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He says my vagina is too tight. Is that good or bad?

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Question - (23 March 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *nappeciatied writes:

My guy and I have been together for a while. We just recently had a conversation about our sex life and he says that my Pussy is too tight. He enjoys himself, I am always wet enough, my hygine is great, but I'm too tight. I am 27 years old and all of my life I assumed that was a good thing. What do i do? and how can this really effect my relationship?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI hate it when I leave beer glasses on the floor and my pussy gets tight.

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A female reader, ravin India +, writes (9 April 2010):

i love my very tight vagina because that way my husband likes it verymuch and he moans after he enters into me and says he can do anythingfor my tight pussy.if i promise to let him insert anything inside my pussy hewill go crazy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010):

What exactly did he say? You should ask him why he thinks it is too tight?

I wonder if he is hoping to use this complaint to lead up to something kinky like fisting?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010):

Thank all of you for your feedback. Lubrication is more than sufficient and is the least of my worries. My guy is very well endowed and he says that every time we have sex it's like the first time. And yes, I do exercise my pelvic muscles. It just seems that maybe he is not used to it, and the fact that he is not circumsized may have something to do with it.

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A male reader, lerokiya Canada +, writes (28 March 2010):

if he complains about your pussy being too tight, there are millions of us guys out thre who would gladly take his place and treat your pussy like it should be treated and worshipped. his hell would be my heaven.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States + , writes (24 March 2010):

DoubleM agony auntDoes he also bemoan a beautiful spring day?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

Like the others said, enjoy your tightness while it lasts. Most guys prefer a tight vagina and you should be happy with yours. Try lubrication, perhaps its more of a friction issue than tightness. Yours will loosen up in no time and then your boyfriend will think otherwise.

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A female reader, pandabird  +, writes (23 March 2010):

pandabird agony auntBeing tight is something to be proud of :) Do you exercise your pelvic floor muscles a lot? This is how I stay tight, it's definitely a good thing!

Although sometimes, even if I'm wet I still need a little bit of lube to help get things going.

If he really thinks you are 'too tight' then try having him finger you (more than just one finger if possible!) to help widen you slightly before he goes in.

Although I really don't see a tight vagina as a problem.

It's a gift :)

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntWell it a. depends on what your guy likes and b. depends how well endowed your boyfriend is. If it's a little bit tight guys like it because they can feel it more. However if it's too tight it can hurt the guy. However if you were that tight your boyfriend wouldn't enjoy it as much as he does. Talk to him about it, I'm afraid that unless you have a baby naturally then there's not really anything you can do to stretch it. But if he loves you then that shouldn't matter =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

Well, I did date someone and her pussy was a little too tight once. It was a bit of a problem because she had to be REALLY wet to have sex, and even then, she had quite a low pain threshold and it did limit what we could and couldn't do together.

You said he enjoys himself so maybe you have misunderstood him and he said "your pussy is tight" rather than "your pussy is too tight". At the moment I am in a relationship with a girl who has a tight pussy and it is AMAZING. It is the perfect size for me and I have the most amazing sex. It seems no matter how much I fuck her and how hard, it always remains a great feeling. If you have a tight pussy then you have a very desirable organ! Be proud of it ;)

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