Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 24 September 2010: If you are that upset about it then yes, you should leave him. But, know this. No matter which guy you date in the future, there is a HUGE chance he will look at porn. And, he most likely won't even tell you since it's a private matter. So, since ... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: I do not see a problem with what he is doing, and I don't think he is too young. By punishing him for it, he may wonder if he is not normal. I know it will be uncomfortable for you both, but I think you should have a discussion with him about it. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys watch porn while they are in a stable relationship?
Q. Why do guys watch porn WHILE they are in a stable relationship? I found TEEN porn on my bf's computer. That makes me feel not good enough. Why do guys watch it, what is so interesting. I cant stand the thought that my bf is watching at other ...
A. 14 September 2010: Miamine raises some good questions in her second post on the 13th. You need to ask yourself why it bothers you. For me, it made me feel like I wasn't good enough. Like I was fat, ugly, what have you. But, my fiance reassured me that was not it. Once ... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 14 September 2010: It is not wrong for you to want to find a man that does not watch porn. But, actually finding a man like that will be hard. I know from experience the pain a woman can feel when they find out their man watches it. But, let me reassure you that men ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!
Q. helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it ...
A. 10 September 2010: First things first, he's a man. Men are visual creatures. Men are horny....a lot. My fiance told me once that he's horny even when he doesn't want to be. Now, you checked his phone and the history on his computer. I can't reprimand that, I have loo... (read in full...)
Lost and might be pregnant.
Q. im a nineteen year old girl n im worried that i mite be pregnant. I did nt get my monthly which i suppose to get at the end of last mnth/begining of this month. It is the 9th of the month already n still nothing. Im studying 4my b.com in business ...
A. 10 September 2010: I agree with Tisha-1, get a test first. Before I was on the pill, I had irregular periods quite often and you could be having one also. My friend, who IS on the pill, still gets irregular periods about once a year or so. If you are pregnant, I would ... (read in full...)
Is he thinking of impregnating me?
Q. My boyfriend confuses me again and again...I am 20 and he is 36. We've been dating more than half a year. When it comes to sex, we use the pull-out method. From the first, he stated that he wanted no kids. I shrugged it off since I'm young and ...
A. 8 September 2010: I agree with YouWish. If you are not ready to have kids, go on the pill or use some other method than what you are currently using. Also, talk to him about it. Have a serious sit down conversation with him and compare thoughts on the subject. If you ... (read in full...)
I will not make him marry me!
Q. When my boyfriend and I first got together, he said he didn't think he would ever get married. A while into the relationship, we talked about it as a possible option for us. Well, we got engaged July 9th. I was the one who asked and he said yes. It ...
A. 8 September 2010: Thank you to the two of you that responded. Both of your answers helped and made look at it from a different perspective.
We did talk about it again recently, and he decided that he didn't want to wait to get married. He apologized again for his ... (read in full...)
Would a woman want to know how a man feels?
Q. Hi everyone, newbie here. I have feelings for a woman I work with but the problem is she's engaged to someone else. She has told me she is not going to marry him (he knows this) and I think she has feelings for me too. There's a lot of chemistry...
A. 8 September 2010: In response to your follow up, ask yourself this question...is the grass always greener on the other side? You should know this answer, it's "no". Unfortunately, sometimes the answers we feel we cannot live without are the ones that hurt us the ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have sex with a prostitute? I'm married.
Q. I love my wife, and have never cheated on her, and have no fantasies about doing so in the future. However, what if your wife just flat out refuses to do something that you are curious about? What if you want to experience a threesome at lea...
A. 2 September 2010: You sound like you want to cheat no matter how much you say you don't. Did you ever think that maybe your wife doesn't want to try anal because she's heard from other women that it hurts? Cause guess what? It does. I tried it once for a guy, and yes ... (read in full...)
Will his big penis always be a problem for me?
Q. Hi, I have a new boyfriend, he is 35 and i'm 42, and finally I seem to have found someone who matches me in personality, sexual appetite and pleasures, however, he has a 'girthy' penis. Monday morning I felt like i'd been kicked in the crotch, ...
