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Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?
Q. Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the ...
A. 13 February 2008: I'm sorry but your friend is wrong. Don't pretend to be anything other than what you are. What happens when you do snag a guy because you act more feminine or walk with a sexy hip motion? Do you pretend for the rest of your life? Can you hide your ... (read in full...)
How can I give my bf a good orgasm without full-blown sex??
Q. Hey, agony aunts. I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we've been taking things slow, but we're starting to think about fooling around a bit. Nothing major, we know we're too young to start anything too serious,...
A. 21 January 2008: I agree with daletom. I think you guys need to get to know each other a bit more before you get really serious and heavy petting. I know how it feels to want to do those things at your age but there's time for that later on.
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Why should I be any different??
Q. Hi, guys. Yet again, another student-teacher situation. So, I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've had this massive crush on my chemistry teacher for a while. It freaked me out a great deal at first because I've never noticed any of my teachers...
A. 21 January 2008: At the age of 13-15, I don't think you should get involved with an older man. I understand how you feel but the right thing is the right thing. If its something serious, you can wait a few years and then reciprocate the vibe. If not, you don't want ... (read in full...)
He doesn't tease me like the others...does that mean he likes me back??
Q. there is a guy at school named Alex I really like him but he doesn't know he has 2 friends that make fun of me but he doesn't join in 95% of the time and sometimes in class i realize hes looking at me is that because his desk is right across the ...
A. 21 January 2008: First, don't let the boys tease you. They probably have a crush on you.
Second, the only way you'll know if he likes you is to ask him. Don't do it obviously. Just kinda start talking to him and then see how he acts.
Good luck sweetie
Don't be ... (read in full...)
Is my friend being minipulated, or do I have this wrong?
Q. Hi all, I have a question that I would like some veiws on. Yesterday afternoon, I met a friend and her husband in the pub and was invited to go back to dinner. This couple are our close friends,(he was left by his wife for another man) and we ofte...
A. 21 January 2008: She should dress how she wants to dress. She needs to speak up for herself and tell him off. If he touches her violently, then she should just get a divorce because he sounds like an ass anyway. It's her body, not his and he needs to realize ... (read in full...)
Problems with my Dad, I really need some advice please
Q. My issue is the love-hate relationship I have with my dad. As good a man as he is and as much as he helps me and I love him, there is a side of me that doesn't trust him and that makes me "hate" him. My dad has a major chip on his shoulder about his ...
A. 21 January 2008: It sounds like he still feels for your mom. Its like he's angry at your mom for succeeding without him. If he's supposed to be your friend, then you can talk to him like a friend. When a friend talks about you, you tell them how you feel. So tell ... (read in full...)
Trouble having sex the first time! I need help please.
Q. i have problems with my boyfriend because he wants to have sex with me but im a virgin, and when we try ito, it hurt's a lot, so i dont know what to do. And i dont know what to say on the phone with him coz he says that his the only one that has ...
A. 21 January 2008: Do you want to have sex with him? Are you ready? I didn't have sex until I was good and ready. If you want to, then do more foreplay and lube helps alot too. If you don't, then talk with him about it. If he loves you, he'll respect your dec... (read in full...)
Feeling insecure, how can I cope?
Q. hi... ive been married for almost 6 months now but hav been with my man for 3 years. ive always been an emotional person but recently ive been acting so clingy, i feel like i always need him with me or else i feel so lost and sad. i dont know how to ...
A. 21 January 2008: Give him a call. Hearing his voice helps alot. I'm embarassed to admit that I keep his voicemails and listen to them from time to time because it always puts a smile on my way. Also check if you're pregnant. Your hormones go nuts when you are. ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about not being able to orgasm during sex?
Q. I'm getting quite worried, because I just can't orgasm during sex. I can when he licks me out, or rubs my clitoris, but during actual intercourse it doesn't really turn me on to a point where I can orgasm... Is there a problem? I know there's ...
A. 21 January 2008: I have the same problem as you. Yes I worry but some women cannot get off with vaginal stimulation. It's natural. Some women, like us, can only get off on clitoral stimuli. You are not weird or a freak or any less a woman because you can't cum when... (read in full...)
Do I give myself time to get over this, or should I end it?
