My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself
Q. Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...
A. 22 November 2016: You need to say adios and leave you douche bag of a bf. You don't need to be with a guy who makes you unhappy. Cancel credit cards that you two have with one another. And move all assets to your account. Gather up your clothes and other items that ... (read in full...)
I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends
Q. Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...
A. 22 November 2016: Can you ask him why did he Block you from his page when you two spend time together? I used to have a Facebook along time ago. I been Block by my ex friend's sister and her cousin also. Maybe he only Block you because you found his ex gf without him ... (read in full...)
What kind of game is my friend playing? She plays hot then cold
Q. Any idea what my "friend's" game is? She blows hot and cold. One minute she is all over me, asking to go out for a drink and a catch up, coming round to my house for a drink, next minute she cuts me dead and I hear nothing from her for age...
A. 21 November 2016: I agree with honeypie and aunt honestly from both their answers that they gave you. Maybe she is bad at returning texts and is bad about scheduling plans with you. I don't think she will play the hot and cold game with you at all. Maybe she is busy ... (read in full...)
The guy who meant nothing to her in her past got to live out his fantasy while I, despite being her boyfriend, don't get the same privilege. Isn't it unfair?
Q. I guess the question I have is what do I do? About 3 years ago before my girlfriend met me she had sex with a girl while a guy she occasionally hooked up with watched. They were all out at the pub and the girl was interested in her and the guys ...
A. 21 November 2016: Why don't you mentioned to your girlfriend that you want to do that fantasy with her that she did withthe guy and the girl at the pub three years ago. When she comes home to wherever she was today. Maybe she obiag to your fantasy in the bedroom ... (read in full...)
He's so confusing and I don't know what to do..
Q. I am very confused; this is going to sound like a film but im in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do! So we've been friends since January and we've spoken everyday for the past nine/ten months but in September I told him how I f...
A. 21 November 2016: Maybe he does still like you but hasn't bring himself to tell you but is trying to see if you still like him as a bf or maybe he is teying to toy with your emotions that you feel for him. Do you both live in the same state abd same city? Do you both ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself
Q. Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...
A. 21 November 2016: I didn't get to say that much but to point out that aunty bIm bI'm is right about what she wrote and also wise owl and n91 also. You don't need a man like your high school sweetheart who doesn't listen to you and your feelings at all. I know you ... (read in full...)
Hard to read the sjgnals
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, I have a lady fried with whom my relationship was completely platonic.I found her attractive when we first met and she is a good person. We hardly communicate and when we do it's about work related stuff. In the past week, o...
A. 21 November 2016: I don't think you should ask her out if it is going yo be a pity date because she is feeling lonely and sad at the same time but if you do ask her out. Take her to go see a movie like a comedy that way you both can sit there,without talking while ... (read in full...)
Which should choose to attend? Tribute band or the comedy? Both on the same night.
Q. Can anyone advise me on which show to go to tomorrow?. There are two great shows on tomorrow night in the same city. One is a comedy show. The other is a tribute band to a band that I like. I have seen both of them before. I will be going wit...
A. 19 November 2016: I agree with everyone when they said comedy. It will cheer you up for your friend's birthday. You don't want to be depress on that special day. And the comedy is siting that way you and your friend can sit and just enjoy the show together. I am so ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is flirting with my best friend and I'm worried about what will happen
Q. I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are too close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to...
A. 19 November 2016: If your girlfriend really loves and cares for you, then she wouldn't be flirting with your beat friend at all. Does she put her hand around him when they're sitting by one another? If she is going go cheat in you while flirting with your best ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't act like a boyfriend
Q. So.... My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and are living together. We rarely argue. My problem is that most of the time I feel like I don't have a boyfriend. No texts or calls from him unless he has a question. When he gets home from work ...
A. 19 November 2016: I don't think you're crazy at all or needy. But I will just keep on wanting to be with him if you you both are in the mood to be with eachother in the bedroom or spend time by cuddling on the couch with one another also. Is he busy working or is ... (read in full...)
Why are so many men scared of the real world ?
