Like what
she writes?
... Add *awnie to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *awnie a private message | | | *awnie's profile:Hi my name is Dawn, I live in England with my husband and 2 children.My son is 12 nearly 13 and my daughter is 7. I used to work with vulnerable adults and i now work in a residential care home organising activities for the elderly.
As you can see from the above i enjoy helping people.I have been married for nearly 16 years. |
|
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 8 February 2008: You have been given lots of good advice, try taking it. Why go with a married man?, even if you end up with him eventually it won't be long before he is up to his old tricks. This time you will be the victim, the woman left at home while he goes off ... (read in full...)
Should we cancel our plans to meet up because its his mums birthday party?
Q. im really excited about the fact ive been with my ld bf for a year. next week and we have booked time off work to see each other, only problem is his mums bday party the same time, and my bf is expected to go even though its not a big bday. and he ...
A. 27 January 2008: It does seem unfair that you are not allowed around there with your b/f, especially as it coincides with plans you have made. Why do you not get on with his mother?, you may find you have to resolve things with her as you could end up marrying her ... (read in full...)
Is liking a 13 year old girl wrong, since I am 16?
Q. hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her ...
A. 27 January 2008: It's ok to go out with this girl, but remember she is underage. You may not want sex at the moment, but that could change as you are maturing now. Respect her, and wait until she is 16 before having sex. ... (read in full...)
Turned on secretly seeing wife with another man
Q. i saw my wife having sex with another man. they didn't see me and i watched until they finished. i didn't get angry, i got turned on. i want to tell my wife, but will she be disgusted with me? i really wanted to join in when i was watching, ...
A. 27 January 2008: Your marriage sounds as though it is going downhill. I don't know of anyone that would be ok seeing their wife/husband having sex with someone else. You need to speak to your wife (not about you watching) but about your marriage in general, she must ... (read in full...)
I go down on her but she won't repay the favour. Contemplating break up!
Q. im 17 n want my gf to give me head but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer. and shes done it b4 with her ex and sum random guy when she was drunk and blacked out just that the fact tha...
A. 27 January 2008: Some people don't like oral sex, you can't force her to like it. If it matters that much to you then it is time to end the relationship. ... (read in full...)
Have been engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. Would a relationship between us be legal/moral?
Q. OK, here is my situation…I am a college student, with a loving family. Recently I have found myself engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. He is not married, and we have so much in common, we started out as close ...
A. 27 January 2008: There are issues here that would cause a rift in your family. He may not be your first cousin, but he is a relation nonetheless. You would be better to keep your distance. ... (read in full...)
Can birth control pills impede breast development
Q. Hiya i'm 16. Kind of an embarrassing question but would the pill have stopped my breats from growing. I'm not very big, a 32A and although they aren't totally flat theres nothing on top so they r moe pointy. Thing is i was on the pill at the age of ...
A. 27 January 2008: I wouldn't have thought the pill would make any difference, it is probably to do with your genes. As far as breast size goes i think we tend to follow our mother's. If your mother has a small bust, chances are you will too and vice versa. ... (read in full...)
He never came home last night. He cheated before... I'm lost. Can you help?
Q. I don't know what to do i'm with my partner 9 years we have two boys. two years ago when i was pregnant he had two affairs and used stay out all nyt i kicked his ass out when i found out and 6 months later i took him back but i told him never to ...
A. 27 January 2008: You can't go on like this, him staying out all night without letting you know his plans, especially with his past history. I can't believe he has not contacted you, you gave him a second chance, he has now blown it. You need to get on with your own ... (read in full...)
Bad cramping after going off the pill?
Q. I was on the pill for a little over a year for many reasons... My boyfriend (now fiancee) were sexually active, and I wanted to make sure my cycle was regular. Since my fiancee works overseas now, and I won't be seeing him for a while, I thought...
A. 26 January 2008: Well now you are off the pill you will have proper periods
and that would explain the cramping. I don't take the pill but i used to, i now experience cramps and mid cycle for me can feel worse that the actual period itself. i.e. breast tend... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted... I found a fake rubber vagina in my bf's closet!
Q. I found a fake rubber sex toy resembling a woman’s vagina in my boyfriend’s closet! I got furious at him and threw it at his face and said “What’s this?” He got angry at me back and said it wasn’t my business, and he had it long before he knew me. ...
A. 26 January 2008: I'm sorry but your post did sound funny. I think you over reacted a little as to me personally finding a sex toy is no real issue. I think you should talk to him and have a laugh about it. It could have been a lot worse. I think the fact that you ... (read in full...)
Found inappropriate conversations between them on the computer...I'm afraid my husband is cheating on me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for nearly a year now and so far everything has been great between us. I've never thought him to be one to do things behind my back or anything like that. But throughout our entire relationship, even before we were ...