Q. I am 26 and my boyfriend of the past year and a half is 36. We have a really goof relationship. My problem is this, we have a very good friend. He has known her longer than I have. They have had sex in the past. The other evening, after inviting...
A. 21 January 2008: You are his girlfriend. Tell him to not talk to her or see her again. You are supposed to be the only and most important woman in his life. He should sacrifice a friend to make you happy. You are not unreasonable when you ask this. You have evidence ... (read in full...)
Which one of them do I choose?
Q. I have a relationship for about 3 years.the last few months another man came to my life.the problem is that i don't want to lose neither of the two.both men are in love with me and so am i.What am i supposed to do?...
A. 21 January 2008: Have you tried a two way relationship? Ask both of them to come talk with you, all three parties together. Talk with them about how to feel and how they feel and ask them for suggestions about what to do. However, I am the sort of person who woul... (read in full...)
I feel unloved and unfancied. What can I do to get him to take more interest in me emotionally?
Q. Hi Im 7 months pregnant and obviously a little hormonal occasionally! I have a very emotionally retarded husband anyway but now im pregnant i find it even harder to deal with. He's a very successful, business minded kind of guy so i gue...
A. 21 January 2008: What is wrong with him? You are his 7 months pregnant wife! He probably has had not experience with pregnant woman besides avoiding them. Sit down and make him listen to what you have to say. Some men are extremely awkward but if you didn't love ... (read in full...)
B.J's What else can we do, besides full sex?
Q. my boyfriend loves b/j. and i want to do other things along with that. so what can we do other than have sex? ...
A. 21 January 2008: Sure, he loves a b/j but he needs to pleasure you too. Ask him to eat you out and touch you. Kiss him and touch him too. Sex should be 90% foreplay and 10% penetration. ... (read in full...)
Do I delete her email before he sees it?
Q. I need your advice. My problem is and had always been my bf's ex. When my bf and I started dating they were still seeing each other, then he promise me that he had no feeling for her and that everything was over between him and her. That was at ...
A. 21 January 2008: By being with him, you are hurting yourself a great deal. Three years and he's still obsessed with her? It sounds like he wants what he can't have and he can't see that he has a good woman right beside him, supporting him and loving him. It's time ... (read in full...)
How can I stop it from going wrong? Please help! I'm desperate
Q. me and my bf have been together for 9 months and we have had our ups and downs but now it just seems like we are always fighting and I dont know what to do cause i do not want to lose him but I feel it coming please someone help me with some ...
A. 21 January 2008: First of all, it sounds like you are taking the blame for what's happening. Unless it is always your fault that the fight happens, then its not all your fault. You really want to make this relationship work out but does he? It takes effort on both ... (read in full...)
Baby's names! who gets the last word?
Q. A while ago, I wrote in about wanting to be preggie all the time, even though a baby is still out of the question for some particular reasons which I will not discuss at this time because, well, they're irrelevant to the question, and the question ...
A. 21 January 2008: One way you could compromise is to give the baby two names with your chosen name as the first. Another is that he gets to name the boys and you get to name the girls. ... (read in full...)
I made a terrible mistake! how can I prove I didn't mean this?, I am only 12
Q. my problem is my older sister will not talk to me at all because me and her 11 year old girl did some touching (you know) the thing is my older sister ha something similar to her happen when she was my age (11) she wont talk to me or my mom at all ...
A. 21 January 2008: I could really understand your sister's point of view. I know that when I have a child, I would protect her with all that I had. She is probably extremely hurt that you, her sister, was messing with her daughter. She probably also is very upset with ... (read in full...)
What to wear for VERY posh dinner??
Q. My boyfriend is taking me to a very expensive hotel in a couple of weeks. I know it's costing in excess of £200 a night, so my reason for panic is what do I wear? We're eating at the restaurant there, and I don't really have any knowledge of what ...
A. 21 January 2008: I would wear a nice dress that isn't for partying but not for ballroom dancing. A nice black dress would be good and include heels and a bit of makeup and make sure your hair doesn't look over done but not like you just ran a brush through it. ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend has a very shady past, should I let it put me off?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few weeks, and just wondered what people thought in regards to his past. I really like him, and he treats me like a princess, a total gentleman, but he has such a shady past and I guess I worry that it might repeat -...
