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41-50,
*lori
writes:i have been married for almost 6yrs now. it has been a very happy one, blessed with two boys. recently, my hubby met a younger lady of about 21yrs. i know my hubby loves me, but this younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home. she keeps sending romantic texts, calling his number and even my number. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): There is more going on here than you are aware of...I would bet my life on it! Your husband has had some type of invlvement with this woman....instead of shunning her and believing blindly what he says...be a brave girl....call her without you husbands knowledge, ask her calmly for her side of the story and be civil...I promise you will be suprised..she will probably even know things that she had no other way of knowing excet through him....
Trust me your husband is lying!
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Well, putting any reasons why she might be doing this aside, if I didn't want someone to contact me I'd tell them to "bugger off" and then change my numbers.
Then, depending on how bad and often it is, you can let the Police know about the situation and file a harrassment complaint. I'd advise keeping a log of dates/times messages and phone calls were received.
However, having said all this, the situation does beg the question; why is she doing this? Is there some histroy here? Has your man been unfaithful? Is this girl perhaps an EX from the past?
It is possible she might be angry with him for using her? Perhaps it was an affair which he broke off? On the other hand don't jump to any conclusions... There might be a perfectly innocent explanation for all this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007): Call the woman up and tell her you will be contacting the police if she hassles you or your husband any more.
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (27 December 2007):
 It does seem odd that she is doing this, did your husband meet this person through work? Were they friends? he may possibly of had an affair with her,obviously she is interested in him and this has to stop. Speak to your husband find out if there is more to this. She could just be one of those saddo's who targets happily married men, believe me there are people like that out there. My husband has had a female work colleague texting him and she seems a bit too familiar,i don't think he has done anything though, believe me if i thought for a moment he had he would be history. I think you should take out an injunction on her just to get rid of this annoying pest and then concentrate on your marriage. You know your husband better than anyone, talk to him. Good luck.
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reader, Serinity  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Call the police and file a harrassment complaint. At least you will have legal documentation that she is harrassing both of you. And it will probably scare her off as well. If you can record her calls I would do that to. Document everything. Everytime she calls, texts....ANYTHING!!! One question though.............. are you sure your husband has not had an affair with this woman? It just seems odd that she is calling and trying to interfere with your marriage with no just cause. And how did she get your phone numbers? The truth will prevail. Good luck!
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reader, rockelle +, writes (27 December 2007):
 This women is doing everything to ruin your happy home???? I think your husband may have had a little to do with it. How did she get your numbers? Have you thought maybe he was having an affair with this women? Sounds shady to me. I think you need to find out exactly what is going on.
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