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writes:My partner left me, after a four year relationship, nearly 7 months ago when our baby was less than a month old.My dilemma is that one of his best friends and I have feelings for each other and we don't know whether or not to act on them. We have known each other for four years but have never really thought of each other in a romantic way before. It has been since spending time alone together, when he visits my son, that we have formed a closeness. Nothing sexual has happened, not even kisses.We have a date planned for Friday evening, and if I go then I know our relationship will reach another level (if you get my drift!)We both really like each other, adn what I want to know is, is what we're doing completely wrong? Because this could potentially ruin both of our relationships with my ex. Thankyou for reading this!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 Your partner has left you . Do you consider you still have a relationship with him? When he left, the relationship is dead.He is not important anymore in your life. Your friend and your ex,it is beyond your control.You do not have to seek your ex's blessings .
If you have completely given up your ex, then it is OK.If not , he may come back into the picture and you would be in a dilemma.
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 I don't think its wrong. If your ex can leave you when you are having his kid, then he sounds like an ass. If the friend treats you better, then hey, go for it!
Be happy.
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 January 2008):
 no it's not wrong. your ex left you, you're open to date who you choose, and without intimidation from your ex. do what's right for you and your child. don't keep yourself prisoned because of your ex.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (21 January 2008):
 If u really do like this guy you are going to have to decide if he is more importent or your friendship with your ex is more importent. And your ex may not get mad, but if he does you need to consider these things in case. But you cant let your past stop u from moving on into the future. So do what feels right to you, live without regret.
You are who you have to deal with each morning wen you wake up. So do what feels right, so you dont hurt yourself over making a mistake.
Good luck
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