Q. Why are men scared of life ? ive given so many men chances after they claim so many excuses . they get given 'gold' to say they darent do things and no joke it could be smal things such as meeting up in a pub for a meal theyd rather end things ...
A. 19 November 2016: I don't think all men like that at all. Most want to be in a relationship with a nice woman like you. Most of the ones yout mention can be that way. Can describe more details on this topic? Maybe men are use to doing things differently or they ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is too controlling and I feel like running away
Q. I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3 years now. I lost my job 3 months ago. I've been busy Monday through Friday teaching part-time and learning some new stuff. I told her that I'd be hanging out with my friends on a Friday's night. She ...
A. 19 November 2016: First off she can't control you at all by making you focus on your career. And it sounds like you just need to blow some steam with your friends since you loss your job three months ago. Your gf needs to be more understanding since you're always ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself
Q. Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...
A. 19 November 2016: I agree with aunt blim BlIm. Since you are unhappy because the relationship is becoming stale sweetie. All he wants from you is sex. He doesn't want to go out at all or do anything with you like go out on dates. I will say adios to him and his ... (read in full...)
How to avoid being tempted?
Q. Hello, Here is an interesting one for you. I am married (with kids). My wife is very beautiful (former Miss), we have great sex - I can get it on demand, whatever I want, I think I love her, surely I wouldn't want to hurt her. Yet, I can't sto...
A. 19 November 2016: I think you just answered your own question. You wouldn't want to hurt your own wife at all since you're unavailable to other women. I know you must be tempted but glad you're refraining from doing something that will ruin your marriage to your ... (read in full...)
Does he have too much baggage?
Q. I'm dating a guy that is a 100% gentleman, is God-fearing, has a great job, is goal-driven and has committed to being celibate with me..But, he is divorced (for 5 years now), and has two children (10 years old and 7 years old). He's 33, so I can ...
A. 19 November 2016: I wonder how you long been seeing him. Have you met his ex wife and his kid? I know it can be a handful to you if you're dating him while he is a full-time father. Try taking the relationship slow and see where it leads you with him. ... (read in full...)
I'm losing my mind over my finances! This is worse than rock bottom. What do I do?
Q. I know this isn't exactly a relationship question but this is killing me. I'm in debt after helping out financially. I haven't been able to pay credit cards, haven't been able to find a second job and now, I'm in danger of losing my car. My ...
A. 19 November 2016: I will go see the bank or talk to your boss where ever you work at for a loan or ideas to keep you from being in debt. I agree with denizen and ivy blue comments. How much does your boss pay you? Ask your parents if you can borrow the money if you ... (read in full...)
Would it be rude to not get back to a co-worker? She wants to sell me insurance!
Q. 2 weeks ago,one of my co-workers that I’m cool with ,approched me and asked when I’m free.I said I was not sure and ask why she was asking.She proceeded to tell me that she needs help with something she is starting but she doesn’t want to discuss ...
A. 19 November 2016: I would show up and listen to what she has to say. But if you aren't inretest at all you can kindly tell her no thank you and just get up and leave. She can't make you have her insurance. Have your own insurance.... (read in full...)
I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends
Q. Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...
A. 19 November 2016: I too been in your shoes last summer when my ex bf's ex gf was calling him all the time driving him, his family and me crazy by stalking him when she will call him and find on him on Google plus. But I am glad your bf did the right thing by ... (read in full...)
For me, its not "just a kiss"!
Q. Hi I could use some help. Recently I've just started to doubt a lot of things regarding myself and my future, but this one's going to be about a guy. So there's this guy that im really interested in at work. Infact, I'm possibly falling in love with ...
A. 19 November 2016: I agree with N91 on that comment he just said to you. Why don't you ask your co-worker out or is it forbidden to date since you both work together? How long have you both been working together? I think you might love him but I don't think you should ... (read in full...)
My life is a living hell with this older man
Q. I had a crush with an older man who is about 60-65 not because i like him but because of situations this man will ask for sex all the time and anytime i give him sex i get hurt and sometimes when i say no is a problem too he gets mad at me,he makes ...
