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3 April 2009: i decided to write this article in view of the amount of people that I know/know of who are in unuqual relationships, that is in particular women who are in unequal relationships. Im not sating that it doesnt happen to men, of course, but often it ...
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How should I tell my partner that I want to have kids?
Q. ive been with my partner now for over a year and im 21 and hes 22 i wanna have a child but i dont know how to tell him; he has already got a 3 year old from a previous relationship and hes a good dad but he could also have another one which is a few ...
A. 25 February 2009: seriously? your thinking of having a child with him now in case your not together in 2 years time? do I even need to explain to you whats wrong here?... (read in full...)
Even though I have an STD, that STILL isn't enough to make me hate him.
Q. My ex boyfriend and I dated for quite some time. For the most part, we had a good relationship. I fell hard for him, I'd have to say and well I can't seem to get back up. Our break up was very horrible. We basically said every rude thing ...
A. 25 February 2009: cease all contact its hard at first but its the best thing... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my b/f's ex wants to bring up their past, what do you think?
Q. My boyfriend was with his ex for 5 years. They have been split up for 2 years now and me and him have been togeher for 9 months. When he split up with his ex they were still sleeping together and she got pregnant she got rid of the baby and my ...
A. 25 February 2009: your not being unreasonable I would feel quite p***ed off... (read in full...)
Why has my ex started calling me again?
Q. My ex has been calling me lately. What does he want? We dated for 4 years and broke up a year ago. I caught him with another woman in his bedroom on New Years day 2008. What a way to bring in the New Years right? (Hahaha I can at least laugh about ...
A. 25 February 2009: hello hes just using you asking you to pick him up when drunk & inviting you for breakfast translates as ''i need a bed buddy''
do yourself the biggest favour and cease all contact... (read in full...)
Should I break it off, because I can't accept his child in my life?
Q. Here is my story and wonder what should I do? I am back with my ex boyfriend that I was with when I was 16 (now 21) we dated until I was 18.. I had to move to the mainland after high school. I cheated on him before but he took me back and our ...
A. 25 February 2009: hi Im in a similar aituation except my boyfriend didnt cheat on me some woman he was seeing for a month came back from poland & informed him that hes a father (the child was 3 months old at the time) they never got to know each other either to the ... (read in full...)
How do I tell family I'm pregnant again?
Q. how do I tell my grandpa I'm pregnant.i live with him and iv gotten prego before and he would be really dissappointed when he finds out I am again...i don't knoe how to tell him...what should I do...
A. 25 February 2009: why didnt you think of this before you got pregnant? I understand they do have birth control in your country... (read in full...)
Dick size & pregnancy?
Q. does dick size have to do with getting a girl pregnant....i went with this dude and he had a super little penis (we definatly didn't have sex) but he has a new girl now and I guess she's pregnant with his baby I'm sittin here thinkin to myself you ...
A. 25 February 2009: size doesnt matter its what one does with ''it'' that counts. no there is no link between the 2... (read in full...)
Silly to use condoms when on the pill
Q. Is it silly to make your partner wear a condom or pull out while on the pill? My bf and I are each others first, so I'm not worried about std's but I heard the pill is only something like 92% safe. That scares me, so I make him put on a condom or he ...
A. 25 February 2009: I would advise you to use both as the pill is not 100% effective and I heard that 1 brand of pill, Yasminellle has such a low dose that it is easy to get preganant even while taking it properly so I would say use both. ''no glove, no love!''... (read in full...)
He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slep...
A. 13 January 2009: you said you asked him if he had anything to tell you & he said no & now you found out he was lying. Im sorry but that does say a lot about his character... (read in full...)
I love my mom but she's so controlling of my life
Q. my life is so confusing......im currently seeing my ex boyfreind and we are so in love but im seeing him behind my mams back because she has it in to her head that he is gay....he is the most sweetest lad you could ever ask to be with and i dont ...
A. 13 January 2009: it sounds like she has a problem with close friendships of any kind, first she suspected he was gay now she reckons you're a lesbian?! ... (read in full...)
Is Teen Pregnancy Cool These Days?
Q. I just thought I'd speak out about this because I'm 15 years old my friends range from 16 to 19 but a lot of my friends and people I know are 16 /17! And to be honest I'm shocked that girls now a days in this day and age were contraception is so ...
A. 10 December 2008: I afree that its terrible & I have a friend that is 19 & has 2kids. I dont know the situation in canada but in ireland they are only encouraging these single girls to have kids because they get too many social benefits (welfare) & they get offered a ... (read in full...)
His ex is pregnant... should I move on?
Q. What should I do? I fell for a guy who just broke up with is girlfriend. We both fell right away, it was perfect. Then he found out that his ex was pregnant (She has been pregnant for 3 months, he did cheat) with his baby. Should I forget about so...
A. 2 December 2008: You would be better off moving on. sorry. but your head will be wrecked over it.... (read in full...)
I''ve started to feel I'm not ready for a serious relationship at 17, any advice?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've had some great times but i've started to feel as if i'm not ready for a serious relationship and my feeling towards her have changed. Everything feels the same now and nothing changes....
