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How can I make him understand I am not single anymore and am totally committed to him??
Q. Ok, I'm 19, my BF is 22 and he doesn't trust me at all! In my past, I've kissed 4 other guys and gave oral sex to one of them, who happens to be the ex mutual friend who introduced my BF and me. The other 3 guys were guys I had just met at parties,...
A. 12 January 2008: These past relationships you had were before your b/f so i don't understand his problem. He sounds very insecure and that does not bode well for your future with him. He needs to sort himself out and quick because it will get worse not better. I had ... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 12 January 2008: I can't believe you are considering having a serious relationship with this guy.He says you cannot have sex with anyone else in case you get pregnant, but he can have all the sex he wants with whoever!!! even if it means him getting another girl ... (read in full...)
I started my period in August but since I haven't come on, what is going on? Should I be worried?
Q. hii ok well august 06 started my period and now it is january 08 and i havent come on since! i dont know if its anything to be worried about but what do i do...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi, i wouldn't worry to be honest. Your very young and it can take some time for your menstrual cycle to sort itself out. Some girls find they are regular when they first start, others are not. Some start early, 12-13 years of age, others are closer ... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 10 January 2008: Your ex sounds very immature going on the size of her new bf penis. You are certainly better off out of it. Size does not mean a thing it's what you do that counts. Great sex happens in a loving, happy relationship. ... (read in full...)
I am very worried about my PAP smear test results. Why do I have to go and see my doctor?
Q. I am 21 years old and I just had my first pap smear a week ago. Today I got the letter with my results but it didnt give me any. I am very worried because it said that I have to make another apt to discuss the results with my doctor. Have any of you ...
A. 10 January 2008: It is probably abnormal cells which is quite common. I had the same thing happen about 9 years ago, i was worried, i saw the doctor and he put my mind at rest. I had a colposcopy which showed there were abnormal cells. These cells can go back to ... (read in full...)
How can I stop him sending pictures on his phone?
Q. my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years keeps texting other girls. He has pictures of them and dirty messages which he sends and they send. He does not know I have seen them.....this time. I confronted him few months ago about them and he promised he would stop ...
A. 10 January 2008: Well you need to speak to him and make it clear he stops this or he leaves. I can imagine this is very tough on you, but what he is doing is disrespectful to you. Let him know what he stands to lose regarding you and the baby, hopefully he will come ... (read in full...)
My partner sent a message to a girl on a dating site and I cant get past it
Q. I've found out my partner has joined an internet dating site, he has said it was just a bit of fun and did it when we went through a bad patch and hasn't been on-line for a while which ties in with what his profile tells me. I've forgiven him but ...
A. 10 January 2008: I can imagine this is very hard for you. He said he did it when you were going through a rough patch, and you know he is not doing it now.Thats what you need to keep reminding yourself, he sounds as though he is being honest, which is good. You both ... (read in full...)
What's happened to my wife's sex drive?
Q. hello ive been with my wife 9 years now. for around 6 years our sex life was amazing but once we had kids her sex drive just went. i mean gone nothing. yes we have had sex many times over the years sence we had kids weve tryed every sort of ki...
A. 10 January 2008: Yes a visit to a doctor who is prepared to help would be good. You say this has only happened since you had children, do you help out a lot, with chores, childcare etc. Maybe she is rundown, could be some sort of depression? I know this is fairly ... (read in full...)
Is it best to pass your driving test before having a baby?
Q. hi there, as you know i asked previously that i would like to have a baby with my new boyfriend and i am considering it as we are getting our own house and ive got my driving test at the end of the month and my boyfiend earns alot as he works two ...
A. 8 January 2008: You would be better giving your relationship time before considering having a child.Your still young so there's no rush. There is no set limit on how long you should be with someone before having a child, you could be with someone for years and have ... (read in full...)
Should I let her move in next door with her roommate?
Q. My husband owns the house next door to us. Our friends are currently moving out and purchasing a house. A girl (whom my husband liked and lusted after 10 years ago wants to move in there). She is single and will have a girl roommate. He has told ...
A. 7 January 2008: Well it was 10 years ago,things and feelings can change a great deal over that period of time. You husband has said that he is not interested in her now, and that could well be the case.The differnce being as well that this time round he is married ... (read in full...)
He's still visiting adult dating sites, but says its to boost his confidence, should I give him the heave ho?
Q. Dear Readers The man I am dating (for over 11 months now) - I found out by accident he has a secret email account with emails from other girls - I found out he has about 20 girls on his messenger list and an account on an adults sex site - I ema...
