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I'm in an ongoing relationship with a wonderful man named Matt. He can hurt sometimes but I still love him. We've been together for around 7 months and he recently moved to Dallas for work. I miss him.
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My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??
Q. Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...
A. 13 February 2008: Tell another teacher or better yet, the principal or the cops or both. He's harassing you.
Do it now before it gets worse.... (read in full...)
Need options other than abortion
Q. i have a problem i had sex with my bf last sunday and i did some thing foolish we forgot to use protection and now i think i am pregnant i'm not sure if i am but i've been having pre menstral discomfort but my period hasn't started yet it's not ...
A. 26 January 2008: First you have to make sure you're pregnant. Go take a pregancy test. If it's negative, you don't have to worry anymore. If not, the only way you'll get out of a pregnancy is to get an abortion.
Good luck
I know how it feels like to not know and... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??
Q. My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...
A. 26 January 2008: If you don't want to do it, tell him you don't feel like it. It's as simple as that. You don't have to use an excuse or you shouldn't have to with your boyfriend. Tell him to give you oral sex and see what his answer is. If he won't do it, why ... (read in full...)
My Partner has just left me with a newborn baby. How can I get through the grief and raise my two kids successfully?
Q. My Partner has just left me with an 8 week old baby and I'm really struggling to come to terms with this and finding life very difficult at the moment. We had been arguing for some months and had come to a stalemate situation. Several nights a...
A. 26 January 2008: There must be a way to make him pay child support. Its a legal right for the mother to get child support from the father in the US. What a prick. I mean, what kind of a man would walk away with no explanation to his partner and new born baby? A ... (read in full...)
When guys sleep around why is it him 'just being a bloke'??
Q. Why is it that when a man does something, people say 'oh..he's just being a guy or bloke'? It's like when a guy does something, people don't take it as serious as when a girl does something. For example, when a female sleeps with multiple men, sh...
A. 26 January 2008: I thought he was in highschool. I didn't know he was that young. What a sick woman! Ewww! I'm not even attracted to people a few months younger than me, let alone a few years! ... (read in full...)
Did he cheat on me?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 4mnths, i was a virgin b4 i met him but he's had quite a few partners b4 me. Recently i have found out that ive got chlamydia. He told me b4 we had sex that he was clean, and he got tested for STIs in december b4 i got ...
A. 25 January 2008: If the guy gave you the clap and you haven't been with anyone else, then he either was infected when he was with you and lied about it or he cheated and got it from some other chick. If he's not making any time for his girlfriend, then he must have ... (read in full...)
Can I get him back?
Q. i have been in a relationship for 7 months about 5 days ago he finished with me, we had plans to have babies go on holiday an live together. i dont know y he has finished with me i love him so much he means the world 2 me. how do i get him back....
A. 25 January 2008: It sounds like you love him more than he loves you. Sometimes, this is the case. No matter how much you love him, if he doesn't return your love, it'll only hurt you more and more as time goes on. Have one last talk with him to see if things can be ... (read in full...)
Why won't he touch me? Am I being selfish?
Q. The trouble is im in a long distance relationship and only get to see my BF for about 4 days a month or even 2 months. So when i'm home i cant keep my hands off him i want to kiss him and hold him and be intimate with tell him how much i miss him ...
A. 25 January 2008: Just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and tell him how attractive you think he is. He sounds like he really has no self confidence and needs to be built up. So, build him up. Tell him how much you love him and appreciate him. Tell him ... (read in full...)
Are my fears based on something possible??
Q. My boyfriend just moved to Dallas a few months ago. We text each other every single day. I respect him by telling him where I'm going and with who I'm going with. However, there have been times when he fails to mention that he's going somewhere ...
A. 25 January 2008: Its because I have gotten...hurt in the past that I am ubercautious. I think you're right, moviefan. Thank you for helping me with my unreasonable jealously.=)... (read in full...)
When guys sleep around why is it him 'just being a bloke'??
Q. Why is it that when a man does something, people say 'oh..he's just being a guy or bloke'? It's like when a guy does something, people don't take it as serious as when a girl does something. For example, when a female sleeps with multiple men, sh...
A. 25 January 2008: I actually can honestly say I've never heard of a female pedophile before... My idea of a pedophile is one who messes with children fifteen and under. That's pretty strange...... (read in full...)
