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| Latest articles: ..Who You Lose Your Virginity To
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14 April 2010: I was reading the answers to one of the questions on here, about a girl wanting to lose her virginity outside of a relationship. And I was the only answerer who didn't completely dismiss her choice (not saying that other answerers are wrong, just ...
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Can symptoms of pregnancy start before you miss a period?
Q. Last month i had a pregnancy scare, i honestly told myself i was and got used to the idea that i was. Id taken three tests, all of which were negative and a urine sample at the hospital confirmed i wasnt, the day after the hospital my period ...
A. 21 June 2009: Depends how long before your next period that you get pregnant. Although rare, some women show symptoms of pregnancy after a fortnight.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend, friends, drugs..I can't beat them but I won't join them either!
Q. A few years ago I used to be really into my drugs, well about as much as any other young person in the uk, my friends were too. However, as we finished uni it got more and more excessive, generally with ecstasy pills, cocaine, weed and binge ...
A. 21 June 2009: I felt like that. My bf got high behind my back and put his stoner friends before me. I'm with someone clean and I have no regrets about ending the previous relationship. I suggest you do the same =]... (read in full...)
Is my Mum making this all up?
Q. this is sort of relationship i think! well basicly, my mum went to see a clairvoyent a few weeks back, and apparently she told her that one of her daughters is in a long term relationship, which is my sister, she's been with her boyfriend nearly two ...
A. 21 June 2009: Ask her for the clairvoyant's contact details. If she won't give you them then I'd be skeptical that she even saw one. If she did then dang that person's clever!... (read in full...)
Why is it yellow?
Q. hai,how r u ? my sperm colour is looking a little yellow shad!(not looking pure white) y its like that and, is it problem for my marriage life?i am bothering about it, please answer me?...
A. 21 June 2009: Are you a smoker or a heavy drinker...?... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the subject of my brother's unhealthy fetish!
Q. This may seem like a weird thing to talk about but i do not understand why my brother is this way. He seems to have an unhealthy obsession or fetish with pregnant women. I few yrs ago i found pictures on his computer of naked pregnant women, and he ...
A. 21 June 2009: Maybe he should see a psychologist or something. ... (read in full...)
I seem to have an excessive sweat problem!
Q. Hey, I seem to have an excessive sweatt problem, i bath everyday but as soon as i put a fresh shirt on i have these dark patches screaming through. I cant stop the sweatting and im worried girls will look at me with disgust. any help pls ? :(...
A. 20 June 2009: Er... you're using a deodorant, right? I hope so. And an anti-perspirant would be even better. Try Mitchum, that stuff's supposed to be pretty strong =]... (read in full...)
I don't let my husband see my breasts because they are too small!
Q. Me and my husband been married for about a month now. We're very happy together but I never let him see my breasts cause I think they'll too small (A cups) and I don't think I ever want him see them. My husband begs me to let see them in dark and Im ...
A. 20 June 2009: If he cared that much about what size they are, why would he have married you??? I'm sure he can tell whether you're big or not even when you're clothed, and he STILL wants to see them =]... (read in full...)
Taking birth control pills, but worried I'll still get pregnant if he doesn't wear a condom
Q. Okay so, my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. He and I used to foreplay and sometimes have sex but it all stopped a few months ago when I got on birth control pills. I don't know why but I Just was never in the mood. The thing is, I've been ...
A. 20 June 2009: If you did get pregnant from just using the pill, you'd be in about 0.01% of pill takers without using condoms. But remember the pill protects from pregnancy ONLY.... (read in full...)
Can a woman only get pregnant on her fertile days?
Q. Is is true that a woman can only get pregnant on her fertile days? ...
A. 20 June 2009: She can only get pregnant on fertile days. Thing is that they ain't always when they're supposed to be, so ALWAYS use protection. Apparently you can still get pregnant on your period, although highly unlikely, it's still possible and not worth the ... (read in full...)
What does semen/cum taste like?
Q. I was wondering, my bf and i have been going out for almost a year and i really wanna "spice" things up for us, so i've decided i would give him a blowjob. My concern is when he cums what does it taste like? what does cum/semen taste like?...
A. 20 June 2009: Depends what he's been eating. Apparently spinach or cabbage makes it sweet. And NEVER give a guy a blowie after he's taken paracetamol... glack!!!!... (read in full...)
I don't feel pleasure during intercourse!
Q. aaaahhh! i need help! ok so my fiance and i just started having sex i guess 5 months ago. he's the second guy i have had sex with. i get in the mood but everytime i feel him inside but there is NO pleasure! i know he's not too small because th...
A. 29 April 2009: Apparently for a lot of girls sex is a required taste - first pain, then nothing, then pleasure. Try different positions as well. Don't worry I'm in the same boat =]... (read in full...)
Sex CAN be beautiful!
Q. I have made love with 3 of my ex-boyfirneds and my current bf. I was amazed by how romantic and gentle and beautiful sex could be. all my exbfs were virgins and sex with them was boring, tiring (I had to move from the beginning to the end and I am...
