lived in the desert one year on my own and that was the greatest time i ever had in my life it was imptiniss full of life. and ... (read in full...)
This guy at school is blackmailing me!
Q. Please help me! I'm 13 years old and have recently moved to a new school. I really like a boy in my year! Since being at the school I made friends with a boy called Robert who I thought was a really good mate. Me and my friend decided to tell him ...
A. 27 March 2007: hello the best way to do with that, to go towards him and say hey you have nothing to do with me any more and stop that . becouse you cant live your day with fear becouse of stupid things, stand for your right if you dont do that you will lo... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me?
Q. hiya every one I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me? I have told my mum and dad that he is 22 but a hate lying to them and also I dont even no if I love him yet because I'm scared to fall in love again be...
A. 27 March 2007: hello i think that you are too young for him so back to your books good luck... (read in full...)
If I don't have sex with her she says she'll break up with me, the problem is her age, she's only 14.
Q. I'm in love with a younger girl. I don't have a problem with the age gap because age is just a number to me, but I turn 19 this November, and she just turned 14. The thing is that I love her so much, but she wants to have sex. I object to this ...
A. 27 March 2007: hey she is a child and you have to stop that with you being 18 you are a man and men dont do that, that is wrong. and tell her family please if you care about that child i dont know what is wrong with you this in my world not normal i dont ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so nervous when I have to read something aloud in school?
Q. I get really nervous when I have to read something out at school how can I stop that?...
A. 27 March 2007: hello think that you are the hero who is telling the people in his town dont worry i am here with you and for you feel that and let it go i use to do that when i was your age and you will make it try that and let me know, good luck... (read in full...)
When you are dancing with a girl and she is grinding you with her bum, what are the men supposed to do?
Q. this might sound like a stupid question, but when you are dancing with a girl and she is grinding you with her bum, what are the men supposed to do? just move with her while she does it? this happened to me on the weekend when i went out round the ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello that is a give way sign like the one you see in the street in a bum form. good luck... (read in full...)
A Question about attitudes of sexual freedom!
Q. A Question about attitudes of sexual freedom. Keep in mind this is about sexual gratification only. Just don’t tell me that women are all about love and that men are all about sex. That is BS. So if a woman sleeps around why is she looked ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello its like that as you said ,in our heads there is a human mind and in that thing there is only 6%are working and this in case of a normal human , and we hope that the world one day will be normal and that will happind when we go back to our n... (read in full...)
How can we find time for sex??
Q. Hi im a 34 yr old male thats married with 2 kids, one is 16 nearly 17 and the other is only 14 months. I have a full time job although i'm lucky enough to be one of the bosses so i get more time off than others and normally only work from ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello you have to make a time table for your kids when they go to sleep , ater 10 you can make love with your wife . and if your kids pass by ignore that ´. its normal thing. good luck... (read in full...)
My bf said we're finished if my kids visit me! I met someone else who i occasionally sleep with. What should I do?
Q. I met my b/f 3 months after my husband left me. My 21 and 23yr old who live away from home, cant stand him, won't speak to him and cut him dead if they meet. He says that if they come to my house and he finds out we are finished. He has a temper ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello i am sorry and i think your boy friend is right and i hope that poor man will ditch you soon if your children dosent have manners to rspeckt him as human and not ignore him in his own house he has the righ to tell you and them"GET OUT OF HERE"... (read in full...)
I tease her and she says "shoosh you" and "make me then." Is she flirting with me?
Q. There's this girl I really really like and she knows I like her a lot. When we're around each other, I tease her about top-up credit (she tops up a lot), I tease her about a lot of things. She keeps on telling me to 'shoosh you' and I say 'make me ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
in your age you dont do this sort of things ,if you like tell her that or try to be nice to her ,and done with it
becouse maybe she is to nice to tell you shut up.
good luck... (read in full...)
She left her bf for me but not before she had one last romp with him! I'm upset about this..what should I do about it?.
Q. ive been going out with a woman for about a month now, she was still in a stale relationship until she split up with him last week she told me they hadnt had sex for a while but saturday just gone she tells me the night before she moved out she ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
forget about it and go on if you love her and think why did she leave him?
good luck... (read in full...)
How can I make myself see him as just a friend! Argh!!
Q. I can't stop thinking about one of my male colleagues. We both know we like each other, but I have just come out of a long term relationship so I don't feel ready to get involved with anyone. Also our job is very demanding and we have decided that ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
i think the best way to do that is to talk about it with him and be tru and ask him about how hi is thinking of you and mybe he likes you as a friend only and when he answers talk about your main point and how do you feel with your self and ... (read in full...)
When I turn 18, am I entitled to the right to care of my brother ?
Q. Hi everyone I really need help i am in a hard spot right now...i am 17 years old i will be 18 tuesday,and my brother is 16 years old.. Yesterday i went to pick my brother up so he can hangout with me and when i was taking him home he started crying, ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
i know that you fear your dad and you see him like a monster
some times but you know he is your dad the man who worked and done things and good things for you and your brother when you wer kids
i think you try to find one of your dads fr... (read in full...)