A. 26 January 2008: First of all reading your post i was hoping that your concerns would amount to nothing and that i could reassure you and say you have nothing to worry about. But the paragraph where she said "What would happen if you got me pregnant" and "I'm sorry ... (read in full...)
I am controlling...how do I stop being this way
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14 months now. We've never really had problems, but he's good looking, and a lot of girls fancy him. He's just generally a friendly guy, and that's why I love him, but I'm afraid it comes across as ...
A. 22 January 2008: You do sound controlling. You are insecure as a lot of us are at times, but this needs to stop. He has given you no reason to think he would go with anyone behind your back, like you say he is nice and friendly, it is his nature, it's why you fell ... (read in full...)
Husband has deadly secret! who can I turn to?
Q. my husband is into child porn , he has these storage things not sure what they are called. you can save pictures and videos on them. went through them when he was at work found images and videos of child porn . what should i do i have 5 children...
A. 22 January 2008: I can understand this is very hard for you but you need to involve the police. Looking at child porn is never acceptable and shows there is something seriously wrong with him. You have a duty to protect your children. ... (read in full...)
I made out with my sister's boyfriend...
Q. my older sister has been going out with her boyfriend for 5 1/2 years already,so her boyfriend has grown on me ,hes the only one that i tell my secrets to. this past christmas when my sisters boyfriend and i were left alone together i could tell ...
A. 22 January 2008: No he is just a louse and i would advise you to steer clear. Don't forget he is your sister's b/f and they have been together for a long time. Do you not feel bad for doing this to your sister? I know your young but even so.
If you tell your sist... (read in full...)
I am so angry--he 's married and I am tempted to tell his wife!
Q. I broke up with my "boyfriend" three weeks ago after spending three months fighting with him about how he lied to me about being married. He told me after I told him that I loved him. I'm not stupid. He lied very well and I'm way too trusting and ...
A. 22 January 2008: Surely you are better off without this man, as he has not behaved well. Better to count yourself lucky. As for telling his wife, well if he is as good at lying as you say he is he is sure to wiggle out of it and you will look like some tart that was ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy concern!
Q. hy i had sex on the 10th and 11th and ovulated on the 13th and i wanted to know seen as im 20. how likley it would be if i would be pregnant. thanks 4 reading and thanks 4 helping....
A. 22 January 2008: Yes there is every chance you could be pregnant, as ovulation occurs around 14 days. You could get a pregnancy test but you might be better waiting to see if your period arrives before taking the test as these tests are quite expensive. You can take ... (read in full...)
Was I fooled by this man I met off a dating site?
Q. Hi, I am worried I may have been fooled by a man i met through a dating site. We went out five times, after every other date he mailed me and said thank you. He stated he wasnt looking for one night stands etc However after this last one I have ...
A. 22 January 2008: I don't think there is anything wrong in you contacting this man and seeing how he is. As you say you like him, he likes you too. If for some reason he is not interested then at least you know, and that has to be better than waiting around for him ... (read in full...)
Baby's names! who gets the last word?
Q. A while ago, I wrote in about wanting to be preggie all the time, even though a baby is still out of the question for some particular reasons which I will not discuss at this time because, well, they're irrelevant to the question, and the question ...
A. 21 January 2008: Well it has to be a name you both like for starters and it needs to go with your surname. When i was pregnant with my son my husband wanted to call him after his father who was Edward Lewis, we changed it around to Lewis Edward and to this day i ... (read in full...)
Do I delete her email before he sees it?
Q. I need your advice. My problem is and had always been my bf's ex. When my bf and I started dating they were still seeing each other, then he promise me that he had no feeling for her and that everything was over between him and her. That was at ...
A. 21 January 2008: Well personally i could not be with someone who is still hung up about his ex. He seems to have an obsession with her and to be honest your relationship does not stand a chance and never has done. Do yourself a favour and get rid of him, in time you ... (read in full...)
Husband tried to cheat with my friend. Do I forgive him and how can I look my friend in the eye again?
Q. my husband tryed to cheat on me with my best friend we have been married 5 years and have a 2 year old son. my husband and my best friend was drunk she went to bed and woke up next to my husband naked and trying to get it on with her she kicked him ...
A. 21 January 2008: Actually i know of someone else this happened to recently, only difference is that the best friend enjoyed the attention a little too much. Don't know how far it went as i have only heard this second hand and i know he was drunk. (Apparently he ... (read in full...)
I made a terrible mistake! how can I prove I didn't mean this?, I am only 12
Q. my problem is my older sister will not talk to me at all because me and her 11 year old girl did some touching (you know) the thing is my older sister ha something similar to her happen when she was my age (11) she wont talk to me or my mom at all ...