A. 29 April 2009: If you remember what it is he does can you post it so I can show my boyfriend ?!?!?! =p
Yeah, the experience and the emotion are both factors in whether someone is a good lover or not. I'm my boyfriend's first unfortunately lol =]... (read in full...)
Smear test hurt. Will it hurt when having sex?
Q. hi i had a smear test not so long ago and it really hurt i nearly cried. does this mean it will really hurt when i have sex? also the nurse told me that my hymen is broken i've not yet had sex obviously other activities have caused this but ...
A. 29 April 2009: It does hurt at first, I'm not gonna lie, but the majority of girls are in the same boat, so don't worry. It gets a lot better over time anyway. If you intend on losing your virginity then come back to me for tips on how to make it less painful =]... (read in full...)
Condom split, could I get pregnant?...
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex using a condom and he came, about 45 mins later we had sex again and the condom split, the top ripped off the condom, could i get pregnant from the pre-come or the come from the 1st time?? ...
A. 29 April 2009: Although unlikely, its still possible, I would get tested if I were you. I suggest you go on the pill, it's far more reliable =]... (read in full...)
Funny smell "down there" after sex!
Q. Hi there, I always seem to get this problem where if I sleep with my partner without a condom I seem to get a funny smell down there after a few days no matter how much I wash. any ideas of what it could be? p.s We have both been checked for STI'...
A. 29 April 2009: It could just be the cum, sometimes it takes a while to come out again! And yeah like Uncle Phil said, what's his personal hygiene like? Bad personal hygiene on his part (no pun intended) could also be the cause.... (read in full...)
Financial support for single mothers?
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant (I was on the pill, so definately not intentional). I've decided to keep it, and i've made an arrangement with school so I can carry on with my education. I'm a bit stuck with what to do as regards to ...
A. 29 April 2009: I'm not sure what financial benefits would be available for you. The quickest way to find out would be to call your local council. You're really lucky to have such a supportive boyfriend and family. What an accident to happen tough, I'm on the pill ... (read in full...)
Can you trick a pregnancy test into showing a positive result?
Q. Is it true that you can trick a pregnancy test into saying "yes"? If so how is that even done?...
A. 29 April 2009: Er, to get a pregnant person to pee on it for you...?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend claims he is the shy type in the bedroom yet he likes discussing porn with his friends!
Q. Hello, I got a question about my bf. We together 1,5 years. Our sex life was very good when we started and we did allot of stuff in the bedroom. However, my bf made me believe that he is a quiet and shy type, as he was not into experimenting with ...
A. 29 April 2009: Discussing porn is a cover up - so he can talk about sex like the others without having to talk about his own personal sex life I'm thinking. He needs to be more confident - good sex is all about the communication, and once you lose your ... (read in full...)
Views on sex based abortion
Q. This is a question for those who are pro abortion or against it. I know of a person who has been pregnant 3 times and each time she found out she was having a boy and decided to have an abortion because she wanted a girl. Do you think this is ...
A. 29 April 2009: Not at all, it's her child and she should love it equally be it a boy or a girl.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?
Q. I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping ...
A. 29 April 2009: I think you need to emphasize the fact that you took precautions before you get to the point. Are you pregnant by a boyfriend? A friend? A fling? If it's a boyfriend then all the better. I hope your Dad's not angry because it's not your fault. Thank ... (read in full...)
Unemployed boyfriend is being too picky about what job he would take!
Q. my guy has been unemployed for about seven months now. he has been looking for a job but not on a consistant basis. he is still living with family. when we are together i pay for most of our entertainment. i don't feel obligated to do it but i ...
A. 29 April 2009: It's not an answer, but I know how you feel, my Dad's being exactly the same way =[... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?
Q. I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...
A. 29 April 2009: No, only if you miss your second jab and have sex after it was due =]... (read in full...)
Had sex missed alot of b/c pills and now I'm scared
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex on Saturday (4/25/09)... i have been on birth control 4 a month...but ive been missing aloooot of pills, i know i missed a whole week one time! sound crazy? He didnt use a condom and we went all the way...i'm terrified now ...
A. 27 April 2009: I should think it's about a 50% possibility if you missed that many. Get yourself tested. Also go on the contraceptive jab, you only have to remember to turn up once every three months instead of taking it every day! =]... (read in full...)
Anniversary in 5 days and I'm lost!
Q. Helppp! Me and my boyfriend's anniversary is in 5 days! I really don't know what to do and I don't know... It makes me feel guilty that I haven't bought him anything "expensive" yet. I know they say, it's the thought that matters but he spent a ...
A. 27 April 2009: Make him a mix tape of songs you think he'll like - I did that for my mate's birthday and he loved it =]... (read in full...)
Do I go home and live my life without him or stay with him and be unhappy?
Q. Hey guys, i have an issue that has been bothering me for some time and i dont know what to do and how to deal with it. The problem i have is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and at first everything was ok, a bit hard because of my ...
A. 26 April 2009: You seem quite serious about living with him. You are also pregnant which is a big thing. Is there any possibility the two of you could get a house nearer to your parents?
