Hispanic couple looking for sexy ideas in the bedroom
Q. Hi we are a hispanic couple looking for sexy ideas in the bedroom...
A. 5 November 2010: This site will help: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml
They have 3D animated positions so you will know how you are supposed to move. Don't be afraid to put your own twist on the ones you like. It's always fun to create your own sign... (read in full...)
I want to be sexual but I'm scared of sex because I didn't really enjoy it in my last relationship
Q. Ugh! I want tu b sexual but I'm scared of sex because I didn really enjoy it in my last relationship..what should I do? What can I do to be sexy? I want to learn how to ride also...any tips?...
A. 5 November 2010: First of all, you will not always enjoy sex. Sometimes, you get with someone who can be too pushy, or not pushy enough, or you just don't feel that "click" with them. I like it best when I have really strong feelings for the guy. Don't think that ... (read in full...)
Shaving down below, help
Q. I've been going to a spa where i get my monthly wax down here but now it ran out of business and i need to know if any of you girls know a tech on shaving down there?...
A. 5 November 2010: It depends on how much you are planning on shaving off. Either way, get yourself a men's shave cream, it will help so much. Personally, when I shave, I go sideways on the top part and then against the grain and then look for the stragglers. If you ... (read in full...)
Can my dad stop me from moving out at 18 if I am still in high school?
Q. can my dad stop me form moving out when i am 18 if i am still in high school...
A. 4 November 2010: No, you're an adult. You make your own choices now. Don't be too quick to leave though, the world is more tough than most people your age realize. Many of my friends moved out at 18 and 19 and I stayed at home. I didn't pay rent, buy my own ... (read in full...)
I clamp my legs together during an orgasm. Is this normal?
Q. Hi, im recently with a new partner and our sex life is the best ive ever experienced im experiencing orgasms for the first time in my life, the problem i have that i seem to want to clamp my legs closed in doing this, is this normal????...
A. 4 November 2010: Yes, it is normal. When I am aware of my surroundings enough during an orgasm, I notice I do that sometimes too. ... (read in full...)
She's giving me an ultimatum... drop my friend or she's leaving me!
Q. So, there was this girl I used to have a fling with. However nothing ever became of it, we started dating different people but she is still one of my best friends. That was two years ago. Currently I'm dating this girl, and have been for a few ...
A. 4 November 2010: She is in the wrong. You've only been together a few months and she has no right to tell you who can be your friend. If she's jealous over her, who else will she be jealous over? Is that the type of girl you want? It's ultimately up to you, but I am ... (read in full...)
Do you think it matters how quick a girl orgasms?
Q. I tend to orgasm within 5 minutes during sex with my bf. I don't know if my bf likes the idea that I finish really quick cause I feel like he wants to go longer. Of course he gets to finish, but i feel like he wants sex to last longer... Obviously I ...
A. 4 November 2010: You are blessed! Do you know how many women cannot have an orgasm during sex?! Many women who can actually achieve an orgasm have to do it only by clitoral stimulation, no penetration at all.
Tell him that he doesn't have to speed things up on his ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that this guy that I'm seeing is getting too attached too soon.
Q. In short, I'm worried that this guy that I'm seeing is getting too attached too soon. When we met, we spent a few weeks working closely together, during which time I deflected his advances, but we became firm friends. But when he left, I started ...
A. 4 November 2010: Two possibilities here...
One, you're just not that into him, or
Two, you are not the clingy type.
He seems to be clingy, which does not necessarily mean he's too attached. I get clingy when I haven't seen my man for a while or had the emotiona... (read in full...)
We never have time together anymore.
Q. Hello i have been with my bf for close to a year. We are both nearly 22. Recently i have been feeling some pressure on the relationship as he never seems to have any time for me. We both work full time and then when it comes to weekends, if his...
A. 4 November 2010: Tell him how you feel. Open lines of communication are one of the best things you can have in a relationship. Right now, he seems to put you in the number 2, 3, 4, or even lower spot and that should not be the case. My man is the most important ... (read in full...)
What to expect after going on birth control?
Q. I made an appointment with planned parenthood and am going on birth control. I don't know yet if it will be the shot or the pill...I'd just like a few tips (please) on what to expect. How to remember to take the pill (if that"s what I get). Side ...