I Love him and I always will. - My english teacher
Q. I am a average and very mature 14 years old. Due to the fact I have had to grow up a lot quicker than others due to family errors. I have suddenly lost all sense of maturity and all common sense full stop. I am in love with my English teacher as he ...
A. 24 January 2008: It sounds like a crush to me. Yes, you think you're quite mature due to family problems. However, you're only 14 years old. No, you don't love him. You like him alot.... (read in full...)
Too young to have a boyfriend at 18? Is she just playing hard to get or is she being serious?
Q. i like this young girl .she's 18 i am 24.i met her at a music concert when she walked up to me after i greeted her and i ended up buying her a drink.so i thought the lady likes me.afterwards if she sees me in town she would greet me smiling and ...
A. 24 January 2008: Sounds like you freaked her out. I mean, if a guy I had been flirting with comes up to me after a week of disappearance and says that he wants me I would feel put off. Why are you still obsessed with her? You guys broke it off so just move on. She's ... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake by not telling him I am a virgin?
Q. hi everyone, ive recently had my first kind of relationship but it only lasted 3 weeks the guy i was kind of seeing was a lot older then me and more exprienced he had 3 children,anyway i stayed round his house about 4 times and really wanted to have ...
A. 24 January 2008: It seems like he was looking for a more mature woman. Its a good thing. It means he wasn't a freak who only wanted to use young women for sex. Don't be embarassed about never having sex before. I think he just wanted you to be able to have sex for ... (read in full...)
I want to stay with him....but should I tell him??
Q. hey, My bfs just finished me after 2 months, i really really really like him and we always have a laugh together. I just thought we we're good together. I called him tonight and he said we should split up cos he doesnt feel right. He's 16...
A. 24 January 2008: I think that you should let go and move on. There are alot more guys out there who would really love you later on in your life but you gotta get your life straight first before you start looking for romance.... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 24 January 2008: I think that like any relationship with any man, when one partner loses interest, it is cruel for that one person to not let the other go. I mean that he should tell you how he feels about you and you need to tell him how much he is hurting you. ... (read in full...)
Is this verging on rape?
Q. I'm in Year 11 at school, and one of the boys who I've like for a while is apparently into me. I would do anything for him to like me, and we are quite physical anyway. We have intimate hugs a lot. (He's always been a player.) However, lately, ...
A. 24 January 2008: Yes, this is the verge of rape, honey. If he loved you, he would respect you enough to stop when you tell him to stop. Don't let him use the 'love' excuse to get in your pants. ... (read in full...)
What does my new B/F mean, by this comment?
Q. My new bf asked me if anyone has "come down" on me, i didnt have a clue what he ment but answered no anyway. Can someone tell me what he was asking please....
A. 24 January 2008: It means when a guy starts licking/sucking on you down there as in your genital region.... (read in full...)
13 and havent had my period...is this normal??
Q. Hi i'm 13 and i haven't had my period yet. Is this bad? also even if i haven't had my period masturbation is still ok right?...
A. 24 January 2008: My aunt had hers when she was 16. She's 22 now and she had her last period a year ago. I had mine when I was ten and I have heavy flow ever month. Don't worry about it. Your body will mature when its good and ready. ... (read in full...)
Do his reasons for masturbating to his exes picture sound valid?
Q. i am in a relationship with a 29 year old man (i am 41). we've had a very good relationship in and out of the bedroom thus far. however i found out recently that he has been masturbating to old nude photos of a very recent ex-girlfriend. what the ...
A. 24 January 2008: I wouldn't like it if he was masturbating to a nude pic of his ex. Sounds like he still has a thing for her or is still sexually attracted to her. You should tell him to masturbate to pics of you.... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me tips on making my guy scream with pleasure in bed!?
Q. Well, another question... since I'm new in this thing called "SEX", I'm so curious, I've give my boyfriend blow jobs, normal thing I know, but the thing is that I don't feel like I'm giving him enough pleasure, when he is doing it to me I'm desperat...
A. 24 January 2008: Guys only grunt. It still gets me going. Lol. I actually like it when men make the softer noises that show how much he enjoys it too. ... (read in full...)
How long does the average orgasm last?
Q. This is an unusual question but ok.. How long does an average orgasm last????? Because mine seem to finish within seconds, is that normal?? thanks for answering....
A. 24 January 2008: When I masturbate, it lasts around ten or so seconds. Any more and I would probably die. Lol.... (read in full...)
I don't like how much time he spends with the boys. What can I do?