A. 21 January 2008: Well i felt sorry for you reading your post. What you have done is wrong but things like this are common. I presume your niece was a willing partner in this? You are both the same age and kids do experiment sometimes, however you need to speak to ... (read in full...)
I'm lying to my whole family
Q. At the moment I'm lying to my whole family. My 14y/o sister is dating an 18y/o who I know well as have been mates for a while. The issue is the rest of my family completely disagrees with it as through past experiences within the family we are...
A. 20 January 2008: Your sister is very young to be seeing an 18 year old. When i was 14 i started going out with a boy of 17 and there was only one thing on his mind, Hence the reason i dumped him. This boy will be ready for a sexual relationship and your sister is ... (read in full...)
Advice on sex in hot tub please!
Q. Hiya abit of an awkward question but me and my wife are going to my sisters soon and she has a hottub thats normally outdorrs but it can be brought indoors which is what they have done in the winter. They have onverted one of the garages into a room ...
A. 20 January 2008: I think you would be better getting your own hot tub for sex, your bodily fluids in there with other people is not very nice. There is no issue as far as safety is concerned it's just not fair on the others that will be using it. ... (read in full...)
I'm so sick of how boring our sex is!
Q. I have a problem that's really getting on my nerves. Me and my boyfriend have just recently lost our virginity to each other, and have been having sex a lot... A LOT! since that time. The only thing is, we're both (obviously) quite inexperi...
A. 20 January 2008: Well the fun part of sex is being adventurous, its a way of finding out likes and dislikes. You need to talk to your b/f and explain you would like to experiment,one position continually would get very tedious and could end up with you making ... (read in full...)
Do vasectomies work 100 percent?
Q. Just a quick question, if a man has had a vasectomy does that mean theres NO CHANCE of getting someone pregnant?...
A. 20 January 2008: Its 3 months from the op to getting the all clear. My husband had one over 4 years ago and a couple of friends of ours have had them since.As long as they are performed correctly then they are a permanenet method of contraceception. Vasectomies ... (read in full...)
Do vasectomies work 100 percent?
Q. Just a quick question, if a man has had a vasectomy does that mean theres NO CHANCE of getting someone pregnant?...
A. 20 January 2008: As long as you wait until your partner has the all clear, which involves your partner providing semen samples, the first is normally carried out a few weeks after the op,a 2nd is then tested and if this is also negative you will then receive a ... (read in full...)
Can you really be with someone you don't fully trust
Q. Hey guys, I know this will sound so stupid and idiotic but can you really be with someone you don't fully trust? me and my boyfriend have been through so much and i feel like an idiot when he doesnt pick up the fone and i stress out and get al...
A. 19 January 2008: Well you either communicate with each other and resolve this issue of trust or you split up. At the moment you are very unhappy, maybe he is too. You need to get things in the open once and for all, and then decide what to do. The fact that your ... (read in full...)
His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies ...
A. 19 January 2008: Yes i would certainly leave this bully, he is also a cheat. One affair you can forgive but three?
You don't need to be with someone who treats you so despicably. I know i would not put up with it. ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so paranoid when he is so good to me?
Q. I know a lot of people will read this and instantly get confused and maybe even mad at the idea that i feel so paranoid and insecure..but i can't change the way i feel. I have the most amazing boyfriend, he does mean the world to me and at 20 I a...
A. 19 January 2008: No i don't think you are stupid at all. You have had a bad experience at a very young age,not only were you in an abusive relationship you also fell pregnant and then lost the baby. Thats a lot for anyone to take let alone someone so young. It's ... (read in full...)
Will he be scared of me now that I've dished out some of his own medicine back to him?
Q. my ex has been controlling me, emotionally, verbally and sometimes physically abusing me for a very long time and never once did i stand up to him really. i now have took enough and i have humiliated him and disclosed something to some people who ...
A. 15 January 2008: He won't be scared of you, he will probably be planning his revenge. Be very careful. Do not go bragging to anyone what you have done,you could set yourself up for a lot of trouble from him. Just be wary and leave things be. ... (read in full...)
My bf and I spent a weekend in a cottage and my father is upset! Do I have the right to defend it and tell my Dad exactly, how I feel?
Q. Right so, I am an 18 year old girl. Recently, I spent the week with my boyfriend at a cottage in Wales. It was just a nice little holiday for the two of us. My grandmother told me on the phone yesterday that my father and his sister (my Aunt ...
A. 15 January 2008: Well at 18 you are technically an adult. I don't see a problem with you spending time on holiday with your b/f. I went away with a b/f when i was 18, for a week. My parents did not object. At the time i was living with my mum and stepfather as my ... (read in full...)
What are the after effects of interrupting a diet, on your birthday? Should I turn down the cake?