A. 3 November 2010: I've never had the shot, but I have heard bad things about it. Weight gain, spotting between periods, abnormally long periods, and the list goes on.
Now, to what I do know. The pill will affect every woman differently. And, almost every pill will... (read in full...)
I have trouble fingering myself
Q. I am having trouble fingering myself... So I can only please myself by clitoral stimulation, even though I would like to be able to finger before having sex. I have done all of the things that are generally suggested. Eg, -Relaxing -Looking in...
A. 3 November 2010: First of all, the answer to your question is no. You do not have to be able to finger yourself to have sex.
Second, I can't finger myself either. It just doesn't work for me. Some women have to have extra help, such a dildo or vibrator. If you have... (read in full...)
Just need some advice or encouragement!
Q. I have a beautiful wife and a 2 1/2 year old son. But last year I notice my wife was becoming distant and not very loving(which was very unusual for her). So I confronted he and she proceeded to tell me that she loves me but doesn't feel she's in ...
A. 31 October 2010: You are doing a great job at thinking about her perspective of things. You admitted that you could have done better earlier in the relationship and when your son was born. You are willing to notice your mistakes and that is the first step, and also ... (read in full...)
Scared about getting married....
Q. I am 24yrs old and getting married in a few months. I love my fiance but i maybe having second thoughts about this wedding. I am so confused, i dont know if i want to get married?! I love going out and partying and i love the attention i get ...
A. 31 October 2010: I have similar thoughts everyone once in a while myself. I am engaged to be married next October. Once it hit me that we were REALLY getting married, I felt like I was having an anxiety attack. I too like being hit on, it makes me remember that I am ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to masturbate to porn whenever I am not at home?
Q. my guy masturbates every time I am not home to porn is this normal? Even if we have sex on a regular? It always makes me angry when I find out , should I be worried ? I have talked to him about it but he says its normal but it hurts my feelings ...
A. 28 October 2010: You are not wrong to feel the way you do. Most men just don't understand how it affects women. And the thing is, they probably never will. And you probably will never fully understand why he thinks it is so normal to him. Men and women are very ... (read in full...)
Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you?
Q. Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you? ...
A. 28 October 2010: Yes, as your body changes so can your hormones. The hormones in the pill will then affect you differently. See your doctor and explain what the changes are and what you want out of your pill. They may be able to determine which pill will suit you ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to have someone you consider a life partner?
Q. What does it feel like to be with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with and to have them want to be with you too?...
A. 28 October 2010: You feel as though they are your equal in every way. You want to share the good and the bad with them because you know they will make the good better and the bad seem not as bad. You wake up in the morning and the first thing you think of is how ... (read in full...)
She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...
Q. Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...
A. 27 October 2010: I am with you on this one, I think it is disrespectful and degrading. I like men to dominate sometimes, but not like that. On the other hand, some women are really into that type of domination. So, I say talk to her about your hangups on this. Use ... (read in full...)
What do people recommend as a first toy to introduce into the bedroom?
Q. Hi everyone. Been going out with my girl 10 months now and I'm pleased to say we have an amazing sex life! As time's gone by we've become increasingly adventurous and I'm keen to do something exciting for her to take it up another notch and ...
A. 27 October 2010: Toys are fun. I would say go with the good old vibrator. Take her to a sex shop as a surprise one night and pick one out together. It would be best to let her make part of the decision since she will probably use it alone as well.
Also, tenn... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!
Q. I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...
A. 27 October 2010: What did you do? Just toss the red flags aside on this one? First, she is 19! What would a 19 year old girl (who has money problems) want with a mid40 man? Let's see...oh, I know! Money!
Second, how is cheating the answer to your problems with how ... (read in full...)
How can I avoid dwelling on "what ifs"?
Q. Hey, I'd appreciate your comments/insight into the emotions I've been feeling lately about my new bf of 2 months, and some advice on how to make myself less worried, please. Everything is going great, I think he's lovely, and he's told me he'...
A. 22 October 2010: This is not stupid at all. In fact, I have been in a similar situation myself. My fiance and I started dating almost two years ago and in the beginning it was hard for me to not walk away. I didn't want to get hurt again. But, you can't always feel ... (read in full...)
Getting rid of everything to do with the ex a good idea?
Q. I want to get rid of memorabilia of my ex, like cards, cinema tickets from the first date and photos. We were together for a long time and he was my "first love". But he's changed so much and not in a good way. I'm so upset with his attitude tow...