A. 19 November 2016: You are very welcome. Nobody shouldn't make you do anything you don't want to do at all. And that is being force to have sex against your well or being told to keep on having sex. He should not take advantage of you since you're old enough go be ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend has other women
Q. I think my boyfriend has other women. He has slipped a few times. Sending texts that had nothing to do with our conversation. Not texting at all for 2 days. Recently, he sent a pic of his daughter. I responded by saying "How about a pic of you too?" ...
A. 19 November 2016: I am so sorry you and your bf had a fight when you voice your concerns on the women he might be seeing while dating you also. If he lives four to five hours and he won't come to see you but wants you to he there for him and love him still. That kind ... (read in full...)
I'm losing my mind over my finances! This is worse than rock bottom. What do I do?
Q. I know this isn't exactly a relationship question but this is killing me. I'm in debt after helping out financially. I haven't been able to pay credit cards, haven't been able to find a second job and now, I'm in danger of losing my car. My ...
A. 18 November 2016: How much does your income cover at your other job? Being in dept is so serious. I know your family has their problems but maybe they can help you out just this once. Have you talked to your boss about asking for a raise also? Yes finding a ne... (read in full...)
My ex friend is giving out my number to everyone until I apologize
Q. On Halloween I had a falling out with a couple friends when I got kicked out of a frat party for not paying to get in and they ignored me for the rest of the night. For a couple days after that I was angry at them and just completely ignored their ...
A. 18 November 2016: I read your post. Were you broke when you got kick out of the party? The people who ignore were all acting very immature. It isn't your fault you can't pay a to get in But your other friend who block you and gave your number to a bunch people by ... (read in full...)
How can I face loneliness?
Q. How can I stop feeling so lonely? I have just started the process of getting to know myself yes at 31- meaning finally dealing with my loniloness and not using escape mechanisms such as the wrong crowds(friends) to waste time with or men(bad ...
A. 18 November 2016: I agree with brownwolf. You should get out of the house if you really want a relationship so badly. Mr. Right will definitely will not come knocking on your door if you are at home aND ask you out, that isn't how it work in this century. You ... (read in full...)
Do women like men with deep voices?
Q. This girl at work, she's a sweetheart, always looks so positive and full of energy. I've been feeling like she avoids me a lot, so one day I talked to her about it and though she was really friendly, she said that i was a bit intimidating, my voice ...
A. 18 November 2016: I am so sure girls like a man with deeper voices. But if the girl doesn't like your deep voice at all. It is her loss. I will ffind someone else who likes you and your nice deep voice. What does your voice sound like? Being a female myself I ... (read in full...)
My life is a living hell with this older man
Q. I had a crush with an older man who is about 60-65 not because i like him but because of situations this man will ask for sex all the time and anytime i give him sex i get hurt and sometimes when i say no is a problem too he gets mad at me,he makes ...
A. 18 November 2016: I will get out of whatever you have with the 60-65 year man. You are old enough to be his daughter. If it hurts you, then he shouldn't keep on having sex with you at all. Are you a virgin? Then if you are one, then that is why it is very painful ... (read in full...)
Why does my pastor ignore me?
Q. Why does my Pastor ignore me? I started going along to a new Church with my Son's now ex gf. The Church seemed great, pastor was very friendly. Then I had a accident so couldn't get out for a few weeks. I have tried reaching out to him via text or ...
A. 18 November 2016: I read your post. I think the pastor is a perverted if he is having affair with the girl who was supposed to be your son's gf. But meddling will be very wrong also if you confront his gf on Facebook or whatever media you have. I will defiantly ... (read in full...)
Does this guy have a girlfriend? I'm so confused!
Q. There is this guy who I used to date and have sex with, and all of a sudden, I saw a bunch of things that raise the question: Does this guy have an official girlfriend? -Firstly, he posted a picture on IG with a girl on Halloween and she commente...
A. 18 November 2016: I read your comment sweetie, I got some input to share with you since I went through the same thing a couple years ago. I think the guy probably has a girlfriend if there is alot of pictures of them together and if they both met each other's ... (read in full...)
