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writes:please help me! i cant cum when im with my bf. i have been with him for just over a month and we have a good sex life.. its not that i dont get turned on by him because i do! im in love with him, its just so frustrating.. when he fingers me i just cant seem to relax. when i do relax nothing happens... He makes a joke about it and says im stubborn but its really bugging me.ps: I lost my virginity to him could this have something to do with it?
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reader, Midge +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I think you are just a little tense, and believe it or not, but some woman do find it much more difficult to have an orgasm than others. It is very common and there isnt anything wrong with it, perhaps very frustrating though.
Since its just a month into the relationship, I think you will find as time goes on, it will become easier to orgasm. You just need to be completely relaxed and find the best position with him. Believe it or not, but positioning is everything when it comes to orgasms. Be a little adventerous and try a few different positions.
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reader, home_land  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 hello
sex is a part of our nature some times its hard to enjoy it becouse your way of thinking during having it blocking your feelings ,in this case your mind and fantasy together with feelings brings you to the highst point of joy there for your hearts starts beatin fast you can hardly breath and men for them its mostly joy work and feelings ,woman are up to 80% is pure feelings and to let your 80%of feelings out You must have a 20% of fantasy.
good luck
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