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How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 13 February 2008: Good for you! I'm so happy for you and proud of you!
xoxo... (read in full...)
She will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak, what should I do?
Q. I'm 16 and a virgin. Everyone is doing it accept me but the thing is I have a small penis and it's wonky so I'm too scared to get with a girl cause when she wants sex she will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak. What should I do?...
A. 10 February 2008: Wonky? Penises come in all different shapes and sizes as do vaginas. Learn about other things to do and make it more enjoyable for women. Sometimes, guys with small weiners are a hell of alot better in bed with guys with big thingies.
Make your... (read in full...)
I want to have a skinny sillouette, yet the dangers of Anorexia scare me! Please, any advice?
Q. I really need your help. Ive watched a tv programme about Anorexia and for some stupid reason i want to be skinny like them. I looked up all the dangers of Anorexia and now im really torn, i dont want to die and i do want to have kids but i want to ...
A. 10 February 2008: I'm 117 pounds and a size three. I was a size seven before. I got this way through careful eating and exercise, which does work. When you eat, don't eat starch foods like rice or bread because it turns into sugar which is loaded into your system. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 10 February 2008: Its pretty hard to not talk to him...I know how you feel. I just kinda decided that it was better this way because I know he will always see you in a more intimate light because of the fact that you had been together before. You might want ... (read in full...)
Why did he ask me to sit on his face??
Q. Hello, I'm 15. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. We haven't had sex before, but we've done little things. The other night, he asked me to sit on his face! So that my front was near his mouth. I asked him why, and he assured ...
A. 7 February 2008: It means he wants to give you pleasure. Its a very good thing. Means he cares about how you feel during foreplay and it bodes well if you guys actually do have sex. Just do whatever you want and don't be afraid to try new things. I did it for the ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 & he's 43, is that legal?
Q. im nearly 17 and he is 43 weve been together nearly a year at first i lied about my age but now he knows the truth he still loves me , but is what were doing legal?...
A. 7 February 2008: Not until you're 18 so keep it on the down low.... (read in full...)
I haven't had Sex in a year and It's really getting me down
Q. I'm 19, I've gone a year without sex, and I feel pretty upset over it. It seems like such a terrible thing to say to your friends; "Well guys, I've not had any for a year, now". I've been in relationships, but they haven 't worked out, and so I'm ...
A. 7 February 2008: If you keep on dwelling on it, it'll only go worse. You'll get even more upset over that fact that you haven't gotten any in over a year and then feel even worse about yourself. Believe it or not, women can see confidence in a guy. It shows and ... (read in full...)
I lied to her about my age, please help
Q. Hi guys, I'm 15 but I am very mature for my age, and I look the part. I have been talking to this girl, shes 17, but the problem is that I told her I was 18. She believes me, but it's come back to haunt me. I'm madly and utterly in love with this...
A. 7 February 2008: I lied to my boyfriend about my age also and I felt very guilty about it. I think that you should just come out with it. If she cares for you as much as you care for her, age shouldn't be a big deal.
Honesty is the best policy in a rela... (read in full...)
She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?
Q. I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...
A. 7 February 2008: Well, define 'trashy'. If she's showing some nipples and her ass is hanging out, then I think its trashy. However, if its just your boyfriend possessiveness talking, then make sure it really is trashy by other people's standards before you start ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to laugh during his orgasms?
Q. When me and my long term boyfriend have sex, when he cums, he laughs and is often forced to stop the stroking motion. He says it's not a bad thing at all, but doesn't seem to be able to explain it... or maybe he just doesn't want to. Why does he ...
A. 7 February 2008: Lol. I have never encountered a laughing cumming man but I sure want to meet one. Lol. My boyfriend grunts when he cums and I think its so sexy. I dunno how I would feel if a guy was laughing when he came but if he finds that much joy when he's ... (read in full...)
Met him on the net and there is a 14 year age differance. Should I meet him in real life?
Q. Right i been talkin to this guy for a while now. We met over the internet n originally age wasnt mentioned i thought he was roughly in his 20's and he thought i was about 19. We both later found out eachothers real ages, he's 31 this year, im 17 ...
A. 5 February 2008: My boyfriend is twice my age and I met him over the internet. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. Just be careful and make sure he's a good guy. ... (read in full...)
She's married with kids! Am I nuts for wanting her?
