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14 April 2010: I was reading the answers to one of the questions on here, about a girl wanting to lose her virginity outside of a relationship. And I was the only answerer who didn't completely dismiss her choice (not saying that other answerers are wrong, just ...
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I want to meet his family!
Q. Hey guys, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and I love him to pieces. wouldn't trade him for the world. One thing that's bothering me though, he's met my WHOLE family and they adore him. He's even met my nan's friends! But I haven't met ...
A. 24 March 2010: You should bring it up. Maybe he's waiting for you to show some enthusiasm about it. Unless there is a serious reason for him not to want you to meet them, then I'm sure it's just because he hadn't really thought about it. It's a totally normal ... (read in full...)
My elderly neighbour had a go at me for dressing too revealing!
Q. my question is regarding wearing saree, i am a housewife. i wear sarees only, recently was hurt when my neighbour, an old lady rebuked me for wearing a saree sexily, whe said that i should not expose hips n navel when i wear saree. i have got used ...
A. 24 March 2010: She's only your next door neighbour. You shouldn't care what she says. Your husband probably likes it, isn't that more important? Live how you want to =]... (read in full...)
Why do I feel bored in my relationship???
Q. SO lately I've been analyzing my relationship with my current girlfriend. We've been together for a year now. I know its not much compared to someone that's been in one for 3, 5 or even more years, but I'm actually proud of myself because I never ...
A. 24 March 2010: You answered your own question - your relationship has become a routine. Maybe you do the same thing every time you see each other.
Go out and do different stuff together - go to the cinema, go shopping, go for dinner or on other days out. It'... (read in full...)
Any good ideas on how to propose marriage?
Q. Hello Aunties and Uncles, I intend to propose to my girlfriend in a couple of months. We have discussed this in the past and more recently and truly feel the time is now right for both of us to do this. Neither of us have ever been married in ...
A. 24 March 2010: My mate was proposed to in the gardens of a stately home by a lake and she was thrilled, that's just one idea.
Just don't do anything cliche, like the whole "ring in the champagne" thing. And I wouldn't do it in front of loads of people as some ... (read in full...)
Caught in compromising footage on the internet, ..but it was all totally innocent!
Q. Several years ago, I was leaving a concert. As we heading to a parking garage a woman on the street took off her top and lowered her pants showing everything. She bent over in front of me and gave everyone a show. The whole thing lasted only a ...
A. 24 March 2010: Try contacting the administration of the website and explain the situation. Hopefully they will listen and empathise with you.
If you think your wife is likely to find out about this clip then I would explain to her what happened. If you say noth... (read in full...)
I can't feel my boyfriends penis when he's inside of me...HELP
Q. *OP's own title* I am in a relationship with an incredible man that I am highly considering for marriage. My past relationships were all based on the physical but quickly fizzled b/c they had nothing else to offer. My current boyfriend and I star...
A. 24 March 2010: Just try a different position, sometimes that makes all the difference. Go through the Karma Sutra. And if there's still no like, try the Kegel exercises =]... (read in full...)
Why do people think there can ever be a 'bright side' to a break up?
Q. Why do people always think "there's a silver lining in every ordeal we come across?" How do you apply this in break-ups? Why do people always say "Look at the bright side of the break-up"? What's the bright side of it?...
A. 24 March 2010: For a start, it means you're free to find someone better, which is the most important bit. All relationships end for a reason, and you won't have to worry about whatever caused the problem.
On a less serious note, it means you can do whatever... (read in full...)
How short is too short to date?
Q. hi is it true that girls wont even notice a guy shorter than 6" ? i heard that they always say "at least taller than me" but they are actually looking for tall ones right? can girls tell how short is too short to notice? and how short is too ...
A. 24 March 2010: Where the hell did you hear that?
If that were true then over population wouldn't be a problem. Girls aren't that shallow that they won't notice a winning personality in a small body?
My boyfriend is 5'4" and I fell for him almost as soon a... (read in full...)
Why do I get these naughty feelings about him?!??
Q. Okay so theres this guy who makes me go completely mad! I am 16 and in 5th year and hes 12 or 13. He is in 1st year. He walks with my brother to school every morning. I've never ever spoke to him and he has only smiled at me. I've never been ...
A. 24 March 2010: Maybe he's just been really nice to you, and sometimes we just fall for those who give us the most attention.
Spend some more time with and get closer to more guys your own age and you'll probably forget about your brother's friend before long =]... (read in full...)
Help!!! Am I still a virgin... or not???
Q. I am 18 but when I was 15 I had a bf who tried 2 make luv 2 me but he didn't enter, I bled a bit, he tried it over 6 times sometimes I bled, sometimes I didn't. I am worried coz I don't know if I am still a virgin. I was dating both A and B but B ...