A. 7 January 2008: Yes i would say end this relationship. He is not trustworthy and he doesn't seem to have any self respect.
You don't want to be with someone where you are always questioning their motives, that just causes you unnecessary
pain and upset. ... (read in full...)
I cannot call him mine. What am I going to do?
Q. i met this guy with a our common friends, we had a relationship knowing that he is a single..after a few months his wife texted me to inform that my so called bf was married..i ended our relationship that but still he keeps on coming back to me, ...
A. 5 January 2008: I'm afraid that is the oldest story in the book, that his marriage is a disaster, he says that to get you to sleep with him. He just wants his cake and eat it. As for his wife calling you, well i would imagine she is hurt at his betrayal, and since ... (read in full...)
Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?
Q. Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do....
A. 5 January 2008: You need to report this man, he is a paedodophile. Speak to your parents, or someone you can trust immediately. The police need to be informed too and then they can deal with him. Please do this as quick as possible. ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend was married! I don't get it, what kind of woman tolerates her husband being gone for days??
Q. i recently had a relationship with a man who was married. i didn't even know he was married until a year ago. i broke up with him 6 mo. ago because i couldn't rationalize the years of lies...4 to be exact. he would stay with me 3-4 days at a ...
A. 5 January 2008: Men travel away with work. My husband does. I doubt she knew anything about you. Anyway as you have found out the hard way, he is a liar and a cheat. I appreciate you did not know he was married at first, but why did you not dump him when you found ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to feel that he's not satisfied with me?
Q. I have been with my bf for a year and a half now and we have a very good sex life but yesterday i caught him looking at porn and it really hurt me and made me feel that i am not satisfying enough for him and that our sex life isnt satisfying enough ...
A. 4 January 2008: I don't like the comments that Flynn made, i thought they were unfair and uncalled for. There are a lot of women on this site that do not like their partners watching porn.I believe that if a couple are happy to have that in their relationship, ... (read in full...)
I am a good mother, but since my ex upset my kids they've distanced themselves from me. Is there anything I can do to get things back how they were?
Q. i have 5 daughters i have been a good mother. I met a man who upset them and was rude we have now finished but now the family have distanced themselves i have tried to be nice and friendly but i am disabled and no one visits me and i am ...
A. 2 January 2008: Hi, i think you should try and speak to your daughters, in a group and maybe individually. I do wonder what this man said/did for them to be this way, i do not have contact with my father and haven't for over 2 years. It was petty on his part and i ... (read in full...)
My partner hit me, and I'm 10 weeks pregnant with his child. I'm confused...
Q. i am 10 weeks pregnant and have a child already to the same guy, he argued with me because he wanted the house tidying and because i said i was changing my daughter he cme up to my face and threw a tea towel at me in my face so i went in to his face ...
A. 2 January 2008: Hi, there is no excuse for violence, especially when the victim is pregnant. Has he hit you before?
I know you have one child and another on the way, but if this man is hitting you then you need to make yourself and the children safe.
Only a coward... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and the man I like is married and has adorable children. How do I get over him?
Q. I'm 13 and I'm in love with someone who's 36. He's married with two adorable children! I don't know what to do. How do I get over him?...
A. 2 January 2008: Hi, what you feel for this man is a crush, it's perfectly normal. You will get over him in time, i had a variety of crushes when i was aged 10-16 years of age. None lasted that long. Even now i am married i have a bit of a thing for Johnny Depp ... (read in full...)
My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?
Q. hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always a...
A. 1 January 2008: I can understand how you feel, but your mum is just worried. It's not that she does not trust you, i'm sure she does. I have a son who is almost 13 and like you he goes on the internet, He goes on MSN and plays footie games etc. But he has also been ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated with a teenager, we are trying to work through it but I can't get the images out of my head
Q. My husband is trying hard to save our marriage after his affair with a teenage girl. I believe it is over and he is behaving now. He is nicer to me than ever and is going to relate with me. He still when explaining thing makes me feel it was my ...
A. 1 January 2008: I haven't been through this myself and i feel for you.
I don't understand why your husband is making out this is your fault, he strayed NOT you and you need to get this through to him.He probably feels very guilty, and so he should. He has beha... (read in full...)
Did he mean it when he told me he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend [17] and I [16] have been dating for 3 months. Last night, on a double date, he told me he loved me. I'm almost certain he meant it, but I worry that he was just doing it so I'd kiss him (I wouldn't as we were near the other couple). ...