A. 22 October 2010: I kept half a dozen or so things from my first love as well. It made it harder for me to get over him. Even though it ended badly and he hurt me in the end, I still kept them. I just recently came across some forgotten items about 5 or 6 months ago ... (read in full...)
I get depressed and violent around the time of my period
Q. hi! i get violent towards my boyfriend when i have my period, i also get very depressed. we argue like mad and ive actually hit him! i hate it and i only do it when im on. it always start about a week before i come on and whilst i am on. normally we ...
A. 22 October 2010: I get extremely depressed, but not violent, myself when I am not on the pill. I had to try a few before I found one that worked without causing more complications, so maybe you could try that. Ask your doctor what she/he recommends. I think one that ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?
Q. My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on ...
A. 22 October 2010: You seem very selfish. It may be the hormones talking right now, but it still seems selfish. If you were the one not wanting to get pregnant, how would you feel if you "accidentally" did? And of course he's going to love the new child even if he ... (read in full...)
If a guy doesn't call or text his girlfriend everyday, does that mean he doesn't love her?
Q. Is it necc. for me to call my girlfriend everyday just to prove that I love her deeply? I don't like talking on the phone much...I will text, but I don't want to feel obligated to call or text her or anyone else. Why do people put all these rules on ...
A. 22 October 2010: Compromise and communication is the key! Some women prefer to talk to their men everyday whereas some prefer once or twice a week. Maybe she wants a call or text everyday because she is insecure about something in your relationship. You said her ex ... (read in full...)
Sexually frustrated... again...
Q. 27... I'm starting to believe I'm sexually frustrated and can't resolve my problem... After I broke up with my ex 4 years ago, I never dated or been in another relationship other than fuck buddies with no strings attached, when I was with my ex I...
A. 17 October 2010: Definitely talk to him and ask him why he masturbates when you have asked him for sex only 12 or so hours ago. SlimShady is right, there is a reason why he's masturbating and not having sex with you. It may not be a bad reason either. My fiance has ... (read in full...)
I refuse to be with someone who would be into that stuff!
Q. Ok so im dating a guy for about 3 months now. I moved with him and everythng seems fine. Except one thing. We got a computer from his friend and downloaded limewire. A few times i caught him downloading porn. I didnt make a deal about it. But then ...
A. 17 October 2010: First things first, he may not be lying. Sometimes when you download something on those sites it ends up being way different than what it was advertised as. This may have happened to him. I'm not saying to wholeheartedly believe him, but give him a ... (read in full...)
Having sex with him, but what if he's not the one?
Q. My boyfriend loves me a lot, we have been dating 3 months. He wants to have sex. Despite everything i'm still not ready to have sex with him. I don't know what the problem is. My question is what if I have sex with him and he's not the one?...
A. 17 October 2010: I agree with CindyCares, you may not be ready for sex. If you need more time, tell him and explain why. Do not use the explanation you give here though. Say you want to know him as a person more before you get to the physical part. And, just so you ... (read in full...)
Insecurities about my dick!
Q. My penis is just shy of 6 inches long and 4.75 inches around - my girlfriend had a larger than average pussy - I can get 4 fingers in her when wet easily and she says she has had larger dicks than mine before - she reckons 7/7.5 inches long and ...
A. 17 October 2010: You have to learn to except who you are to get over the insecurities you are feeling. You are about average for penis size. I have had bigger AND smaller so it depends on what you can do with it. Of course, it's a lie when women say it's not the ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm having orgasms.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend a year now. Im not sure if i have experianced a orgasm? When his played with my clit ive had a amazing sensation that i feel i cant handle and the feeling of needing to wee? But i feel like it could go further, have i ...
A. 14 October 2010: Orgasms can be hard to explain seeing as how they are not all exactly the same for women. But, what you are experiencing probably is an orgasm. The best way to tell for sure is to give yourself one. Masturbation will also allow to find out what you ... (read in full...)
What was your best first date? I need ideas!
Q. what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!...
A. 14 October 2010: My best first date was playing mini golf. It sounds kind of cheesy, but I had a lot of fun. After the golfing, we had dinner at a burger joint and just hung out and talked. Our date lasted about five hours or so and I couldn't wait to talk to him ... (read in full...)
