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Really missing a guy I dated but should I be??
Q. Hi there guys, I wanted to ask you for your advice in regards to a relationship matter. About a year and a half ago I placed an advert in my local home town in a shop window advertising a room for rent in my house and a day or two after I rece...
A. 2 March 2008: Seems like both those guys are retards. Not all men are like those two. If you love a person enough, you still will no matter what they do or say. However, it still hurts very much for them to do certain things. You gotta weigh two options: Leave ... (read in full...)
Approaching a girl.
Q. Here's the scenario. I'm 15, I'm at a party, I see a girl that is like an angel. How would I approach her? What would I say? Because I don't want to sound/look like an idiot. Please, pleeeeease help me on this....
A. 2 March 2008: -Gage her mood before approaching. If she seems pissed, then don't do it. You will get turned down flat.
-Does she look like a snotty bitch? Most of the pretty ones are.
-Don't approach an older chick if you look your age. Sorry, lots of women pr... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend?
Q. I'd like some advice please. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, moved in together in September. Everything has been alright but these past few months, he has treated me like shit and to be honest, I don't deserve it but I'm too s...
A. 2 March 2008: Leave his sorry ass. You deserve better than this. If he loves you, then he should be trying his damnedest to help you and make you happy. He's doing jack shit so just dump him. Love is supposed to build you up, not break you down.
X... (read in full...)
My wife has told me she just wants to be friends and doesn't want to be anyones wife...
Q. My wife and I have been married for 8 months, she says she wants out of it now. Before we got married she was still getting over her ex relationship. We recently both moved, both changed jobs and we hate the place we live at. She said she wants ...
A. 2 March 2008: I'm so sorry you're hurting. It seems so strange that she is treating your marriage like its just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Sometimes it doesn't work out. I know how much you love her but is the fear of the unknown a part of the reason ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband treat his family this way?
Q. I need some level headed opinions Please. My hubby and I have always had lots of disagreements and rows over our 20 year marriage. I always felt that I could do no right and if he disagreed with me over something it wasn’t talked about but massive ...
A. 27 February 2008: Don't let this man ruin your life because he is. How can you care about a man who hurt you and your children? Don't care for him because he's lonely. He harmed you. He's pressuring you to change your job? I thought you said you were separated for a ... (read in full...)
I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man...
Q. This is probalbly the dumbest question there is.... I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man. This was last April that I found out. It's almost been a year of recovery and trying my best. Well everything was f...
A. 27 February 2008: Some people need more than one person. Some people need to be flattered and treated like they are the greatest, most attractive person ever. Some people crave attention. That's just the way they are and noone can change them except for themselves.
M... (read in full...)
Can you fall pregnant if you still take a period?
Q. Can you be pregnant if you're still getting your period??? ...
A. 27 February 2008: Just take a pregnancy test. Its the sure way to know. Just go to walmart, buy one test, go the bathroom and take the test and you'll know for sure. It's hell not knowing so just take the test and get it out of your mind.... (read in full...)
My wife has a low sex drive, I can live with it but would really like if she gave me blowjobs, any ideas to convince her?
Q. I have a sad and serious problem. I have been married to a fantastic woman whom I love very much for almost 5 years. But our sex life is not satisfying for me. She has a very low sex drive and basically only likes the missionary position and ...
A. 27 February 2008: You should talk to her about it outside of the bedroom over dinner or a romantic date or something. Women feel pressured when a guy asks them to give them head no matter how much the woman loves the man. Its a very...personal and big thing to ask a ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to stop wet dreams??
Q. Hi, I'm 14 and i recently started getting "wet dreams" - it's quite annoying and how to stop it ? Also , sometimes i wake up after one, I clean the semen with a tissue and flush it down the toilet.. can someone get pregnant if they use the toilet s...
A. 26 February 2008: Once the sperm leaves your penis and goes into the outside world, it dies almost instantly. No, if a female uses the toilet right after she will not get pregnant. No, there is no way to stop them. They'll go away on their own. You can wash your ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man says 'love you' not 'i love you'??
Q. What does it mean when a man tells you 'Love You', not 'I Love You'?...
A. 26 February 2008: It means he is scared to say those three words. Just relax and let him get to saying I Love You on his own pace when he's comfortable enough to say it.
He might had been hurt in the past very badly and doesn't want to risk it again just yet.
If he... (read in full...)
Pornography and relationships
Q. As some people reading this will already know, I moderate and write regularly on this site. Porn is one those issues that is often cited as a problem and also causes a fair amount or moral controversy. On the one hand are the people whose ...
