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Hello

words are my world, they are more than 26 letters to me .

they are the desert of beauty

where the sun hangs like a golden nickles in my emptiness ....

where the clouds are shadows traveilling on a sand carpet

only my soul and 2 palm trees

i hang between them the 26 letters

when the sun goes down..................

Younis the Poet

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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   25 March 2007: hello take your time be true with your self and ask your self why he left there is allways things we dont know about and you dont say and that makes it had to answer. good luck... (read in full...)

My wife is very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships.

Q.   I have been married for 16 year. Several years ago my wife started on line gaming. She got very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships. This cause much upheaval in our life when she started spending 6 to 10 hours a day ...

A.   25 March 2007: hello dont divorce your wife just take her away to the desert or somewhere for 2 weeks to have some time together or stand there and threw that thing out of your window and befor you do that make sure that no body get hurt. good luck... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   25 March 2007: hello i do understand what your going through and there is a book writin by Peter lauster called Die liebe or the the love and when my wife left me the last time i was lost i didnt eat smoked 120 cig a day i had nouthing to think about only her... (read in full...)

His son who no longer lives with us broke into our house!

Q.   My husband of six years has two teenage sons (who do not live with us), one of whom has been mostly trouble since day one. My husband has never disciplined his kids or made them accountable for their mis-deeds, and now the troublesome 17 year-old ...

A.   25 March 2007: i know its a crime and that is not right but you know its not easy to have peace also within a family and you know mom had 8 kids and and onther 2 from his first wife my dad died when i was 13 and i had to work after school and help my mother a... (read in full...)

I need advice on how to get me through this summer!

Q.   I am only 16, and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. hes joining the army and is going to be away all summer. to tribulize the situation he has a really weird home life, with parents on the verge of splitting and controling ...

A.   25 March 2007: hello stay at home do talk to him ,dont talk against his family show him how you feel and wait to see what he will do becouse he has to be a man and sand for his love when i was 16 i had the same with my first girlfriend i use to write her le... (read in full...)

He has a son and he wants to marry me but I'm not ready for a ready made family. What should I do?

Q.   I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend. There's a large age difference between us, but it's never been a problem; we're very similar and have a lot of fun together. I knew he had a son from a previous relationship but he's only started seeing ...

A.   25 March 2007: hello my mom had 2 kids when she was 20 and 8 kids when she was 35 she loved my dad and he loved her we have shaired a dry paese of bread and a cup of tea and some storys .so if you love him and he loves you go ahead and do it dont think of your... (read in full...)

How can make her see that I truly love her and I want us to be together again?

Q.   Me and my girlfiend broke up today, and she won't even talk to me. What happened I went in the bedroom around 10:00...and fell asleep watching TV...then woke up around 3am...went out and got a drink and had a smoke...went over to the couch and put ...

A.   25 March 2007: hello if you are sure that you didnt do that then dont say sorry for it, leave it at the moment and try to show them that you are beeing hurt bay this kids game .and tell them to grew up real friendship dont end ,keep calm and talk to them and try ... (read in full...)

What is the first step for me to stop being emotionally abusive and controlling towards her?

Q.   Hello. First off let me share my background. I'm a 21 year old guy, in a relationship with my 20 year old girlfriend. Although the relationship has only lasted 3 months this far, we've known each other for over two years, being best friends and e...

A.   25 March 2007: hello this what you are having can destroy your love to her we as humans are 2 parts thinkig and feelig mind and soul your love is part of your sperit and your behaver is what you think if you want do it right you have to keep balance between... (read in full...)

His son who no longer lives with us broke into our house!

Q.   My husband of six years has two teenage sons (who do not live with us), one of whom has been mostly trouble since day one. My husband has never disciplined his kids or made them accountable for their mis-deeds, and now the troublesome 17 year-old ...

A.   25 March 2007: hello first of all real punks they dont do that and you are puting all of it on your husbands shoulder and to be honest you are a big part of that family and you have to do your part in it and try to get close to his family the 2 kids and do... (read in full...)