Q. I have been married for nine months. I am from a small town, but lived in a large city for awhile. I met my boyfriend, now husband, and moved to his small town with him ( from the city). We are now married and expecting our first baby. I do not mind ...
A. 24 January 2008: He probably still wants to prove to the guys that he's still a 'man'...translation-he can still act like an idiot. He wants to prove that even though he has a wife and kid, he's not 'settled'. Just give it some time and then if he keeps on acting l... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to resent the fact that he can afford to go out but not come to see me??
Q. I've been with my partner for about year and a half, we're now living apart in different countries due to my work commitments. The thing is he's just lost his job and has a mortgage and bills to pay. So he can't afford to come and see me as much ...
A. 24 January 2008: I would be upset too. He can go out with friends but won't go to see you? That's a bit off. If he won't go to see you, then you should go see him. Make it a surprise.... (read in full...)
12, He's been flirting and has been nice to me... But he touched me inappropriately. He was suspended for it, but do you think he will do it again?
Q. I'm a 12 year old girl so I am still in public school. This boy in my class has been flirting with me and he has been nice to me. but then he gets all gross towards me and he confuses me. he touched me inappropriately and i told my mother and we ...
A. 24 January 2008: Tell the teacher again. He needs to learn that no means no. This is sexual harassment. You control your own body and what happens to it and no one is entitled to taking anything from you that you don't give.... (read in full...)
My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??
Q. Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...
A. 24 January 2008: This is so not your fault. Yes, you have a crush on your teacher. Everyone has at some point in their life. However, he made the inappropriate advances first. He's at fault. Treat him like any other male. Tell him to back off. If he does, get ... (read in full...)
Can I ever trust my bf again and forget about my summer romance??
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up in the summer of last year due to a substance abuse problem on his part. While we were apart I started seeing another man only to go back to my boyfriend and try to work things out with him. I'm really skeptica...
A. 24 January 2008: If the other guy treats you a hell of a lot better, then I think you should go for him. I mean, why stay with a guy who has substand abuse problems when you can be with a good guy? Sometimes, you don't get a second chance if you don't take the first ... (read in full...)
Am I Being Too Picky? What sacrifices do other women make for their man?
Q. I am wondering if I expect too much from my romantic relationships? I realize there are no "perfect" men out there, but it seems like every one of them disappoints me in some very important areas and I'm starting to wonder if I just need to lower my ...
A. 24 January 2008: I have had pretty much the same problem. My first boyfriend was wonderful to talk to but there was no sexual attraction. And it turned out he already had a fiancee. My current boyfriend is a nice guy although he does act pretty immature sometimes. ... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...
Q. My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...
A. 24 January 2008: If he cheated on you before and after your marriage and during your pregnancy of his son, then how can you trust him to stop cheating and be faithful to you? I sure wouldn't trust him. It sounds like you're really hurting. No matter what you do, ... (read in full...)
I do not have a driver's license yet, thus feel a bit embarassed. Is this a huge deal?
Q. Im almost 30yr old. And Im terrified of driving. So therefore I still haven't obtained my drivers license. Now is this a huge deal breaker for men ??? I don't lie about it but at the same time Im a little ashamed at times so I don't bring it up ti...
A. 24 January 2008: I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you're scared of driving, then you're scared of driving. It's one of your quirks and you shouldn't be ashamed of it although I felt the same once. If you're really bothered by it, try to drive and ... (read in full...)
Is it legal for me to leave home?
Q. Im wondering because my best friends mum and dad are planning to move to california and they have invited me to go with them. Is it legal for me to leave my house is my mum agrees to it? Please tell me anything you know on it thanks...
A. 23 January 2008: depends on how old the age of legal adulthood is where you live. For the U.S., it's 18. I'm legal to leave at any time I want.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man and I am sick of living with the lies! Advice appreciated!
Q. I'm 24 and I've been dating a 36 yr old married man for two years. He has three small kids. I love him so much and I know he loves me, but the more I love him the more it hurts every time he leaves me for the night. I know this is wrong, but I ...
A. 22 January 2008: I read your most recent news and I'm happy for you. ... (read in full...)
My son has been behaving sexually towards his sister, how do I handle it?
Q. Hi All, can someone please give me advice on the following: My 12 year daughter had left a note in her bedroom, which I found when I was cleaning her room, it said, Dear Mom, I think i'm pregrant with B...'s baby love S... This I asked her ...