A. 26 February 2008: I know a bunch of potheads and they live normally. They seem even more healthy than those people who choose to not smoke pot.
I cede to you the porn argument...
Lol
I know when I'm in the wrong.
=)... (read in full...)
Pornography and relationships
Q. As some people reading this will already know, I moderate and write regularly on this site. Porn is one those issues that is often cited as a problem and also causes a fair amount or moral controversy. On the one hand are the people whose ...
A. 26 February 2008: I said that drugs are ok if they don't affect the people around you.
Porn isn't all about sex...It's about the pleasure and sensations. Plain sex is different from seeing pleasure and such. There is a difference, however slight it might be. Porn... (read in full...)
Pornography and relationships
Q. As some people reading this will already know, I moderate and write regularly on this site. Porn is one those issues that is often cited as a problem and also causes a fair amount or moral controversy. On the one hand are the people whose ...
A. 25 February 2008: A sex scene in a movie is still trying to sexually stimulate you just like a horror movie's purpose is to shock you.
A drug habit is a private thing. If the drug habit doesn't effect anyone other than the drug user, I don't see a problem with it j... (read in full...)
I am in so much confusion thinking my husband maybe bi or gay.
Q. I have been married for 10 years and recently learned that my husband has been viewing porn on the internet, what makes matters worse is it mostly involves other men not women. He told me it's normal for this to happen when I confronted him about it ...
A. 25 February 2008: Why are you in so much porn? Its just porn. It's not like he's going out to do other men! Different people have different fetishes. His is probably gay porn. Stop thinking about how much you're hurt and how much he hurt you and think about how much ... (read in full...)
Pornography and relationships
Q. As some people reading this will already know, I moderate and write regularly on this site. Porn is one those issues that is often cited as a problem and also causes a fair amount or moral controversy. On the one hand are the people whose ...
A. 25 February 2008: I agree that two members of a couple should be open with each other about porn. However, what if this one guy/girl tells his/her partner about their fascination/fetish/hobby of watching porn? What if the partner rejects the watcher of said subject ... (read in full...)
Could you give me advice on how to broach the subject to him without embarrassing him or making him feel worse?
Q. I started dating my 34-year old boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother's) when I was 15, and we've been seeing each other for about a year now. I've been really happy with him so far, and I feel like he's not only my boyfriend but a casual friend as ...
A. 24 February 2008: If he's a mature person, then he will not be mad or sad when you come out and talk to him about his feelings. Just be honest with him. ... (read in full...)
Sexual activity not finalised in intercourse, could I be pregnant?
Q. The other day, me and my boyfriend did a bit of foreplay. He came and then for the first time he fingered me, his penis did not enter me, but it touched my vagina. Could i be pregnent? ...
A. 24 February 2008: Unless you had the penis in you when he came, then you're not pregnant. And you decide when you're ready to have sex...just wait until your period comes on. It will. Don't worry about it.... (read in full...)
I am in relationship with an older girl and feel pressurised to have sex. I also need to increase my confidence, how?
Q. i am in a relationship with an older girl and i am a virgin but she isn't. i feel pressured but don't want to have sex out of embarrasment. because of lack of exsperience and how would i know if its big or small compared to others'?...
A. 24 February 2008: First of all, just relax. I know its easier said than done but if she really loves you, she would understand and not pressure you if she is pressuring you. Start out with the basics...like making out and such until you feel comfortable with her. I ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling so low?
Q. at the moment i have been feeling so low. i have friends but i dont want to be near them and i feel really distant from everybody in general. i dont want to get close to anyone and the littlest things upset me. i am 14 years old and this has been...
A. 24 February 2008: You need to talk to someone because it could be depression. I've been through this and this 'low' feeling could lead to more serious things. Don't be afraid to tell someone how you feel but make sure its someone whom you feel comfortable with or you ... (read in full...)
Am I gay for breaking up with my girlfriend?
Q. my friends have been saying i'm gay because i broke up with this girl because she told me she loved me the second day we went out i am very sensitive and compassionate am i gay for breaking up with her? my friends said i should've told her i love ...
A. 24 February 2008: You are not gay. Your friends are dumb. Your girlfriend was rushing it a bit when she told you she loved you on the second day of going out. I'm glad you didn't tell it back to her because that means you put more stock into the L word than most of ... (read in full...)
I didn't turn him on
Q. Hello - I am not sure if i just need to sound off, or need some feedback...I think feedback to be honest. I recently met a man who is 43. I liked him alot and fancied him alot. I am mid 40, divorced and (about a year ago) out of a LTR. Th...
