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*haegirl15506
writes:the guy i love is black and i am white and my parents are completely against it.not only that he just had a baby girl by his exgirlriend.i love him with all my heart.its just hard dealing with everything.what should i do??
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reader, shaegirl15506 +, writes (22 September 2010):
shaegirl15506 is verified as being by the original poster of the question the fact that he cheated on me was the mistake of course.not the baby.no child is a mistake.
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reader, shaegirl15506 +, writes (22 September 2010):
shaegirl15506 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is just 3 years older than me and we have been together since i was 14.we seperated after the girl got pregnant.but we both see that its a mistake.so we are trying to work through it.it's deff. testing our relationship.but thanks everyone for giving me your input.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 If you love him, dont leave him for your parents. Do whats good for you! :) Me and my bf are different colours and my mum is completely against it, but people tell me to keep going with it as its what makes me happy. And i believe that with time my may not come round, but she might see that if she doesnt accept it she will ennd up pushing me away. Sometimes she shouts at me for being with him as we are so "different" and this really upsets me. But i stick with it cause he makes me happy.
Stay cause you want to. If you dont want to, leave.
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reader, Denizli  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 You should follow your feelings. It's your life, not your parents. And YOU are responsible for your own happiness, if you really love this person don't let your parents or anyone stops you from being happy.
It's not about what your parents say or think, its YOU. It's stupid that still nowadays people still have prejudices about other peoples skin color, but don't let this happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Interracial relationships are never a hundred percent easy. Especially when you dont have the support of parents. Your parents may be trying to protect you from those hardships. Now, your boyfriend has a child. Is he older than you? If so, that could be another red flag for your folks...I don't know enough about him to really form an opinion but if you love him, try and make it work. But at your age dealing with a bf who already has such a huge responsibility will prove to be very difficult. If you're ever sexually intimate with him, please, always use protection as you don't want to be in the same situation as ex. If you feel stressed/overwhelmed by this relationship, walk away or it will take its toll on you.
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