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Do I have these feelings because he was my first sexual partner?

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Question - (25 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2010)
A age 26-29, * writes:

me and my boyfriend split 2 months ago and i still really care about him and get upset when i see him with another girl and it still really hurts when he has a go at me why am i feeling like this could it be because he was my first sexual partner and how can i stop feeling like this

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntMost probably. the fact hes moved on so soon doesnt help either. You need to accept that the relationship is over and that you must ignore him in order to move on. Dont talk to him and focus on hanging out with friends. And dont talk about him to them either. Just try and erase him from your life. The best revenge is to smile and enjoy life :)

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (25 September 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYou will have a special bond with this guy as he was your first sexual partner and also probably your first love, i understand how you are feeling. Do you think that maybe you could talk to him and see if use could work on your relationship again? If not then the best way is to just ignore him and dont let him see you are upset when you see him with another girl. Go out and find a guy even if its just a friendship you will soon get over this crush.

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