A. 30 December 2007: He sounds sincere, as you say you have been going out for 3 months. Have fun. ... (read in full...)
He moved away and has a new girlfriend - will he really dump her for me?
Q. I used to date this guy before he moved away. I see him when he comes to visit and i really like him. The problem is he has a girlfriend where he lives now but he says he loves me and will dump her for me. I'm not sure whether to trust him or not as ...
A. 30 December 2007: He doesn't sound trustworthy, you are better off without him. ... (read in full...)
What makes a good relationship?
Q. I am kinda curious of what makes a good relationship? We all know Trust and communication but there has to be more layers than this? does anyone Know ...
A. 29 December 2007: I guess a sense of humour, obviously trust and fidelity, shared interests and great sex!!
Seriously though if you laugh a lot together that brings intimacy and love on its own. Not taking each other for granted also is another. ... (read in full...)
I told my insecure gf to move on if she did not trust me. She did. What can I do now?
Q. my girlfriend of 8 months recently broke up,due to me telling her if she did not trust me to move on. she is very insecure. she slept with a person 2 nights in a row and says he showed her the attention she was wanting. she will not talk to me for ...
A. 29 December 2007: Yes, i think maybe it is time to move on. If she does not trust you then the relationship would go nowhere should you get back together. As she does not want to talk to you it seems that she has chosen to move on herself. ... (read in full...)
Do you think that he is taking time out to think now that Christmas is over or he has already made a choice? Is it maybe a mid-life crisis?
Q. Hi, please help. My partner/fiance left our home 2 months ago after 5 years for a reason i did not know. I saw him last sunday and he told me that the reason he left was because he had met someone else. When i asked him he told me it was a 26 year ...
A. 29 December 2007: He doesn't sound as though he knows what he wants. But it is unfair to leave you dangling hoping for a reconciliation. He sounds full of regret at what he has done to you,and he says he does not trust her which spells doom for their relationship,and ... (read in full...)
What would you say, how young is too young?
Q. Right then, I'd just like to ask your opinions on "how young is too young"? I'm 22, and have feelings for a younger girl, she's 15. I don't care about sex, I just have loads of feelings at the moment for her, I feel like she's too young, she ...
A. 29 December 2007: Yes i think you know yourself she is too young. You may not be interested in sex at the moment but things can change rapidly when in a relationship and you could find yourself in a whole lot of trouble. I really cannot understand why a 15 year old ... (read in full...)
He told me he will have lunch with his ex and mentioned some bad things about her, why would he talk negatively about her to me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month. I know a month is not long at all, but we see each other pretty often, talk every day and he seems to be really into me. We are both 25. He went to visit his family in his hometown for the holidays and ...
A. 29 December 2007: He sounds honest, it's nice that he told you he had lunch with an ex-girlfriend. I don't think you have anything to worry about at all. ... (read in full...)
I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?
Q. ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?...
A. 28 December 2007: Yes i would urge you to speak to your parents asap and also your sister. I am against pornography, certainly on the internet as it is so easily accessible and young girls as in the case of your sister are being exploited. Please do everything to ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy, he has a girlfriend but I don't think he likes her very much. I want to be with him, what can I do??
Q. Hey guys i really need some help, im 19 years old and have hada lot of shit in my life.last year was my first year in college and towards the end of the year i realised i had feelings for my housemate, a guy ive known for seven years and never ...
A. 28 December 2007: You make like this guy but he is in a relationship with someone else. As for him being trapped in this relationship he can always walk away if he wishes to...
Leave him and his girlfriend alone to sort things out. If he wants to be with you then... (read in full...)
I'm seriously attracted to a married, female co-worker and she is constantly wanting my attention, how do I handle this?
Q. I've got a huge problem. I find myself seriously attracted to a married,female co-worker. To say she is the woman of my dreams is an understatement. It would also appear that she has feelings for me. I am trying to do the right thing and just be her ...
A. 28 December 2007: Well like you say she is married. Maybe it would be best if you could keep your distance as much as possible (both of you) and if you have to socialise make it as a group.
Maybe if you could focus on life away from work where you will meet othe... (read in full...)
I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?
Q. I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...
A. 27 December 2007: I think you are a very fair and kind person in keeping this private. It really is no-one else's business why you are divorcing your husband, but to have people thinking it is your fault (especially family) is unfair and it is great that you are able ... (read in full...)
Would you let your husband go away for the weekend with a woman he fancies?