Q. it may seem crazy at my age! and i'm not sure what it is but it hurts so much, i want so much to be with a woman i have know for so long now but she is married with 2 fabulous boys and i can't tell anyone but i want to tell the world, i could go on ...
A. 3 February 2008: I'm sorry you are in love with a married woman but she is married and unless she decides to reciprocate your feelings I would tell you to not do anything with her. She took vows and I hold promises to be one of the last sacred things in the world, ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to fancy women.
Q. Hi. Is it wrong for me to fancy women? I oome from a catholic background and both my parents are against the idea of it. I enjoy sex with men, but I imagine that I'm with a woman....
A. 3 February 2008: It is my deep faith that some people are born to love people of their own sex. Maybe its a form of birth control and population control. I see nothing wrong in wanting to be with a woman if you're a woman and the same goes for a guy. God loves you. ... (read in full...)
He sabotages my efforts, and the time I spend with my kids! Is he abusing me?
Q. My boyfriend and I are having huge problems. I think he's abusing me.(not physically but emotionally)He's 50. And I am finding out he has some possession and control head problems. These issues seem to come out more whenever my family come around. ...
A. 3 February 2008: You are an independent woman. If he is acting like such an ass, why are you still with him? Tell him he is a part of your life and your family is too. If he wants to be a part of your life, he has to contribute as they had contributed to them.
I... (read in full...)
A question for mothers out there.
Q. I was wondering for mothers who have more than 1 child..did you get more stretch marks with the 2nd baby, or is all the damage pretty much done after the 1st? I have a 10 month old and I am due next month to have another baby. Also, does it hurt ...
A. 3 February 2008: My mom had five children and she got stretch marks but if you use lotion and excercise, they'll be les noticable. It's not that it gets easier on the second child, its more like you know what's going on and you know how hard its going to be.... (read in full...)
Restless when taken, lonely when single...how can I find a place where I am happy??
Q. When I'm in a relationship, I care for my boyfriend but am sometimes attracted to other guys and even tempted to cheat. However, when I'm single and have no commitment, I feel sad and lonely. How can I find a place where I'm happy?...
A. 3 February 2008: I have the same problem. You need a guy who is spontaneous and keeps you on your toes. You just wanna have fun in a relationship and sometimes your bf turns out to be a boring person. Find someone who is fascinating and you'll always wanna talk to ... (read in full...)
Found out I was the rebound girl. Has this happened to you?
Q. Hey aunts, Yesterday I found out that the guy I have been seeing over the past month (my first boyfriend) was using me as a rebound girl. He had apparently just come out of an intense relationship and only wanted to have fun with me. It came as q...
A. 3 February 2008: Well, I was a flavor of the week. Does that count? I loved him with all of my unbroken heart and it turned out he had a fiancee. All I can say is that you have to make that decision to move on and give yourself time to accept that he's not the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend like an 8 year old.
Q. K so me and my boyfriend started out very well, going out and just chilling with friends. Then there is an 8 year old girl that has a huge crush on him. She would call him early in the morning, try to push me away when I give him a hug... So me and ...
A. 3 February 2008: Ummm...sounds like you're over reacting a bit unless you've seen them in a compromising situation. I mean, its an eight year old girl. She's not a threat to you unless your man is a pedophile. Children want to be loved and they want to be around ... (read in full...)
How can I get my dad to allow me a bf??
Q. My dad won't let me have a boyfriend and i'm 13. What can i do to allow me to have a boyfriend? He said i could do something called courting and thats when i invite a boy over my house to watch TV and my dad questions the hell out of him; that is ...
A. 2 February 2008: Just relax and do the whole courting thing. Serious boyfriends come later. I got my first boyfriend when I was seventeen. You have a while to go before you can understand guys enough to be able to be with one. When I was thirteen, I was ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a homosexual act?
Q. is masturbation in fact a homosexual act ? no matter who or what you think about you are still having sex with your hand and you come on yourself you are giving and recieving so its male on male or female on female. any thoughts?...
A. 2 February 2008: Haha...I never thought of it that way. It does make sense that since being homosexual means being with a person of the same sex, you are kinda being a homo. However, it depends on what you masturbate to. ... (read in full...)
I want a GF, a good relationship. But how do I prepare myself emotionally?
Q. Hello, This is my first post here, seems like a great community. :) I am looking for more advice then I am looking for an answer to a question. I am 19 years old and am looking for a girlfriend. I have been in several small relationships that...