Not sure how to squirt!!?

Q.   I have a question its a little embressing but my boyfriend and i are really into each other and things in the bedroom are really good but he wants me to sqiurt if you know what i mean but i just cant figure out how to any advice from anyone?...

A.   25 March 2007: hello I think at your age you have to look after yourself and your stuies and young girls like you have so much to learn in this life. I don't think that its the right time for you to do such things. Do something better don't turn yourself... (read in full...)

How do I talk to my husband about our marriage problems without relying on counseling?

Q.   My husband and I separated 1 month ago. He left and set up a new home without much warning. We have 2 children. According to him there is noone else on his side and there is definitely noone else on my side. I want to try marriage counsell...

A.   25 March 2007: hello the best way i see is to talk to him like you use to when you first meet him and if you feel that you love just be on his side becouse it might be that he want to have some space for him self at the moment . take it like that and think po... (read in full...)

What to do about our living arrangements! What do I do?

Q.   I'm madly in love with a woman that I've been in and out of a relationship with for almost 2 years now. We lived together with her 3 kids for a year, and things did not work out for us at that time, so I moved out and bought my own place. We didn't ...

A.   25 March 2007: hello if you talk about love you dont need to worry about money partnership is about sharing and love is sharing and sex you can buy it if you love her you have to be able to share with her what you have and money or house are things you mad... (read in full...)

My son has been caught making fun of fat people. What can I do to make him stop this?

Q.   I received a phone call off my son's PE teacher yesterday about his behaviour. My son is 15 years old. The PE teacher told me he and a gang of two other boys stripped a fat boy to his underwear and pushed him into the mud, then walked away la...

A.   25 March 2007: hello i think in this age he feels cool and want to do something and he is doing that becouse he got nouthing better to do if you can take him away to te wood show him new things nature talk about it with him aske him and let him answer if he... (read in full...)

Having problems with my family and friends! What should I do?

Q.   Well, my family and i are all moving away, which means right now, the house is being all redecked and its all new and nasty. But my mum is really stressing about it, she yelled at my sister till she cried (who is 18) and then my sister left home, My ...

A.   24 March 2007: hello its really up to you friends and real friends will stand by you and if they didnt then you dont need to care that much abut them becouse simply they are not friends they are only people you know ,at this hard time within your family you have... (read in full...)

I'm 8 months pregnant and I feel so unloved. How do I get him to show more affection to me?

Q.   hi, i am currently almost 8 months pregnant and been feeling really down. my husband of 5 years doesnt seem to understand how much i need his support right now, he is always letting me down and making me feel unloved. recently he has started to go ...

A.   24 March 2007: hello talk and talk and talk you need to do that talk to him becouse a partnership its a company it must have some ruls to keep it working once there is no ruls that means you think only of your own get your husband to talk and tell him stright in t... (read in full...)

I love him so much but sometimes this long distance thing is hard on me! What's the best thing to do about this?

Q.   Hi i have recently gone on a 'break'with my boyfriend, we have been together for eight months and best friends for over two years before this....we went on a break because we were gettin irritated with each other (we have long distance relationship) ...

A.   24 March 2007: hello, i think the best way to solve it is that you dont ask anybody ,go somewhere where there is only you and the nature becouse love and feelings are part of the nature ,watch the flowers you love and start writing to your boy frirnd try to see h... (read in full...)

How could he of wanted to sleep with another woman if he still wanted me back?

Q.   I finished a relationship a while back because i felt it lost its spark etc,it lasted 4 years but my fella wouldn't take no for an answer,anyway we have got back together because i started to miss him and wanted to work out our differences. Anyway, ...

A.   24 March 2007: hello,i have also the same problem with my wife,and i still have onther relation ship and i really do love them both i am a jung man and both of them 10 years older than me and to me its a hard strugel becouse my wife i have been runing behaid her ... (read in full...)

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