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lovinlife91
writes:aaaahhh! i need help!ok so my fiance and i just started having sex i guess 5 months ago. he's the second guy i have had sex with. i get in the mood but everytime i feel him inside but there is NO pleasure! i know he's not too small because the one before him was smaller. we have tried everything. when he plays with me i feel the pleasure! is it something im doing wrong?! i mean there is no distractions, im completely focused on us. HELP!
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reader, Jessmca +, writes (30 May 2010):
 You guys probably aren't doing the right position. Some positions I don't get pleasure out of, until I found one and it's amazinggg! So try new things with your lover.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): i know exaclty how yu feel as i have been strugling with this for 10 years. i have never felt pleasure from my vagina on my clitoris during oral sex but it doesnt last very long. because of this i dont feel for sex n my marriage is over as i cant pretend anymore. it hurts so bad as i see people getting horny and i dont understand what they r experiencing. no one understands becasue they are feeliing what we want to fell
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reader, mighthavehadsexin3rdgrade +, writes (26 May 2009):
you might want to have more sex play around a little bit. Go into sex more than you already are. explore his body a little bit. Let him explore yours.
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reader, Auntie Noodle  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 As crude as this may sound, do you masturbate? If you can reach climax through this then you don't have any problem physically and you may want to consider rubbing your clitoris while you are having sex, trust me, your partner will love the view and it ensures pleasure for you is also an option. Most women cannot climax through penetrative sex alone and this is the best way to achieve it.
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reader, redharley +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Hi, My name is redharley. I am a lesbian and married to a woman. So its hard to talk about these things with your better half. But just experiment with different types of things. Sexual toys, different positions and things like that. There are a lot of great books out there that will show you how to get creative with sex. But, it has to be something that both of you have to be into. If you want I can talk more indepth with you on a one on one basis on my personal email that they offer on here. I will be more than happy to give you any personal advice that I have. Good luck.
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reader, chibvukubvuku  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 maybe you will be dry? i.e. if you dont lubricate i guess you wont feel pleasure and maybe these guys havent found your g-spot. wish you all the best, or try artificial lubricants i am sure you will get there.
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reader, makka  +, writes (30 April 2009):
dont start having sex straght away. do diffrent thing first. let him play with ur clitoris for abit. and then start the real fun. if that doesnt work ur probbly not really atracted to them that much and thats whats not making u have any orgasims love. hope that helps. have a have a good day mate.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Apparently for a lot of girls sex is a required taste - first pain, then nothing, then pleasure. Try different positions as well. Don't worry I'm in the same boat =]
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reader, Brenna36 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Most women don't get any pleasure from vaginal because most of our pleasure come from the clitoris. 80% of women cant orgasm through vaginal because were not designed to. There MUST be foreplay and clitoral stimulation. And condoms till marriage.
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