My currrent crush is pushing for information on a previous crush.
Q. Me and this girl in my class have been friends. I have always liked her but never told her. A few days ago we decided to go for a movie. I wanted to go out with her a few times before I told her. Yesterday she read my status which was "Sometimes I ...
A. 18 November 2016: I will just be honest with her by telling her the truth that you want to go out with her. was the status from Facebook or another link you have? She might say she likes Liles you alot if you tell her you been wanting to go out with her a few times. ... (read in full...)
I am infactuated with this single dad!
Q. So there is this man at my church and he is a single dad. We've started to casually talk here and there. Two weeks ago he was saying to me how he would love to have more kids. Then last week he asks he personally if I ever wanted kids. This might ...
A. 18 November 2016: Hold on sweetie, you just met the guy at your church. I agree with what wise owl said. You shouldn't be a full time parent yet,if you are under 21 years old. Dating is fine but what he ask it going too fast. You two barely even know each other. Go ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me I want a relationship but I don't want sex?
Q. Hey Cupids,I'm still a young woman who is truly in to sex with men but I have been single for years and now I want to get into the dating world but not ready to have sex with anymore.I'm ready to travel and just do me but I do feel lonely at times ...
A. 18 November 2016: I think it is understandable that you rather want a relationship instead of sex. Maybe you can do activties with other people like join a group of people out there. Do your favorites by joining people like single people who are out there. I... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's excuse made me feel belittled
Q. The other night my boyfriend and I had plans for dinner. We talked about it in the morning and he seemed super excited about it. Well later on in the morning his friends asked if he could do a boys night in which he responded with “I don’t feel like ...
A. 18 November 2016: Wait a minute he made plans with you, but his friends ask him to hang out with you. Why doesn't he spend time with you and have date night with u. He can hang out with his buddies later on tought after dinner or the next day. You two can watch ... (read in full...)
He is habitually late, and I am VERY punctual!
Q. The guy I've been dating for awhile is often late. . I'm not talking 10 minutes , I mean anywhere from 45 mins to over an hour. I'm a very punctual person so habitual latesness is my pet peeve. I've tried to tell him about this but it never goes ...
A. 18 November 2016: I will give him the taste of his own medicine. Be late and see how he likes it when you get dinner on your way to wherever you go to the next day. It will make him realize that you don't like it when he is late from getting out of work and picking ... (read in full...)
Can two people who have been in bad relationships with others find love again?
Q. Dear Cupid, I was wondering can two people who have been in bad relationships not together but with other people turn out to be the best couple knowing their backgrounds of relationships and will they need therapy.My friend and I are going to give ...
A. 18 November 2016: I agree with honey honeypie and wise owl also. You shouldn't be in a relationship with your friend if you are having doubts about dating your friend since you both are single. And you been hurt by your ex. Letting the past torment you will make it ... (read in full...)
How do I help my partner become a better parent to his 8-year-old? Right now he spoils her and shares too much information about our relationship
Q. How do I help my really good man become an amazing man and father? We've been together 4 years and couldn't be closer.( or could we?) We do everything together and plan on getting married soon. There's a small nuisance and it has to do with hi...
A. 18 November 2016: He needs to learn how to diseppline her also when she gets into trouble and also needs to be stern with her also. I know you're not her real parent at all and she has a mom already. But you and her can be friends with eachother. While you are going ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend has other women
Q. I think my boyfriend has other women. He has slipped a few times. Sending texts that had nothing to do with our conversation. Not texting at all for 2 days. Recently, he sent a pic of his daughter. I responded by saying "How about a pic of you too?" ...
A. 18 November 2016: I will definitely dropped him as a bf. If he is texting other women while he is dating you. You should date someone who is devoted to you and not text other women unless he is friends with them. Is he friends with them? So he did the same thing to ... (read in full...)
10 years later my ex writes me to say she's sorry. Do I ignore?
Q. A random question here .. about 10 years ago with my first gf ,, we was going out for a couple of months and then she ended it and spread loads of bad things about me .. which tbf didn't help me and probably hasn't helped me to this day .One thing ...