Why am I so shy all the time ? Surely now Im 20 I should have grown out of it ?
Q. i find it really hard to except compliments as im very self conscious and quite shy. whenever someone says something like (and this doesnt happen very often) u look really nice or ur really pretty, i go red and just mumble "thanks" and end up ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
i think you are normal girl at least in my world and beeing shy is some thing very spical about a real girl and dont change youre nature for the others let then know and learn from you becouse there is to many things out there and we do got ... (read in full...)
I cant orgasm with my partner and its getting very frustrating!!!
Q. please help me! i cant cum when im with my bf. i have been with him for just over a month and we have a good sex life.. its not that i dont get turned on by him because i do! im in love with him, its just so frustrating.. when he fingers me i just ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
sex is a part of our nature some times its hard to enjoy it becouse your way of thinking during having it blocking your feelings ,in this case your mind and fantasy together with feelings brings you to the highst point of joy there for your... (read in full...)
I like his personality, but not sure I fancy him, what should I do
Q. im 20 and this guy i work with who i have become friends with told me he fancies me. thing is i do really like him personality wise but sometimes i look at him and say "yeh i fancy him" and other times i think "theres no physical attraction", its ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
if you think that you fancy him so why not to try becouse you cant love what you dont know and maybe hi is a real man that will make you happy and looking attractive or sexy it is not important but if you are serching for sexy body that is a... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that i admire him? Will I regret it if I don't say anything?
Q. hi there , im a 28 yr old female n i need some help. I am otherwise a very confident person and i love life...last year i saw this guy n let me tell you, it was this gut attraction, you dont feel like this ( all the time ) and i regretted never ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
call the pharmacy ask for him and tell him on the phone and if he thinks of you he will know who you are and there you go.good luck... (read in full...)
I'm15-can my 33 year old bf get into trouble with the law for kissing me?
Q. Hey! im 15 and my partner is 33. we met 2 years ago and he told me that he is in love with me.i love him as well.and dont say i dont know what love is,because i do!! Last May,my mum and dad found out their was something going on between me and him ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
yes i think so becouse you are a child
and really look after your self .
good luck... (read in full...)
I'm becoming very negative about my marriage, and feel my wife is just a taker! I owe it to myself to get out dont I!?
Q. In the beginning, please note that this is the very first time ever that I write about my marriage or talk about it with anyone. I am 45 and she is 43 and we’ve got four marvellous children. During our 19 years of marriage and 23 years of knowing...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
you think that you are the giver but really look what you wrote read it agine and you are only wanting your partner to be what you want not what she liks and wants and i think
to work and help your own family its great thing but its normal t... (read in full...)
I so want us to work but I can't seem to get his ex out of my head.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now, and we had the most amazing time together. We were friends for over a year before we got together and I am so in love with him. The problem? I can't get his ex girlfriend out of my head. I don't ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
enjoy him becouse you have hi she is only"EX"and"EX" means past and you cant bring past into present that you have to under stand and think positive if you know that he loves you.
good luck... (read in full...)
Lost my hubby 6 months and now am dating again! Is it too soon?
Q. i am 28 with kids and my hubby died 6months ago i met a great man 2 months ago he is 15 years older than me it feels right but is it 2 soon 2 be in love again?...
A. 26 March 2007: if you feel right go for it and try to be happy and have a new life you are alive and you can go on any time you want to.
good luck... (read in full...)
Help, my mom is overprotective and won't let me date! What can I do?
Q. Help! My mum is being way to protective of me. I am 17, turning 18 next month and she doesn't want me to have a bf. I have been going out with this guy who I met through my classes at university for just over a month now and she doesn't approve, not ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
your mom is right
good luck... (read in full...)
Im so suffocated at home, but cant afford to move out! Help!
Q. Recently i've been having a few problems with my parents. They constantly interfere and comment on everything i do. i can't read a book or watch television without some remark. whenever i go out, my mother wants to know exactly where i'm going and ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
i think your parents love you and care abot you so much
and the still see you as a 6 years old and parents like to see kids grewing up and when kids they dont grew up its not the parents problem so you have to watsh out what you are doing do... (read in full...)
Why is it hard to accept niceness??
Q. Why is it hard to accept or digest for me when someone is kind or nice to me? If it so happens, i become so much desperate to get more that i try to possess the person who was being kind and end up spoiling my relation with them. Any advice? ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
i think every where there is burders and and you have to know how not to cross them ad you do that becouse you are
a nice and good person and you think that the nice person that you like is like you but you have to under stand that he or sh... (read in full...)
What is a healthy way to get your needs met??
Q. When i don't get something i want, i use tricks and manipulation to get it. This is because i have never got something that i need desperately by merely expressing my needs to my parents. They would easily disregard it. What is a healthy way to get ...
A. 26 March 2007: hello
work for work to and dont use tricks thats not good
good luck... (read in full...)
She seems to want to copy me all the time and it's really starting to get on my nerves!