However if you have large doubts, then this is not such a good idea. Co... (read in full...)
I don't feel the right things but I can't break up with him!
Q. hey! The situation im in dosent make much sense to me so im sorry if its slightly confusing for you guys... ive been with my boyfriend for nearly ten months and it had been !Amazing! we feel so strongly for each other and tell each other absolutl...
A. 26 April 2009: I have felt like that, but in my case after a while it blew over. I would give it a few more weeks before you make any major decisions, as your feelings may sway one way or the other. Is there a possibility that someone else may have come into your ... (read in full...)
I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!
Q. hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...
A. 26 April 2009: How important do you think these material things he's not offering you are? Are they really worth more than love? I think yours whole perspective sounds very shallow.
Anyway you are 22, if you really want those things, why don't you get a job and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in prison, and I missed his calls!
Q. HELP!! - My boyfriend has just been recalled to prison and both times he has tried to phone me I have been out and missed his calls!! - What shall I do? - I want him to know I'm there for him and not deserted him!! - Help! - The whole situation is ...
A. 26 April 2009: Next time you get to talk to him, give him your mobile number so you can still hear from him when you're out. I don't mean to pry, but may I ask why he is in prison?... (read in full...)
My family is against our relationship.
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...
A. 26 April 2009: I've been there, I've dated a guy 2.5 years younger than me. He was really immature and often let me down. It's also probably illegal for anyone his age to have sex, so think to yourself - it's either abstinence or suffer the consequences - which ... (read in full...)
My 14 y/o daughter wants to have sex with her b/f
Q. My 14 year old daughter has just told me she wants to have a sexual relationship with her 15year old boyfriend. What should i do?...
A. 26 April 2009: I'm sure you've told her all of the risks involved, pregnancy and STIs, and she knows that you're not comfortable with it. She needs to know that a. losing your virginity is not something you get a second chance at so you need to be sure and b.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I don't want him anymore with him harming himself and emotonally blackmailing me?
Q. iv been living with my fiance of two years and all we seem to do is make up and break up. iv had enough of it. when i decided to move back in with my mum he broke up with me. then he wanted me back and said he will move in the area that am liv...
A. 26 April 2009: If he's blackmailing you then it sounds a bit like he's an attention seeker or he's milking it. I had an ex who was like this, he made everything about him. Break ties with him and explain that you both need to get on with your lives without each ... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 26 April 2009: Is your belief working for you? Do you truly believe in it? You'll never have proof if you don't experiment by developing close relationships. We all need someone close, nobody can get by on their own. And as they say, 'better to have loved and lost ... (read in full...)
Just looking for some good advice.
Q. I know this just seems like another one of those cliche stories about a student liking a teacher, but that's the way I feel and I can't help that. I'm 18 and I think I have a crush on a teacher who is single and roughly 9 years older. I know that ...
A. 26 April 2009: If you are close to graduation, and he's nine years older, that's not too bad. Maybe after you graduate, you could just keep general contact, and see if he returns the favour. If he does you could try taking things further. Don't give up on finding ... (read in full...)
Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?
Q. I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't re...
A. 26 April 2009: You can buy special bikini line razors. Makes include Gilette Venus and Bic =]... (read in full...)
He's my first boyfriend, and I don't know how far I want to go
Q. I just started dating, and I've been dating this boy for a little over a month, we broke up briefly but now we are together and happy. Its always been a huge goal of mine to wait until i graduate to have sex, but other things are okay...i think. i...
A. 26 April 2009: Take things slowly, and as soon as you feel uncomfortable then slow it down again. I don't think setting a goal to have sex at a certain time is rational as we all change our minds. Do things as and when you feel like doing them, let it be ... (read in full...)
Air keeps going in and out of my vagina! My bf doesn'y mind but I'm so embarrased by it!
Q. Hi again, please help me I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years . We enjoy making love we do it almost everyday. But recently I started to notice that when we makelove there is air coming in and out of my vigina. It is so embarrasing as ...
A. 26 April 2009: Yeah, you mean orgasm, not organism =]
Just try a different position. I get it me and my boyfriend do it doggie style, but not in any of the other positions we've tried. So experiment and see what works out for you - some positions feel better t... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a guy that my sister used to fancy! What do I do??
Q. I have started dating a guy I really like and things are going really well. He is really into me too and it would seem I have nothing to worry about at all. We have a sexual relationship and things are great in that department too. The problem is ...
A. 26 April 2009: I don't see any problem if your boyfriend and your sister are not interested in each other right now. I know my friends aunts and uncles swapped partners on each side of the family and it still worked out for them, so if they managed it in that ... (read in full...)
Men!!! Strange creatures!
Q. Why wud a guy u been seein 5 wks suddenly change and go off with sum1 else out of the blue and then constantly watch for ur reaction all the evening? And be jealous if someone even as much talks 2 u? ...
A. 26 April 2009: Perhaps he was doubting your feelings for him and did it to see what your reaction would be.... (read in full...)
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