A. 23 March 2010: Technically, you didn't actually have sex, so you're a virgin. Breaking your hymen doesn't equal losing your virginity. You can break your hymen for loads of reasons like physical exercise or inserting a tampon. He shouldn't care whether you are a ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my brother what should I do???
Q. I'm in love with my younger brother. He's the only guy that truly loves and cares for me. If I ever need someone to talk to he's there for me and I love spending time with him. He's smart and he has a really cute smile. I love him more than I've eve...
A. 23 March 2010: I'm sure you know the consequences of incest. Not to mention your brother would be really freaked out by this.
I guess you never had a boyfriend who really cares about you as much as they should and your brother just ticks the boxes. Just try not ... (read in full...)
Just because we have the same last name doesn`t mean that we are related.
Q. my family knows that i have a boyfriend now the thing is they say we are related and we broke up because both of us love each other very much, i want to know what's there in a name? because i'm sure that our blood are not the same...
A. 23 March 2010: It's probably just coincidence but it wouldn't hurt to do a DNA test just to make sure. I'm sure you know how wrong incest is and that it's a crime but if you're not related then there is no reason you should split up =]... (read in full...)
Teacher acts weird around me because I think he`s interested...I`m not.
Q. I'm 17 atm and at a private school where increased interaction between students and teachers is acceptable. However, there's this teacher who's 30 years old that I'm having a few problems with. He's an English teacher and only arrived a year a...
A. 23 March 2010: It sounds just a little farfetched at the moment. Carry on as normal but tell your parents or another teacher so that they're aware of the situation.
If he carries on acting strange or gets any worse then write a letter of complaint or ask if y... (read in full...)
I shook, and the world didn't feel the same. Could I have epilepsy?
Q. Hi, At school there is this thing going around. 1.squat on floor and pant 2. stand up and blow your thumb. After school today, i was standing with friends and 1 of my friends did this and laughed after. So i did it. I remember blowing my thumb....
A. 23 March 2010: Well, doing the "challenge" wouldn't have caused it. You're friends are telling the truth about the fit aren't they? You couldn't have just got breathless and passed out.
It's true that epilepsy can cause fitting, but so can another conditio... (read in full...)
The language barrier is keeping me from involving my boyfriend in my family life.
Q. I have an amazing BF, never met anyone like him. His family’s great as well and they’ve made me feel so welcome. My parents however are a bit different. Their English is not very good and they don’t have many friends here. My dad is a bit strange, ...
A. 23 March 2010: I am English and my boyfriend is Portuguese. He lives with his grandparents and they don't speak english. I don't speak portuguese. But I still socialise with his grandparents. Believe it or not, you can bond without actually talking. If he proves ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to start dating again while I am still married? I've been separated for 3 years but my husband wont divorce me
Q. i've been separated for almost 3 years now. my husband says he will divorce me but hes been saying that for 2 years and still no divorce. i wont do it because i wanted to get back together he didnt. but i feel like he took advantage of that. he ...
A. 23 March 2010: Why is he refusing to divorce you? And if you're over him, then as long as whoever you date knows your situation and trusts you, then I don't see a problem.... (read in full...)
What can I do so people don't think I have left my husband for another man?
Q. So I have been married to a man for 4 years, and the last 2 years have been bad. He actually said a couple of months ago that completing his education ( he is in Masters program) was more important than me. About a week after that I had decided I ...
A. 23 March 2010: Well for a start, if they know you're officially separated, and your ex is harrassing you, then people aren't gonna like it. You shouldn't really care about what other people think, but if you're that worried, keep your new relationship on the down ... (read in full...)
How long does it take birth control to digest?
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] ok. so. i just ended my period this last sunday. me and my boyfriend had sex, and i was supposed to start a pack of birthcontrol that night. i didn't have the pack tho and i had to wait until monday to get it. ...
A. 23 March 2010: Did you take your pill more than 3 hours before you were sick? Because it's normally about 3 hours. Although I'd use a condom as well for the next week just to be on the safe side. Also if you should have started the pack that night but didn't... (read in full...)
How do you touch a woman so she knows your interested without being too forward?
Q. How does a man touch a woman to communicate interest in her without being too forward or too stiff?...
A. 23 March 2010: It's not so much about what you do as for how she responds. Any physical contact can be a sign, but you gotta see if she gives it back. If she does take it up a notch. Kiss her and see if she kisses back. Give her a massage. Say 'what do you wanna ... (read in full...)
I'm afriad of a mans penis, but doubt I am a lesbian. Help!
Q. I am a 20 year-old girl. I have a little mental problem. I am afriad of man's penis. I do not have boy friend yet. I search the pictures on the internet, and I found it a lilttle disgusting, especially the pubes. Sometimes, I do not know what is ...
