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writes: My friend is a nutter, and bugs the hell out of me! She never stops talking about herself, and lives in a complete fantasy world. She imagines herself married to a guy after ten minutes. I don't mean the normal 'I wonder what color eyes our children would have' thought or one of those silly 'wonder how he is in bed' thoughts, I mean full on 'this is the color of that room, we'll have three or four kids, and we'll do this and that and...' deal. She obsesses to no end, and will interupt me telling her a really big problem of mine to inform me that he's been texting her all night and day and her phone is on the verge of dying so could I please loan her my charger, pretty please. It's making me crazy. She could plan out thier future by looking at his sneakers. She is an attention craver to say the least....Am I over reacting? Just please, before you say yes, imagine this girl a foot from your face yelling about her future husband she's known for two minutes, and then about how she's also 'seeing' these other two guys she doesn't know, while she's texting all of them and her mother, and then have her cut you off during a tear-jerking moment to announce she doesn't like her hair cut anymore. And she spits when she talks. See? Sounds annoying, doesn't it?
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 I'm sorry but she doesn't sound like a friend. If she doesn't pay attention to your problems and your pain, then she isn't a friend at all. You're basically there to just listen to what she says. Spend less time with her and more time with people who really care about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, no offense you guys, but I was looking to take a more mature approach on this. :( T-shirts and just returning the rudeness don't seem effective. Actually Kit, that's a good idea. I have since decided to not really have a relationship with her, though. Obviously she's stuck in the mind of a ten year old, so I have no wish to continue on with her. Thank you for the advice though! :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Go print one T-Shirt with that slogan," My mate is driving me Nut's!" and wear it when she is with you.
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reader, kit_e_kat  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 you have got t be firm. But when i say this be nice about it. She can't be a real friend if she does not respect your feelings and you have to let her know this or the situation will carry on unchanged. You have to talk to her, make it known you have a problem with your relationship with her. If she won't listen to that, walk away from her mid converstaion or every time she interrupts you. She has to listen to you sometimes she can't always take. be strong she isn't a real friend either if you can't tell her the truth and her not be recpetive to it. hope i helped x
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reader, natashia +, writes (21 January 2008):
 i know how that feels its so annoying do the same as what shes doing and if she says to you to stop all this you tell her you are just showing her wat its like as she always does it
it worked for me so try it if it doesnt work get back to me
good luck xox
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reader, natashia +, writes (21 January 2008):
i know how that feels its so annoying do the same as what shes doing and if she says to you to stop all this you tell her you are just showing her wat its like as she always does it
it worked for me so try it if it doesnt work get back to me
good luck xox
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