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writes: I've been dating this guy for about a month. I know a month is not long at all, but we see each other pretty often, talk every day and he seems to be really into me. We are both 25. He went to visit his family in his hometown for the holidays and is returning home tomorrow, as we have plans to go away this weekend. When we talked today, he mentioned in passing that he had lunch today with an ex girlfriend from a couple of years ago. He didn't say much about it, except that she's a “typical, dizty blonde” and is “doing nothing with her life.”I'm just wondering if anyone has any insight on what this means (if anything), why he mentioned it to me, why he talked negatively about her...
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 He sounds honest, it's nice that he told you he had lunch with an ex-girlfriend. I don't think you have anything to worry about at all.
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reader, Uraz  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 He means what he says. he did not have to say it, but for the sake of being truthful he said it in passing and he doesn't want you to be bothered or get uncomfortable about her.
He is a nice guy.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 It means he had lunch with his ex. The fact that he talked negatively about her means he doesn't want you to think the ex is a threat to you. It's good he told you, he's just being honest. I don't think you have any worries.
Happy New Year!
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