A. 24 February 2008: It might be that he has ER... Have you thought of that? Maybe he's ashamed of not being able to function and doesn't want to risk being embarrassed? Just ask him what the reason is...
Reassure him that you aren't going to judge him harshly and that... (read in full...)
Can you lose your virginity through masturbation?
Q. what are difference between virgin pussy and un virgin pussy? and can a girl lose her virginity while masturbating (fingering only)?...
A. 24 February 2008: You can break the hymen in many ways but if you haven't had sex, then you're still a virgin. I lost my hymen way long before I lose my virginity. That still meant I was a virgin until that fateful night. Lol.
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What is this liquid?
Q. hi. i have had sex and in the process of my penis entering my partner with in 10 to 15 secounds of the begining of sex a gush of liquid had come out of her. im not sure if she had ejaculated because she seemed unawear of what was going on. the liqu...
A. 24 February 2008: It's probably her squirting. If she goes bonkers during it then it means she is squirting. If not, then something else is going on. You guys should get checked out at a clinic just to be on the safe side.... (read in full...)
What was he trying to tell me?
Q. i posted a question earlier about whether or not my bf is going to propose. he's been acting a little funny lately. to recap -he took family pics w/me and my 3 kids for easter at a studio (never does this) -told me my dress looked like a wedd...
A. 24 February 2008: It sounds like he's gonna pop the question to me but don't get your hopes up just yet. But all signs indicate a yes...I'm soo excited for you!
... (read in full...)
Am I gay because of what I did?
Q. Am I gay Over the last year I have been watching gay porn. At first it was just one or twice here and there. At this point it was just to see what was what. After watching a few time it started turning me on I enjoyed it more and more. A...
A. 23 February 2008: Sounds like you are but you also might be bi...
I like watching gay porn too. It turns me on too although I'm told that its strange for a girl to like gay porn. Lol.
Just accept yourself the way you are and be happy that you have found what fee... (read in full...)
How long do I have to wait for oral?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral -I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesn't have to prove it that way - I say ...
A. 22 February 2008: The thing is, you can't whine about someone not giving you oral. My boyfriend doesn't so oral and I could care less because its his personal decision to not give me oral. He has his reasons. Maybe your man just plain doesn't like doing oral? I have ... (read in full...)
How to break up with him in a sensitive way?
Q. If you have this boyfriend who you really do not have feelings for anymore what is the nicest way to break up wiht him? ...
A. 22 February 2008: There is no really nice way to break up with someone. What you gotta do is tell him exactly how you feel and hopefully he won't get too upset.
Its not pleasant but if you don't love someone then you gotta let him/her go. If you stay with him/... (read in full...)
Help! Can any one help make some sense of this?????
Q. Okay please help me... I just found this site and from what I could see people here seem friendly enough and certainly mature. I am not a young girl and I believe I know in my heart what is right here but I have to ask some mature men out there a ...
A. 22 February 2008: It's confusing to me too. I mean, yeah I could understand stress and not wanting to do it because of stress but not for that prolonged period of time! Jeez...Something's up. If he keeps switching up the reason why he doesn't wanna do it, there has ... (read in full...)
Does anyone really participate in group sex or is it only a fantasy on porn sites?
Q. Does anyone really participate in group sex or is it only a fantasy on porn sites? It seems like it would be fun with the right couple if you took precautions....
A. 22 February 2008: I've done a group thing. We used condoms. It's alright. It's not outrageously great and I wouldn't do it again but then again my one experience was a bad one so that's probably why I'm not gonna participate again. It's better if you know the people ... (read in full...)
I feel his ex calls him more often than is healthy!
Q. My husband has a child with his ex. Of course they have to communicate about the child but she still finds it necessary to call him at least once a week about something completely unrelated to the child. Last week it was a question about ceiling ...
A. 22 February 2008: It sounds like she is still attached to him emotionally. She still depends on him to help her even though they aren't together. She doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand that they are done as a couple and that he is with you. You gotta ... (read in full...)
He called me by an ex girlfriend's name while we were having sex!!
Q. I have never been self concious before, but I have been having a problem with coping with a lot of issues in my sex life lately. I know that it is completely normal for a man to pretend like he is have having sex with another woman while he is ...
A. 22 February 2008: It's not normal for a guy to think about other chicks when he's having sex with you. Where'd you get that idea from? Is it normal for girls to think about other guys when they're doing their man? I sure don't do that. I would feel pretty upset if my ... (read in full...)
Am I just too tight?
Q. hi, I've had sex once before with someone I really loved, i lost my virginity to him, but i was nervous and kind of froze at the thought of it. He was big down there and it did hurt a bit. I'm starting to get a bit worried i'm too tight to have sex...