A. 23 March 2010: Penises aren't pretty, it's true. But when you really care about someone then that really doesn't matter. And they might look a bit gross but they feel nice. I think the general consensus amongst girls is that penises on the whole are not attractive ... (read in full...)
Do American men prefer european or american women?
Q. what do the American men find attractive in irish women.i am intested to know.do American men marry girls from other countries like from Europe .or do they prefer girls from there own country ...
A. 23 March 2010: I don't think many of them really care. And it's same old, same old - everyone likes something different. When it comes to what people are attracted to, there isn't really a right or wrong.... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, and now worry of the consequences. Please help me!
Q. [Moderators Note - Helpful advice only please] ok this is really long but ill try to make it short: alright im fifteen,i went out with a guy for what would have been a year on feb. 27 this year but he kept breaking up with me an begging me to ta...
A. 23 March 2010: I'm sure you don't really need to tell me about what to do if you think you're pregnant or what kind of contraception to use and for me to repeat what others have already said will be patronising. As for the guy, give him the benefit for now.... (read in full...)
He says my vagina is too tight. Is that good or bad?
Q. My guy and I have been together for a while. We just recently had a conversation about our sex life and he says that my Pussy is too tight. He enjoys himself, I am always wet enough, my hygine is great, but I'm too tight. I am 27 years old and all ...
A. 23 March 2010: Well it a. depends on what your guy likes and b. depends how well endowed your boyfriend is. If it's a little bit tight guys like it because they can feel it more. However if it's too tight it can hurt the guy. However if you were that tight your ... (read in full...)
Why do women have checklists for potential boyfriends? Is it all about box ticking?
Q. Ok so this is really a question for men who have been through the same thing and women who have told a guy this and what it really meant for them. I'm in love with this girl for quite some time now. She is my best friend. So much so that I d...
A. 12 September 2009: Well of course there are certain boxes that all women want their men to tick. And most women have specific needs so that's kinda about box-ticking. But ticking all the boxes is worth nothing without having that special something it takes for a ... (read in full...)
Could I be getting pregnancy symptoms 10 days after sex?
Q. i had sex 10 days ago and since yesterday i have been feeling differant eg. i sat down to eat a sandwitch witch my stomake was rumbling for so i sat down to eat it took one mouth full and felt sick and could not eat it anymore and i keep getting ...
A. 12 September 2009: Yes that is a symptom. It's the weight of the baby resting on your bladder that causes you to pee more. However you probably wouldn't get that until you were fairly far gone.... (read in full...)
Can you stop taking the pill, then start again when you know when you are next having sex?
Q. Hello, I have a very simple question. I am on the Pill (Yaz) and have been for the last 4 months. I will only be seeing my boyfriend in 4 months (december) and was wondering if I could like , pause on the pill and then start re taking it again....
A. 27 August 2009: You can, as long as you start taking it again at least seven days before you have sex.... (read in full...)
Do you think it's too soon to start trying for a baby?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really want a baby. My fiance and I are planning our whole future. I am graduating a year early, we're moving in together in a year and are going to the same college and working part time jobs. I figured our finances and I ...
A. 27 August 2009: You're going to college. Doesn't that answer your question?... (read in full...)
When I turn 18 and I'm going to risk losing my family by leaving with my step-brother, who I'm in love in. What do you think?
Q. Ok I'm 15 years old. I'll be 16 in a few weeks. I have this step brother who i'm madly in love with. And he feels the same way about me. We've both been liking eachother since we were 13 and we can't seem to stop. In the summer of 2007 my mother and ...
A. 24 August 2009: Sounds like you've made your decision!
One thing I will say is PLEASE wait until you are older before you take any big actions because feelings can change unexpectedly.
Personally I don't think it's wrong. It's not incest because you're n... (read in full...)
Am I a repressed homosexual?
Q. Am I gay? For as long as I can remember (I'm 30) I've fantasized about men. Everyday I end up fantasizing about having sex with men or men having sex with each ohter. I watch homosexual porn, shemale and bi stuff and I always get an errection. I ...
A. 24 August 2009: You never considered the fact that you could be bi?
And yeah I do think bisexuals see the different sexes in different ways. I know my friend prefers sex with other guys but only wants a relationship with a girl. It's perfectly possible... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and feel like I'm breaking down looking after everyone else!
Q. im 14 and my mum suffers from depression everyonce in awhile she has a breakdown and says she wants to kill herself and cries everyday, she is like this at the moment and my sister has a boyfriend right now so is not helping me to look after her ...
A. 24 August 2009: I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. It's a huge responsibility, especially as you're only 14. You sound very mature. It just sounds like you need someone to look after you. You need to tell someone how you feel. This website is a great start so w... (read in full...)