Q. I have been with my husband for eleven years now, and although things are fairly good between us, he has developed a crush on another woman. He met her on a weekend away with the boys in the middle of summer, and has been sending odd messages her...
A. 27 December 2007: I seriously would not allow him to go off with this woman knowing how he feels about her. No way!!
I think you have to really put your foot down and make it clear if he goes your marriage is over. If it is innocent then why can you not go too? it's... (read in full...)
A younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home, even calling ME. What do I do?
Q. i have been married for almost 6yrs now. it has been a very happy one, blessed with two boys. recently, my hubby met a younger lady of about 21yrs. i know my hubby loves me, but this younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home. ...
A. 27 December 2007: It does seem odd that she is doing this, did your husband meet this person through work? Were they friends? he may possibly of had an affair with her,obviously she is interested in him and this has to stop. Speak to your husband find out if there is ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to give my bf a handjob but I'm scared I don't know how, please help!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and i am ready to do stuff. thing is i have never givern a handjob or blowjob - even tho he thinks i have! my friends say its fine, but readin some of the questions and answers on here have really made me ...
A. 27 December 2007: Three weeks is not long to be dating someone.
Your age worries me too, you are very young to be thinking about pleasuring someone and i would urge you to wait until you are a few years older at the very least. You have plenty of time in the futu... (read in full...)
Me and my neice are in love and I don't know what to do, would it be ok to date her?
Q. me and my neice are in love and i dont know what to do shes alot younger than me. i look after her quite alot and she flirts with me alot and on purpose does things so i get glimpses of her body by bending over infront of me so i can see down her ...
A. 27 December 2007: I'm sorry but this is wrong. You are blood relatives so nothing can happen,it is against the law.
You need to break contact with your niece for a while, to get yourselves sorted emotionally. Date other girls and in a while you will wonder why you ... (read in full...)
We've been trying for a baby for 4 months an nothing...!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 4months now and nothing seems to be happening and i am beginning to get worried....am i over reacting a bit, and is there anything i can do to improve our chances..help please....
A. 26 December 2007: I would not worry at this stage. I fell pregnant with my son after a month but with my daughter it took 3 months.
I also have a friend that took 18 months to fall with her first and then fell pregnant with her other two quite quickly.I would leav... (read in full...)
He says my weight puts him off
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost a year with a wonderful man that I have known since high school. We lost touch and then found each other again. When we met up again, we fell in love. It has been wonderful, but lately I have been unhappy. ...
A. 26 December 2007: I'm sorry to say this but he does not sound a very nice person.In his line of work as a personal trainer he should encourage you IF you want to lose weight but to be hurtful and judgemental is not an attractive quality in a man. Don't lose weight to ... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid or am I right to be suspicious?
Q. My husband and I started our relationship nearly 10 years ago and we've been married for a year and a half. We split up for about 4 years in the middle of this because he started seeing a female colleague of his and like an idiot, I was the last ...
A. 22 December 2007: Yes i agree with rcn,why get angry if he has nothing to hide. As this has happened before i would say you are right to be suspicious,i would walk away as at the moment you have no commitments (i.e.) kids with him, and find someone worthy of your ... (read in full...)
Gonna dress up in heels and fishnets and show up at his door
Q. Just had a relationship breakup. Thinking of showing up at his place in heels and fishnet tights and showing him a side he never saw. Sex between us was almost nonexistent and now I just want to dominate him in a sexual way. He has never seen this ...
A. 3 July 2007: I honestly would not bother doing this, if the sex was no good before, it won't be now. I went out with someone before i met my husband and that was a similar situation, no fireworks. I met my husband a short time later and it was "wow" we have now ... (read in full...)
I'm hearing stories about him and I don't know what to believe
Q. Hi, I really need to know what i should do.I'm in a 9 month relationship with a guy that is older than me.I have done the last hing for him. At first my parents didnt approve of our relationship (our families had a fall out) and i ran away from home ...
A. 3 July 2007: I agree with the first answer, these people could well be jealous.There is nothing wrong with him chatting to this girl,and maybe people have come to the wrong conclusion about this. You know your bf better than these people, do you think he would ... (read in full...)
What do men prefer? Bushy, normal or shaven?
Q. I just wanted to know what guys prefer on womens private part, Bushy, normal or shaven? Girls answer 2 if ya like, thanks!...
A. 21 February 2007: Going from personal experience i would say shaven.The other alternative is waxing, especially if you want to wear a swimsuit/bikini. ... (read in full...)
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