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writes: i'm 16 years old and thinking about having sex for the first time. i'm really nervous cos the girl i'm with has already had sex a few times and i dont want her to think i'm rubbish.i am uncircumcised and wanted to know if i'm supposed to pull my foreskin back when having sex or not? if i try pulling it back when i'm erect its quite tight, is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): i am to thinking about having sex and im 17, im not as scared as i thought id be i know i have found the one im going to be with for the rest of my life ... we are engaged but not getting married for another year or so
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): You should put the condom on with the foreskin pushed back. Once you have undone the condom on the shaft you can push the foreskin forward a little, this allows the foreskin to move without breaking the condom. It is important that you are fully erect or the condom will not fit properly.
Look up "uncircumcised condom" in Google you will find tons of pages pretty much saying the same thing.
I would suggest you keep practicing on your own, it is tricky until you get used to it - e.g. staying fully erect whilst squeezing a rubber thing over your penis is not exactly a very erotic act, haha. But but once you've mastered it you'll be fine. Condoms can generally be quite uncomfortable, especially if you are too large for them. Check the small print on the box, you can compare brands as each type is usually a little different in size and you'll find a brand and type right for you.
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reader, Dos_Vinci  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I too am uncircumcised. Put the condom on your penis, don't worry about pulling the foreskin back. It won't stay. I suggest using a Diaphragm or female condom. Because as you thrust it will stretch the male condom farther than the size you have set and will sometimes rip. I'll tell you now. Sex isn't what you think. It doesn't last for hours and hours like they say. She's most likely not going to be moaning like a porn star no matter how big or great you are. Trust me kid, you're not missing anything. Save it for the one you love and I swear to you, it'll make it 1000x better; because then it will have true love in the mix.
But if I can't change your mind, you better use some protection or I'll kick your ass..
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reader, finchy  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I know you are legal age and all but i honestly dont think you are ready. Find out some more information about sex then when you are confidant go for it! if she likes you she wont make fun of you for being a bit off just tell her you are still a virgin.
I lost my virginity about 3 weeks ago and i was nervous too lol.. at least your girlfriend can show you what to do like my boyfriend did for me :D
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reader, Renna +, writes (25 March 2007):
 First off... I think you should seriously reconsider actually having sex. I lost my virginity around 17 and looking back on it now at 21 I wish I had waited till I was a few years older and more amotionally equipped to deal with it. If you feel that you must share some form of sexual intimacy try keeping it to oral.As far as pulling the foreskin back or not, I'm fairly sure it's a matter of choice. Whatever is most comfortable to you. As far as the tightnes being normal or not, I think that's more of a question for your family doctor.
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reader, home_land  +, writes (25 March 2007):
 helloi had sex for the first time when i was 27 so dont have it now .good luck
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