A. 30 January 2008: You seem like a very sweet person. I think that you should just relax and be yourself. If you love her and show your love and she really loves you, then she won't have eyes for anyone but you. Don't be afraid. Yes, its easier said than done but you ... (read in full...)
I call my boyfriend, but he doesn't call me anymore. Why?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (fiance) for two years and we're good together you know? But recently he hasn't been calling me during the day I mean I don't work because I'm in college and he's in University. But he used to text or call when he ...
A. 30 January 2008: Don't hesitate to call him out on it. Gently tell him that its upseting you when he doesn't call or text. If he continues to not call or text, don't text or call him too. Wait till he gets a clue and calls you. If he doesn't after a week, then ... (read in full...)
What does a boy really want in a girl?
Q. I'm trying to become friends with this really hot guy who I'm head over heels for. But problem is I just can't figure out how to get him really into me, or at least I can't tell. I think he's interested in me but it's really hard because he's really ...
A. 30 January 2008: I think guys just want straight honesty with a little pillowing. They basically don't want to play games. Just tell him you like him and let him take his time since he's shy. Don't rush him or he'll run. Guys need to feel like they're in control.
G... (read in full...)
I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?
Q. I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to ...
A. 30 January 2008: I feel your pain. I understand how threatened you feel. However, if you let your jealously cause you to suspect him, then you're only hurting yourself and your relationship. I think you should just take a step back and take a deep breath. Why get ... (read in full...)
My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!
Q. My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...
A. 30 January 2008: I still feel like you are being really...jerkish. I mean, you must love her to have married her. You are just using this boob job as an excuse. What she wants to do with her body is her business just like what you do to your body is your business. I ... (read in full...)
She won't speak to me now and I am confused and lonely. Advice?
Q. i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow ...
A. 29 January 2008: Sounds like she's having second thoughts about being married. I think you should try to talk to her and ask her why she's acting like this. Just get to the bottom of the matter and go from there.... (read in full...)
My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!
Q. My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...
A. 29 January 2008: Wow. Read your own question. Its not even much of a question. Its more of a rant that reveals how tiny your brain is and how huge your ego is. You act like since she's your wife, that you own her body. Does that mean she can tell you to start ... (read in full...)
Finding and fighting for unconventional love
Q. We live in a world that is constantly evolving, technologically advancing and growing, slowly, more accepting. Finding love has always been the one of the most central societal issues and how and where we find it has always been a source for ...
A. 29 January 2008: I think that there's nothing wrong with having an online relationship or meeting someone over the internet. I think that its great that you found someone who makes you happy and I think that the show should go on. Just make sure you bring protection ... (read in full...)
We love each other, but are on opposite sides of the earth. Can this love be true, and is this worth pursuing?
Q. I live in the United States and have been in a relationship with a girl from the Philippines. We have known each other for over two years now and have often expressed how much we love and appreciate each other through mainly IM and email, and on a ...
A. 29 January 2008: You should really use your mind before you fall in love. Ask yourself this. Does you want to get with you because you are her ticket from a bad marriage and a ticket to a better life in America? These things happen.
You gotta spend more time with... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I'm scared of sex, help!
Q. hi everyone, i have a problem.. i really really want and feel ready for a baby, trouble is i wont let myself be close to anyone as i fear sex so much, and as soon as i think things are going to lead that way.. i sort of freeeze! it sounds odd but ...
A. 29 January 2008: Something might have happened in your youth to you or you might have seen something that caused you to fear sex today. You need to go talk to a therapist about your problem so that you can move on in life and in your relationships. I sorta ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend is married, but his wife doesn't care, he still wants a future together, should I bother?
Q. please help is there anyone out there who has been involved with a married man? I met the most wonderful man almost two years ago. two months after dating him i found out he was married. I was crushed but couldnt drag myself away. His wife knows ...
A. 29 January 2008: His wife doesn't seem bothered at all? Wow. Why don't they just get a divorce? If they're barely a couple, they should get a divorce to let each person go their seperate ways. To leave him free to marry you. If he's talking about a future together, ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend is married, but his wife doesn't care, he still wants a future together, should I bother?
Q. please help is there anyone out there who has been involved with a married man? I met the most wonderful man almost two years ago. two months after dating him i found out he was married. I was crushed but couldnt drag myself away. His wife knows ...