A. 2 September 2010: You should stretch eventually, but seeing a doctor about it wouldn't hurt. If you feel comfortable talking to the doc, ask how to avoid this until you do stretch. And, yes, do use more lube for now, it will help. There may also be certain positions ... (read in full...)
Is this normal, or should I see a dr?
Q. Well i started not feeling good today.. i had terrible cramps and my lower back hurt really bad. It's two weeks before my period is supposed to start, and this really isn't normal for me. I'm on the pill, but i did forget one during the beginning of ...
A. 2 September 2010: It is normal. I get those pains sometimes if I forget a pill. Just remember that if you forget a pill, take it right away when you remember. And if you forget two or more in a pack, I would use an extra form of protection just to be safe. ... (read in full...)
Would a woman want to know how a man feels?
Q. Hi everyone, newbie here. I have feelings for a woman I work with but the problem is she's engaged to someone else. She has told me she is not going to marry him (he knows this) and I think she has feelings for me too. There's a lot of chemistry...
A. 2 September 2010: Don't tell her. That's just rude. If she is engaged and still says she's engaged, she is at least thinking about marrying him. I know that if I was engaged and there was a guy that I was friends with and he told me he told me he had feelings for me, ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says 'It's over for now'
Q. I don't really now how to take: 'It's over for now' and the complete drop of any kind of communication with me unless a guy talks to me over facebook. I have been dating Ryan [My boyfriend] of 2 years. Ryan basically was my first, and I've dealt wi...
A. 2 September 2010: Pack up and move on! "It's over for now" usually means, I want to be with you if it's convenient for me. I know you must be extremely attached to him since he was your first and you've been together for some time now. But, you need to know that no ... (read in full...)
My man doesn't want to watch porn WITH me, only behind my back. Should I be worried?
Q. My man watches porn online while im sleeping or not home. I have asked him nicely to only watch it with me as a couple, but he still does it behind my back. Should i be concerned? Is he loosing interest in me?...
A. 31 August 2010: I agree with Sincerely Yours. She has some really great points. I recently went through a porn issue with my fiance. I thought it had something to do with me, but it doesn't. He is still the same man he has been throughout our whole relationship. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says that if I don't do what he wants then I should leave
Q. i am 19 years old and m having relationship with a guy who is 26 years old. we met each other around 3 years ago on a social networking site and den after chatting for about 3 months, v met each other. earlier v used to have a stable n a calm ...
A. 29 August 2010: Ask yourself this question, "what is a 26 year old man doing with a 19 year old?"
He is wanting you to change who you are to be with him. He knows you probably don't have a lot of experience with relationships. He will do this always. And, when you ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid women won't be interested in me because I'm still a virgin
Q. What type of women hate virgins? I'm 23 and although still fairly young I always have this fear that I'll end up still being a virgin at 30. My fears are based on the fact that if I meet a girl who i care about, she'll reject me on that basis be...
A. 29 August 2010: If a girl didn't want to be with you because you are a virgin, then she isn't worth your time. She is probably looking for a fling or very short term relationship. I know that from experience. Those have been the only times I have turned down a ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend be watching porn?
Q. Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by ot...
A. 27 August 2010: Looking at porn is a man being selfish and satisfying HIS needs. Some women are ok with it and some aren't. When he does it behind your back and tells you you're overreacting, he is being insensitive. If he said he would stop but he's still doing it ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend looks at porn... I'm disgusted
Q. I may well be over reacting, but i found a visited website address on my partners computer, he told me it was a pop up, but i dont think thats true, because he has had them blocked, as may people do.
We have been together for 5 months, have a gr...
A. 27 August 2010: What you are feeling is very normal and you are not overreacting. Men and women are different in many ways and one of them is what gets them off. Men are more visual, whereas women are more emotional. Men are also more horny, by a big margin. I have ... (read in full...)
I am so devastated that my husband has been looking at porn
Q. I am so devastated that my husband has been looking at porn...I have read all the advice I can find and realise that there are many different opinions on it...but for me its a non negotiable issue. Sadly I had been very cear with my usband about ...
A. 27 August 2010: First things first, he is NOT basically saying that your body type is not his ideal body type. What he is saying is that he likes the way a young naked woman looks, most straight men do. There is nothing wrong with that. Looking at porn is an issue ... (read in full...)
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