A. 2 December 2008: you are perfectly normal for your age... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 2 December 2008: the NHS was not created so that people could have kids carelessly then expect to get everything for free. no wonder the economy is as bad as it is. save some money get a mortgage on a house get married THEN you can think about having babies.... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend or kiss. I'm 29 and nobody wants me.
Q. hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they reject me in the ...
A. 2 December 2008: I think perhaps counselling might help you understand that its not all about looks 7 that you are not fat or ugly, a proper man will like you just the way you are. xx ... (read in full...)
The interior of my vagina feels uncomfortable, what could it be? I don't want my husband to know!
Q. okay this is a bit embarrassing but do I have a yeast infection? My "thing's" walls are not comtable and they feel tritchy. I dont want have sex with my husband because Im dont want him to know and dont want to talk about it with him. Im embarrassed ...
A. 2 December 2008: It sounds liek a yeast infection nothing to be embarrassed about... (read in full...)
I am wondering what are the possibilities that I am pregnant...
Q. I took antibiotics a few days before I started my birth control for the month. I started my pack about 2-3 days late and have had unprotected sex 4 days before the end of my active pills. I am wondering what are the possibilities that I am ...
A. 2 December 2008: get the morning after pill... (read in full...)
How do I get completely over my ex boyfriend?
Q. Dear Cupid, Why is life so frustrating? I've been able to break up with my ex boyfriend and is left with a month for me to marry. My ex boyfriend called and memories about him start flashing back. I can never stop loving him. But he is no...
A. 2 December 2008: postpone the wedding for a couple of months & clear your head of any worries & thoughts related to him... (read in full...)
Can a shy man be attractive?
Q. Hello. Do women find good looking articulate loners attractive - albeit strictly those who do not exhibit psychotic tendencies!? Many thanks....
A. 2 December 2008: yes I would much prefer a shy man than the other description =)... (read in full...)
Is masturbation murder?
Q. well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on ...
A. 13 May 2008: it certainly isnt murder, if that was the case you could say that sex was also murder as all but one sperm are killed off... (read in full...)
He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?
Q. I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired wi...
A. 13 May 2008: one word, YES... (read in full...)
I'm 5 months pregnant and he's with another girl and he still comes round to sleep with me.
Q. I am so hurt. My ex boyfriend is with another girl even though he knows i'm 5 months pregnant from him. He tells me he loves this girl. He phones me all the time and tells me he will be there for the baby, but he doesn't want to be with me. I feel...
A. 13 May 2008: why are you letting him do it to you?? thats the real question... (read in full...)
I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?
Q. My question is a bit strange but it is something that has been bothering me for a long time. Ok, it all started bout 8 months ago, i fell out with my bitchy best mate. A few weeks later i started getting anonymous phone calls, the number would alw...
A. 13 May 2008: answer, say nothing and put the phone on mute. dont give them the satisfaction of knowing what you're doing from hearing background noise.
at night, turn your mobile onto silent and take the house phone off the hook. if it presists after this, yo... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I'm pregnant
Q. Can anyone help me? Im 15 and I think im pregnant! my boyfriend is 18 and ive told him but he says I should do what I think is right but last month I was 2weeks late and when I came on my period it wasent even a propa period and ive not come on this ...
A. 13 May 2008: take a test its the only way you will find out. have you been using contraception???... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I didn't get pregnant with unprotected sex
Q. how come ive bin having unprotected sex and i havent fell pregnant. i havent bin tryin but it still worries me a bit that i havent...
A. 30 April 2008: well you shouldnt be trying to ''find out'' this way as a simple visit to the doctor would be the obvious way to find out. given that contraception is free in the uk, whats your excuse for not using it???... (read in full...)
I am afraid I will not be able to make a woman happy. I don't just mean sex, I mean in all aspects of life.
Q. Heh can't believe I will ask this but anyway... I'm a 22 year old guy who has never had sex, now big thing I fear is that a women I do find that I like I wont know how to really make them happy and I don't mean just in bed. I don't really care abou...
A. 16 April 2008: if you specifically look for someone to ''grow old with'' then Im afraid you will probably end up disappointed at first. you are expecting too much of yourself there is no such thing as the perfect boyfriend, partner or husband.
I think you need... (read in full...)
I am pregnant at 16 and my boyfriend doesn't want the baby
Q. i am 16 and i am pregnant. my boyfriend (now he isn't my anymore) just tuned 18 and he does not want the baby. he told me to abort the unborn child. but i don't want to. i want to have this baby.is this the right decision?...
A. 10 April 2008: dont let him pressure you into what he wants. do what you want.it is better to keep the baby, as you will love him or her when he or she arrives. good luck... (read in full...)
How long before I could tell if I was pregnant?
Q. Last nite me and my guy had sex but I hate to say we didn't use any protection and I know it was really stupid of us to do but we've done it before without one and everything was fine as he usually pulls out before he cums, anyway last nite we did ...
A. 6 March 2008: get the morning after pill straight away! it would take a week after the time your period is due to find out whether you're pregnant, maybe even more. he sounds selfish worrying about his couch more than your well being & whether you are practising ... (read in full...)
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