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I fancy my aunt like mad, even although she's married. Should I try anything on with her?

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Question - (2 June 2007) 28 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2008)
A male Canada age 22-25, anonymous writes:

i have an aunt and she is good looking. she is actaully my step aunt if you will. she has been married to my uncle for about 10 years now. she has now starting to feel comfortable around the family. she is starting to wear clothes that show off her cleavage. i usually think of her when i masturbate. i have wanted to have sex with her for the longest time. i always think to myself that if we are ever alone in a room that im gonna get on top of her and start kissing or touch her breasts (her breasts are awesome and a good size). do you think i should have sex with her or touch her breasts if i am ever alone in the same room with her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

yes

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008):

You should. Sometimes new relationships can be found ,but make sure no one is around.

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A male reader, zorthop5 United States +, writes (27 March 2008):

I did it with my hot aunt, no one except us knew... make sure you have a condom though or you will get caught.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008):

I think that if you REALLY want to have sex with her,then find out if she likes you and go from there or you could get her drunk but that may not be the greatest idea.

But if your feeling worried dont even try

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):

can anyone tell me what type of a hint i can give her? the only thing i can think of is looking at her boobs while shes looking at me. i look at her boobs at every chance i get and sometimes she notices that im looking at them

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

She may be going out of her mind with fantasies as well. Wait until you're alone and give her enough of a hint to allow her to either move on the idea or pass. Trust me, women of "uncertain age" need more than they typically get. As long as you can keep it quiet, she may be very pleased with you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

She may fancy you as well. She may not. I know it sounds bad, but i say, give her good, strong, hint and the chance to act on it - and see what happens. If she feels as you do, and you can keep it a secret, it may be very good for both of you. (I'm a 40 something female who knows about these things.)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

you said she hugs you from the side- so you can see her breasts...lol young fool- women who hug from the side are sending a clear msg- they are not attracted to you!!!!!- now if she rammed her boobs into you when you guys hugged- yea she wants you---- but when they turn to the side they are avoiding direct breast to body contact keeping it friendly.... now the picture with the boob in the face mighta been coincidental who knows.... i would try some long hugs before i direct boob grab lol

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007):

dude, i had this same thing. i did the exact same thing with my aunt. when i was 16 (18 now) and she was 26 (and still single) i really wanted to have sex with her. she was hot.

so one time she was in my room with me, we were the only ones home, everyone else went to a party next door, we were getting ready to go and we just started wrestling. she was drinking a little, but aware of her actions. she really started to caress me and i just went with it and one thing lead to another and we started kissing and then it went to sex. it was so great. it was actually fun. all the other girls (my age) i had sex with was boring, but this was fun. no one knows about it, and we have a small secret relationship no one knows about. it's for pleasure and nothing else. and we do love each other. i'm telling the truth, i have no reason to lie hear. sex is really becoming the national pastime, haha.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007):

hell yes you should.

I tried it with my aunt when I was younger like in my teens (I am now 36) it was great. We still have an occasional fling and no one else knows. Just becareful make sure you use a condom as she is married. My aunt was not married so I did not use one.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

My answer is "YES". You can have sex with her.

But before that you should know whether she likes you or not.

I am 25 yrs old guy and unmarried. I am having sex with my mom brother's wife who is around 35 yrs old.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007):

absolve urself of all these sin related thoughts

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

I went through a phase in my teens when I started having fantasies about my aunt. You're hormones go mad when you're in your teens, and crushes like this are often a way of relieving sexual frustration, and if you are close to your aunt it may be that you're confused, she is someone you love and admire after all.