A. 22 January 2008: I think that you shouldn't have a full blown panic attack but just keep watch. If something more serious happens, don't be afraid to take action. Send him be spoken with by a therapist or something. Get to the bottom of why he is doing this with his ... (read in full...)
We don't talk about our feelings. Please advise
Q. Need advices from ladies who have dated /are dating Xhosa men (please understand me, dont have anything against any nation). I mm in a relationship with a Xhosa man for nearly 8months now.I love him so much. Things were fine at the beginning until ...
A. 22 January 2008: I'm in the same boat. My man doesn't tell me he loves me. He tells me he 'cares'. You have a need to have him tell you he cares or show you that he cares. Talk to him about your concerns and about how independent a modern woman is. You are not the ... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 22 January 2008: I have friends who have have parents in their fifties. He's just using age as an excuse because he's too lazy to have more kids. Tell him how serious this need is and then if he really doesn't want any, break up and go have kids. Women have a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is ready for sex, and encourages me to accept it! I'm scared however, what do I tell him?
Q. my boyfriend is ready for sex! And i told him that im kinda scared becuz idk anything bout sex just yet! he told me that i wont hurt thant much! heres what he told me about it, it all depends on how big the guy's penis is compared to the depth of ...
A. 22 January 2008: I agree with Leanna. He doesn't have a vagina. He's only reading about this once in a lifetime experience. Don't let the guy pressure you into sex. Its your body and you make your own decisions about what to do with it and who to share it with. If ... (read in full...)
My mate is driving me Nut's, how can I tell her?
Q. My friend is a nutter, and bugs the hell out of me! She never stops talking about herself, and lives in a complete fantasy world. She imagines herself married to a guy after ten minutes. I don't mean the normal 'I wonder what color eyes our children ...
A. 22 January 2008: I'm sorry but she doesn't sound like a friend. If she doesn't pay attention to your problems and your pain, then she isn't a friend at all. You're basically there to just listen to what she says. Spend less time with her and more time with people ... (read in full...)
Dating this guy could create problems with my ex...help!
Q. My partner left me, after a four year relationship, nearly 7 months ago when our baby was less than a month old. My dilemma is that one of his best friends and I have feelings for each other and we don't know whether or not to act on them. We have ...
A. 22 January 2008: I don't think its wrong. If your ex can leave you when you are having his kid, then he sounds like an ass. If the friend treats you better, then hey, go for it!
Be happy.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man and I am sick of living with the lies! Advice appreciated!
Q. I'm 24 and I've been dating a 36 yr old married man for two years. He has three small kids. I love him so much and I know he loves me, but the more I love him the more it hurts every time he leaves me for the night. I know this is wrong, but I ...
A. 22 January 2008: Honey, let go of this guy. If he really loved you, then he would have left his wife to be with you, no matter that there were kids involved. He would have figured out a way to be with you and introduce you to the kids.
My first boyfriend has a fian... (read in full...)
Marriage problem - midlife crisis or age difference?
Q. Hi I have been with the same (only) woman for nearly 30 years - she is older than me and has children from her first marriage. I love her very dearly, but aargh! I'm experiencing a real sense of restlessness - looking at other women, wanting t...
A. 22 January 2008: It sounds like what I feel even though I'm with my boyfriend. Yes, you want to have kids and be wild but you have to think. Do you want the near pleasures or do you want the real deal? 30 years is a long time to waste because you want to get out and ... (read in full...)
I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...
Q. i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how....
A. 22 January 2008: Umm... you can't make a person love you so much that he is scared to leave you. You can deepen the bond by sharing memories and such but it has to be his decision to love you, the real you, not the 'angel'.
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We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?
Q. Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I ...
A. 22 January 2008: What did you guys do to hurt each other? Yes, you love her very much. Yes you still want to be with her.
But...What does she feel? What does she want?
Yes, you are concerned about the kids but sometimes, even though the parents do the 'right' ... (read in full...)
How can I give my bf a good orgasm without full-blown sex??
Q. Hey, agony aunts. I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we've been taking things slow, but we're starting to think about fooling around a bit. Nothing major, we know we're too young to start anything too serious,...
A. 21 January 2008: I agree with daletom. I think you guys need to get to know each other a bit more before you get really serious and heavy petting. I know how it feels to want to do those things at your age but there's time for that later on.
X... (read in full...)
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