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writes:I met my b/f 3 months after my husband left me. My 21 and 23yr old who live away from home, cant stand him, won't speak to him and cut him dead if they meet. He says that if they come to my house and he finds out we are finished. He has a temper and I try to keep the equilibrium. Whilst going through a tricky patch with him I met another man who I would happily settle down with if his situation allowed it. As it is we meet every few weeks for great sex.I dont know whether to ditch the b/f for the kids sake and have the occasional sex with the other man or what to do? My b/f says he loves me to bits and would be devestated if he knew what I have been up to. Reply to this Question
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reader, hwicnhlp  +, writes (27 March 2007):
Personally I think you should let him go. Your children should come before anyone. They must know he doesn’t treat you that well, that’s why try don’t want to see him. Also on the flip side you BF know he don’t treat you that well and don’t want to face anyone who will stand up for you. He knows he is a bad person.I wish you all the best.
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (26 March 2007):
im sorry but theyre your children and blood is thicker than water, no one has the right to stop a parent seeing a child.secondly stop cheating, end one or other or both, cheating does nothing but damage
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reader, home_land  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 helloi am sorry and i think your boy friend is right and i hope that poor man will ditch you soon if your children dosent have manners to rspeckt him as human and not ignore him in his own house he has the righ to tell you and them"GET OUT OF HERE"good luck
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (26 March 2007):
Tell him they are your kids and they will always be welcome to visit you. If doesnt like it, tell him to get lost.
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