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26-29,
*tupidface
writes:We were in love for 10 months and we were so happy together, the problem was that i hardly got to see her so we wud spend most our time on the phone or i.m-ing each other. then one day she just started ignoring me, she wouldnt answer my calls or text. When i finaly spoke to her she said that i never have time for her and she thinks i might be cheating on her and she thinks we should stop doing this. So i tried to move on and it was realy hard then one night she i.m'ed me that she still wants me and shes not sure she did the right thing leaving me but when i tried to reply she just ignored me. I havent spoken to her in a week and i dont know what to do. Should i call her and ask her for another chance? I really love her.
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reader, Stupidface +, writes (14 September 2010):
Stupidface is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i didnt exactly call her but she texted me and told me that she misses what we had. Things are still abit shaky but i think we might b able to work things out:)..thank y0o to evrybody wh0 answer!
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reader, GhostChild  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 If you both still have feelings for each other, then I would say that you should give her a call. See how she really feels and if you're both willing to give yourselves another chance, then maybe you could give it another try. If not, then at least maybe calling her could give you some kind of closure and a chance to get things out in the open.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Call her, if she doesnt answer, message her somewhere, tell her everything you feel, if she doesnt respond you know where you stand.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Yes, call her and tell her you love her and that you want to be with her. If she doesn't feel the same way then move on.
Sometimes we have to put our hearts on the line for those we love...
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reader, MrsP26 +, writes (13 September 2010):
You need to call her to find out where you stand. It is important that you are firm, and lay down clear boundaries about what you both expect from one another if a relationship is going to work. You both have to trust one another and want to make time for each other. However, if the relationship is to end, then you need to be firm about that too, or you could leave yourself open to being strung along, continually waiting for a call and never able to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): yea. because if you ring her you will find out once and for all if she wants to be with you rather than just waiting and wondering its best to find out
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