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I don't want to lose her as a friend, if she doesn't feel the same way about me, so I'm a bit uncertain what should I do.

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Question - (25 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2007)
A male Bulgaria age 36-40, anonymous writes:

There's a girl i met quite a while ago, that I recently started to like. About the time we met she showed some pretty clear signs that she wanted to have something with me, but I was dating another girl at that time and didn't do anything. Now i really think I like her, but when we go out she acts like we're good friends and nothing more. I haven't really told her in straight that i like her, but I find that kind of lame, and she doesn't react to the hints I'm giving her. I've made compliments, hinted that I like her, told her that I find her attractive, but she doesn't react at all. Do you think I should tell her how I feel in straight text? On the other hand, I don't want to lose her as a friend, if she doesn't feel the same way about me, so I'm a bit uncertain what should i do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

i was oing through the same thing a couple of weeks ago. she seemed more mad when she found out that I liked her but didnt tell her up front. you might have a good chance if you tell her how you feel. the thing is you want to say it in the right way. tell her with confidence. if you say it in a low voice she might not talk at all...

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (25 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

i think you have to look her in the eye and tell her that

letters you write when you miss her and not for start just tell her and dont make it a story when you say it say what you wont to say "tell her that you found your way in her eys and there you got lost"

good luck

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