Q. hi i have been trying to lose weight for about a week and i am not expecting any results as i am not on a drastic diet, jsut healthier eating. I want to be much slimmer by summer 08 and i want the weight to stay off. however, it is my birt...
A. 15 January 2008: You could have your birthday as a diet free day, without going mad. You could have your meal out with your parents and still have some cake. Maybe a few days prior to your birthday you could be a little more strict with your diet, allowing you to ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my B/F, just for the sex?
Q. I am 27 divorced but was married for 5 years. OK this may sound very shallow but its reality!! I have this boyfriend who I like very much but that is as far as it goes on the emotional front. I have been seeing him for 5 months but do not see a fut...
A. 15 January 2008: Why do you not see a future with this guy? Is it because you were previously married? You say you like him and from how you describe your love life everything sounds great, Maybe you are putting up a barrier so you don't fall for him? I don't know, ... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 14 January 2008: Well he is married so i think that is your answer. I don't understand why people get involved with someone who is not available, he made vows to his wife after all. Leave them to sort their marriage out it's nothing to do with you. You don't know ... (read in full...)
I'm confused as to when pre-ejaculation occurs as I have heard various things. Any advice??
Q. If my boyfriend and I had sex and he was inside me not even a minute before putting a condom on, is there a chance there was pre-cum? I am confused also as to when pre-ejaculation occurs. I've heard various things. Please help....
A. 13 January 2008: Pre ejaculation occurs when a man is sexually aroused, i.e. during foreplay. This is enough to get you pregnant so beware. You need to make sure that the condom is on before you start anything sexual. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregant even though the tests come back negative??
Q. I think that i'm pregnant. I have all the symptoms my period is almost 3 and half months late a had a few drops of blood one day but not enough to be a period. In the morning i am so nauseous i cant even look at food i used to love because it makes...
A. 13 January 2008: Well it certainly sounds like pregnancy symptons. A home pregnancy test coming back negative when really you are pregnant would probably happen in the very early stages, i.e. before your period is due, it seems strange that you have had this happen ... (read in full...)
My stretch marks make me nervous about having sex with my bf.
Q. Hello. Ugh well this is embarrassing but I'm scared. I'm 23 and me and my bf have been talking about having sex. My birthday is coming up and he said that we could do something special for dinner then go back to his apartment. And I was very ove...
A. 13 January 2008: I don't think your bf will care in the slightest about stretch marks. It's you he is interested in. You could try a product called Bio Oil. You just massage it into your skin.(Try doing that twice a day) When i had my children i had a few stretch ... (read in full...)
What can I do about this customer that asked me out??
Q. I have a little problem. I work as a cashier at a restaurant and a client came in today and started taking asking me bout when I go on lunch. He and I did speak before when he asked me about another girl who used to work there. After he asked if...
A. 13 January 2008: You do not have to go out with this man if you do not want to. Just be polite and decline when he asks you out, or if you want to go for coffee. You don't have to be rude, just firm in your answer. Even if he is friends with your boss, so what? you ... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: No i don't think you were wrong to say that as you are obviously hurting. What you need to determine now is who is the father?, there is every chance that the baby is yours. The question you need to ask yourself is "Do you want to know"? if you have ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I saw her holding hands with someone else?
Q. Okay, I've been wanting to ask someone about this since it happened, but there's no one I could really bring it up to, so I guess I'll use this forum. A few weeks before Christmas, my wife, a good friend of ours and I went Christmas shopping. My ...
A. 13 January 2008: If it's bothering you speak to your wife, explain what you saw. It could be completely innocent as friends do sometimes hold hands. Although i have to admit if i was out with my husband and a friend of ours i would not be holding that friends hand. ... (read in full...)
What shall I wear for my date with with an old friend??
Q. I recently met up with a old elementary school friend, whose really sweet and nice, but wants to take me out on a date.Don't get me wrong, I'm happy. But, here's the classic question: What the heck do I wear when I don't have a clue where we're go...
A. 12 January 2008: Try and get some kind of idea where you are going, then you can decide whats appropriate to wear. I would say wear make up, if you usually do, just keep it a minimum if you want it to look natural. Have fun. ... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand I am not single anymore and am totally committed to him??
Q. Ok, I'm 19, my BF is 22 and he doesn't trust me at all! In my past, I've kissed 4 other guys and gave oral sex to one of them, who happens to be the ex mutual friend who introduced my BF and me. The other 3 guys were guys I had just met at parties,...
A. 12 January 2008: These past relationships you had were before your b/f so i don't understand his problem. He sounds very insecure and that does not bode well for your future with him. He needs to sort himself out and quick because it will get worse not better. I had ... (read in full...)
| *awnie's friends
These are mutual friends, so *awnie has
added them and they have added *awnie!
|