A. 21 January 2008: It all depends on him. Does he truly have the will to change? Some people really want to do something but they don't have the strength to do it. If I was in your shoes, I would trust my heart but also use my head. I would be supportive but protect ... (read in full...)
What would be the best thing for me to do?
Q. I am married but seperated for the past 8 years.Single Parent with a high profile job. Have had a serious relationship and broke off about 4 years back. I am choosy when it comes to dating and getting involved. Recently I started liking a colleagu...
A. 20 January 2008: It sounds like he is using you for sex. Ask him what does he mean 'he's not in a position to leave his family'. Get to the bottom of the matter. Even though he makes you happy, he's not giving you what you need emotionally and physically. There is a ... (read in full...)
Does this prove anything?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. Ever since school has started this boy in my class has been flirting with me which I think is nice. But this is when he gets confusing, he's nice and flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my ...
A. 20 January 2008: It means he wants to have sexual intercourse with you. Tell him you're not ready for that stuff and to back off a bit. Don't let him pressure you into having sex.... (read in full...)
My husband told me to sleep with another man, I have and liked it,will we have problems?
Q. my husband, of two years,. has given me permission to have sex with other men. i did not ask him for this, he just told me it was ok one day while we were raking the yard (why, when we were raking the yard...wouldn't bed be a better place...but ...
A. 20 January 2008: This is pretty weird. I think that he wanted you to sleep with other men so that he could sleep with other women if he hadn't already. I think there's nothing wrong if he has no problem with it but indicate that he should tell you if he's doing ... (read in full...)
She is my ex gf's sister and I am desperately in love with her...what should I do?
Q. I met my girlfriend in 1988. We had 2 children within a few years. It wasn't a very enjoyable relationship as she was never interested in anything including me. I was there for the kids. I started a small business and threw myself into that. Just ...
A. 20 January 2008: Follow your heart. You shouldn't be ashamed of love. So few people have it at all to waste it and lose it. Don't be afraid of what others think...they are not the ones in the relationship. You and S are.... (read in full...)
Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?
Q. Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the ...
A. 20 January 2008: Its in the way you carry yourself. You have to feel sexy from the inside. Find clothes that make YOU feel good. PAMPER yourself and then when you feel like a woman, go out. Don't try too hard. I like to use my eyes to flirt with a guy. Look a guy ... (read in full...)
Can you really be with someone you don't fully trust
Q. Hey guys, I know this will sound so stupid and idiotic but can you really be with someone you don't fully trust? me and my boyfriend have been through so much and i feel like an idiot when he doesnt pick up the fone and i stress out and get al...
A. 20 January 2008: Yes, it is a big deal if you can't trust him. No, it's not dumb to be upset over something that happened a year ago. This is obviously a huge issue and you need to make him talk about it. Tell him how you feel and don't let him brush it off. Make ... (read in full...)
We were to be married but he dropped me for a woman with money! Can love be sold out for money?
Q. I belong from a very conservative country where people still believe in caste and religion. I was in a relationship with this guy from last 4 years. He was from a higher caste than me. He always knew but he said he doesn't believe in all this and ...
A. 20 January 2008: Yes you can survive without him. You DO NOT need him. I understand about how important the whole caste thing is and how important family is in a relationship but its YOUR life, not theirs. If he really loved you, then he wouldn't have left you for a ... (read in full...)
His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies ...
A. 20 January 2008: Sounds like he has problems. Leave his ass. Kick him out. You deserve to be treated like a lady and not like trash. If he starts getting nasty when you leave him/break up, call the police. Try breaking up over the phone or having male ... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but too embarrssed!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 3 months now. I have sucked him off and given him a hand-job. As he is two years older than me, he says he doesnt want to have sex as i am not ready yet and he says that he is happy with waiting ...
A. 20 January 2008: I completely understand how you feel. I was extremely scared about doing it and I still am a little. I lost it when I was 17. If you've been using tampons, it'll go alot easier since you've been stretched a bit. It does hurt a bit the first time but ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my 'friend with benefits' and its killing me
Q. a year ago while i had a boyfriend i hooked up with this guy he happened to be my friends ex boyfriend and one of my other friends had a crush on him and all of the parents in our area knew about it so for these reasons the affair ended. but by this ...