"Enjoy the moment!"
Q. What does it mean when a guy says to "enjoy the moment." we've been in a monogamous relationship about 6 months and have talked about how seriously committed we are to the relationship. But every time he says that line, I feel like he's saying he ...
A. 8 October 2010: I agree with CaringGuy, your man seems to be the one who wants to be able to enjoy the moment but be able to wander if necessary. Some men just don't like commitment and some are afraid. Tell him you want a different answer than that one and see ... (read in full...)
Oral sex question for the ladies... workin' on technique!
Q. So, I have a short goatee... not 5 o clock shadow just a tad bit longer that can create a nice maybe sandpaper feel lol.... do ladies like this if im goin' down on one? Like if I rub my trimmed beard against their clitorus? I'm workin on technique ...
A. 8 October 2010: Personally, it depends on the facial hair. An ex of mine had rough facial hair so it was kind of uncomfortable. Another ex had softer facial hair, so it was better.
It also depends on the girl. Ask her if it's something she might like you to try.... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex, I want to wait till marriage but am afraid of losing him!
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I disagree and he seems disappointed about it. He has been pushing for it during our last make out. I am afraid that one day our relationship will be spoil because of my rejection to have sex with him. I ...
A. 7 October 2010: It doesn't matter what anyone thinks about your choice. It's the choice you have made and you should be proud that you have been strong enough to withhold for this long. If he keeps pressuring you or even pulls the "I'll leave you if you don't sleep ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 7 October 2010: You cheated and cheating is wrong. That is why he is acting this way. My fiance and I have a no strike policy, so you should be happy that he is even trying to still be with you. I would have left the minute you told me. He may never fully trust you ... (read in full...)
Advice on boyfriend's porn.....
Q. I’ve been with this guy for almost ten years in a serious relationship and he is wonderful on many levels. However, long story short, I discovered porn on my boyfriend’s internet history by accident earlier this year and I confronted him about it. ...
A. 7 October 2010: Like dirtball said, your comment "just the fact that this upsets me should make him want to stop, no?" is very self-centered. You are thinking about you and ONLY you. Try to look at it from his perspective. He is a guy, he's horny. What is he going ... (read in full...)
Is thick and yellow normal for cum?
Q. When I perform oral sex on my man, I noticed when he cum in my mouth, it is thick and yellowish. When I go to spit it out, I gag every time. Have any male experienced this? Can anyone tell me what this could be? It looks like old mucus....
A. 24 September 2010: I've never experienced thick and yellow with any man I've been with. I would have him get it checked out.... (read in full...)
Why do I bite and scratch during intercourse?
Q. During sex, I tend to bite my boyfriend's neck and dig my nails into his back. Is there a deeper meaning into what we do to our partners during intercourse, or is it just us reacting to being caught up in the moment?...
A. 24 September 2010: It's just who you are when you are enjoying it. I bite sometimes myself, I've even left marks. They were unintended marks of course. If your boyfriend has a problem with it, try taking a different approach to expressing your pleasure. I used to bite ... (read in full...)
If I had sex with him would we still be together?
Q. Dear Cupid, i have been in love with the same guy for over a year now. he is 16 now, and i am 15. about a year ago i went over to his house to hang out with his sister and things between me and him became really close when we text each other da...
A. 24 September 2010: First things first, you are still young. You will meet so many more men that will make you feel even better than he does. A good saying to remember "you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your handsome prince".
Second, if you're not toge... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 24 September 2010: If you are that upset about it then yes, you should leave him. But, know this. No matter which guy you date in the future, there is a HUGE chance he will look at porn. And, he most likely won't even tell you since it's a private matter. So, since ... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 14 September 2010: WOW! You overreacted big time. If that was me and I was being accused of cheating on you over a piece of glitter, I would dump you in a heartbeat. And, you said you have no reason to believe he would cheat on you....NO REASON. Why the interrogation ... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: I do not see a problem with what he is doing, and I don't think he is too young. By punishing him for it, he may wonder if he is not normal. I know it will be uncomfortable for you both, but I think you should have a discussion with him about it. ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 10 September 2010: First things first, he's a man. Men are visual creatures. Men are horny....a lot. My fiance told me once that he's horny even when he doesn't want to be. Now, you checked his phone and the history on his computer. I can't reprimand that, I have loo... (read in full...)
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