When you start having girlfriends of your own, you'll probably find that this phase will pass

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007):

i imagine it alot. i cant get her out of my head. last saturday was my grad and my aunt was wearing a shirt that was a little tight on her and it showed wonderful cleavage. when my aunt came to take a picture with me she stood right beside me and put her arm over me and onto my right shoulder so her boob was touching me. she kept moving over so that her boob could squeez against me. and when ever she hugs me she hugs me from the side so i can se her breast. i really think that sometimes she flirts with me. i dont care what you guys say. if i ever am in the same room with her and we are alone i am gonna be staright with her and tell her and touch her breast. after that hopefully i will never think of her

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A male reader, Darren M United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2007):

Just keep imagining it, that is better in the long run. I think my aunt is fit and has a nice cleavage and legs but i know i got no chance

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007):

as long as she is married,,please forget her from your hot mind,,,respect her husband.pls.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

i am taking this site serisouly. it's a question that i had and i needed an answer so i came here

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

sweetheart we all have fantasys but you are going much to far if my nephew went to touch me in a inapropriate way as you are suggesting then i would kick him were it would most def hurt, and what about your uncle its his wife!!!!! When you do get a girlfriend lets hope no one want to jump on her when your not around how would you feel!!!! always take other peoples feelings into account. I hope this is a genuine question! even though it sounds a bit strange to say the least, there are alot of available women out there, i really dont mean to sound harsh but i feel i need to speak my mind to you darling before you make a complete arse of yourself and upset a few people in the process

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A female reader, maryann61181 United States +, writes (2 June 2007):

maryann61181 agony auntI think this question has got to be a joke. Either that, or there may be something psychologically wrong with you. Please try to take this site a little more seriously.

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2007):

DrPsych agony auntYes, I think you should try to have sex with your aunt and touch her breasts at every opportunity as she must be the only woman in the country or the only woman with large breasts on the planet that you ever think you stand a chance of being with so morals and ethics really don't matter...I suggest you wait until she has a frying pan or similar implement handy to knock some sense into your head (or your second brain), and if that doesn't work tell your uncle how you feel - no doubt he will be delighted and so proud that his nephew is such a lovely person.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

You are having a teenage fantasy, and wasting our time on here by having the volunteers help act it out for you.

You should consider the fact that people on here give up their time to help others and you are being incredibly selfish by writing questions like this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

Absolutely not should you try to touch her. You have written here before about this very thing I believe, although you remain anonymous, you ask the same things.

This is incestuous, it does not matter that she is now your step aunt, she is a member of your extended family and there are boundaries in place. I really think you have an active imagination that has run away with you. This woman is married to your uncle and will be very mad if you try anything with her, not to mention your uncle.

I think you may have an obsessive crush on her, and you need to get some help with this if you can't get it under control, seek some help from a therapist or talk to your family doctor about the feelings you are having....masturbation fantasies are one thing, carrying them out in reality is not a good idea.

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (2 June 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntIf i was you i would back off her she is your uncles wife, and he will find out about this and your going to lose your family over this, sometimes its better to keep things to yourself and keeping doing what you are doing...

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A male reader, Andrew83 United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2007):

Andrew83 agony auntEven tho you fancy your aunt, it isnt a very good thing to have sex with her because she is married and has been for about 10 years.

If you had sex with her it could rip the family apart.

Its best that you not have sex with her and not to touch her breasts.

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A female reader, maryann61181 United States +, writes (2 June 2007):

maryann61181 agony auntUmm NO!!! Here are some reasons:

-She's married

-She's family (I don't care if she's your 'step' aunt. It is still wrong)

-It's disrespectful to think of her like that - this is not love - this is lust

-It is disrespectful to you, your UNCLE and the rest of your family

-You will have a lot of explaining to do if this gets out

-Maybe she doesn't feel the same way - I sure hope she doesn't

-You could ruin the relationship between the two of you by acting this way

-She's most likely older than you, since she's been married for 10 years - woman noramlly like men older than them (it goes with the maturity thing)

Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear- but man - Come on! Use your commonsense - what do you think will happen if think only with your D---?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

No, do not that. You may be very attracted to her but you just have to have control. There must be some other girl out there that would be as sexy as her. She is your uncle's wife and you need to respect that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

NO! Some things are better left to your imagination.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntNO NEVER.

She is your uncles wife. It doesnt matter if she isnt related by blood.

You cannot help the fact that you are related and that you fancy her, but you can control what you do around her. Think of the impact her a relationship with her will have on your uncle your parents and your entire family. Also you knowing you broke up a relationship.

Do not try anything with her as she is still your family, blood or no blood. I cant tell you stop stop likeing her, but when around her control yourself.

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