A. 19 February 2008: By asking if you're ready, if proves that you're not ready. When I lost my virginity, it was my decision. I chose to go out and lose it. I didn't question myself. I think that you should just wait until your body and your mind are in agreement. Its ... (read in full...)
How do I get him back?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago for a stupid reason. We were together almost a year and a half and I love him more than anything and I know he loves me too. The problem is he says that I hurt him really bad and he just needs time to deal ...
A. 19 February 2008: What did you do? Sometimes, no matter how much we want something, it wasn't meant to be. Sometimes, letting go and moving on is all we can do. If it really is love, if it is really meant to be, he will heal and come back to you. Just don't want him ... (read in full...)
It's all wearing me out emotionally...
Q. My husband has a very fiery temper and when he gets angry he can be very rude and swear and shout and insult me, calling me 'thick' and a 'bitch' etc .. I have told him so many times that this hurts me and upsets me but the next time we argue it ...
A. 19 February 2008: I know exactly how you feel. I hate it when my boyfriend cusses or criticizes me because only the people I love can hurt me the most and influence the way I think about myself. I think that you should sit him down when he's calm and tell him how ... (read in full...)
Finsh him or stay with him?
Q. right... I have been going oout with this boy for nearly 3 weeks and I really like him.But his friend, (who is my friend also), told me that my boyfriend is going to dump me if this girl fancys him. I dont know what to do, finsh him or stay with him...
A. 15 February 2008: I think you should confront him like the other girl said. If you keep doubting him on the word of a friend of his, then it'll destroy your relationship. Go ask him about it. The friend might want to break you guys up for some reason or other.
B... (read in full...)
My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??
Q. Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...
A. 13 February 2008: Tell another teacher or better yet, the principal or the cops or both. He's harassing you.
Do it now before it gets worse.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 13 February 2008: Good for you! I'm so happy for you and proud of you!
xoxo... (read in full...)
Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?
Q. Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the ...
A. 13 February 2008: I'm sorry but your friend is wrong. Don't pretend to be anything other than what you are. What happens when you do snag a guy because you act more feminine or walk with a sexy hip motion? Do you pretend for the rest of your life? Can you hide your ... (read in full...)
Do I still love him or not?
Q. dear cupid i dont know what to do i have been with my husband for nearly three years and we have a daughter together who is three mths.i also have another daughter who is five but her dad was someone else i used to be married too. The problem is my ...
A. 13 February 2008: If he doesn't make you happy anymore, let him go. Don't think that you have to have him around for your mutual daughter. If he is as noncommital as a dad as he is as a husband, it'll only harm your youngest daughter. She'll grow up with a warped ... (read in full...)
I used to be on the depo- Provera but my boyfriend didnt like the side effects. Why am I now getting these symptoms?
Q. Hi, I used to be on Depo-Provera because my menstral cycle was all messed up I would have my perioud for 3 weeks then have a 5 day break then would be back on it again. Anyways my boyfriend didnt like the fact that I was on it because of all the ...
A. 13 February 2008: I think you shoud see a doctor about this or ask an expert. I got on come birth control because my period was messed up like yours too. All the side effects I got were mood swings. I didn't get any brown goo... I think you should really see a ... (read in full...)
She will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak, what should I do?
Q. I'm 16 and a virgin. Everyone is doing it accept me but the thing is I have a small penis and it's wonky so I'm too scared to get with a girl cause when she wants sex she will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak. What should I do?...
A. 10 February 2008: Wonky? Penises come in all different shapes and sizes as do vaginas. Learn about other things to do and make it more enjoyable for women. Sometimes, guys with small weiners are a hell of alot better in bed with guys with big thingies.
Make your... (read in full...)
How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 10 February 2008: Its pretty hard to not talk to him...I know how you feel. I just kinda decided that it was better this way because I know he will always see you in a more intimate light because of the fact that you had been together before. You might want ... (read in full...)
My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??
Q. Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...
A. 24 January 2008: This is so not your fault. Yes, you have a crush on your teacher. Everyone has at some point in their life. However, he made the inappropriate advances first. He's at fault. Treat him like any other male. Tell him to back off. If he does, get ... (read in full...)
Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?
Q. Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the ...
A. 20 January 2008: Its in the way you carry yourself. You have to feel sexy from the inside. Find clothes that make YOU feel good. PAMPER yourself and then when you feel like a woman, go out. Don't try too hard. I like to use my eyes to flirt with a guy. Look a guy ... (read in full...)
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