A. 20 January 2008: You really are in trouble. Indicate slyly that you would like a man. Indicate that you feel for him. Have an honest conversation with him and ask him how he feels about you. If he doesn't love you and can't settle down, then you need to stop being ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper easily. Advice needed.
Q. I love my boyfriend alot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper quite easily. He says he's sorry and that he loves me, but its hard for him to control his temper. we've been together 15 months and are in bliss when we're not arguing. How can ...
A. 20 January 2008: You can't change a person. He has to change and improve himself. If he doesn't want to change, then it's hopeless. There are anger management classes to help and counselors too. If his temper is totally out of control, it could endanger you so if ... (read in full...)
Could I have tips on how to spice up your sex life? All opinions welcome!
Q. Could I have tips on how to spice up your sex life? All opinions welcome! No matter how strange. I'm just curious, and looking for new ways to impress in the bedroom. I know I could just google it, but I love this site, and thought I'd give it a go ...
A. 20 January 2008: Send texts to your partner about how much you miss and want them. You could also use pic/vid messages. Talk dirty.
RELAX AND HAVE FUN!... (read in full...)
She's split up with he bf but not said a word...what should I do??
Q. There is someone i like and asked out a few months back. At the time she said that she had a bf but still liked me. She recently broke up with her bf but hasn't said anything to me. I still like her but i don't know what to do! Should i say anyt...
A. 20 January 2008: Indicate your interest again and wait until she's ready to go into another relationship. You don't wanna be the rebound guy. ... (read in full...)
This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?
Q. If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to...
A. 20 January 2008: How do you feel about your husband? Do you have kids? If you do, you can't think about yourself. How would your kids feel if you leave their father for no reason and go off to India to marry a stranger? If you don't have kids, ask yourself how to ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my long-distance gf going cold??
Q. Hello there, i am in a long distance relationship that is going very very sour. I have fallen in love with a girl i met on holiday we have been going out for about 5 months and i get to see her a couple of times a month due to her work (cabin c...
A. 20 January 2008: I really have no idea. I'm in a long distance relationship myself. It takes effort on BOTH sides for it to work. I'm putting myself in her shoes. If my boyfriend wasn't into me at first, then I would be hurt. If he left before we began getting more ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to go places, for fear that people will ridicule me or bully me!
Q. sometimes i am afraid to go out, because i'm afraid people are going to make fun of me, laugh at me, and call me names such as ugly, EW, and etc.There was this one situation during summer I was at a store a random women told her friend that I am ...
A. 20 January 2008: Honey, don't let anyone tell you you're ugly. Their words only influence you if you really believe that you are ugly. Who cares what they think? Are they going to be there for the rest of your life? No. Do they have the power to chop off your head? ... (read in full...)
How can I stop her her from going out with friends. I am afraid she'll cheat!
Q. I have a girlfriend i have been dating for 7 years.We love each other so much.we live on different continents but travel to see each other twice a year. We are not yet ready for marriage because we are still below 25.It hasnt been easy on us but we ...
A. 19 January 2008: Trust is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. If you can't trust her to even go out, then that means you don't trust her. If you don't trust her, how can you love her fully? You can't stop her from going out. You can give her reason ... (read in full...)
How do I act with my ex as he wants to keep in touch??
Q. I am a girl,aged 18.I had a boyfriend for 4 months,but because he had to leave for Portugal,he decided to leave me. He left in the beginning of the month(January,5th).A month earlier he said we had to break up,as he was leaving and didn't want to ...
A. 19 January 2008: Its always difficult when your ex wants to 'be friends'. Its ok to not answer him and let yourself distance yourself from him. It was very hard for me to finally let go of my ex but just give yourself time. Tell him you feel uncomfortable talking ... (read in full...)
I feel old at 15....is there any way to make myself feel better?
Q. I have good friends, i have been told i could be a model you think i am lucky!! wrong!!! Last year was a great year for me i was 14 had great friends and had no worries and i went on loads of trip. Since November i had a dream of last day of schoo...
A. 19 January 2008: There is no miracle cure to 'feel better' at a young age. People develop mentally and physically at different rates especially girls. Girls are very mature at a much younger age than boys. You have to learn to accept the way you look. You are ... (read in full...)
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