A. 16 November 2016: What she did was very wrong when she spread lies about you after she broke up with you. But I wouldn't put it pass her if she wants to get into contact to do the same thing she did since she decided to contact to take advantage of you ten years ... (read in full...)
At 19 I kissed another guy. What is the kindest way to tell my husband the truth? I can't forgive my indiscretion.
Q. So I've been with my husband ten years, married for two years. We have always had our ups and downs but now we are very strong and we have two children. However, when I was nineteen I made a terrible mistake. I kissed another man in a club while ...
A. 16 November 2016: I think honestly is the key to a successful marriage. You need to tell him the truth on what happen when you were nineteen years that you accident kissed another man. And it was a mistake that u did it. Were you and your husband who was your bf at ... (read in full...)
Had a bad last day at work and my boyfriend just made jokes about it instead of listening. Would a good partner react this way?
Q. Hi members. I think my boyfriend is selfish and not understanding in this situation I will write about. What do you guys think? Would a good boyfriend react this way?? It was the last day of my job today and after telling him I had a bad day at...
A. 16 November 2016: Having a sense of humour is a fun way to bring up the mood not having one is not really good for the relationship at all. My dad used to come home from all grouchy before. But I am so sure later on as the time u will forget about your horrible day ... (read in full...)
Had a bad last day at work and my boyfriend just made jokes about it instead of listening. Would a good partner react this way?
Q. Hi members. I think my boyfriend is selfish and not understanding in this situation I will write about. What do you guys think? Would a good boyfriend react this way?? It was the last day of my job today and after telling him I had a bad day at...
A. 16 November 2016: Maybe he just wants to make you smile after you had a really bad day at work especially on your last day at work. His jokes are the only thing that can make you laugh. If it gets out of hand, I advice to tell your bf calmly that you're not in the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want anymore children and wants me to have an abortion
Q. Hiya everyone I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a 11 month old daughter I have another daughter from a previous relationship the problem is I've just found out I'm pregnant again but he doesn't want any more children he thinks I should ...
A. 16 November 2016: I think you both should sit down and talk about the plan of having another baby. Make him listen to why you want to keep the baby. Also listen to his side also. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want anymore children and wants me to have an abortion
Q. Hiya everyone I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a 11 month old daughter I have another daughter from a previous relationship the problem is I've just found out I'm pregnant again but he doesn't want any more children he thinks I should ...
A. 16 November 2016: I really think having an abortion is a really bad idea if you are pregnant. How many weeks are you along? If more than three or two weeks then it isn't up to him to make you have a abortion. Before you two had sex and created life inside you. You ... (read in full...)
How do I help my partner become a better parent to his 8-year-old? Right now he spoils her and shares too much information about our relationship
Q. How do I help my really good man become an amazing man and father? We've been together 4 years and couldn't be closer.( or could we?) We do everything together and plan on getting married soon. There's a small nuisance and it has to do with hi...
A. 16 November 2016: I read your colum. I think it isn't right that his daughter is trying to spilt you and her father up if you and your bf if you both are wanting to marry one another. Tell his daughter that you're not trying to take her mother's place as her real ... (read in full...)
Can two people who have been in bad relationships with others find love again?
Q. Dear Cupid, I was wondering can two people who have been in bad relationships not together but with other people turn out to be the best couple knowing their backgrounds of relationships and will they need therapy.My friend and I are going to give ...
A. 16 November 2016: I am so sure you and your friend will be a lovely couple. If you are feeling like you are having doubts about being in a new relationship then you and your friend just need to be friends with each other right now. Don't be in the relationship if you ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend has other women
Q. I think my boyfriend has other women. He has slipped a few times. Sending texts that had nothing to do with our conversation. Not texting at all for 2 days. Recently, he sent a pic of his daughter. I responded by saying "How about a pic of you too?" ...
A. 16 November 2016: Have you talk to him and ask him if he has other women beside you? Is his daughter from a previous relationship with a different woman he dated before you? He might tell you what is going on if you tell him your worries about what you wrote to us on ... (read in full...)
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