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*eorgiina
writes:Can anyone help me? Im 15 and I think im pregnant! my boyfriend is 18 and ive told him but he says I should do what I think is right but last month I was 2weeks late and when I came on my period it wasent even a propa period and ive not come on this month and i keep getting really strange pains in my stomache, i get headaches and my mood switches. Can anyone help me because i dont know what to d because i dont dare take a test, i dont dare go see my doctor and i dnt dare talk to my mum!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): First of all your 15 years old and probably shoulden't be having sex if your not prepared for the consiquences.However you should be prepaired for the worst, the best Idea is to tell your mother right away. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 20. During intercourse the condom broke, however the first thing we did was told my mother, because she had me when she was 19 she had some sort of idea as to what i was going threw, and she assured me that eveything will be okay.I think that its easier to just get that out of the was because when and if you find out you are pregenant you will be forced to deal with the consequences, and having support from her will make a large difference. I suppose all you can do is wait and take a pregenancy test, like me (1 week to go) anyhow. good luck. NiCe
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Georgina,
Don't worry, everything will be ok, no matter what. Call NHS Direct (their also available online) and ask for your local "family planning" clinic. These clinics offer free pregnancy tests and contraception. I used to work with them, and they are used to seeing young girls like you. Alternative, you can also ask to speak to the school nurse. (she's attached to the NHS, not your school) Ask her to keep it confidential, and she will tell you what to do.
Don't wait, do it now, do it today.
Good luck, tell us how you get on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): the only way to put your mind at rest is by either taking the test or going to your doctor or any doctor....
Its not as bad you may think... also talk to your mum - she be angry and upset for aw hile but at the end of the day you are her little girl and she will only want whats best for you......
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reader, :):):) +, writes (13 May 2008):
Its best you find out as soon as possible. Are you on the pill? a change in you're periods and mood swings are often a side effect. I see you're from the UK, you can buy tests from home bargains and pound shops in most places and there isnt an age restriction. The only way you'll know for sure is by taking a test, its better to get in over and done with.Good luckxxxx
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (13 May 2008):
take a test its the only way you will find out. have you been using contraception???
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reader, sweetheart03  +, writes (13 May 2008):
You need to take a test....but take it when you first wake up in the morning..your first pee of the day! There is a chance you may be so eirly you may need to go to the doctor and get a blood test to c if you are! Or a free clinic??? Do they have those where your from?? See online and go you need to make sure your ok
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