A. 29 January 2008: His wife doesn't seem bothered at all? Wow. Why don't they just get a divorce? If they're barely a couple, they should get a divorce to let each person go their seperate ways. To leave him free to marry you. If he's talking about a future together, ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend is married, but his wife doesn't care, he still wants a future together, should I bother?
Q. please help is there anyone out there who has been involved with a married man? I met the most wonderful man almost two years ago. two months after dating him i found out he was married. I was crushed but couldnt drag myself away. His wife knows ...
A. 29 January 2008: His wife doesn't seem bothered at all? Wow. Why don't they just get a divorce? If they're barely a couple, they should get a divorce to let each person go their seperate ways. To leave him free to marry you. If he's talking about a future together, ... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 29 January 2008: If you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it. You'll regret it later.... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past disgusts me--over 20 guys from the age of 16-18!!
Q. When me and my wife first hooked up, she was 18 and had me thinking she had been with two guys before me. Then the first lie came to light when I had to take a DNA test for our first son, because on a trip back home she had sex with "a friend". So ...
A. 29 January 2008: First of all, I think that you need to look to yourself before you judge her. How many women have you slept with? Her past(unless she got an std) does not concern you. She wasn't with you when she was with the other guys. You act like you expect her ... (read in full...)
Wondering if I'm being unreasonable
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about three months now. So far we have used only condoms but sometimes we find ourselves starting to have sex without the condom and then putting it on when he's close to coming. Because of this we decided ...
A. 26 January 2008: You aren't being unreasonable. Both of you are right in your own way. Yes, contraception is the responsibility of both parties. Yes, he's responsible for condoms and you for pills, BUT it would be nice for him to go with you because you are his ... (read in full...)
Why is this a problem
Q. I have read about people writing some negative things about the other woman, I have been in this predictament if a man is saying he is unhappy at home and you are there to comfort him be it sexually or emotionally what is the fuss? I believe I ...
A. 26 January 2008: You didn't take vows but he did. Its wrong because its like you helping him commit adultery. Its wrong because even though he gets his happiness, the wife is suffering very much. It's wrong because you should respect yourself better than being the ... (read in full...)
Follow the path I'm on, or change routes?
Q. I have been in an "exclusive" relationship with a man 18 years older than myself for 3 years. Our age difference has never been an issue for me. He is very sweet and attentive when we are together. Sex is amazing. The problem is that he was ...
A. 26 January 2008: I can't stand it when someone controls me. I am in a relationship with a man 18 years older than I and he does have some issues because of past problems with past girlfriends. I think that you need to tell him that he doesn't need to worry. You're ... (read in full...)
Current stage of love is so boring
Q. This is porbably a silly question but, is it wrong to wish that you were back at the begining of a relationship? My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now and well, I'm kind of getting bored. I miss that excitement I use...
A. 26 January 2008: Why don't you do something to make things a bit more exciting? Dress up sexy and seduce him when he comes home. Do something that you used to do or something new to make things exciting. He'll notice and he'll reciprocate.... (read in full...)
Should I run away?
Q. I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old. I've been going through depression and a hard time in life. I'm really shy at school, but I've been like that like my whole life. But ever since grade 7 started I've been really sad and lonely. I think all of my ...
A. 26 January 2008: No you shouldn't. Things really seem hopeless when you're always sad and lonely but you gotta keep holding on, however long it takes for things to get better. Things will get better. Go talk with friends or find something you like to do. You have a ... (read in full...)
Found inappropriate conversations between them on the computer...I'm afraid my husband is cheating on me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for nearly a year now and so far everything has been great between us. I've never thought him to be one to do things behind my back or anything like that. But throughout our entire relationship, even before we were ...
A. 26 January 2008: She does not just consider him a 'good friend' He's a good friend alright. Pretty damn good! Cheaters hate to admit they're cheating. They will surely lie about it. Thats 'just how we talk'? How lame is that? From what I can see you need to confront ... (read in full...)
Need options other than abortion
Q. i have a problem i had sex with my bf last sunday and i did some thing foolish we forgot to use protection and now i think i am pregnant i'm not sure if i am but i've been having pre menstral discomfort but my period hasn't started yet it's not ...
A. 26 January 2008: First you have to make sure you're pregnant. Go take a pregancy test. If it's negative, you don't have to worry anymore. If not, the only way you'll get out of a pregnancy is to get an abortion.
Good luck
I know how it feels like to not know and... (read in full...)
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