I don't totally trust the pill and don't want my boyfriend to wear a condom!
Q. Hi everyone, I wrote a while back with a question about the pill. Now I really do not know what to do. Basically I'm worrying a lot that the pill won't work and I will get pregnant whilst using it. I just cannot trust it no matter how hard I try. ...
A. 24 August 2009: Well then the only answer to that is to not have sex. The pill/jab is about 99.9% effective is taken properly. Condoms are 95% These are the two most reliable forms of contraception.... (read in full...)
About how long does it take to enjoy sex... since first time sex?
Q. hey everyone :) quick question....about how long does it take to enjoy sex?? i lost my virginity last month; the first time hurt a little so i tried to relax and that worked. so the next time i did the same thing....but it didnt feel "good...
A. 24 August 2009: I lost my virginity at the end of January with my ex-boyfriend and we were having sex over the space of four months. I never really enjoyed it or got anything out of it. I left him in June and started dating my new boyfriend, with whom I started ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity or not?
Q. Hi. I am a 19 year old female. I have been with a guy now for a little over 8 months and We both know that we will be together for life. We play around sexually like 3 or 4 times a week. I was a virgin when I met him. At first it started off just ...
A. 24 August 2009: You didn't actually have sex. So technically you're still a virgin. It will only hurt more when he fully penetrates if you're not aroused and your cervix hasn't lifted. But you were fine when he put his head in so I wouldn't worry too much, just m... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two men...and I need to choose. Has anything else been through this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female that has been seeing a guy that is in prison for about 14 month's now.I love him so much and what to be with him in ever way I know this men for about 10 year's and when I was 18 we had been seeing one other for 3 year's ...
A. 24 August 2009: I kinda did. I fell for my best friend while I was taken. I didn't go with my gut instinct at first and it just hurt me. But I finally saw the light and followed my heart instead of my head and left my boyfriend for the other guy. And I can honestly ... (read in full...)
I want my foreskin restored
Q. I hate being circumcised, I am not religious and I would like it if my foreskin was intact. I am afraid that girls do not like cut penises. Is there any way I can restore the foreskin. ...
A. 24 August 2009: I've been with three uncircumsized guys and one who was and tbh, I couldn't care less which one my guy was! Most of the time girls don't even notice. Sex wouldn't feel any different either way, even performing oral feels pretty much the same. So ... (read in full...)
7 days pill break equals no sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I are starting to get closer in bed, im still a virgin but I know he is the right guy and we're going to be togeter forever. But the only proble is im on my 7 day break on the pill. Ive heard that you're not supposed to have sex for ...
A. 24 August 2009: It's only when you first start the pill, it takes 7 days for it to start working. You can have sex on your 7 day break without getting pregnant but you'll be on your period so sex wouldn't be a good idea anyway!... (read in full...)
Could I be getting pregnancy symptoms 10 days after sex?
Q. i had sex 10 days ago and since yesterday i have been feeling differant eg. i sat down to eat a sandwitch witch my stomake was rumbling for so i sat down to eat it took one mouth full and felt sick and could not eat it anymore and i keep getting ...
A. 24 August 2009: Not likely that you'll be getting any symptoms yet. Other than if you have sex right before your period, you shouldn't get any symptoms sooner than two weeks afterwards. Most women don't get symptoms until after about four weeks.... (read in full...)
What are the chances of being pregnant if he came inside of me 3 times?
Q. what are the chances of me being pregnant if the guy came inside me 3times? ...
A. 20 August 2009: Quite likely. Get a test =]... (read in full...)
We've been going out for 6 months, is it to early to be in love?
Q. Ok well basically I am in love with this girl who is also my age, I have been in love with her for around 3 months going out for 6 months. I was just wondering is it to early to be in love? I personally think i have matured enough to unders...
A. 20 August 2009: I think it is perfectly possible to be capable of love at this stage. That doesn't mean it is, just that it could be. Hell, I was practically in love with my boyfriendmt boyfriend and I were practically in love while I was still with my ex!... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight when I can't control myself?
Q. I am a 16 year old girl and I want to reduce my weight around 16 kgs but the problem is I can't control myself so what should i do? tell me some solution.and i can't even do yoga and excerise because in some days school will reopen so then there ...
A. 16 August 2009: How do you get to and from school? Walking or biking to and from school gets the exercise in very conveniently! Also what/how much do you eat? Make sure your diet is BALANCED (that means a bit of EVERYTHING - including your fruit and veg!) If you ... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 16 August 2009: It really depends on what she likes to do in bed. There are loads of factors involved e.g. if her g-spot is really high she probably prefers a guy with a long cock, but if she's really tight it might heart if he's well endowed girth-wise. It also ... (read in full...)
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