Q. Hi all...I need some help coz I've been getting annoyed with this friend of mine. She and I go to the same university. Recently, she started buying the same perfumes that I had, so I stopped wearing mine because I didn't want us to smell the same. ...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
is there is any thing good about your friend to say you have talked only abou how great you trat her and how bad she is i dont know if she is only a person you know becouse ecording to what you said that girl is not a"FRIEND"and with frie... (read in full...)
I'm always there for my friends, but they can be real horrible sometimes.
Q. Ok here it is, At school I'm adequately popular, I rarely walk from lessons by myself, and I'm always with people at break and lunch, its just I'm always alone at the weekends. i dont really get calls or texts and they all just ignore me if i g...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
do some thing sport paint threw your handy away and you can write letters paint pictures life is more than puching buttens.and dogs are good friends get you one
good luck... (read in full...)
Should he be making the effort to be in touch with me more often?
Q. I'm nearly 19 and my boyfriend is 36 and we've been together for 6 months. He is a real workaholic! He lives in London (where his business is) during the week and near me at weekends. When he is in London, I don't always hear from him every day ...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
if you enjoy the company of eachother when he is with you
just keep enjoing him the way he is and i think its not the right time to aske for change.
good luck... (read in full...)
I fancy her but she wants to be friends!
Q. there's this girl in my school i fancy so much! i try everyday to talk to her but it's too hard. her mates always chatter and laugh about me likin her! i love her so much that yesterday i talked to her for about 1 minute and now i cant forget abou...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
dont push her away keep her as a frien and try to fancy another one.
good luck... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her as a friend, if she doesn't feel the same way about me, so I'm a bit uncertain what should I do.
Q. There's a girl i met quite a while ago, that I recently started to like. About the time we met she showed some pretty clear signs that she wanted to have something with me, but I was dating another girl at that time and didn't do anything. Now i ...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
i think you have to look her in the eye and tell her that
letters you write when you miss her and not for start just tell her and dont make it a story when you say it say what you wont to say "tell her that you found your way in her eys ... (read in full...)
Why would he look so shocked? Did he get scared?
Q. Can anyone tell me what this means? I really, really fancy this guy i work with. We have been flirting heavily for about two weeks. Last time I saw him I gave him the 'bedroom eyes' look. Not meaning I wanted to sleep with him but trying to look s...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
the way you look is sexy if he likes you he will see that
and dont try to change your look and it can be that he like you the way you are and not with that sexy look becouse it might be that you yre sexy lookin girl
good luck... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and thinking of having sex for the first time.
Q. i'm 16 years old and thinking about having sex for the first time. i'm really nervous cos the girl i'm with has already had sex a few times and i dont want her to think i'm rubbish. i am uncircumcised and wanted to know if i'm supposed to pull...
A. 25 March 2007: hello i had sex for the first time when i was 27 so dont have it now . good luck... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: hello take your time be true with your self and ask your self why he left there is allways things we dont know about and you dont say and that makes it had to answer. good luck... (read in full...)
Followup to the disappearing bridegroom...His family are avoiding me too. Should I divorce him?
Q. A follow-up on my original question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/weve-been-married-a-week-and-hes-done.html In response to the question asked "How well do you know this man and where there odd behaviours before your wedding? Change in appea...
A. 25 March 2007: hello if you love him search for him keep your hope and that will be a nice memory later and if you wont find him maybe you will find some one that you will fall in love with do on your way to him that will do you good dont give up your feelings... (read in full...)
I really did like her until she got all insecure in bed!
Q. i'm a guy that likes to have fun. i'm young but i'm pretty mature for my age so i like to date older women for the experience. when i finally met this girl my own age i started to really like her because of her personality and she was beautiful but ...
A. 25 March 2007: i think you have got so much to do in life and dont put your feelings in you "THINK" sex comes after love and not because you liked her she is human not a car. good luck... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I don't want to have sex with him?
Q. dearcupid i am a 14 year old and i was wondering how do i get a boy to see the real me and how do i ask him to go out with me? I go to his house and he talks to me and he wants to have sex and i am scared and i like him alot but i'm afraid to tell ...
A. 25 March 2007: hello just say it and dont do what you dont want to do tell him "I DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU" good luck... (read in full...)
Would a man ever look twice at someone 10 years younger?
Q. Hey, I don't know where else to turn, or ask for an outsider's opinion. I have a crush on a man 10 years my elder. I'm not too fussed about age, but it seems ridiculous. Would a man ever look twice at someone 10 years younger? We get on well ...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
i think when the feelings are right then just do it
my wife she is 10 years older than me i dont think that there is any thing wrong in that
good luck... (read in full...)
My wife is very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships.
Q. I have been married for 16 year. Several years ago my wife started on line gaming. She got very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships. This cause much upheaval in our life when she started spending 6 to 10 hours a day ...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
dont divorce your wife just take her away to the desert
or somewhere for 2 weeks to have some time together
or stand there and threw that thing out of your window and befor you do that make sure that no body get hurt.
good luck... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: hello
i do understand what your going through and there is a book
writin by Peter lauster called Die liebe or the the love and when my wife left me the last time i was lost i didnt eat smoked 120 cig a day i had nouthing to think about only her... (read in full...)
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